Candles - Hey Monday
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chinhwee
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Slippedaway
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Juvenile Casualty
Saturday, January 19, 2008
Love, what is love? It is a word starting with letter "l" and ends with letter "e", it has 4 letters and..!^(*$&$@.. Just joking.. I'm typing this stupid essay just to kill my time. Ok, here it goes.
What is the meaning of love? In my own opinion, love is actually a mutual feeling between other parties. For example, the love of a mother to her children. She have been suffering for at least 9 months to conceive us. When we are still inside her womb, we kicked and moved, making her to have an uncomfortable rest and small faint pain. However, that does not mind her. After we are born into the world, our cute little face washed all her sufferings away instantly. Furthermore, when we grew up, we do mistakes but those mistakes that we did are forgiven by her. Her love towards us is just too deep to be dug.
Another example is the love between siblings. Brotherly love which is the love between brothers or sisterly love which is the love between sisters. It does not matter which one love which one, primarily the concern between one another is there. They may scold us as we do mistakes, however this is for our own good. In fact, for me, I have 2 older brothers. They are great brothers, and i love them. The care and concern that they have shown me makes me happy to have them as siblings. However, there are certain times, that one of us quarrel. Nevertheless, this quarrel does not last long but instead it makes the bond between us stronger and we discovered more about one another.
In addition, love also is present among friends. This term of 'love' is similar with the 'love' between siblings. For instant, in life, we at least would have a best friend to share our happiness and sadness. Best friends would help us if we are troubled or would comfort us when we are sad. However, this does not mean that girls would only have girls as their best friends but boys also could be their best friends and vice versa. This bond will grow even though if there are conflict and misunderstandings. Despite the fact, this bond may also be broken apart if there are a third party playing or the conflict still has not settled.
In society nowadays, you may experience love. But, we usually misunderstood moment of infatuation for love. Especially us, as youths, will keep experiencing infatuation rather than love. What is infatuation actually? How does it come about and how different is it compare to love? This are the questions that are widely asked. In my own opinion infatuation may come and struck you out of no where because you are interested at other party. We may like the opposite sex even though we do not know who she is or we may like her because of the appearance or sex appeal.
However, love is different. The love between other parties can grow while infatuation, it will fade away after a certain time. Love would not fade but it will grow larger and stronger. In conclusion, we still can not tell or not certain whether we experiencing love or infatuation with the other party. We should consider it carefully and do not take action immediately. For me, i did have such cases that confuses me. I could not differentiate between love or infatuation. Even now, the same thing happened.Term "love" also is widely used in the world. This word is often used to confess, such as " I Love You". Nevertheless, it may mean differently.
AHAHHA! This is a crappy essay..I just did it for fun.. Anyway hope you enjoyed reading it. Hmmm.. No flamers.. XD.. I dont need any comment.. just keep it to yourself. CYA!
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