Ok, fine, a blog post.

We've been a little busy, just like everyone else. Yes, I know it's been since July that I've posted something on here, as I'm constantly reminded by someone special. Only, life gets in the way. I'd rather be living life than posting about it.

Still, when I have something cool I'll post it. And here's something cool.

We have this Front Hall Closet...like everyone else. And I have the darnedest time keeping it clean. It's where everyone throws their junk, and I end up cleaning it out every few months only to have it filled up again quicker than I'd like. There's a picture of it here: it's behind the kids.



The doors weren't big enough to give you good access to the closet, and they always seemed to be falling down anyway. Even after we got new hardware and tracks, we had a hard time keeping the doors on them. You can see a little shoe peeking out of the side of the closet, even though I'm sure we straightened up for the picture.

That being said...Pinterest is a dangerous thing. It makes you think you can tackle complicated recipes, that you should own ALL THE BOOTS, and that home improvement projects are a snap!

I found this great tutorial of a woman who gutted her front hall closet and made it a great little alcove that maximized her entrance area. Here's an idea of what she did:



With step-by-step instructions, how could I resist? I made a few changes to the design to customize it to our closet space and took a trip to Home Depot. After roaming the aisles and earning a few weird looks from the contractors loading up huge pallets of wood, I finally happened upon the "scrap pile". The wood on the shelves was way too expensive for my project. After all, I could buy a pre-made bench for $100 or so, and spending that on wood didn't seem very frugal. The scrap pile, however, offered up a huge and heavy piece of wood. I flagged down a HD worker who'd been sent to find out what the little housewife was doing in Lumber.

He quoted me $20 for this huge 8'x54" piece of wood and offered to cut it down for me. SOLD! I helped him measure out each cut perfectly and had no cutting to do on my own! I brought it down and assembled it on the fly. Abby helped a bunch. My screw holder and drill plug-er-in-er. We carefully assembled the bench.

After taking the closet doors off and removing the tracks and the hanger bars, Abby and I painted the inside of the closet with some green paint we had leftover from the den. I then wrestled the HEAVY bench into the closet. We hung coat hooks and the mirror. I bought foam and fabric and created a cushion for the bench to make it easier for the kids to sit there and get their shoes on.

Then Abby and I assembled the shoe crates, custom fit for the space, and Shay and I stained them dark to match the scheme. We made them out of leftover wood from Shay's bunk bed that was a Christmas present that he and Dylan made.

A few decorative throw pillows and baskets later, and we were cooking. I was still concerned about how little light gets in there, though, but Costco solved that with small LED lights that are battery powered, adhesive mounted and run on a remote.

The result is pleasing to me! The most pleasing thing is that I built it all myself, with help from the kids. All told, we used mostly things we had lying around and probably spent $100 on the closet, including the lights.


The kids really enjoy it, if you couldn't tell, and Abby regularly "takes naps" on the cushion. Each kid has their own shoe crate and knows just where to find their shoes in the morning. I love the openness and accessibility of the space. Hooray for DIY!!

The other project I tackled this week was our living room. The pictures and setup had been the same for years and just didn't work. Different sized frames, different sized bookshelves and a lack of coherence doomed the living room before we even started. See the background of Shay's 6th birthday party 2 years ago? It hasn't changed much since then. The right side isn't much better.










So, we totally revamped that side of the room, deciding to incorporate a picture wall and to make things a lot simpler looking. Personally, I love it! I chose black frames with white mats. I printed one family photo in color with the rest in black and white. The letters spelling our last name are prints of different object around the SLC Temple that look like letters.



So, that's what I've been doing in the last 7 days, Beckerino. Hope you all enjoy it. It's even better in person, so come by and see it anytime! But call first. I can't guarantee it'll stay this clean forever. In fact, I can pretty much bank on the fact that it won't. But that's the joy of living with kids. 

Stay warm!





Yesterday was a beautiful 75 degree day...so rare for July in the desert. The kids and I decided we had to go on a hike and enjoy the weather. A friend had mentioned Battle Creek Waterfall to me a few days earlier.  It's about 15 minutes away and a beginner/intermediate hike. Since we'd gone camping a few weeks before and the kids hiked 1.5 miles (gaining 750 feet in elevation), I knew this would be a snap. It had better be, since we had only one adult-me-going this time. 

The hike was beautiful. Easy-ish, with only a few steep parts. The ground was covered in shale at some parts, making the walk a little dangerous because of a long drop to one side of the trail. I was glad I had 2 kids and 2 hands to make sure everyone stayed on the trail. 

Eventually we came to the bottom of a beautiful set of waterfalls. The air was cool and there was a lovely little tree to sit on and have our snacks. The kids had fun making dams and playing in the water. The kids are great at seeing "faces" in everything. That tree looked like an old man, this one looked like a duck. One looked like a piggy bank. Abby even made a face with her sunglasses and hat.

See the nose, eyes, mouth? We had such a great time. The kids saw their first woodpecker hunting for bugs in an old tree. We saw butterflies and birds and lots of different kinds of bugs. Shay kept remarking how much there was to see and hear and how much he was enjoying being out in nature. 

We decided to hike up to above the waterfall and were rewarded with this fabulous view of Utah County.

Once we'd had some snacks and water the kids decided they just wanted to see "what was a round that curve in the trail". We did this a few more times, for about 25 more minutes, until the trail dead-ended at the river. You could either ford the river or try your luck on a makeshift driftwood bridge. We opted to turn around and head back down. We'd been hiking for about an hour and knew we had to save some energy for the trip back down.


Shay is a creator. He's a builder. He's a thinker. He's always coming up with things to make or ways to make things better. While we were hiking he kept finding shale rocks that would make perfect arrowheads or spearheads. He filled his pockets with rocks of all shapes and sizes, and even carefully put aside a hatchet-head by the side of the trail to pick up on the way back. He asked me how to make arrows and spears. I told him we could get a library book about it or look it up online. He was serious about making them, and asked me as soon as we got home if we could make them right away. 

The finished product of the hatchet turned out rather well. We used some scrap sticks that he's always picking up when we go into the canyon. The sticks sit around the backyard until we find a use for them. We used a stick, his hatchet head, and some strong yarn from the craft pile. Here are the finished products. 


 


 This summer with the kids has been so fun. Lots of library trips, camping, crafts around the house, reading books. Just my kind of summer. We've got a trip to Yellowstone planned, and a family reunion at the beach in NC after school starts. We've got 5 more weeks of summer and we're using every minute to enjoy ourselves and each other.

Time to go tie-die some shirts from Deseret Industries!







After we drop Shay at school in the mornings, Abby and I have about a 15 minute drive to her preschool. Sometimes she's still waking up, so I turn on talk radio or music. Sometimes she wants to talk and she brings up the most interesting of ideas. Staring out the window, she'll tell me how glad she is that we picked a nice house. Or ask if she'll ever get to walk on top of the mountains. Sometimes it's more personal stuff.

A few weeks ago she got her heart broken at school. Leo told her one day that he liked her and that she was his girlfriend. I asked her what that means. She said they were getting married.

The next day brought devastation, as she and Leo broke off their engagement when Leo decided he wanted to marry Jayden instead. She actually cried when she told me about it. This little girl gives her heart and soul to everyone, so I guess (at 4 years old) this is just the beginning of heartbreak.

This week there was a new drama. Lucy told Abby she couldn't come into the clubhouse at school because it was for cool people. Abby wasn't cool enough to go in. When she told me this, my stomach clenched and I went into Mama Bear mode. NOBODY was going to tell this little ray of sunshine in the backseat that she wasn't cool enough. I mean, are you kidding me?? Abby is one of the coolest kids I know. She's amazingly friendly and open, she says hi to everyone-kid or adult-, she is mature beyond her years and can have full conversations with anyone.

Me: So, how did that make thee feel?

Abby: Sad on the inside. Lucy is my friend, I don't know why she said that.

Me: (my heart breaking a little for her) Yeah, I would feel sad, too. Sometimes when people don't feel happy inside they say mean things that make other people sad.

Abby: But I like Lucy. I want her to feel happy on the inside.

Me: (do you see what I mean? She's a saint) Well, sweetie, what did thee do when Lucy said thee couldn't come inside the clubhouse?

Abby: I walked away and found Ivy Maude and played with her, she's my friend, too.

Me: Good choice. Saying mean things back isn't choosing the right.

Abby: But I don't wanna say mean things back. Lucy would feel sad like me.

Me: That's right. Thee did the right thing, and I'm proud of thee.

Update to the situation: The next day, Abby brought a special treat to share at recess with her friends, and when Lucy came up and asked for some, Abby gladly shared with her. She and Lucy and Sara ran around and played together, and when Abby left for the day Lucy came up and gave her a hug.

And that's the power of a positive attitude. It may not always work, but sometimes we can all take a page from Abby's book and refrain from returning ugliness for ugliness. If we all just share our pretzels and forgive each other, we can all get along a lot better. We don't always have to agree, but we do always have to be nice.

Oh, and Abby's parting words as she hopped out of the car: "Jayden said she saw a movie where two girls got married. Isn't that silly??"

Social status and gay marriage...just a few of the topics discussed on the preschool playground.

A few years ago I picked up a police costume from an after-Halloween sale. It's gotten a lot of use around here. Lately, Abby has taken to wearing it around the house and arresting us for our minor infractions.

She carries around a whistle and handcuffs and uses a low, butch voice to tell us what we're doing wrong. Today, Shay decided to humor her and put on a disguise so he could be a robber. He spent awhile changing his identities back and forth in order to fool the cops. Finally, though, she got her collar.

I guess she always gets her man, even when he's a woman! (points if you can name the movie, and you're not immediately related to me!)

Sometimes she'll yell out phrases that come out of nowhere. Like "Get 'em, boys!" and, in taking her captive to jail, "You're going away for a long time, buddy!" She uses a nice, low voice so it sounds legit. I have no idea where she's picked up these phrases from, maybe old-timey cartoons?

She hasn't yet said "I'm getting too old for this", so I know she's not secretly been watching the old Lethal Weapon movies.

It's pretty cute, even though she's made it clear that I'm the "boys" she's referring to when she commands me to "get 'em". It's all fun and games at our house until someone has to go to jail in the closet!

Sometimes she'll even wear it out of the house. Like to Shay's school. No wonder she's so popular in his class.