I once read a comment from other people's instagram that some parents nowadays sent kids to extra classes that they (parents) couldn't attend they were small.
Yes. No.
Its a no for me, but my question is why not?
My husband always wanted Nasya to join any drama class because of her non stop talking habit. He was thinking why not channeling those energy to a good place where she can interact with other kids not only within her comfort zone (teachers, friends and relatives)?
We founded this one place in PJ last year. I was contemplating to whether continue this year or not, because the traveling is quite tiring for all of us. but seeing her happy changes everything. She wanted to stay longer in the class so usually my husband and myself will pray at nearby mosque and sit in the car for an extra 30 minutes, but still she pulled her long face when I picked her up.
After drama class, usually she will sit at this one table and pretend to play chess with whoever sitting nearby the desk. She knows the knight, king, queen, pawn..I don't know how she knows that. So I asked her teacher, if she can try the chess trial class? And the class is just before the drama class. Great, so we can go somewhere else longer while she is in the class, if only she thinks she wanted to proceed with it.
Sunday, we enrolled her this new archery class. I wanted her to join this since last year. This is the reason, for the past 4-5 months, Nasya has this interest of making her bow and arrow. Those who have been following my instagram can see that she made her own bow using a tree stick and my elastic thread and made arrow using her pencil, and it shoots. Really shoots.
So, I bought a bow an arrow toy from Etsy all the way from US. Bought for myself too since I was on the Arrow mode that time and just watched Hobbit and pretending I were the Elf :p
Ever since we got the package, she been playing with it for at least 1 hour a day. We shoot on polisterine inside the house, and keep picking up the arrows when we shot off target, when we played outside. Mann, this is tiring! Really sweats I tell you.
So I dont agree when that person said parents sent kids because they couldnt go to this classes when they were small. Be a parent, identify your child's strength and act! If you know they have the strength, do you think she/he should just play ipad, watch tv or do nothing? Why don't you encourage them and who knows they can excell better and have a different ambition than doctor, engineer and what not? Why we want to be the same when you can be different in a better way?
Unless, if your kid does not have the interest example in music, but you sent her for Piano lessons for the sake you love Piano, then, you fall in the second category. I know I am not.
That, is my humble opinion. :)
Yes. No.
Its a no for me, but my question is why not?
My husband always wanted Nasya to join any drama class because of her non stop talking habit. He was thinking why not channeling those energy to a good place where she can interact with other kids not only within her comfort zone (teachers, friends and relatives)?
We founded this one place in PJ last year. I was contemplating to whether continue this year or not, because the traveling is quite tiring for all of us. but seeing her happy changes everything. She wanted to stay longer in the class so usually my husband and myself will pray at nearby mosque and sit in the car for an extra 30 minutes, but still she pulled her long face when I picked her up.
After drama class, usually she will sit at this one table and pretend to play chess with whoever sitting nearby the desk. She knows the knight, king, queen, pawn..I don't know how she knows that. So I asked her teacher, if she can try the chess trial class? And the class is just before the drama class. Great, so we can go somewhere else longer while she is in the class, if only she thinks she wanted to proceed with it.
Sunday, we enrolled her this new archery class. I wanted her to join this since last year. This is the reason, for the past 4-5 months, Nasya has this interest of making her bow and arrow. Those who have been following my instagram can see that she made her own bow using a tree stick and my elastic thread and made arrow using her pencil, and it shoots. Really shoots.
So, I bought a bow an arrow toy from Etsy all the way from US. Bought for myself too since I was on the Arrow mode that time and just watched Hobbit and pretending I were the Elf :p
Ever since we got the package, she been playing with it for at least 1 hour a day. We shoot on polisterine inside the house, and keep picking up the arrows when we shot off target, when we played outside. Mann, this is tiring! Really sweats I tell you.
So I dont agree when that person said parents sent kids because they couldnt go to this classes when they were small. Be a parent, identify your child's strength and act! If you know they have the strength, do you think she/he should just play ipad, watch tv or do nothing? Why don't you encourage them and who knows they can excell better and have a different ambition than doctor, engineer and what not? Why we want to be the same when you can be different in a better way?
Unless, if your kid does not have the interest example in music, but you sent her for Piano lessons for the sake you love Piano, then, you fall in the second category. I know I am not.
That, is my humble opinion. :)
4 comments:
Salam Mai! I'm looking for archery class for awisy too.. Dia pun minat plus its sunnah kan.. Mind sharing where is this class? Tqtq!
Hi, salam. May i know where is this archery class you sent your daughter to? and do you mind sharing with me the fees :D Thank you- zaty
hi, do you mind sharing where is this archery class is and its fees? interested to send my kid to an archery class to :) thanks
Mimi, zati!
Sorry was neglecting my blog suddenly check eh ada comment!
Archery class is in damansara(yes far from my home) but since nasya loves it so much why not?
You can check the website pemanah.net for more info okay
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