Well, I suppose I have been married for more than 11 days now. Time to update.
Actually, like before, I forgot that I had a blog. I'm not so sure why this concept has been so entirely difficult for me! But alas, I was reminded by a dear friend, and now here is an update for anyone out there who, well, still remembers that I have a blog. Unlike myself. Ha.
Going on 7 months of being married to and living with my best friend! So wonderful! We have decided that even after we've been married for 20 years we are still going to consider ourselves "newlyweds." Why does the spark have to extinguish just because time goes by? So long as we stay best friends and stay plugged in to the One to fills us with the love we share, we'll be able to keep the "newlywed" status. I still light up like a school girl with a first crush when he smiles at me. :-) I'm in love!
Enough mushy stuff. What else is happening....
I'm fairly settled in to my new place. We still don't have all the pictures on the wall that we had hoped to have up, but maybe someday? We don't plan on moving out any time soon (we're in no place to be considering houses when we are still in over our heads in school loans - one debt at a time, please!), so I still have time. Life just gets busy sometimes and that is just not much of a priority right now. I don't know if I'll ever be settled into small town life. Having to make a special trip to go to Meijer and Target and the movies is still really hard for me. It is a half-day event to just go to those places, considering the amount of time and gas it takes to get there. At least I have WalMart, though I hardly even frequent there much....
I have, however, fallen in love with walking to work. Even in the winter, despite my co-workers think I am crazy for braving the weather for my 5 minute walk (in the winter I don't cut across the lawn, stretching my walk from about 2 minutes to 5 minutes). Nevermind the fact that while in Chicago I had to walk 15 min no matter the weather to get to my car, which I then had to brush off and wait for it to warm up before my hour drive to work. Haha. A little different story here. Plus, most days, Matthew drops me off on his way to work, leaving me only to walk home. :-) And believe me, I need that walk home and the time I am home before he arrives to wind down.
Though, I must admit, sometimes I hate living so close simply because it feels like I can never really escape it when I can see it out my front window. Or maybe that is just because I am on call 24/7....
Work has, overall, been good. I certainly did not learn the proper way to hire and fire people in my social work classes, but I suppose that is part of my 'real life experience.' The job is not very social-worky, though it has it's tendencies and I definitely could not have done it without the degree and teachings of wonderful professors behind me. I won't go into all the details now.... but it has definitely been a.... well... an experience. A learning experience, that's for sure.
Well, my wonderful husband is home from playing is heart out at indoor soccer, so I'm going to have to bid farewell for now.
Here's a little shout out to my Katelyn! :-)
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