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Saturday, August 09, 2008

so bored today ,
so let post abt how ii know abt moii pregnancy
& how we settle n break the news to our's parent
since some one requested .

first ,
how ii know abt moii pregnancy ?
every year we would cook n buy lotsa stuff to pray fer the hungry ghost festival at home .
this year i remember we pray on a friday
if im not wrong ,
iishx on the 8th of august .
at niite whiile we're having our's dinner ,
ii eat alot ,
ii eat rice n mee hoon with the curry gravy ,
forgotten iishx tomato or sambal prawn ,
fried fish n a lot more ,
ii cant realii remember .
iimmedialy after moii dinner ,
ii went to eat mangosteen
n somemore still drink ice lemon tea .

not long after moii dinner ,
moii tummy feel so uncomfortable ,
so ii went to the toilet several times
but jus not tat kind of pain ,
nothing come out at all .
n iit's getting more n more pain ,
ii tot iishx coz ii miix too manii foods n fruits ,
so ii taken the medicine ii usually took when ii have stomach ache .
but iit's make no different .
the pain still continue .
ii even vomitted .
iit's realii so paiin tat make miie almost cried out .
ii dubb dare to move around ,
ii jus lie still n rest .

next day ,
suppose to go to work ,
but cant .
moii stomach cramp ,
whenever ii move around it's will still ache fer awhile .
so ii decided to go to visit moii family doctor
next day morning before ii went to work .

so ii wake up damn early ,
n go to c moii family doctor .
after ii told hiim
what happened ,
he told miie to go to the toilet n urine some fer hiim .
ii feel so weird ,
becoz ii tot ii onlii miix too much foods n fruit tog at one times
ii didnt expect tat iim pregnant
coz on the starting of july ,
ii still had moii periiod ,
n moii period was always irregular
plus by the time ii went to c doc iit's onlii starting of august .
so ii nvr thiink too much oso ,
jus do as the doc askk miie to .
after the test iishx done ,
n the doc told miie ,
iim pregnant ,
iim all blanked ,
n ii askk the doc
iishx iit confirm alreadii ?
n he told miie
iishx confirm ,
the result turned out to be negative ,
iim abt 1 mth pregnancy alreadii .

ii msg hubby when ii get out the clinic
(as he nvr accomapany to c doc , he sleeping soundly at home )
he at first tot iim kiidding with hiim ,
he dubb believe iit at all ,
keep askiing miie dubb take such thing to joke ,
both of us dunno what to do ,
n we decided to talk abt after ii come back frm work .

after work ,
both of us still dubb believe tat iit's true ,
we still went to 7-11 to brought a pregnancy kit to test .
n the result turned out to be negative oso .
thiis tiime round
dden we both believe .
we told moii sis first ,
she say abort
as we are still so young ,
but no matter what must inform mum first ,
if not if she bring miie fer abortion without letting mum know ,
if aniithiing happen ,
how she goiin to explain to mum .

hubby seem to want the baby ,
as fer miie ,
ii realii verii confused ,
ii realii dubb bear to go fer abortion
but iim afraid we cant afford to feed the baby .
so we decided to inform mum first
n c what she said .

How we break the news to our's parent ?

(the same day)
tat day after mum come back frm mahjong ,
at first we agreed to break the news to her tog ,
but iim so tired while waiting fer mum to come back ,
n ii fell aslp .
LOLs
when mum come back ,
hubby wake miie up ,
but iim realii too tiired n afraid so ii told hiim tml dden say larrs .
end up ,
hubby msg moii mum ,
askiing can he go in to her room ?
he got something important to tell her ,
n mum came out of her room ,
n askk hiim what happened ?
dden hubby said go in to her room first dden said .
the conversation gonex like thiis . . .

hubby : aunty , jing yi pregnant alreadii
mum : this wan called verii important thing mehhs ?
mum : ii still tot what big thing happened .
mum : dden u wan marry her a not ?
hubby : ya
mum : dden she wan marry u a not ?
hubby : dunno lehhs .
mum : u wan marry her dden ok liiao lorrs .
mum : moii daughter wan bbe mummy alreadii .

something like tat larrs ,
hubby jus go in fer a verii short period of tiime
dden come out liiao .
dden he wake miie up n tell miie
ii was so shocked
tat mum nvr scold at all .

when her's mum accompany hiim go collect hiis I/C
he shown hiis mum the scanning foto of the baby ,
ii not sure hiis mum scolded hiim or not
n what hiis mum said
as ii didnt tag along tat day .

mum wan us to keep the baby ,
hubby wan the baby oso ,
so we decided to keep the baby .

dden after tat both side parent started to discuss abt the wedding ,
when planning of wedding ,
iit's realii alots of problem .
miie n hubby will both so stress
n we keep quarrel .
small lil thing will lead us to arguement .
but lucky all thiis had alreadii over .
we seldom quarrel nowaday
n was happily waiiting fer our's baby arrival .
heehee .

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