Sunday, January 25, 2009

Founding Mothers by Cokie Robers

The adage goes, “Behind every good man is a great woman” (or two or three). Such is the premise of Founding Mothers written by renowned journalist Cokie Roberts. In her book, Roberts shares her research (which she primarily gathers from preserved correspondence, which is the most reliable, and sometimes only, way of knowing of women’s lives during that period) about and gives insight into these Founding Mothers’—mothers, wives, sisters, daughters, and friends of the Founding Fathers—lives and the degree of their influence upon the Founding Fathers, and in turn the founding of our country. The book provides a unique insight on the founding of the United States as it follows the influential women of the time from colonial days through the Revolutionary War and ratification of the constitution and concludes with the peaceful transfer of the presidency from Washington to Adams. Throughout, Roberts provides a narrative and occasional quips, sometimes witty, sometimes irritating. Overall, an enjoyable and educational reading I would recommend to anyone interested in women’s history.

What made the American Revolution successful and constitution possible was that unlike other revolutions and new government foundings, which are by and large unsuccessful, educated, honorable men led the way. Mothers quotes one Harriott Horry Ravenal, great-great-granddaughter of Founding Mother Eliza Pinckney, illustrates how such honorable intentions had to be the mind of Founding Mothers as well: “The women of all the colonies had committed to them a great though an unsuspected charge: to fit themselves and their sons to meet the coming change (self-government) in law and soberness; not in riot and anarchy as did the unhappy women of the French Revolution.”

Reading about the likes of Martha Washington, Abigail Adams, Mercy Otis Warren, and the other founding mothers was inspiring. These were thinking women who shared their insights with a world traditionally unwelcoming of such. Most understood their potential and influence and were able to politic for the best. They rallied together other women and utilized their combined force for good, proving among the best of patriots. They were thankfully unrelenting when occasion called for it. And they were very hard workers. (Many had to sacrifice the men in their lives to either war or public service, leaving them to care for family, estate, and means of living on their own.) One characteristic this book brought to my attention is that the Founding Mothers were a diverse crowd, as were the Founding Fathers. They came from many different backgrounds and acted in many different functions to influence on many different issues on many different fronts. Such an effort was required for a successful independence and founding. (Of course they did not always agree on how to accomplish their designs, although they had intentions for the same outcome—what was best for the country.)

While reading this book I was ashamed at how much of my country’s early history and founding was new to me. I was also impressed at the sacrifice required and the absolute role Providence played. It is now my opinion that every citizen should require it of themselves to read a good book on the founding of the United States. When we learn where we come from, we have more interest in the present and future. As Benjamin Franklin once infamously said, our country is “a republic, if [we] can keep it.”

Thursday, January 22, 2009

New Gadget

You will notice I have added a new feature to my blog on the side. It's a "new word of the week!" Yes, call me a dork if you want, but extensive vocabulary is nice to have and I keep reading and hearing words I never have before and I figure will learn them and remember them better if I do this. Plus, it can't hurt for anyone else to learn them either!

Tuesday, January 20, 2009

Big guy Cameron

An update on my baby's progress is in order! So for all you Cameron fans, here's the news. Cameron is growing two new molars. His hair is starting to get long to the point I agreed with Tyler yesterday that it is beginning to resemble a mullet. (How are we supposed to have him still enough to cut his hair?) He is a runnin' machine and loves getting into everything imaginable (this makes it hard to take him to other people's houses), but Tyler and I are glad he is inquisitive and are excited to be able to help him explore the world. He has discovered to go down stairs or get off of furniture he needs to go feet first, and his latest thing is to turn on and off the TV repeatedly. It turns out he finds the Simpsons very interesting and will watch whole episodes on TV (I think it's the bright colors). He is getting to be a cleaner eater, is starting to take food on plates and is holding a utensil, not using it yet, in his hand when he eats with occasional stabs at the food. And he eats almost everything, thank goodness! And he insists on feeding himself only. Whatever keeps him interested in meal time is okay by us! He is finishing his last can of formula (making our grocery bills much lower now!) and now drinks soy milk--he still has a milk allergy. He is sleeping through the night finally!! while I am still trying to do so. He isn't one much for talking or signing although we are working with him on it and have been for some time. He does say "Hello" when he holds something up to his ear that, to him, resembles a phone, and will sometimes sign "all done" or his favorite "more." We're trying to teach him to wave, something he doesn't do yet either. He is still very good natured but doesn't take being told what to do well. When we tell him sternly not to do something he mostly just laughs and continues. If we physically stop him he gets very angry. What I usually end up doing is waiting and when he is gone from the scene, I somehow make it impossible for him to do it again. But all in all, if one child proofs their house well like we have there are very few things you need to stop them from doing; that is what I think is the best approach. Who knows how this independence is going to pan out in the future? Can anyone say teenager? It will be good for me to learn how to channel his tendencies in a constructive way now. He likes other children a lot and likes to play with them. The other day at the mall he ran into a little boy who was nice to him and Cameron made him an instant friend by giving him a nice hug. His favorite game to play with other children is run around, chase, and scream! Who didn't love those games? Also, he has discovered the joy of pulling toys behind him and pushing heavy things, like strollers and carts, in front of him. Overall, he puts a smile on Tyler's and my face every day and we love him so much!
(These pictures are over a month old but I think they are so great! For anyone wondering I am trying on new shoes.)

Thursday, January 15, 2009

The Holidays in Pictures.

I have been needing to post pictures of the holidays! So many thing happened! And we got to see so many family members, my favorite thing. And while that is true I cannot obviously narrate to the point I think sufficient due to time restraints so I will keep it brief! Having said that I can still be pretty sure it will still be long.
As many of you know, we stayed in Utah for the holidays this year. Our little fam celebrated our own Christmas early.
Of course the best thing was having Tyler around a bit more. Not much more because he is such a good hard worker and took on lots of extra shifts over the break, but we loved that little amout of time extra.
Here is our Christmas Eve dinner! What a feast! Carl's Jr Six Dollar Burgers--they are seriously amazing! A tradition in our family.
Can you believe all these are for us three? Our families are awesome. Thanks everyone!Christmas morning!Christmas morning breakfast! A take on what the Neal family does Christmas morning with a pseudo Hawaiian waffle breakfast. Ours is a "take" because it is not nearly so intricate. And we couldn't find any mangos or papayas at the store! But we did buy a waffle iron just for the occasion.
The Merrill family came to town!! This is the real Christmas Eve we spent with the Merrills and the Larsens, Kara's new in-laws.Christmas day! And the cute baby Merrill boys in their matching jammies from Grandma Merrill!The reason for all the hoopla! Congratulations to Kara and Joe on their new marriage! It was a beautiful wedding and they both were so happy!Here's the little Merrill boys keeping themselves entertained in the bridal room at the reception hall. Looks like a party, huh? Can't get enough of those cute kids!Of course there was lots of fun and hanging out with the Merrills. We played tons of games, watched movies (mostly Wall-E, love it!) and chatted. Here's the present opening (along with hanging out spoken of before)! Way to score some awesome gifts Kara and Joe! Thanks for coming Merrill family. It was a memorable holiday!Then more visitors. My sister Melanie and her little fam came to Utah for about a week! I got to finally meet baby Sarah and got to spend lots of time driving back and forth to Saratoga Springs where they were staying with some family. But it was all worth it! I love these guys and love spending time with family!This picture is so great of Paige and Cameron being crazy together. They were chasing and screaming until they were all sweating and panting. Even then Cameron wanted to keep going! Cute kids.And here's Cameron trying to get close to Sarah. Not quite sure how to express what he wanted to, he just tried to roll next to her, or on her, to show her he liked her. Kind of like a dog I guess.Thanks for coming Melanie and James!Also, here's a cute picture of when Cameron got to play in the snow a bit. It was his first snow play!
Overall an awesome holiday full of memories!


Thursday, January 8, 2009

My New Obsession: Modern Modular Prefab Homes

I must admit I have an obsession of late. I mean it occupies my thoughts often and I love the idea of it and search the internet and read about it as much as possible to see how plausible such a thing could be for me. I was introduced to the newest generation of prefab homes by dwell magazine (it is def one of their obsessions too--the Jan 09 issue is "the prefab issue" and I have it). They're not like prefab homes of the past, or so they say. These "second generation" prefab homes have an emphasis on sustainability. They say some of the homes come already LEED certified! They are also very contemporary modular looking (like the "Wee home" above). They are also trying to make them affordable now too (who can complain about that?) My favorite part? They say they go exactly against the current wave of McMansions that is sweeping the country in that their idea is not more, more, more! but less is more. I guess it goes hand in hand with sustainability. I have known for some time now that I value quality over quantity and making do with less, less space especially. I am sure I want as small a space as I can fit into because that means less time cleaning, more time doing things I like, and less space to accumulate JUNK! (I hate junk! I am always taking things to DI.) It only requires a smarter storage solutions (something of a hobby of mine) and a more concerted effort to keep "things" count down (I'm getting good at this too--closet has less than ever and Cam only has one small box of toys, and I plan to keep it that way as long as possible!).

So my reason for obessing is because I would love to have one of these smallish, sustainable, affordable prefabs for myself someday. I am just still researching if such a thing can be.

If you are interested, here are some fun sites to look at these modern prefabs.
Modern Cabana (not a home but you know...)
pieceHomes
h haus

Wednesday, January 7, 2009

Chief Performance Officer

Watching the news this morning I watched the press conference during which President Elect Obama announced a new position called the Chief Performance Officer. Her job is to look at government programs and assess which ones have outlived their usefulness and also to look for and remedy inefficiencies often associated with government work. I must say I like the idea in its concept and think such a position is needed. We'll see how and if it actually works? I like to be hopeful about the idea. In fact, I like to be hopeful about all the things the new administration promises that seem good. I mean, what choice do we have other than to be informed and hopeful since the elections are over? So we'll see how it turns out.