Tuesday, November 29, 2016

With Wondering Awe

With wondering awe, the wisemen saw 
The star in heaven springing, 
And with delight in peaceful night,
They heard the angels singing: 
Hosanna, hosanna, hosanna to his name!

I'm sitting here with Mike right now. He's studying for a certification. I'm writing up the program for Christmas day. I have all of the special musical numbers worked out and some of the reading parts, but none of the congregational hymns, so I ran an idea past Mike.

"I think right before we read that part, we'll have the congregation sing With Wondering Awe, because the last couple of verses say this: 
And still is found, the world around,
The old and hallowed story,
And still is sung in every tongue
The angels' song of glory...

The heav'nly star its rays afar
On ev'ry land is throwing,
And shall not cease till--"

 "I've never even heard of this song."

I gape at him. 

"What? I don't think I've ever sung this before, ever." 

"Mike, we sang this last year. Not just the congregation, but it was a song the choir performed last year. We practiced it. The whole theme of our program last year was "Wondrous Little Stranger." I point to the phrase in the second verse. 

"Really?"
"Yes!"
"Sorry..."

This is one of those, "You never even notice me anymore!" moments.

Sunday, November 27, 2016

Thanksgiving Break Week

We spent yesterday up to Gram's. It's always fun visiting with Grammy and Alexa. It's even more fun teasing Alexa and Sean. I was surprised Uncle Shawn didn't join us, but Gram said he did spend Thanksgiving evening with them. 

They held off on the traditional feast until we came, which wasn't my intention, but we enjoyed a second turkey dinner! 

We walked to Bob's Hardware, always a hit. Petya wanted to walk like the big kids--she walked the whole way back.
The day before we went up to Gram's was wet and gray, and we knew the next day we'd be spending 4 hours in the car, so Mike met us at the Y after work to run around a bit. Petya loves to sit on the trucks and scoot herself all over the floor. She's getting pretty big for them--not that they were ever meant for someone to sit on them. 


We took family pictures back in October, but, as is typical, Madie spent the time fooling around and pulling faces. I promised Mike I would try to get a shot of her before it snowed. With no school, this was the week to do it. I asked her to go pick something out to wear and she pouted. I told her to pick long-sleeved so she'd be warm (our other pictures were taken outside, so I was looking for continuity--in November). We couldn't agree on anything, so I finally just pulled out this short-sleeved dress and she blanched.

"Just remember, the less you fool around, the faster we'll get inside."


After 10 minutes I knew I had some good ones. She was happy to take the dress off and get back into pajamas. And I was happy to have a decent picture of her.

Mike took Finn canoeing and fishing this week. He has his license, but he's only been able to get out a few times all year, and they haven't caught anything yet. Still, Finn loves to go out on the boat. 

Madie refuses to get in "until we get a boat without duct tape."
We've spent the week teaching the kids a couple of new games. I think I mentioned in the last post chess and Chinese checkers. They kept complaining regular checkers is more fun. ?? Who likes checkers? Is there a more boring game?

I think it was good for P to join in. She didn't really play, she just moved her pieces around in her corner, but she did learn to wait her turn. Both Chinese checkers and chess have really helped Madie to think a couple of moves ahead.

Tomorrow is back to the grind.

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Thursday, November 24, 2016

Thanksgiving 2016

Ahhh, the kick-off to the holiday season. And what a way to get it started! It makes you happy to be a New Worlder. (Canada gets it.)

Thanksgiving in Maine is even better, because it starts on Tuesday evening. Pie Night at the church. It's a beautiful thing. Pies pies pies. This year, I decided I would pull a MariLou and make a pie for everyone in my family. I thought I'd make some of them for Pie Night and some for Thanksgiving. So I asked Mike what he wanted and he lead with "Boston cream pie," followed by, "or that strawberry pie Grammy made a while back. That was amazing." So, a layer cake or a pie made from November (i.e. tasteless) strawberries. Thanks. The kids asked for an Oreo pie. I made the Boston cream and the Oreo pie (which my kids didn't like) and a sausage pie. Thankfully they were all eaten. Next year I think I'll just make one or two simple pies for Pie Night and the rest on Thanksgiving.

The remains of a million blueberries.
Last night I made our pies, a lime cheese pie and pumpkin. I also prepped the fruit for the fruit bowl. I was prepared for doing Thanksgiving like I remember my mum doing Thanksgiving: getting up at 5:30 or 6, setting up the table with the fruit bowl, drinks, and even deviled eggs until I realized we had no mayonnaise. Then setting to work, Mike peeling, me cooking, non-stop until 2 pm when we would sit to a feast and subsequently crawl to the couch/bed/dog bed where we could sleep off the tryptophan.

One of my favorite Thanksgiving traditions in my parents' home was breakfast/brunch. It was a large fruit basket filled with pears, oranges, bananas, grapes, nuts, apples, and a big bowl of sherbet punch and a platter of deviled eggs. This being our first Thanksgiving at home, I was excited to do the same for my kids--it was a bigger hit than I thought. Even Madie (my picky eater) enjoyed it!
As it turned out, I had large stretches of nothing. I did get up early, and I'm glad because I had left the kitchen a wreck from the night before, so I cleaned up and set up the table. But when I turned to decide what to do next, I realized, I couldn't do much for a few hours. I didn't really start doing anything until 11. We did end up eating a little later than I anticipated--3:40 or so--but it wasn't bad.

When they weren't busy cracking nuts, the kids spent the majority of their time in the basement learning chess. They've been asking to learn, and Mike finally gave in. He taught them checkers and then Chinese checkers a couple weeks ago and they have loved it. Checkers is especially nice since they can play it themselves with no "advisors." Every day this week they have gone down to play checkers--Finn and Madie will keep busy at it for an hour or more! 

At the beginning of the chess lesson today, I overheard Mike trying to get them calm enough to explain the rules. They were both very excited he had agreed to teach them. Finn asked, "Do you get to jump people and take their pieces?" Mike responded with a yes, to which Finn exclaimed, "Yes! I love this game!"
Not everyone was playing chess. Obviously, these two were at a rave and just about passed out from the excitement.
While the turkey was roasting, I took the kids out to gather clippings and trimmings for some wreaths. We were out for maybe 15 minutes, but they loved it. They kept saying, "This is so much fun! I love this! This is a great Thanksgiving activity!" I'm glad, because Madie especially was not very happy to learn we had decided to stay home for Thanksgiving this year and go up to my grandmother's on Saturday instead. She was set for a dull day, indeed.

After we had plated the turkey and used what we needed of the drippings for gravy, I prepped Elvis' Thanksgiving dinner.

He is always extra good when he gets a special treat. He knows we'll make him start over if he jumps before he's told.
Haha!
Madie always groans when we light candles to eat. I'm not exactly sure why, but it makes her the only child I know who doesn't like eating by candlelight. Maybe it started after I told her the story of Kaitlyn melting her ear almost off when her hair caught fire at Christmas Eve when she was a kid. I don't know.

Finn told me, not for the first time this week, he was thankful for "friends and lots of toys to give to them, because we have too many toys." Amen, Son. 

I thought for a while of dressing up--I like to dress up for occasions like this, but often I don't just out of convenience. Obviously, convenience won out again this year.
After dinner we went for a flashlit stroll through the woods. Finn was interested in going at first, but as soon as we started he asked how long we would be. I said not long, and he suggested that we walk until we come to the "rocky path, then turn back." That "rocky path" is a gravel road, big enough for two cars to carefully pass, and meticulously maintained by the club groundskeeper. We walked all the way down that road to the club house that overlooks the ocean. There we turned off our lights and let our eyes adjust. Madie was particularly enthralled with this. She was amazed that our eyes could actually work fairly well in the dark. She kept telling me about all the colors in the sky. "I see green and purple and gold." Mike and I  agreed on the description "overcast," but to each her own. 

When we spotted our house lights from the woods, Finn--who, at 5 minutes in, told us (not whining, just informing) he was tired and hungry and thirsty--added to his gratitude. "You know what I'm thankful for? Our house. I'm really glad we don't have to live outside in a cave." Again, man, I'm with you.

When we returned it was pie time, then Harry Potter and baths and a final game of chess. Finn and Mike played downstairs and I asked Madie if she wanted to play against me on the tablet. "Oh! Sure! That'll be fun! You know how to play?" 
"Yes, I know how to play." After the game, the 7-year-old novice told me, "Oh, man! You know,  you were good. You were better than I thought you'd be." Thanks, Madie. You're a great coach.

Look at this face?

Sunday, November 13, 2016

Wonderful Things

Here is a quick update on each kid:

Madie: She continues to read voraciously, at least 1-2 chapter books per day. It is quite remarkable and admirable. I certainly don't remember reading nearly that amount when I was her age. She is very busy with play practice (Nutcracker), Girl Scouts, school, piano, and other extracurriculars. We are hoping to focus on climbing and swimming this winter. She is very fussy when it comes to food. One day, she will eat fried chicken and gush about how much she likes it. The next she will refuse to even touch it. It's just odd because there is usually no consistency! Texture, temperature, and color are all key indicators for food. She is our kid that sleeps in the latest, which is usually until 7:30 am.  

Finn: He has notebooks that he loves using to note is memoirs, which consist of random combinations of letters. He will often write down a few combos and ask, "Hey Dad, is this a word?" Usually, it's not. He can write a few simple words though. He is very interested in it, and loves to draw. During Sacrament meeting today, he was bored (which is usually the case) and I showed him how I draw some dinosaurs. That suddenly got him interested in learning to draw some dinosaurs. It was very cool to watch him try to copy some of my doodles. He did a good job! He is very interested in animals, thanks to Octonauts and Dinosaur Train (great kids shows). I went on a hike with him today and he and I discussed animal fight hypotheticals, and who a potential winner would be. A few that were discussed were:

  • Fisher vs. red fox
  • Fisher vs. Elvis
  • Fisher vs. badger
  • Badger vs. bear
  • Fisher vs. Finn
  • 10 fishers vs. Finn and friends wielding axes, guns, and swords
  • Tiger vs. elephant
  • Wolf vs. tiger
Petya: This little girl is starting to hit the terrible two's stage. She is starting to whine and complain about things, but of course cannot really express what she really wants. This makes for a very complicated discussion because we cannot meet her wants and needs. She always comes around when you ask about Elvis, or her baby. She is very sweet, and loves to be snuggled and held. She has this amazing, feathery/muppet-like hair that makes me smile. Lately, she has been learning how to respond to an offer from Mom & Dad to the kids. "Do you guys want milk?" or "Do you want a snack?" Or even if one of the kids asks for something, like Madie asking for a drink of water, Petya runs over and yells, "Me!" to every single scenario. Yesterday Finn was put into a timeout, where he was calming down and trying to get ready for his four-minute timer. When he was ready, he called from their bedroom, "I'm ready for the timer!" Petya responded, "Me!"

Halloween

This was our first year actually making it all the way up and down Ledgelawn Ave. They shut the whole street down to cars at 5 pm so kids can trick-or-treat the area. It gets pretty crazy, and, of course, cold. This year though, the kids stuck it out. 


Nell went as a bunny. I wanted to do some makeup on her cheeks, but once the eyebrows were done, it was all I could do  to get the nose on.
I went as 6-year-old ME! Yes, the haircut is real. I won Most Original at our church party.

A couple months ago Madie asked me what kind of person would have pink eyebrows. 
"I don't know. A rockstar, I guess."
"Great." 
A day later she came in the house and announced she'd be a rockstar for Halloween. I didn't put the connection together until later I asked her why she wanted to be a rockstar and she said, "Because you said it was a rockstar that would have pink eyebrows." When it came down to it though, she didn't even have me do the eyebrows.

At least we didn't have to buy anything special for it. Or make anything for it. That's a win in my book.
Mike, as a last-minute costume, went as Evan McMullin. We ran into some Mormon mafia while we were there, which was advantageous.
For the party we dressed Nell up as the rapper Nelly, which I thought was hilarious, but most people didn't get. It would have helped if we'd had the little white bandaids, or if she had kept the do rag on. Or if Nelly was a lot more popular.

I tried to get a pic of Finn's eagle costume, but he kept spinning around so it's just a blur, so this group picture will have to do.