Finn has always been a kind kid--until recently. The past 5 months or so have been filled with over-reactions to minor personal fouls from siblings, me, Dad, whoever. I've been explaining to him that if he smacks Madie after she wronged him, he's the one who gets in trouble, regardless of what she did, because he decided to punish her instead of leaving it to me or working it out with her. So, she got hers from him, and now he gets his from me. Lucky kid.
My Christmas wish is that this will sink in before February.
But every once in a while a little piece of Old Finn bobs up to the surface and you get moments like yesterday.
On Friday our neighbors (a couple) put down their 12-year-old dog. It was very difficult for them. I mentioned this at breakfast on Saturday morning and suggested that we make some "Sorry" cards for them.
It was snowing in the morning, but was turning to rain some time during the day, so the kids went out with Mike to work on the snow fort in the morning to get some play time in before it got too slushy. I had been lying down with Petya and had fallen asleep. I woke to Finn yelling for Dad to come help him write something out. I got up and found him in the house with a piece of paper shouting out the door.
"Finn, what do you need help with?"
"Oh, good! Come here." He took me into his bedroom. "How do you spell sorry?"
I sound the word out slowly while he spells it on a piece of paper. He signed his name and drew a black stick-figure dog. "Is this for Mike and Amy?"
"Yeah, it's a sorry card. I'm gonna make another one." After two or three cards, he ran into the living room and we began redressing him for outside. I saw one of our neighbors was out in the yard with Mike already. They were chatting while Madie went down the snow fort on a little blue sled. I found out our neighbor had been feeling down (of course) and had come over when she'd seen the kids in the yard. She had given them a couple of sleds. She spent a good while out there before her husband also came over to chat. They appreciated the cards very much.
That evening Finn came out of bed with two more cards. "Can you two write 'Thank you for the sleds' on these? Here Mum, but Dad can write on one, too."
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| The sleds are the flexible kind with the handle in the front you pull up between your legs. Though I'm sure, with the accurate depictions, you did not need an explanation. |







































