New strands of kindness
Mar 30, 2005
By Lucia Herndon
Earlier this month, I was invited to visit Interim House , a residential
facility in Germantown for women with alcohol and drug addictions.
Social worker Kathy Duffy had taught several of the women to knit and, knowing
I'm a passionate knitter, asked if I could stop by and talk about the craft.
I packed my needles and yarn and headed to the house. I was warmly received by
the women, but was disheartened to see their paltry supplies.
I wrote about my visit two weeks ago; what a difference those weeks have made.
Knitters have called and e-mailed. "How can I help?" they wanted to know. Boxes
of yarn and needles continue to arrive, Duffy said. So do financial
contributions. One neighborhood woman walked in and handed them $500. A knitwear
designer has offered not only yarn but her time to help new knitters with
projects.
I was not surprised by the response. I don't think I've met too many knitters
who weren't kind and generous. That they should respond quickly and warmly is to
be expected. Still, it is a good feeling.
I wish readers could see the response. Now there are plenty of needles in
different sizes. Wood, plastic, metal. And lots of yarn, including Fun Fur, the
most treasured novelty yarn, which makes scarf-making a snap.
Several of the women are working on ponchos. Hopefully, the knitting will be
done soon and we can quickly seam and fringe them.
And I have become a weekly participant in the sessions. I help with the casting
on and binding off. I offer lots of encouragement. The women seemed happy that I
continued to stop by for knitting sessions. The truth is, my visits are a new
habit.
Lessons continue. Not just knitting and crochet lessons, but life lessons, for
all of us. They're learning an age-old skill; I'm learning how women whose lives
have taken torturous turns can reclaim themselves with hard work, discipline,
and soothing handwork.
I encouraged the women, once they felt pretty secure in their stitches, to teach
other people.
"How can the art continue unless we take up the responsibility of sharing our
knowledge? " I asked.
One woman said she didn't think she would continue knitting once released from
Interim House .
I assured her it was fine to drop the knitting . "But the skill is yours to
keep," I reminded her. "No one can take that away from you. "
"Are we knitters?" asked one woman, working diligently on a scarf for a
grandchild.
"Oh, yes," I assured her. "You're all knitters. "
In the truest sense of the word.
For information about Interim House 's knitting and crochet project, call
215-849-4606.
Contact columnist Lucia Herndon at 215-854-5724 or lherndon@
phillynews.com. Read her recent work at http://go.philly.com/luciaherndon.