When I was a kid we played outside from the time school was over until dinner time. We played with the neighborhood kids...of all ages and both genders. We played games that required nothing except maybe a ball (or a can) and our unbridled energy. While playing we rarely fought over rules or technicalities...simply because there were so few rules. During our play we formed memories and friendships that have lasted a lifetime. In spite of our differences we managed to have fun...pure fun.
My students have been having a rough go of it on the playground lately. There seemed to be a problem every single day during recess. From afar I watched to see what I could make of the complaining that had been so prevalent. I watched the games that were being played, the groups of kids that walked around the playground, the loners and the ones who just couldn't seem to stay in one place long enough to establish themselves. I watched as they interacted, as they communicated with one another, as they engaged in what humans needs to engage in---social contact and play.
I watched for a week and gathered the information I felt I needed to come to a conclusion. When the week ended I saw exactly what what causing the problem.
The lack of simplicity.
The games they were playing were so complex; burdened with rule after rule. I watched as games began and within less than a minute an argument over rules broke out. I witnessed kids walking away from games in frustration and defeat. I saw kids band themselves into groups; not allowing others "in". I listened to endless bickering. I felt bad for them. All of them. They weren't playing. They weren't enjoying themselves. They were struggling; caught under the weight of too many rules. It seemed impossible for any one child to make any move during a game that didn't result in some kind of conflict.
The loners didn't want to play because they simply didn't want to get involved in something that was so competitive and unnerving. They chose to be by themselves than join their peers.
The kids that went from one activity to another did so in search of a place to play; to amuse oneself; to release the energy that every child has building up inside of them while in a classroom.
I had my "data". Real-life data from real-life experiences. I knew exactly what to do.
I invited them to my childhood.
I took a game they were playing that I too, as a kid, played. This game, known as Four-Square, has now evolved from a simple street-game of my youth to a complicated mess that leaves nothing to be desired...yet the kids of today keep coming back for more. They want to play the game. They know it can be fun and they thought they could manage the game to be fun rather than letting the game run itself. They imposed too many rules to their game. I reversed that.
I taught them the simple rules of Four-Square as we played it some 35+ years ago.
They are simple rules that anyone can follow. Therefore, anyone can play.
They are simple rules that are few in number. Therefore, the game moves quickly and everyone gets a chance.
They are simple rules that level the playing field. Therefore, everyone is equal in the eyes of the game.
They are simple rules that allow for skills to develop without brawn taking over. Therefore, increasing the pleasure as all the participants grow and flourish.
After teaching them the "new" old rules, I played with them. We laughed and learned; we lost track of time. From there I stepped back and called the game as they played...stopping them to show them how the game will begin to evolve as new strategies are developed within the few simple rules established. I noticed that almost everyone in the class voluntarily joined in the play.
I noticed there were no arguments.
I noticed there were no hurt feelings.
I noticed the feelings that I had as a child playing outside with the kids of my old neighborhood came flooding back.
I noticed that my students realized that play does not have to be lost in a sea of rules...
I noticed that they took my invitation to revisit my childhood with me and found that although we differ in age and generation; we still have the desires that all children have--to play; to be a part of it; to enjoy.
I hope that my students continue to embrace the ideas that I grew up with..less is more in so many ways.
Mr. Casten
Nov. 30, 2012
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