I've been spending a lot of time at home lately because I haven't been well.
So these past 2 days, I started shooting proper again and I think Nate feels my absence.
He started whining and has learnt my mobile number by heart, which means he starts to call me and starts crying because he wants to go to the playground or wants to play with his neighbour.
Basically just looking for attention really.
Doesn't help that I'm having the flu right now, and i'm trying to avoid too close a physical contact with him now..
This evening, I returned from a shoot and he started to whine about every little thing he could, just to get my attention. Realizing that, I decided to file my pictures quickly and give him that time.
Poor boy however, came into my room with an eggshell filled with jelly which he made in school and wanted to show off to me, but it dropped out of his hands and cracked.
Nate started to whimper from the embarrassment and disappointment but I tried my hardest to console him and said that it still looked amazing.
At this point i realized that I couldn't come up with an excuse to make him feel better no matter how hard I really wanted too and how badly I wanted him to feel better..
I couldn't tell him that "it's ok, it will go back to it's original state later if he stopped crying; I couldn't tell him that we could fix it because that was the one and only, and seriously you can't glue broken egg shells together again."
Think Humpty Dumpty.
Poor Kingsmen
Anyway, I decided to lovingly tell him that it was just too bad. Sometimes things happen and you can't do anything about it.
Avoiding the whole "SEE?! I TOLD YOU!!" bit.
I think I did ok there.
So I lovingly consoled him and told him that eggs break easily and he had to be careful, that he wasn't careful and that's why that particular accident happened.... that I thought it was still brilliant and it looked pretty with the texture and that we could make more easter eggs and that easter bunny would forgive him.
Funny eh?
There are somethings that we just cannot avoid in life, and one of them, is just facing the truth and walking on eggshells too much will just eventually crack them all.