Before jumping into the deeps, let us consider a definition of the term "discrimination":
From http://www.dictionary.com/browse/discrimination we have: "treatment or consideration of, or making a distinction in favor of or against, a person or thing based on the group, class, or category to which that person or thing belongs rather than on individual merit".
Now let us a consider a scenario in two parts:
1. Group A chooses not to associate themselves with Group B over a certain matter. The extent by which Group A disassociates itself from Group B is not important here.
2. Group B then responds by disassociating themselves from Group A in the same manner as Group A did.
The heart of it is a "life for life, eye for eye, tooth for tooth, hand for hand, foot for foot, burn for burn, wound for wound, stripe for stripe" concept. Literally: Responding in the same way one is treated. Isn't that how the world works? Wasn't that how God established laws for capital punishment to ensure fairness among the nation of Israel? Yes, that is how the world works and the reason people were put to death or have life sentences for taking another person's life.
Can the Christian be part of either Group A or Group B? Certainly!
Consider Group A as Christians and Group B as those of the world:-
- Without love: The Christian can act "holier than thou" and belittle members of Group B, disassociating themselves with the world and treating them as "lesser beings".
- With love: The Christian chooses to expose the sin of the members of Group B and tell them that they are on the wrong path. The Christian seeks the wellbeing of the members of Group B out of love for them.
Now consider Group A as those of the world and Group B as Christians:-
- Without love: The Christian can retaliate and be hostile against the members of Group A.
- With love: The Christian seeks to understand why they are being disassociated with Group A and pray for them. The Christian might also try to win the minds of some members of Group A by their actions which seek to show the love of Christ.
While it is observed that the word "discriminate" has a largely negative connotation in our society today, Christians still need to execute judgment on the sins of others according to the Word of God and tell them the error of their ways in the light of the love of Christ. We show them where they have gone wrong because we love them; we do not want them to bear God's pending judgment for their sins. However, Paul says,
"Walk in wisdom toward those who are outside, redeeming the time. Let your speech always be with grace, seasoned with salt, that you may know how you ought to answer each one." (Colossians 4:5-6)Wisdom is important in answering questions and statements of those who are outside. Nevertheless it will not always be a smooth conversation with others for it is written that:
"If the world hates you, you know that it hated Me before it hated you. If you were of the world, the world would love its own. Yet because you are not of the world, but I chose you out of the world, therefore the world hates you. Remember the word that I said to you, ‘A servant is not greater than his master.’ If they persecuted Me, they will also persecute you. If they kept My word, they will keep yours also." (John 15:18-20)In conclusion, the heart of the Christian should be motivated by love and his motive for all things should be for the good of the other. Let us not discriminate "negatively" towards those who are outside, but discriminate "positively" to act in all things with the love of Christ!

