How do you keep the love going?

How do you keep the love going? What is the secret of keeping the love strong?

#1: Love is a COMMITMENT
(It's not just a contract, a permanent relationship, successful marriage requires determination)

#2: LOVE is a FEELING
Which you can find it in Song of Solomon chap 4 verse 6-7, chap 5 verse14,16. Genesis 29, Song of Solomon chap 2 verse 5

Do you know that it takes only 8.2 seconds for a man to fall in love! Surprising right?

"Dopamine" - Chemistry of love, feeling like in heaven
"Norepinephrine" - Excited, sweaty palms
"Sertonin" - Obsessed feeling about their love

All the above chemistry of love in a man only last 2-3 years time! And that is where marriage needs to kick in!

"Oxytocin" - Emotional bonding/Sex context
"Endorphin" - Well-being /Peaceful/Security/Sex context

#3: Love is an ACTION
1 John 3:18 - When you don't feel like doing it, it is the HIGHEST form of love.

Loving actions bring loving feelings such as Hugs, Kisses, Physically Touch, Eye contact. All these helps reduce stress, and would enhance the relationship.

It's is proven that Man who kisses their wife daily tend to live 5 years longer!

In Revelation 2: 4-5, it is written "

⁴ Yet I hold this against you: You have forsaken the love you had at first. ⁵ Consider how far you have fallen! Repent and do the things you did at first. If you do not repent, I will come to you and remove your lampstand from its place."

The bible says You can get your first love back!

However, Love is never passive, not just waiting, but making a decision to court your partner all over again.

(This message is brought to you with love... I sincerely hope that with love existence, more couples will be able to experience a brand new new way and level of a relationship with their partner. Sharing is Caring. Wishes all love birds to stay in love with each other more and more and more... May God bless you and your partner!)

Signing off,
grace

Give me Faith by Elevation Worship

From the bottom of my heart, I would like to dedicate this song to you and you alone, my Jesus, my Lord...

Verse 1
I need you to soften my heart , to break me apart
I need you to open my eyes, to see that You're shaping my life

Pre-Chorus: 
All I am, I surrender

Chorus:
Give me faith to trust what you say
That you're good and your love is great
I'm broken inside, I give you my life

Verse 2:
I need you to soften my heart, to break me apart
I need you to pierce through the dark And cleanse every part of me

Chorus Bridge
I may be weak your spirit strong in me
My flesh may fail, my God you never will (repeat)

Break-up

On the 2nd July 2012 marks the officially closure of this blog, this relationship is completely over.

Reason being, BF is not happy since 6mths back. We are unable to communicate or know each other better... Though, there is feelings in place, he no longer loves GF. And the fact that it is impossible for him to accept GF's family. No matter how much we tried, he said it's impossible for him to see us being together in the near future.

This relationship can only be a memory inside a special place in our hearts.

My 21st b'day wish was to see my bf being happy. Never ever expected him to live in pain or any unhappiness. Hope that this separation will bring him a little more happiness in his life.

The long awaited bangkok trip can only see, imagine and it can never come to past already.

O' God, please tell me what happen?

2012!

Happy new year babe! How's the new layout? :D well, didn't take much effort on my part but since it's the new year...why not a fresh new template for a fresh new start!

Let's make better and many more memories this year than 2010 and 2011 combined! Let this year be the best year yet for the both of us in:

1. Family
2. Ministry
3. Career

4. Us :D

Wo ai ni :D have fun at work and jia you!

Happy new year guys! Cheers,
Samuel