Last week
Oh look! O.o my new niece.

I went for lunch with my mum and siblings yesterday. The first time I met my siblings in my short 2 month stint back in Singapore, and *guiltily* only the third time I saw my mum. Yah, and it was only today that I startled with realisation that my mother is a Grandmother at the age of 46!
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ICASS AGM was held once again at Tanglin Club last evening. The last time I attended the AGM was also, held at the same club.

Surprisingly, Weihan and Yiken came for the dinner as well. Out of sheer pure luck I managed to catch up with them just a few days before I flew back to London. Weihan is at PA now, and Yiken, OCS Alpha (xiong). We were peppered with some lame jokes from a super senior member of the ICAAS, even as we were in the presence of Minister Teo Chee Hean. I wonder how he was feeling man o.0
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I've never thought I will find another friend who would share a very similar life as mine. But as I read his most recent entry, it kind of struck a similar kind of tune to what I had been going through since almost 7 years ago. A move from Hougang to Hougang then Hougang, then to camp, out of camp, then my crazy father sold the house and banished the whole family into exile, and here I am in AMK. Of course, in between you see myself moving from Singapore to London to Singapore, and when in Singapore, from "home" to camp.
I am not a nomad, but I do not feel different from one. That's why much of my brainpower this holiday was spent on issues like housing, investment, cars etc, or in summary, on settling down.
"frens said that im crazy when i say i want to settle down soon. like the way i hope my next home (who knows when i'll get it) will be the permanent one for the rest of my life. when i say i wish the next girlfriend is the one i want to marry. they say that, why feel that way when im not even 20, i've got sooo much of my life left (maybe) and that i should be enjoying myself out there.
but after suffering 6-7 turbulent years of nomadic, temporary and almost unhomeliness, who are they to judge what i want from my life now?
im tired. at times i yearn for my life to be permanent. yes, it'll be much less exciting if im stuck within the same confines of the 4 walls until i die. and yes, it'll be much less exciting if im going to be stuck with the same girl for the rest of my life until she becomes an old hag. but hey, at least i can call one my home, and the other, my true love."
Yup brother, you are not the only one. I think I'd told you before, we share very similar lives. The important thing is that we did not succumb, and we will not repeat the same mistakes to our own families in future.

I went for lunch with my mum and siblings yesterday. The first time I met my siblings in my short 2 month stint back in Singapore, and *guiltily* only the third time I saw my mum. Yah, and it was only today that I startled with realisation that my mother is a Grandmother at the age of 46!
~~~
ICASS AGM was held once again at Tanglin Club last evening. The last time I attended the AGM was also, held at the same club.

Surprisingly, Weihan and Yiken came for the dinner as well. Out of sheer pure luck I managed to catch up with them just a few days before I flew back to London. Weihan is at PA now, and Yiken, OCS Alpha (xiong). We were peppered with some lame jokes from a super senior member of the ICAAS, even as we were in the presence of Minister Teo Chee Hean. I wonder how he was feeling man o.0
~~~
I've never thought I will find another friend who would share a very similar life as mine. But as I read his most recent entry, it kind of struck a similar kind of tune to what I had been going through since almost 7 years ago. A move from Hougang to Hougang then Hougang, then to camp, out of camp, then my crazy father sold the house and banished the whole family into exile, and here I am in AMK. Of course, in between you see myself moving from Singapore to London to Singapore, and when in Singapore, from "home" to camp.
I am not a nomad, but I do not feel different from one. That's why much of my brainpower this holiday was spent on issues like housing, investment, cars etc, or in summary, on settling down.
"frens said that im crazy when i say i want to settle down soon. like the way i hope my next home (who knows when i'll get it) will be the permanent one for the rest of my life. when i say i wish the next girlfriend is the one i want to marry. they say that, why feel that way when im not even 20, i've got sooo much of my life left (maybe) and that i should be enjoying myself out there.
but after suffering 6-7 turbulent years of nomadic, temporary and almost unhomeliness, who are they to judge what i want from my life now?
im tired. at times i yearn for my life to be permanent. yes, it'll be much less exciting if im stuck within the same confines of the 4 walls until i die. and yes, it'll be much less exciting if im going to be stuck with the same girl for the rest of my life until she becomes an old hag. but hey, at least i can call one my home, and the other, my true love."
Yup brother, you are not the only one. I think I'd told you before, we share very similar lives. The important thing is that we did not succumb, and we will not repeat the same mistakes to our own families in future.






