Our Family

Our Family
Octoberr 2014

Tuesday, December 16, 2014

New Beginnings and ends 2014

WOW....I think it may have been awhile since posting last, ha ha.  I think I forgot I had a blog!!!

Of course, these past months have been busy with kids none the less, that's pretty much the life at our house right now and we are loving it.

Alyda turned 6 in July, and started First grade this past fall and I cannot even believe that she is getting so old, that just means I am too (dread).  She has been doing so awesome at everything, she is a tough one to want to do her homework, but who really does like to come home and do homework anyway, right??  Her teacher Mrs. Baer is great and challenges with just the right amount of work, but not with overkill and I really like how she structures her class, so, so far so good with great teachers.
 Alyda had to get glasses this year and she could not be cuter and more sophisticated while wearing them, at first she was nervous about glasses, but it only took a few days and now it is like nothing, and she wears them fine. Hopefully like the doctor said it will only be temporary, and she will not have to wear them forever. I myself have never had glasses, and still  don't need glasses so far,  so I don't know a thing about what the hassles are of dealing with that and contacts and whatever, so I cant relate to Alyda with this.
 She is my outgoing child, nothing phases Alyda and she will talk about everything under the sun to anyone and she meets so many people because of it.  Of course just as I was, she is smaller in he class, and I love when she comes home sometimes and tells me how people think she is the cutest little thing, and these are not just older kids and such but her own classmates.....it makes me laugh. I love he so much and then again we are ones to butt heads constantly at home, she is such a stubborn thing, we always say it must be the Dutch in  our blood (and she has the genes from both sides of the family).
So I am sure there are a million things I could write about this girl, she has the personality to fill pages, but I do have two other kids that I need to note down as well.....like I said, it has been too long.

Zaylin is 31/2 now and seems like he has been 5 forever, he will be 4 in January.  He hangs out with the big kids in the neighborhood and has been running around with his older sister and such since he was 2.  He never fails to have a story to tell, much like Alyda and if he catches you not totally paying attention, he lets you know. He has never officially gone to preschool, but neither did Alyda.  I guess I figure they are going to be gone at school already for so long, so soon, I just want them at home until absolutey necessary. We work on things and he goes at his own pace and what he wants to do, he is not as into arts and crafts like Alyda is, so it's nice that I can focus my attention on the things he enjoys and the ways he likes to learn, and he does awesome at just about anything he puts his mind too.  He does a little dance and song after performing different tasks saying "i did it i did it yah yah yah". Lets just say that he has a lot of confidence in himself, which is awesome.  I love that I get to know him without Alyda around... he is something else and while of course I miss Alyda while at school, Zaylin and I have our own fun at home and being together.  His relationships with his siblings is also so much fun to see. Alyda is very very motherly and is always taking care of everyone in our house but she can overdo it with Zay.   She is very  bossy and he now knows that is not acceptable, so they have their arguments (A LOT).  He  does not put up with any guff from her. But they also have a very very sweet relationship as well and it is so fun to see them pretend together, they could survive without toys and movies and have all the fun in the world.  I love that they are just enough close in age to play and get along and have so much in common.  Zaylin has an interesting relationship with Avery. He knows he is older and can get away with things, but he also really cares about him.  As Avery has gotten older they really have begun to actually play together, not just be by each other and annoy one another, and now with Alyda at school it really is an important bonding between them and I love to see them interact with each other, they truly are boys though, without a doubt, and I love it.

Avery(Aves) as we tend to call him. He is 11/2. I cannot believe he is almost 2 already, he will be 2 in February. He is my precious baby still. He loves still to snuggle and be close to me and I, at first with my other two having more distant personalities, I wasn't sure I would like that (I LIKE MY SPACE), but I honestly am so excited to see him when he wakes up.  He has been such a good sleeper and goes to bed without any fight whatsoever and talks himself to sleep and sleeps in till sometimes 9:30 (my other 2 are up at the crack of dawn.....WITH DAD). I just love this age, there is something so entertaining and exciting about so much to learn and talking and following you around to explore. This is just my favorite age and he has been so sweet and loving.  Avery is one of a kind for sure.  I know he is different than my other 2, I cant always put my finger on why, but he just reacts different to situations and I find myself relating to him easier.  I am sure that things will always be up and down with all my kids, but hopefully I will find middle ground when I need to.  Avery has a special relationship with all of us he loves Alyda as a second mom, he goes to her when I am not available and it is the sweetest thing to see them together.

I am so grateful to have such a wonderful family. I sometimes feel that it has been too easy, I have my problems, yes.....I get easily frustrated and want to pull out my hair, I have bad days and then more bad days and so on, but I remember that I get to be a mom and how easily I got to be a mom. I cant complain about much in that perspective.  I have a wonderful supportive, smart and giving husband that puts me first all the time.  He has done so much for us in our times of need and I cannot be more grateful to have his Love for eternity.
 Zach recently has taken on new challenges with work and has been so, so successful at what he does.....this doesn't mean I am necessarily talking about $$$$. He has proven so much of his abilities, and what he is capable of at work and I hear nothing but praises from the people he works with, and where this may take him. I am so proud of him and his ability at overcoming so many challenges.

Without further a due....we are going to be parents of yet, another child coming our way the beginning of June and what a wonderful thing it will be.  Life is crazy when you have just one kid, so then you have two and so on, and yeah now 4.  What fun it will be. I feel so great about it and confident in my abilities and I need the challenge, so bring it on.  

Monday, May 26, 2014

Well, The school year is coming to an end and the Summer is about to begin and I can hardly believe that my little girl Alyda, who is now ending her first official year at school (well kindergarten). 
It has been so much fun watching her grow through the year and excelling at so much, she has had an awesome teacher Mrs. Greene who has been so great to work alongside.  I was in tears when she was starting Kindergarten and I am holding back the emotions as she is about to end this first real adventure, it just reminds me that she is not staying little for long....(although little is still what she is, because she is the shortest thing in her class), but she is figuring out what life is and should be, and I am excited for her to reach new levels, I just really never thought I would feel so messed up emotionally from it.  It must be what the life of being a mom is I guess.

Zaylin will be starting pre-school this fall, and like I did with Alyda,  I think I will keep him at home with me for it, he has the social stuff down anyway, so it will be nice to bond with him one on one at home until his turn in Kindergarten.  I don't want to rush my kids out the door...it's gone too fast as it is and I really love having the time to do what I can with them.

Avery is just busy, busy, busy.  He wants to keep up with the other two but he is just not fast enough to chase them and he gets so mad when he can't.  He is another social bug, just like the other two, and does not mind getting himself lost.  Church, the store wherever, he just runs and never looks back. I love his attention to something, he loves to draw and color already and wants a paper and pen all the time to play with.  He is attached to his 3 blankets that he sleeps with and has to pull them all out of bed when he is leaving it.  He could literally be Linus from Charlie brown....it's so funny to watch, he calls them his "cozy's".  He is learning to say so many things and repeats things back to you as you say them.  I can't resist cuddling with him because he loves to hug in return.

I guess I am just facing the fact of having this "JOB" although I hate calling it that because although it is work to raise children, that's not how I like to look at it.   I can't explain what I mean by that....I just refuse to use that phrase.



 

Sunday, January 12, 2014

Holiday's, Birthday's, Everyday

I can' t believe 2013 is over and my kids are all another year older....I love watching them grow up but at the same time, I hate to see it pass so fast.

We had a great holiday season....Thanksgiving was with family and Christmas was easy and laid back at home with the kids, nowhere to be and no stress whatsoever (very recommended). 
We stayed home last year as well and loved it so much that we have decided to not be running around at all on this special day.  We spend so much time throughout the month seeing family and visiting people and having christmas parties that when Christmas Day comes we just want to be at home and feel the peace of the day.  We invite parents over for a visit if they want and we make an easy good meal!!!   It all just makes sense when you have young kids. 
New Years is the same....we love to celebrate New Years Eve with confetti and balloons and food and party stuff and even keeping the kids up late, but being home is so worth it because when we are done, the kids are in their pajamas and off to bed and we enjoy it so much more this way.  This New Years Eve we even had Avery take a late nap so he could be up with us later  for our(10 PM) celebration. He was having a ball with everything and I was so glad he could be with us ringing in the new year with all the fun.....I captured it all on video like I do every year and watching it back is so exciting when you see the fun the kids have, everytime. 
Following New Year's and a week later exactly is Zaylin's birthday.   He turned 3 this year and all he wanted to do was go bowling.  We have never taken the kids bowling so it was a fun new experience for all of us.  He had a great birthday with being more aware this year of what a birthday even is, and loved telling everyone how old he was.
 Zaylin got underwear for Christmas and we were unsure if he would be fully ready to take on the potty responsibility, but he has mastered it all in but a few days and has continued to take himself to the bathroom ever since...it has been a great way to start the year.
This 2014 year is starting off strong so far and will be a year of firsts and new activities!!!