I have recently been reminded by my somewhat absent-minded self how I used to get important things done. This may seem strange for some people, but I have a whole bunch of really cool dreams I would love to have come about in my life. The only draw back is doing the work to get them here. My dreams are precious to me, and I want them so much, the more that I read and learn and grow the greater they become. But, as we all know, our life is determined by the minutes we spend. If they are not spent well. . .nothing great will happen. Discipline is doing what you should do right this second vs. what you wanna do.
So how do I get off my lazy butt and go to work? I heard a saying once that if the dream was big enough, and you wanted it enough, you would do something about it. I believe this is true. . .so does that mean my dreams aren't big enough? No. I know they are plenty big. It is just taking that dream and making it real to me NOW that I have a hard time with. So long as it is in my future, I can look at it, admire it, and say "someday."
After doing this for awhile, I began to get sick of myself. I had a roommate who did that. Dreamed constantly, and in excruciating detail. That wasn't the problem. I loved her dreams, and I am thankful to her for showing me how. The part that frustrated me was that she never did anything to get them. I would watch door after door open to her, and she would ignore them and keep on dreaming. She had a book shelf full of books she dreamed of reading, and never cracked the bindings.
So in my search to actually begin
doing something about my dreams, I have rediscovered Baby Steps. I use little things that I want as a reward for doing those small things that will bring me closer to my long term goals. I can only play my games after I have cleaned the house, and a couple other things that need to be done, and I only play while Danny is asleep. I have actually gotten things done! It is awesome!
Lately, Scott and I have been wanting a Wii, so we decided to use it as an incentive to get a somewhat larger goal accomplished. While in the long run, the goal will be so much more valuable, having the Wii as a reward definately gives a drive to do it NOW!