We are playing a game called Life.
Things keep coming and go from time to time.
The moment we realize things had gone too far, we can hardly make any amendments. All we could do now is just improve the situation or we could choose to let things go.
The choices we made are tough at times. It is impossible to have a perfect list of achievement in life. As an "Error Buster" I realize, it's the only faulty I have. We can get perfect score in exams, games but not facts of life.
They say fate lies on our palm, I say it lies on our hand. It's how we grab things right or rather however we deem appropriate. There are regrets we can't let go but life goes on.
So people, don't look back anymore. It's time to look forward. We only play this game once and there's no reset button or a save point we can load back. Appreciate things around you and never let them go. Things may seemed not within our grasp but at least, we should try to do it! Never let any regrets behind...
But sometimes, trying too hard isn't the way either. Realize yourself when it's right to continue or let go of things. For those reading this, enjoy every moment in life. Even if you'd be facing a difficult challenge in life, strive. You may not know there could be miracles happen. Like people always say, miracles happen. I never believed on it but now...
I even let go things I pursue before... Let them go half way with a sense of regret. Whenever you see an opportunity, grab it, don't let go till it pushes you away. We shouldn't expect things to come to us but rather, we take the initiative to do.
I really do need to start believing...
Friday, December 2, 2011
Tuesday, August 30, 2011
Choices we make.
In life, we all have choices, every moment.
Sometimes people just ignore that fact.
Take say haircut for example.
You cut your hair into a coconut style and end up saying "$hit... I'm back to square one"
You PICKED the choice of doing it and you ended up with it.
Don't say something as though you regretted picking that choice.
We have to always ponder for the best choices which can be made at the instantaneous moment. Go back to our primordial questions if you're lost.
Say, asking "Why I want this in the first place?".
Are we really born to complain? The answer is No.
I have heard some interviews by some entrepreneurs, saying human are just born to complain. When the prices hike up, we complain but we still buy them.
"We buy it because we need it at the moment"
So people, think before you act.
We don't want to leave sour memories in our life with sense of regret, detest.
Sometimes people just ignore that fact.
Take say haircut for example.
You cut your hair into a coconut style and end up saying "$hit... I'm back to square one"
You PICKED the choice of doing it and you ended up with it.
Don't say something as though you regretted picking that choice.
We have to always ponder for the best choices which can be made at the instantaneous moment. Go back to our primordial questions if you're lost.
Say, asking "Why I want this in the first place?".
Are we really born to complain? The answer is No.
I have heard some interviews by some entrepreneurs, saying human are just born to complain. When the prices hike up, we complain but we still buy them.
"We buy it because we need it at the moment"
So people, think before you act.
We don't want to leave sour memories in our life with sense of regret, detest.
Wednesday, August 24, 2011
One day of PEACE
Suffice said about global issues happening.
Yes, we already know that they are happening but the big question is
What can we do?!
We see them pessimistically like always. There are people who doesn't even care.
They have everything they want. Leading a comfort life by getting everything they want at ease.
Their small question is Why should we care?!
The thing about our world, the place we are living in now, it's full of hypocrites and conspiracies.
We see people doing charity all over the place but is it really for the sake of charity of for the sake of getting attention?
I've seen them; a number of them.
The next question is How genuine are you?!
Recently I participated in a interfaith dialogue forum. I was given an opportunity to get involved in an international interfaith dialogue. I hesitated and still doing so. Why?
Nevertheless, for those people out there who may have or not known, on 21st September is special day. A day where people around the world declared to cease fire and non-violence.
Started by Jeremy Gilley
main organization, Peace one day.
Yes, we already know that they are happening but the big question is
What can we do?!
We see them pessimistically like always. There are people who doesn't even care.
They have everything they want. Leading a comfort life by getting everything they want at ease.
Their small question is Why should we care?!
The thing about our world, the place we are living in now, it's full of hypocrites and conspiracies.
We see people doing charity all over the place but is it really for the sake of charity of for the sake of getting attention?
I've seen them; a number of them.
The next question is How genuine are you?!
Recently I participated in a interfaith dialogue forum. I was given an opportunity to get involved in an international interfaith dialogue. I hesitated and still doing so. Why?
Nevertheless, for those people out there who may have or not known, on 21st September is special day. A day where people around the world declared to cease fire and non-violence.
Started by Jeremy Gilley
main organization, Peace one day.
Thursday, August 4, 2011
What gives a fool?
"I like you not because you are Pretty"
"but it is because of who you are"
"Today we are here to witness a confession from a boy to a girl.
God will be our witness of tonight.
The boy has already confessed, what about the girl?"
"..."
"Will you be my girlfriend?"
"..."
"..."
"..."
"... Give me sometime"
The crowd goes "still got chance!"
A fool is born from lovestruck. See how true is that?
This type of confession is pretty much classical, then again, people should use it when they really MEAN IT.
Let me explain,
"I like you not because you are Pretty"
"but it is because of who you are"
(You don't even know her.
You have only chat with her a few times.
No doubt she is pretty but still, have you even gone out with her?
How can you claim that you like her because of who she is when you didn't even take time to get to know her)
"Today we are here to witness a confession from a boy to a girl.
God will be our witness of tonight.
The boy has already confessed, what about the girl?"
(A joker came trying to stir things up after an awkward silence)
"..."
(Silence from the girl)
"Will you be my girlfriend?"
(Ta-daa confession)
"..."
"..."
"..."
"... Give me sometime"
(10 minutes of awkward silence from the girl. It's very obvious that the answer is NO!
If she really likes you there won't be those silence moments where she look at her friends and shake her head.)
Kudos to the drunken boy. He made himself a man on that night.
It's not easy to just confess to a girl in public and then got obvious rejection.
There is always a fine line between love and crush.
Everyone one of us may have our own definition for the two words.
"Love is an emotion of strong affection and personal attachment."
"A crush is that first attraction you have towards another person. As you get to know a person a friendship may develop or it could turn to feelings of love but there's no guarantee."
For this case, I would say a crush.
The word "Love" is losing its value.
It's pretty common for people nowadays to just simply say "I love you".
Then break up some day later because of some minor misunderstanding or because you so called "don't like her/his attitude".
This happened because we don't understand our partner, we are not even up to the point to actually love them.
This "love" itself is not one sided thing.
It requires mutual understanding from both sides.
You may love someone but that person may not, one-sided we say.
When we know it's the time, we should withdraw.
You may think being persistent will change it.
You may try, but it won't turn out like in the movies.
We just gotta face with the reality.
I believe if you are not meant to belong with one another, there's no point continuing.
Realize this before a relationship goes deeper.
Peeps, don't be demotivated by this after spending money and time on someone.
You may think it is a sad fact, but do note that we are bounded by karmic relation.
People of similar karma will get attracted to one another. (Another point of my belief.)
My point is to tell you guys (readers) to understand your partner.
Take relationship seriously.
Don't just flirt here and there without knowing your partner properly.
You could be attracted by one just because of physical appearance, but do note that you have to understand your partner before it goes deeper.
Breaking up is common, it's a process of understanding your partner. :)
Cheers;
"but it is because of who you are"
"Today we are here to witness a confession from a boy to a girl.
God will be our witness of tonight.
The boy has already confessed, what about the girl?"
"..."
"Will you be my girlfriend?"
"..."
"..."
"..."
"... Give me sometime"
The crowd goes "still got chance!"
A fool is born from lovestruck. See how true is that?
This type of confession is pretty much classical, then again, people should use it when they really MEAN IT.
Let me explain,
"I like you not because you are Pretty"
"but it is because of who you are"
(You don't even know her.
You have only chat with her a few times.
No doubt she is pretty but still, have you even gone out with her?
How can you claim that you like her because of who she is when you didn't even take time to get to know her)
"Today we are here to witness a confession from a boy to a girl.
God will be our witness of tonight.
The boy has already confessed, what about the girl?"
(A joker came trying to stir things up after an awkward silence)
"..."
(Silence from the girl)
"Will you be my girlfriend?"
(Ta-daa confession)
"..."
"..."
"..."
"... Give me sometime"
(10 minutes of awkward silence from the girl. It's very obvious that the answer is NO!
If she really likes you there won't be those silence moments where she look at her friends and shake her head.)
Kudos to the drunken boy. He made himself a man on that night.
It's not easy to just confess to a girl in public and then got obvious rejection.
There is always a fine line between love and crush.
Everyone one of us may have our own definition for the two words.
"Love is an emotion of strong affection and personal attachment."
"A crush is that first attraction you have towards another person. As you get to know a person a friendship may develop or it could turn to feelings of love but there's no guarantee."
For this case, I would say a crush.
The word "Love" is losing its value.
It's pretty common for people nowadays to just simply say "I love you".
Then break up some day later because of some minor misunderstanding or because you so called "don't like her/his attitude".
This happened because we don't understand our partner, we are not even up to the point to actually love them.
This "love" itself is not one sided thing.
It requires mutual understanding from both sides.
You may love someone but that person may not, one-sided we say.
When we know it's the time, we should withdraw.
You may think being persistent will change it.
You may try, but it won't turn out like in the movies.
We just gotta face with the reality.
I believe if you are not meant to belong with one another, there's no point continuing.
Realize this before a relationship goes deeper.
Peeps, don't be demotivated by this after spending money and time on someone.
You may think it is a sad fact, but do note that we are bounded by karmic relation.
People of similar karma will get attracted to one another. (Another point of my belief.)
My point is to tell you guys (readers) to understand your partner.
Take relationship seriously.
Don't just flirt here and there without knowing your partner properly.
You could be attracted by one just because of physical appearance, but do note that you have to understand your partner before it goes deeper.
Breaking up is common, it's a process of understanding your partner. :)
Cheers;
Monday, February 28, 2011
Today's headline.
I guess most of the teenagers nowadays doesn't bother to read the newspaper.
Newspaper, one main source of mass media years ago until everyone has internet access.
Even now, newspaper publishers are publishing their contents up online.
The thing I want to share today, it's about the Malaysian Newspapers. Why's that?.
It could've been just me but what I realize is that,malay newspaper tend to have news about rape, molest news as their headlines. Chinese on the other hand, more to internal affairs. English, I would say the hottest cupcake in the morning, always the political issues as their main headline.
:)
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Anyway, another thing I saw today in one of the mails,
"Budak kecil dipijak untuk merawat Batuk"
How STUPID can people be nowadays?
I'm sorry to say that, but it's the fact. Everyone no doubt can have access to proper education.
If they still follow their idiotic mindset or custom, things will not change.
It's happening everywhere.
We so called have a "perfect" subject to educate people, Moral. Is it even working?
I mean we just regurgitate things we MEMORIZE without putting it into proper practice.
Subjects about ethics don't really work.
It's the people we must change!
Just like the famous saying goes:
People have been suggesting numerous ways to tend the issue but again, I doubt it's working.
They need to look into the ROOT cause of it.
Then, they have to GAUGE what to do judging by the variables.
People always say, You Can Do It!
However, I think people are ABUSING the statement!
It's OKAY to say that to people but do note, it's not APPLICABLE every time.
You have to look at the situation first.
Giving people motivation doesn't mean WE can even do the impossibles.
For those who does that, do take your time and think about it.
Always think of the situation before you say something.
Newspaper, one main source of mass media years ago until everyone has internet access.
Even now, newspaper publishers are publishing their contents up online.
The thing I want to share today, it's about the Malaysian Newspapers. Why's that?.
It could've been just me but what I realize is that,
:)
------------------------------------
Anyway, another thing I saw today in one of the mails,
"Budak kecil dipijak untuk merawat Batuk"
How STUPID can people be nowadays?
I'm sorry to say that, but it's the fact. Everyone no doubt can have access to proper education.
If they still follow their idiotic mindset or custom, things will not change.
It's happening everywhere.
We so called have a "perfect" subject to educate people, Moral. Is it even working?
I mean we just regurgitate things we MEMORIZE without putting it into proper practice.
Subjects about ethics don't really work.
It's the people we must change!
Just like the famous saying goes:
People have been suggesting numerous ways to tend the issue but again, I doubt it's working.
They need to look into the ROOT cause of it.
Then, they have to GAUGE what to do judging by the variables.
People always say, You Can Do It!
However, I think people are ABUSING the statement!
It's OKAY to say that to people but do note, it's not APPLICABLE every time.
You have to look at the situation first.
Giving people motivation doesn't mean WE can even do the impossibles.
For those who does that, do take your time and think about it.
Always think of the situation before you say something.
Monday, January 31, 2011
31st Jan.
Just as the title says it, it's 31st Jan.
The day where paychecks are out,
Baskin Robbin's 31st of the month.
Month end sales,Time really flies. Like what the old quote states "With just a blink of an eye, another year passed".
2011 New Year celebration was like yesterday and now it's already 31st Jan.
How close are you to achieve your this year's resolution(s)?
Have you even started them?
Just 365 days this year, and now left with 334 days.
2011 New Year celebration was like yesterday and now it's already 31st Jan.
How close are you to achieve your this year's resolution(s)?
Have you even started them?
Just 365 days this year, and now left with 334 days.
There's no time to be wasting pondering around always. Life's a brief candle!
People, we gotta start taking action!
It doesn't matter what it is, but do remember; Doing the right things is better than to do things right!
Do not forget to call your long-lost friends, they were the ones who spent their time with you before. YOU should keeping the relationship on going.
In the end, it's all about taking action! If you don't take any but be a pessimist, NOTHING will happen!
Chances aren't always in front of you. Appreciate it. You may not know when it'll come again or never. It doesn't matter how you try to grab the opportunity, be it silly way or whatever. What matters is that you're doing the right thing!
So people, start taking action, don't just sit in front of the com pondering around!
People, we gotta start taking action!
It doesn't matter what it is, but do remember; Doing the right things is better than to do things right!
Do not forget to call your long-lost friends, they were the ones who spent their time with you before. YOU should keeping the relationship on going.
In the end, it's all about taking action! If you don't take any but be a pessimist, NOTHING will happen!
Chances aren't always in front of you. Appreciate it. You may not know when it'll come again or never. It doesn't matter how you try to grab the opportunity, be it silly way or whatever. What matters is that you're doing the right thing!
So people, start taking action, don't just sit in front of the com pondering around!
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