Hong Kong 2007

虽然想念着小语倩， 但整个旅程还是玩到好开心

我们的 Second Honeymoon， 从Disneyland, 澳门到香港

老公精心的安排一切行程

是很累 但还是很感恩

什么感觉

明天我要去旅行，9天香港之旅... 然而这次的旅行切没有如期的期待或兴奋... 因为这9天的旅程，代表9天我没得见到小语倩...

当然我知道我的担心是不必要的... 但还是觉得好舍不得....

语倩不要哭... 妈咪和爹地也要二人世界来促进感情...

小语倩生气

今早小语倩生气，我叫她, 她不要应我... 不看我也不要对我笑...哈哈... 可爱的小Baby...

前两晚我把语倩留在家里，而我和老公下KL参加朋友婚礼... 平时晚上语倩都和我睡，这两晚切得跟婆婆睡... 婆婆说她两晚都在闹情绪，一下小声哭一下大声哭，然后又伤心的流泪, 不停的在找妈妈... 至到婆婆拿我一件衣服给她抱, 她才肯睡觉...

可怜的语倩, 妈咪在KL也很想很想你...

Out of the Box

This is exactly my position right now, trap in a box and keep running around looking for the exit. The exit never exist, sooner or later I will get exhausted and remain in the box forever.

This is a world that value papers more than your capability, a world that rank you based on the papers you own.

Enough of the humiliation... 跌了爬起来 我只会越战越猛...

母爱

随着语倩一天天的长大，我更舍不得她... 恨不得24小时都陪在她身边...陪她成长, 陪她学习... 现在的她开始认人, 看到妈咪和Daddy都会很兴奋的比手画脚....

我体会到强烈的母爱, 当然我知道公公婆婆会好好的照顾我的小语倩, 而我的担心也是多余的... 但我还是不放心... 每次她哭到泪汪汪的时候，我还是很难过...

每天早上, 语倩好懂事的看着我出门上班... 不闹也不吵... 看了让我更心疼...

无奈... 事业与家庭， 我都要兼顾到很好...

我的小语倩

语倩已经3 .5个月大，现在她会对我们笑，也会哈哈大笑...

有时她会撒娇，会发脾气，有时也会泪水汪汪的扮可怜...

多么不开心都好，只要看到她，我都感欣慰...

她最喜欢妈咪抱抱，所以每晚不管有多累，我都要抱着她入睡...

我是天蝎

天蝎座的人需要经常不断地处于忙碌之中。你喜欢亲自动手去做；喜欢改善自己的工作和生活环境；喜欢更新自己的想法，而不喜欢无所事事和庸庸碌碌的生活，那会使你丧失生机和活力。

你从不接受任何失败，如果遭到了挫折，你将会产生强烈的心理变态反应。而后你会从零开始，凭着顽强的意志和坚韧不拔的精神，重新奔向成功。你喜欢戏剧性的场面，会不时地在你前进的道路上导演一幕。最好不要成为你前进道路上的障碍，这是一个危险的竞争者和一个可怕的对手。

你将永远不会忘记失败的教训和自己所受的伤害。

天蝎座的人酷爱权力，喜欢有自己的思想方法。钱和物质对你是不可缺少的，但从不用它来束缚自己的手脚，你对那些对自己的事业、工作有过帮助的人，总是念念不忘...

天蝎座的人善于等待有利于自己的时机。一旦时机到来，你选定了自己要走的路，那么任何力量都无法除阻挡你的前进，你会经受住任何艰难困苦的考验。别人失败或弃阵逃脱的地方正是你建立自己成功业绩的圣地...

你喜欢慎重而深思熟虑的冒险行动，也很会利用自己的魅力和感召力去达到自己渴望的目的。

我是天蝎，我现在老板也是... 难怪!

出路

我吃得起苦
主唱：动力火车

走出去 就有路
寻见了 就有福

拥有了一切 都进了包袱
思念是带不走的
天空 疑云密布
心中 翻腾起伏
虽将飘摇 前途仍模糊
此地会是我 衣锦还乡处

飘洋过海 我吃得起苦
相信天无绝人之路

现实有咒诅 梦里有祝福
有缘同舟 风雨同渡

顶着 烈日当空 眼底有迷雾
不能再让懦弱困住

日子多坎坷 命运有变数
只盼久旱逢甘露

我不信前方再也无路可走，路本来就是人走出来的...

不再回头

不管什么选择，不管我的选择是对还是错，不管前方再多的挑战，再多的艰辛... 我都不会再回头...

原以为回头能把事事做到更好，原以为我能够以自己的大方与宽容改变一切, 原来一切只是自己的空幻想... 告诉自己, 别再如此天真的相信要你回头的人...

在感情上，我从不回头... 在事业上，本也该如此...

平衡点

我还在寻找，寻找一个平衡点。事业，家庭，孩子，老公，父母... 一个称职的好妻子，教儿育女的好妈妈，近孝道的好女儿，还有稳定的事业... 有时真的好累好累, 有时真的想放弃... 我的步伐开始乱，开始失去该有的冷静与平衡...

虽然我不是最好，但我已经尽了自己的能力做到最好...

一个两个三个

2005年的今天，一个人的我, 冷漠的生日, 宁静的夜晚，冰冷的晚风，孤独的街灯排排站的陪伴着我... 站在灯底下, 只有和我的影子拥抱来取暖...

2006年的今天，我生命里多了一个人... 有了他陪伴, 我不再孤单... 冰冷的夜晚，有个暖暖的怀抱... 灯底下有两个人走在一起的影子，幸福的笑声，还有对未来的曈景...

2007年的今天，我相信三个人的我们一样能够好幸福... 女儿给我的欢乐，还有你给我的一个家... 就是我最好的生日礼物... 我忘记了外面的寒冷... 因为家里满满的温暖与爱...

我寂寞过，孤单过，幸福过，平凡过... 人生就是如此有起有落, 只是我从来没放弃过...每一天努力的，在平凡中寻找最简单的幸福...

我找到了我想要的幸福, 在此祝福所有朋友, 望大家一样找到自己想要的幸福...生日快乐!

(今年的生日是在East Coast吹蜡烛切蛋糕, 我和你相遇的地方...)

Beautiful Hearts

来到我部落格的人，可能认为我成天沉醉在幸福里，炫耀自己，让人羡慕... 或认为我是新婚，所以可以如此潇洒!

其实事实并非如此... 我也有烦恼，也有不开心，也有生气的时候... 但为什么我都没有记载下来? 原因很简单，因为我只想记下开心的时刻，不开心的事，过了就算... 问题解决了就不再是问题！

婚姻的生活原本就不简单。我努力的再学习, 学习接受，学习感恩... 谁说一家人住在同一个屋檐下不会有问题... 只是我把问题化小, 幸福化大。

如果你问我过得好不好? 我的答案永远都一样，我过得很好很好... 你看到的也只有我的幸福，而不是烦恼... 我相信幸福本该就是很简单的事, 今天身边每一个人都健健康康, 这也是一种幸福...

Never take for granted every person close to your heart because you might wake up one day and realize that you have lost a diamond because you were too busy collecting stones.

Chinese Gender Chart

As legend would have it, the Chinese Gender Chart was buried in a royal tomb over 700 years ago. Recently discovered, the chart has been used to predict the gender of an unborn child based on the mother's age and month of conception.Simply find the age of the mother at the time of conception on the chart below and then follow across to the month the baby was conceived to find the predicted gender. Although this chart is said to have a success rate of over 90 percent, keep in mind that this is solely for entertainment purposes. Enjoy!



我希望下一胎生个男孩...不是我重男轻女, 而是家里有男有女就更完美... 而且有男孩, 家里灯炮坏马桶坏等等, 都有人修... 哈哈...什么道理.... :D

婚前婚后

忙忙碌碌... 总算开始恢复平定的生活... 也开始觉得茫茫...

婚后幸福吗? 我只能说是幸福, 但也增加了好多新的烦恼与问题... 终于了解结婚不是两个人的事... 而是两个家的事... 我得学习适应, 学习接受... 两个不同背景的人住在同一个屋檐下... 我只能很努力的做好自己本份...

老公还是一样对我很好...所以很多时候我不知道是我不够大方...还是问题不在我?

逼不得以

我回来了.. 其实并不是很想回来... 想到9点到6点都得关在一个小框框里对着电脑工作... 更糟的是我的心都不在那里... 真是逼不得以...

经过两个月日夜的陪伴着小语倩, 现在我得把她放给家婆照顾, 是多么的不舍... 在公司的第一天, 我脑海里想的都是小语倩, 不知道现在的她在做什么... 有没有哭闹... 昨晚语倩睡着后, 我看着她好久好久... 轻声的告诉她要乖乖在家... 妈咪很快就回来陪你...是有点笨, 但就是那么的不舍...

同事花了一番心思欢迎我归队... 好有意思... 很温馨...

一个月里的点点滴滴

时间过得好快... 女儿语倩已经满月... 回想起语倩出世到现在, 有点难以相信一个月就这样过去了... 生产的疼痛, 语倩的到来, 仿佛只是昨天的事...










第一个星期
从医院回来, 忙着搬进新家, 又忙着照顾小语倩, 大家都忙到团团转... 新家里很多东西都没有, 我刚生产, 什么都无法做, 只能靠老公东奔西跑... 家里的乱七八糟; 又要自己照顾女儿, 晚上得爬起身喂她; 产后的我身体很虚弱, 加上伤口和胸部的疼痛... 结果到了第三天, 我崩溃了... 老公看着哭泣的我也很歉疚... 毕竟这个时候的我应该好好休息, 但我却没得休息... 旧家的东西得尽快搬到新家, 又得自己照顾bb... 最可恶的是某些人的自私, 明知道我这里需要休息, 还把他们的孩子丢到我家来...又急着把我们旧房间租出去... 搞到我差点就得了产后忧郁...

第二个星期
把所有东西从旧房间搬了过来, 虽然我还有些疼痛, 但还是尽量收拾一些; 毕竟乱七八糟的我看不惯, 老公也忙到很累...一天一点, 慢慢的所有东西也安顿好了...

看着小小的语倩, 我还无法相信我就当了妈妈... 想到以后我的生活不再像以前一样自由自在, 不再只是二人世界, 不再随心所欲, 我有一些些的后悔... 夜深人静的时候, 我问你... 有没有后悔这么快有BB。 你说... 有什么后悔, 不久我们还要有第二第三个BB... 我...晕...

第三个星期
我脾气很坏, 可能是很累... 可能没得洗头... 可能没得好好洗澡让我浑身都不自在... 我知道不该对不懂事的小语倩发脾气, 但当她哭闹不停的时候, 我真的好无助... 可怜的老公, 可怜的BB... 再也受不了, 决定和老公出去透透气, 顺便到理发店洗个头... 果然有效... 人清爽, 情绪也好多了...

第四个星期
不知不觉小语倩仿佛开始听得懂, 开始会发脾气, 也开始会依赖着我和她爸爸... 我也习惯了有她的日子里... 抱着她, 看着可爱的她, 感到很温馨... 她最喜欢趴在老公的身上睡觉, 小小的身子和老公大体格对比, 真的好可爱...

我的大小宝贝...

20-07-2007

Today is a big event for us as we whole family will apprear in Singapore News tonite in channel 8 and U channel... A bit nervous when answering the questions by the repoter... All thanks to my little princess for want to announce her arrival through TV News... :)

My baby choose to come to this world on 20.07.2007, where as my EDD is on 26th July...

A special date for everyone of us...

Time for a Big Push!

19.07.2007 6.15pm
Off work and meet up with hubby at Donut Factory Suntec, hubby was queing to buy me some donut. Nice donut instead, no wonder have to queue for half an hour...

19.07.2007 7.30pm
Shop around for lighting for our new home... Get a new dining lights at $130

19.07.2007 9.00pm
Washed up the dishes after dinner, hubby even commented that I don't show any sign going for labour at all, as I still can jokes and move around... :P

19.07.2007 11.00pm
Start having a mild stomach cram, thought stomach wind so try to sleep early as tomorow still need to work... last day before start my maternity leave...

20.07.2007 1.00am
Some mild contraction like having constipation, try to pass motion but nothing come out. Hubby still working hard outside the room...The pain come and off every 20-25 minutes... try to catch some sleep as scared just false labour...

20.07.2007 4.00am
Wake up from the contraction, rush to toilet again as the constipation feel is getting intense... again nothing come out... See hubby sleep soundly, so try to wait till morning... the pain is every 15 minutes now...

20.07.2007 6.00am
The contraction is getting more intense now and come every 10 minutes... wake hubby and my mil up... mil said first labour is not that fast, so they asked me to wait a while more... Somemore I don't have any show like leaking of water bag or discharge with blood...

20.07.2007 7.00am
The contraction is unbearable, come and off every 5 minutes... never experience this kind of pain before.... can't take it anymore, faster have a shower + simple breakfast and get ready to KKH... Hubby busy sms for urgent leave... Pray hard that is not false labour, else wasting time and money...

2o.07.2007 8.15am
Reach KKH and proceed to delivery suite... I am in tears now as is very painful... the midwife check and told me my cervix had opened for 2cm... She asked me whether want to admit to delivery suite? I tell her let me consider first, well... KKH delivery suite is per minutes charges after 4 hours. Normally cervix will take 1 hour to dilate one cm, so for me it will be another 8 hours to fully dilate... Anyway the midwife make the decision for me and asked me to admit to delivery suite first as she saw me in tears again...

20.07.2007 8.30am
The nurse explained and show me 3 type of pain relieve drug available, there are laughing gas, epidural and another one dunno what injection...

20.07.2007 8.45am
My gynae Dr. HC Han came in and check on me, a bit relieve when saw him... He told me I am 6cm dilate, so another 3 hours before ready to give birth... Think he break my water bag as I feel leaking of water...

20.07.2007 8.55am
I am still discussing with hubby whether to use epidural... well... is not cheap, $300+ per injection... so better consider carefully... somemore the moment I saw the picture on how the epidural is done really scare me off. The injection will be on my backbone... so scary...

20.07.2007 9.10am
Still considering whether to use epidural... the contraction come on and off every 2 minutes... The nurse asked me to breath in and out using the laughing gas... I start crying now as is very painful...

20.07.2007 9.20am
The pain getting more intense... I am struggling on bed and start crying and hitting my hubby...

20.07.2007 9.25am
The midwife checked and found that I am 8cm-9cm dilate... I had lost my rationality now... screaming and crying in pain.... They called for Dr Han... I start pushing even before they asked me to... The midwife stopped me from pushing as I am not fully dilate yet..

20.07.2007 9.30am
Dr. Han came and told me that I am ready to give birth... He asked me to push whenever I feel the contraction... The next thing I know is I had totally lost rationality... screaming, kicking, struggling and crying of pain... Doctor, midwife, 2 nurses and my hubby hold my legs, hands and my body... Deep in my heart, I am praying hard for my baby safety, and I know no matter how hard it is, I must push her out...

20.07.2007 9.41am
Here come my little princess. I take a peep down and I saw my little baby there... Dr. Han was holding the umbilical cord... still hard to believe that the baby is actually come from my tummy... The next moment I know is I am in semi concious state, think is because inhaling too much of the laughing gas... Heard Dr. conversation with my hubby and the nurses, he said all his muscle aching now, like just finish a battle in the morning.... Guess I had hurt him while struggling to give birth just now...

20.07.2007 10.00am
Slowly open my eyes and saw my little baby... Dr congratulate me and I take the opportunity to apologize to him and the nurses for hurting them unintentionally while pushing my baby just now...

Thankful to Dr. Han, he is really a very nice and patience gynae... with his expertise and sense of humour, he really make my whole pregnancy a wonderful experience... When I am crying, he even asked me not to cry, else later BB cry Mummy also cry then police will come after him... haha...




My little princess, born at 2.612kg, natural birth with no epidural... :)








Welcome to motherhood, Eleen...

Countdown!

等待 等待bb的到来

现在的心情 紧张 兴奋 担心 感动 等等

希望新家整理好后 bb 才出世

感觉着我体内的小生命 她在里头已经有38个星期 好期待看到她的那一刻...

家 我们的家

早上, 我们一起到新家... 洒了一些米, 开火炉... 愿大家出入平安, 身体安康, 大福大贵... 在家里兜了一圈, 感觉好温馨... 紫白的配合让整家的感觉好温暖...

从新家走路到地铁站, 大约要8-10分钟... 天空下着毛毛雨, 我们掌着一把伞... 好想这样依偎着你, 永永远远...

地铁站里好多人, 我们前面站着一个漂亮女孩等着上地铁... 为了让我有好位子坐, 你不惜一切的强先一步让我先上地铁, 对那女孩, 我有些不好意思, 但也感到好窝心... 靠在你身边, 很想告诉你... 谢谢你给我的一切一切...

kiasu的妈咪

老公说我很kiasu, 因为我要继续工作到临产前...

其实不是我不想在家休息, 只是想到一个人在家的时候, 就会胡思乱想... 想东想西, 担心这担心那... 情绪乱七八糟, 无缘无故的哭... 等等... 朋友说这是很正常, 但我怕会导致Prenatal Depression... 所以还是让自己没空想太多比较好...

到公司来, 嘻嘻哈哈的过每一天岂不是更好... 妈咪开心bb也健康... 得感谢我的collegues, 下次请你们到我家来喝芦荟... 哈哈

To all guys out there: Women need support to take care of themselves, emotionally and physically, through this important life-changing event. So be more understanding to your wife. :)

p/s: 今天要到新家去看看, 下星期就拿钥匙了... Yeah!!!

选择快乐

我觉得快乐是可以选择...

每天带着大肚子塔公车上班,曾经几次遇到没人让位, 得在公车里站... 我可以很不快乐, 但我选择了快乐... 因为当看到老公心疼的样子, 急着为我找位子的时候, 我是快乐的...

有时候老公在国外公干, 我得自己去复诊, 孤单一个人等看医生...我可以很不快乐, 但我选择了快乐... 因为想到老公是那么辛苦的在外边为我和bb工作赚钱... 所以我是快乐的...

我们的新家, 所有的家具和电器都是前屋主廉价卖给我们的...我可以很介意很不快乐, 但我没有... 因为我知道我们的经济暂时无法周转... 而且想到就将有自己的家, 所以我还是快乐的...

在网上读到别人的经验, 为了小小的事而不快乐... 我觉得快乐不快乐是可以选择的...

p/s: 今天肚子痛, 很难受... 不是要生bb的痛, 而是纯脆的肚子痛...

我的天地

朋友说我的部落格很冷清...
原因很简单,
因为这个天地并没有受公开...

这里记载着我的点点滴滴,
伤心也好, 快乐也摆...
没有炫耀, 没有感人故事,
只有我真实的每一刻...

多少年以后... 这里就是我和你的故事,
提醒我们当初是如何去爱
从相遇, 相知到相爱
然后手携手走过的每一天...

思念...

昨晚, 睡不好...
我想我已经不习惯一个人睡...

夜里脚抽筋, 没有你的按摩
肚子痛时, 也没有你的安抚...
我想bb和我一样闷,
因为没人和他说话,
所以他不停的动来动去...

这一星期, 你会在北京公干...
我不停的计算, 希望这一星期快些过...

Happy Fathers Day

我没有庆祝过父亲节... 但以后的父亲节, 我都要孩子们为我的爱人庆祝... 因为我要他们感恩爸爸辛辛苦苦工作养家, 要他们和我一样, 尊重和爱护我的爱人... 就是他们的爸爸...

感觉自己好幸福, 幸福因为能够选择和自己所爱的人在一起... 比起我妈妈, 那年代的女人并无法选择自己所爱或不爱... 那种被安排的逼婚, 实在无法谈上什么幸福...

看到我家公家婆一把年纪了还会手牵手... 感到很温馨...

结婚对象

坦白说, 我和老公拍拖不到两三个月, 我就很想和他结婚... 并不是因为我很恨嫁, 或因为年龄而急着把自己嫁出去, 而是因为我知道我找到了自己想要的幸福... 他在别人眼里可能只是个普通的一个人, 但对我来说切是一切一切... 记得曾经有追求者一对我提起结婚... 我就会很恐惧然后给好多借口再然后逃之夭夭... 当时还以为我不够爱对方, 后来想想结婚除了爱, 其实还包含了好多因素...

你, 找到了自己想要的结婚对象吗?

首先，一个女人在挑选婚姻伴侣时，最看重的既不是财，也不是貌，而是对方的人品和性格。一个人品有问题的男人，即使能够得到女人的爱情，但这种爱情也是很难长久的，而想步入婚姻也是十分困难的，毕竟，现在每个女人都知道：跟一个人品有问题的男人一起生活，无疑是在枕边放了一枚定时炸弹，没准儿哪天就会让自己灰飞烟灭，跟这样的男人结婚，哪个女人都得心惊肉跳外加心理失态！另外，80%的离婚夫妻的离婚理由都是性格不合，可以说情投意合是两个人婚姻的最大保障！

其次，女人选择结婚对象时看重他的家庭条件。这也就是说，为什么出身名门的男人总是女人心目中的理想丈夫人选。很多男人的素质优劣是从小养成的生活习惯的总合，而且与家庭条件好的男人结婚就算不是想得到来自于婆家的帮助，也至少是可以减少一些不必要的负担，这也是很多城市女孩儿排斥“城乡结合式婚姻”最充分的理由。另外，男方家长的受教育程度以及工作条件也是要考虑的重点因素，毕竟婆媳关系是个千古难题，能遇上个通情达理的婆婆是每个女孩子的愿望，而在学历以及工作等方面高素质的婆婆更能与年轻人进行交流，这也是大部分的事实情况。
-- 我本身认为家庭条件是为了了解对方是在怎样的家庭环境和家教成长, 出身名门或贫苦并无关系...

再其次，是对方的职业状况。钱固然很重要，但跟劫匪毒贩一起过日子也是蛮恐怖的事情，钱是有了，安全全无，自然也就别谈幸福了！有一份稳固而且收入颇丰的职业，这样的男人女人最看重。

再再其次，是男人的朋友圈子，俗话说“近朱者赤，近墨者黑”，尤其是在现如今这样的“关系社会”中，一个人的成功绝对不是单枪匹马的成就，而是周围人努力的总合，周围全是狐朋狗友的男人，很难让女人看到成功的希望，自然也就很难让女人把他们当成理想伴侣人选。

最后，才是男人的相貌，女人总是对外貌条件优裕的男人投以青睐的目光，但真正要结婚时却往往更愿意挑选一位相貌不是那么太英俊的的男人做丈夫，毕竟帅男面临的诱惑太多，没准儿哪天，自己这位原配夫人就会成为下堂妻，生活在不安全的婚姻里，女人通常难以获得幸福！

当然，不论这些规则是明是潜，能够获得幸福，就是最重要的目的！

-- 摘自网上文章

Relationship after Having a Baby

Just read an article which I find is very true, it is about how to maintain a healthy relationship after having babies. The importance to balance up my time for my hubby, baby and career is my concern now, I don't mind to sacrifice my rest time or my pay check if that could bring us a happy family. After all, arrival of baby is to strengthen the family bond between us, not to torn us apart...

Becoming parents is a joyful time for couples. You bond over baby, you delight in each milestone. But once the children start arriving, it's an ongoing struggle to make time for yourself, for each other, and most of all, as a couple.

In the most successful marriages, couples make it a point to spend time together. So, designate a regular slot to share some couple time. Don’t waste it discussing your children or the household budget. Use it to keep each other updated on what's happening in your life, and for having fun!

So my plans are:

1. Travel once a year with hubby without bringing baby along.

2. Dinner or movies date twice a month.

3. Cook at least once a week.

Hope babies will understand this theory too... :D

Say Hello to Auntie!

Oh... since when my status is upgraded to Auntie? Still can't believe that just after few months, my title is changed from "jie jie" to auntie... That was a young father, who addressed me auntie in front of his son... aiyo... I can't get used to that title yet.... :(

I am at KKH Private Suite... waiting waiting... hubby was beside me, reading newspaper... The place was cosy even tough it is so crowded, just wonder is it because of the year of pig, that so many ladies get pregnant...

With my big tummy, think I can't get small kids to call me "jie jie" anymore...

我喜欢...

我喜欢 每个早上亲一下你的脸峡
让你那一天上班都是甜甜蜜密

我喜欢 每个晚上亲一亲你的脸峡
让我带走你一天工作的疲惫

只因为我相信爱情需要付出
婚姻需要努力
两个人需要多少的包容
还有多少的谅解
来建立美满的家...

麥阿喜

我的下班歌... haha

幸福就在你左右

你说想买车, 我也希望我们有自己的一部车... 从没告诉过你, 好喜欢坐在你身边让你载着去兜风... 你右手捉着驾驶盘, 左手握着我的右手... 就是这么一个简单的举动, 幸福从我的右手传达到心里... 看着外面的风景, 听着音乐, 不需任何言语... 你掌心给的是无比的安全感, 还有多少的幸福...

多少年以后, 希望你还会记得牵起我的手... 因为幸福就在你我左右...

Would You Be There

好喜欢这首歌... 看完了"幸福双人床", 很感动很感触... 茫茫人海中, 两个人能够走在一起, 其实已经不简单... 往往很多人就是忘了去珍惜去感恩...

Would You Be There - Redwan Ali

If I were blue, would you be there for me,
And whisper in my ears that’s okay,
Would you stand by me,
let me hold you tight, And say you love me one more time.

If I feel good, would you slow dance with me,
And touch my lips with tender love and care
Would you die for me, would you run with me,
And never look back..

Would you be there to love, to be with me?
Would you swear that your love is always true?
Would you say that you’ll always be the one,
to take my breath away?

Would you be there to love, to be with me?
Would you swear that your love is always true?
Would you say that you’ll always be the one,to take my breath away?
Would you be there…

If I were grey, would you still think of me?
And wish that you could hold me now,
Would you die for me?Would you run with me?All away…
Would you be there to love, to be with me?

Would you swear that your love is always true?
Would you say that you’ll always be the one,to take my breath away?
Would you be there to save my soul tonight,
Would you swear that your love is always true?

Would you say that you’ll always be there,to kiss my pain away?
Would you be there to love, to be with me?
Would you swear that your love is always true?
Would you say that you’ll always be the one,to take my breath away?
Would you be there to save my soul tonight,
Would you swear that your love is always true?
Would you say that you’ll always be there,to kiss my pain away?
Would you be there…for me…

勇往直前

我們可以轉身，但是不必回頭，即使有一天，妳發現自己走錯了，妳也應該轉身，大步朝著對的方向去，而不是回頭怨自己錯了...
~~刘镛

好喜欢朋友blog里的这句话, 人生本来就该这样...

爱我 就爱我的全部

如果有个男人要你去整容或对你的外形指三点四, 我想这个男人不要也罢... 我遇过, 所以我能体会那心如刀割的感觉. 被心爱的人批评, 虽然说者无意, 表面上我也是不介意, 但心里的伤害是难免的... 我很庆幸没有和这样的男人在一起, 两个人在一起, 谁也没有欠谁, 为何要忍受对方给你的伤害?

爱我, 就爱我的全部... 我的缺点我的优点, 还有我无法改变的外形... 就如我给的爱一样, 没有批评没有怨言的去接受你的一切... 真正的爱, 是打从心里, 不是光靠外表...

ps: 至我的好友Alice : 有天你会找到懂得珍惜你的人...

不舍...

凌晨六点多...朦朦中爬起来送dear dear 出门公干... 这一星期我们又两地相隔... 很不舍很不舍, 但想到老公是去工作赚钱... 所以很体恤他的辛苦...

有时候短暂的分开也是件好事, 虽然不舍, 但是给彼此一些空间... 当我们再相见时, 更会珍惜在一起的时刻...

Our Home

Today is our first appointment with HDB for flat purchase. We are so excited of course, thinking of the 5 room flat at 15th floor that going to be ours soon... but on the other hand, we feel the pressure as well, the financial stress that we have to commit and the amount of cash that we have to fork out before July. I can sense that hubby have more pressure than me, anyway I believe that we can cope this together and everything will go on smoothly...

钱不是万能, 但没有钱万万不能... 当所有计划都一起进行-honeymoon, 结婚, BB, 新屋都在同个时间里... 那种钱不够用的无奈我是了解的... 然而这些都不是问题, 因为时间会解决一切... 想到我们就要有个自己的家, 就好兴奋... Dear Dear 还借了室内设计的书看, 又看家私看电器的... 期待...期待... 期待拿钥匙的那一天...

Ideal Time Frame

什么是Ideal Time Frame? 有人告诉我至少要用两年来了解一个人, 才可以谈婚论嫁... 我很好奇... 两年就可以了解一个人吗? 少过两年就不够了解? 了解后如果觉得不适合呢? 那会不会因了解而分开? 好矛盾的话题...

我本身觉得没什么所谓的Ideal Time Frame, 有些人需要一辈子来了解, 有些人可能一辈子都无法去了解... 没错, 婚姻是一辈子的事, 当然是急不来... 在对的时间遇上对的人... 然后谈婚论嫁计划未来, 一切是很自然的过程, 并不需要什么Time Frame...

Hubby's Birthday

还是家最温暖...


Hubby's brother bought him a birthday cake too, so we have another celebration at home...

Forget all about the unpleasant dinner, we had our cake cutting at our cosy home... yummy yummy...

Happy Birthday dear!

The Worst Dining Experience

Is my hubby birthday, and I wish to plan for a simple yet romantic dinner for him. We went to this "My Secret Garden" at Bugis and thought of spending our nice evening there... but... everything turn out to be in great disappointment later...

First, we get a garden seat, no doubt the view is nice, but there is mosquito coil just right behind me. Due to preggie, I don't wish to inhale too much of the mosquito coil throughout my dinner... no choice we have to change seat to sit inside the restaurant instead... no more nice niew, no romantic ambience... and is too noisy for romance mood...

We had our maincourse dinner, the portion is quite small that we don't feel full enough. Hubby said is ok as I had prepare him a home baked cake... but, to my great dismay, the staff told us that we had to pay SGD10 to eat my own baked cake in their restaurant... huh... x#!~%#$ ... I am so angry that immediately foot the bil and left the restaurant.

The dinner is not cheap, it cost us SGD85.50 for a starter, 2 main course and 1 drink. I am so regret to go there...and spoil my dear dear evening... The service is bad, the food is normal only, with that amount of spending, I would rather go to Clarke Quay, Mount Faber, Villa Bali or any Hotel dining, which offer better service and nice ambience... Feel bad to my dear, sigh...

Normal restaurant that serve western food, nothing special at all for a fine dining...














No cake as we need to pay SGD10 to take out my self-baked cake. :(

Baking Baking

Spend my Labour Day holiday to bake again. Without instructor around, try to bake my own Molten Chocolate Cakes and add in some decoration as well...

Dear dear birthday is coming, I wish to bake 29 nice cupcakes for him, as he is turning 29 soon. At last only manage to create 24, as I am too tiring to continue... no choice, baby need some rest too...

Anyway for his coming birthday, we will be eating the cakes that I baked. 简单的浪漫... :)

Molten Chocolate Cakes

My first Molten Chocolate Cake, although the look is so so only, but the taste is quite nice... my dear dear also said nice... :D

This is what I had learnt from the 2 hours baking class... have a lot of fun there... below is my chocolate truffle - brandy flavor.

Brighten up my days...

You Are My Sunshine
My only sunshine.
You make me happy
When skies are grey.
You'll never know, dear,
How much I love you.
Please don't take my sunshine away

开始唱baby歌, 说baby故事...

最近心情有点怪怪, 一时开心一时担心, 一时好心情一时坏脾气... Dear Dear 说是我EQ 低, 我已经尽量很努力的控制情绪...

刚刚在网上读到:
Pregnancy can make you vulnerable to emotional swings, caused not only by hormones and physical change, but psychological change, too.

hmmm... 想想可爱的baby吧, 就会有好心情... Weekend is coming... yeah!

Personal Growth

Suddenly feel that I need to do something for my life, some self-improvement and personal growth. I admit that I have been slacking for quite some time, even my english language skill is getting from bad to worst... when there is no progression, it cause me low self-esteem and lack of motivation too...

After a deep thought, I think I am not prepared to turn into a full-time housewive yet. Even my hubby, I don't think he want a "huang nian po" (full-time housewive in mandarin)... even tough he always mentioned that he don't need me to feed the family, yet I think it always good if I can share every burden with him, financially and emotionally. And what most important is, I wish I can be a good wife and good mom at home, and presentable to the outside world as well. (进得厨房, 出得厅堂) I know there are a lot of successful working mum out there, just hope I can be one of them. :)

The desire to improve myself is getting stronger days by days... this coming friday is my first baking class, and there are a lot more that I wish to do for self progression... further study maybe... Live Life to the Fullest!

2007 Year End Trip - Hong Kong

是有点太早, 老公已经计划2007年尾的香港之旅... 今年我们会在那里过圣诞节... 看着他兴致勃勃的又定机票又定酒店的... 感到好窝心... 每一次的旅行, 都是老公计划一切... 从旅程, 酒店, 节目等等... 而我就只负责收拾行李出发... 嘻嘻, 什么也没做...

两天Disneyland, 两天澳门, 三天香港...吃东西买东西... 婚后的第一个旅行... 好期待好开心...

Melt - The World Cafe

Sunday lunch buffet at MELT - The World Cafe, situated inside The Oriental Hotel. All thanks to the lucky draw voucher that my hubby got from his company annual dinner, give us the chance to taste all the superb foods in a very nice environment. We started from Indian Cuisine, Local Delight, Thai Foods, Japanese Sushi to Dessert Waffle, Fruits and cakes, till our stomach can't take in anymore food. I will never forget the great taste of the pumpkin soup, mashed potatoes, mango cakes, and the tomyam soup... thinking back really make me badly craving for them...

Foods, people, ambience, service and everything there leave a very good impression on both of us... what a nice sunday afternoon... :)

More about MELT - http://www.mandarinoriental.com/hotel/509000167.asp

幸福的星期天...

不解风情的男人

最近在报章上读到关于"不解风情的男人" ... 老婆穿着性感新衣在老公面前晃呀晃, 老公眼神切没有离开电脑荧幕看一下或赞几句... 好不解风情...

想想, 其实我的他也不是一个很解风情的男人... 没有甜言蜜语没有浪漫惊喜... 在还没结婚前我就清楚的知道... 他的兴趣就是看报纸, 可以从早看到晚... 从早报, 晚报到网报, 有杀过没放过...

然而就是这样的他, 让我感到实实在在的幸福... 在家看报纸至少不是在外边看女人... 没有甜言蜜语的谎言与哄骗... 没有浪漫惊喜, 切有真实的感动... 他从来不让我担心, 所说的都会去实现...

所以说不解风情的男人有何不好?

My 2nd Pandan Cake

My second experiment on baking a pandan cake. Frankly, I never try baking any cake before, and this pandan cake is also created base on my own imagination following my good friend - Alice's recipe.

Although not that nice, but at least this one look better than the first experiment, which doesn't look like cake at all... :D

Failure is the path to success, so another cake baking next weekend...

Chilli Crab @ Peony Jade

Going back to Peony Jade again after 2 weeks of our wedding dinner there. We have this SGD50 dining voucher that we plan to use it for our chilli crab fest at their restaurant... :D

Quite amazed with their seafood restaurant situated beside great river view at Clarke Quay, the ambience and the view there is totally different from normal chinese seafood restaurant. It just feel like I am having chinese dinner in a foreign country...

Guess how much the chilli crab cost? It is about SGD80 for 1.5KG. Much more expensive than normal restaurant, but the taste is soooo nice... yummy yummy.... a nice chilli crab for me and hubby...

Where your passion lies...

Just read this from an article:

If you could do one thing to transform your life, I would highly recommend it be to find something you’re passionate about, and do it for a living.

Now, this isn’t as easy as it sounds, but it’s well worth the effort. If you dread going to your job, or find yourself constantly lacking motivation, or find what you’re doing dull and repetitive, you need to start looking for a new job. Staying in your current job will not only continue to make you unhappy, but you are not realizing your full potential in life.

Imagine this instead: you get up early, jumping out of bed, excited to go to work. You might put in more hours than the average person, but it doesn’t seem difficult to you, because your work hours just zoom right by. You are often in that state of mind often referred to as “flow,” where you can lose track of the world and time, losing yourself in the task at hand. Work is not work as many people refer to it, but something that is fun and interesting and exciting. It’s not a “job” but a passion.

If you’ve got a job you dislike, or even hate, this will sound like a pipe dream to you. And if you never put in the effort to find what you’re passionate about, you’re right: such a thing will never be possible. But dare to dream, dare to imagine the possibilities, and dare to actually search for what you love, and it is not only a possibility, but a probability.

Something was missing... the passion in my career...

Happiness is...

好喜欢 Trav's blog 里得来的一句话...

Happiness is... Life without worries...

现在的我是开心的, 没有不开心的事, 所以就开心... 没有让我担心的事, 所以就开心...

我追求的只是平淡... 平淡而不单调的一生... 平淡而简单的幸福... :)

3天2夜@Bintan Lagoon

好开心的假期 因为和老公还有一班朋友相约到Bintan Lagoon玩... 虽然知道以目前的状况, 很多海上游戏是我无法参与的... 但还是很开心去度假...

我们住的是 Angsoka Villa, 两层楼的别墅, 五个房间... 别墅后面是泳池, 再后来就是蓝蓝的大海...

好舒服的假期... 好轻松的时刻... 躺在沙发看VCD, 打麻将, 煮东西吃...看夕阳, 吹海风, 与浪玩耍...

For more info : http://web.bintanlagoon.com

Jin Niu Family

A special gift from Travis, find this very very cute... :D

PS: Jin Niu is nickname given by my collegues to my hubby, because he is taurus.

告别pink color

告别了我blog之前的pink... 没为什么, 只是想改变而改变...

不知怎么, 换来换去还是无法找到能够代表我的颜色...

为什么问为什么？

为什么我那么幸福会有个伟大的妈妈？
为什么我那么幸福会有个开通的爸爸？
为什么我那么幸福会有个有趣的哥哥？
为什么我那么幸福会有个疼我的姐姐？
为什么我那么幸福会有个可爱的表妹？
为什么我那么幸福会在笨珍外婆家长大？
为什么我那么幸福会有个好大婶？
为什么我那么幸福会在kobian studio 与eleen, travis, xristony一起工作？
为什么我那么幸福会有那么多的好朋友？
为什么我那么幸福会得到你的爱？
为什么我那么幸福会有人追求？
为什么我那么幸福会吃到那么多好吃的东西？
为什么我那么幸福还能工作？
为什么我那么幸福那么健康？
-- from alice's blog

朋友写了好多为什么, 我说因为她看到了身边小小的幸福... 幸福那么简单, 你看到了吗?

朋友

"There are a lot of support around, just wait for you to step out. "

中学朋友的一句话, 让我感到好窝心好感动... 朋友, 我们可能好久没见面, 也好久没联络... 可能彼此都不知道彼此的状况, 但只要我们肯踏出那一步... 从被动变主动, 去联络好久没见面的朋友... 就会发现其实还有很有很多的关怀与支持在我们身边...

几何时... 我开始犹疑"朋友"这个字。当知道自己无知又天真的被所谓的朋友利用与诈骗后... 感到百般的无奈, 百般的不解... 当时和你初初约会, 我对你轻轻叹说... 我已经不知道什么是朋友... 看着无助的我... 我知道你不舍得再伤害我那小小的心灵...

爱情友情, 我都曾深深的受伤害过。然而因为有你... 一切都雨过天晴...

告别... 单身

今天是我们的周年纪念, 也是我们告别了单身的一天... 就在2月22日...

简单的仪式, 简单的浪漫...浓浓的情意...

Valentine's 2007

今年的情人节，我以为不会再有任何惊喜... 然而当我在公司楼下收到你的紫玫瑰的时候, 是那么开心那么甜蜜...

我们的晚餐是在 Unplugged Karaoke 里... 一个简单的民歌餐厅... 不是很贵的晚餐, 但充满了我想要的气氛...

难得的是当你上台唱歌给我听的时候, 你那紧张的表情, 脸红的模样... 是我这辈子都不会忘记的... 你说unplugged 真的很难唱... 这我当然也知道... 只是我就是喜欢听你的歌声... :D