If you spend too much time thinking about your past,
how can you focus on moving forward?

阿桑 一直很安静

作词:方文山
作曲:如花如岳
编曲:屠颖

空荡的街景 想找个人放感情
做这种决定 是寂寞与我为邻

我们的爱情
像你路过的风景
一直在进行脚步
却从来不会为我而停

给你的爱一直很安静
来交换你偶尔给的关心
明明是三个人的电影
我却始终不能有姓名

你说爱像云
要自在飘浮才美丽
我终於相信
分手的理由时候很动听

给你的爱一直很安静
来交换你偶尔给的关心
明明是三个人的电影
我却始终不能有姓名

给你的爱一直很安静
我从一开始就下定决心
以为自己要的是曾经
却发现爱一定要有回音

给你的爱一直很安静
来交换你偶尔给的关心
明明是三个人的电影
我却始终不能有姓名

给你的爱一直很安静
除了泪在我的脸上任性
原来缘份是用来说明
你突然不爱我这件事情

You won't be able to shake off your deep feelings today,
no matter how many distractions you may be given.
What's in your mind is not going to go away until you deal with it head on.
So you need to have that conversation, write that email, ask for that raise, or do whatever else intimidating thing you're avoiding doing.


The toughest move is the hardest one to make,
but it is the one you need to make.

You have the strength,
so why are you even doubting yourself?

** Horoscope reading for Aquarius:

You can't be perfect all the time,
but you certainly can be good most of the time.
Things are not either all bad or all good,
so quit trying to reach perfection.
-- it is wasting your energy, frustrating you, and
most importantly, keeping you from doing positive things.

Just take it easy on yourself right now.
You need to slow down and let go of a few things that you can't control.
Once you do, you'll suddenly see all the areas where you can make a difference.


all so true....

haiz.


*now so stressed in sch work n my fyp...

study hard and work hard shd be the priority now....

taken from a email:

CONTENTMENT

Have you ever, at any one time, had the feeling that life is bad, real bad,and you wish you were in another situation? You find life make things difficult for you, work sucks, life sucks,everything seems to go wrong...

Read the following story... it may change your views about life:

After a conversation with one of my friends, he told me despite taking 2 jobs,he brings back barely above 1K per month, he is happy as he is. I wonder how he can be as happy as he is considering he has to skimp his life with the low pay to support a pair of old parents, in-laws, awife, 2 daughters and the many bills of a household. He explained that it was through one incident that he saw in India that happened a few years ago when he was really feeling low and touring India after a major setback.

He said that right in front of his very eyes he saw an Indian mother chop off her child's right hand with a chopper. The helplessness in the mother's eyes, the scream of pain from the innocent 4-year-old child haunted him until today.

You may ask why did the mother do so; had the child been naughty, had the child's hand been infected??
No, it was done for two simple words - -
- -TO BEG!

The desperate mother deliberately caused the child to be handicapped so that the child could go out to the streets to beg. Taken aback by the scene, he dropped a piece of bread he was eating half-way. And almost instantly, a flock 5 or 6 children swamped towards this small piece of bread which was covered with sand, robbing bits from one another.
--> The natural reaction of hunger.

Stricken by the happenings, he instructed his guide to drive him to the nearest bakery. He arrived at two bakeries and bought every single loaf of bread he found in the bakeries. The owner was dumbfounded but willingly sold everything. He spent less than $100 to obtain about 400 loaves of bread (this is less than $0.25 per loaf) and spent another $100 to get daily necessities. Off he went in the truck full of bread into the streets. As he distributed the bread and necessities to the children (mostly handicapped) and a few adults, he received cheers and bows from these unfortunate.

For the first time in his life he wondered how people can give up their dignity for a loaf of bread which cost less than $0.25.
He began to tell himself how fortunate he is.
How fortunate he is to be able to have a complete body, have a job! , have a family, have the chance to complain what food is nice and what isn't nice, have the chance to be clothed, have the many things that these people in front of him are deprived of...

Now I begin to think and feel it, too!
Was my life really that bad?
Perhaps... no, I should not feel bad at all...
What about you?
Maybe the next time you think you are, think about the child who lost one hand to beg on the streets.



"Contentment is not the fulfillment of what you want, it is the realization of how much you already have. "

"When the door of happiness closes, another opens, but often times we look so long at the closed door that we don't see the one which has been opened for us. "

It's true that we don't know what we've got until we lose it, but it's also true that we don't know what we've been missing until it arrives.

The happiest of people don't necessarily have the best of everything;they just make the most of everything that comes along their way.

The brightest future will always be based on a forgotten past,you can't go on well in life until you let go of your past failures and heartaches.


(-o-")

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The Nurturer You have a strong need to belong, and you very loyal.A good listener, you excel at helping others in practical ways.In your spare time, you enjoy engaging your senses through art, cooking, and music.You find it easy to be devoted to one person, who you do special things for. In love, you express your emotions through actions.Taking care of someone is how you love them. And you do it well! At work, you do well in a structured environment. You complete tasks well and on time.You would make a good interior designer, chef, or child psychologist. How you see yourself: Competent, dependable, and detail oriented When other people don't get you, they see you as: Boring, dominant, and stuck in a rut

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