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Mothers may have better spatial memory than females who haven't given birth, and they may be more flexible, adaptive, and courageous. These are all skills and talents they will need to keep track of and protect their babies... This transformation holds true even for adoptive mothers.
We three Aussies got these tats done a few years ago in Melbourne before all heading off to different parts of the globe.
Kerryn loves Kurt Vonnegut and decided to get "And so it goes" (a recurring line from Slaughterhouse Five) tattooed on her shoulder.
Finally on the other side of three decades worth of bad shit, Gil decided to get "And so it was" tattooed on her back representing the past that she has moved on from but that made her who she is.
And Meg, the eternal optimist decided to get "And so it will be" on her right arm as a symbol of the charm of the unknown.
We reunited this afternoon for a few brief hours before we were once again claimed by different time zones.
It forced one to "let go", just for a brief moment, of the total control we're so used to exerting through commerce. It led you to taste something new, that you might not normally have ordered. It was a delight.