Almost 3 years....

I can’t believe it... my last post is written in 2015 & now is already 2018!!!

Who will still write blog or read blog these days?

Instagram stories has fastest updates hahaha...

While I was browsing through my posts, I saw my previous house renovation post!

Just to update! We have shifted to a newer estate 2 weeks ago!

But I didn’t post much in blogspot coz all updates all in instagram stories these days :x

Well, this is my 4th time doing renovation including my mom’s place, my office...

So I think I already know what are the wants & needs for the house this time :x

Managed to cut the budget by half from previous renovation.

Pretty amazed by myself hahaha...

Dunno how to update my photos through phone to blogger apps. So no picture to show but those who have added me should have seen my frequent updates in Instagram.

Anyway, dunno when will be my next post.

Till next time ;) because I’m a busy working mother with 3 noisy kids now! 🤪

不知不觉已经过了....

时间飞逝……不知不觉也过了5个月！

我们家的小宝贝也五个月了！

妈妈看着你快乐的成长觉得很欣慰😍

Well last month I'm still worried about her growing development because during her growth check I was told that her head being too small (only 3 percentile) than average baby & was referred to the NUH PD for further check up. But I'm glad to know that she is normal. PD mentioned the size of the head doesn't matter what matter most is the milestones. 

My this girl can flip before she turned 5 month and she reacted to sound very quickly so I guess she is all well lah :) Just that she is born with smaller head.

However I see her photo I don't find her head small.

Here's another cute photo of her.

YX at 5 months old!

I'm a mother of 3 now!

Yup! God is good! 

Last year Christmas, my hubby & I prayed for a baby girl & this year we welcomed a baby girl just few wks before Christmas! 

Well, I have wanted a natural delivery without epidural. Thinking that since it's the last kid I wanted to experience how pain will that be (yes kind of crazy me) but ended up I'm tested GBS positive & heard that if come out through birth canal the baby will have chances of infected. 

Her head actually turned down but after I heard the news, I think I'm worried about her being infected and who knows the following next scan she turned herself up again in a breech position. 

And same as my 2nd child, she was a late term premie too came out at 36 weeks & weighed 2.47kg slightly heavier than her 二哥. Thank god, there is no need for her to stay in NICU :) This time round is detected due to the frequent contraction that I have been experiencing since last Tuesday (8 dec 2015). Went back to TMC to track my contraction warded in for a night to stop it. Who knows next day discharge after taking the medicine & after a nap my contraction comes again... This time round gynae told me to pack my hospital bag because very high chance we need to do an urgent c section as my baby cannot wait to come out. 

So around 6pm I was warded to the labour ward again track the contraction & I was dilated 1.5cm Dr Joy told us there is no advantages of delaying the contraction so she gave her best advice to do c sect at 8pm.

Before going in to the op theatre we prayed again. I'm quite nervous about going for c sect & kinda disappointed that I have to c sect but I told myself baby safety is more impt! 

So by 8.31pm she was out in our arms.

Hi! My pretty little princess YX :)

Well we have always wanted 3 kids but my hubby actually thought of stopping at 2. Is after much persuasion and discussion we decided just to try for a 3rd kid and hoping that it will be a girl. We prayed and I changed my diet just to have this little princess. 

Ok our ideal sibling sequence is 1st one is boy, 2nd one is girl & last one is a boy. But I think God has his own plan. Who knows if our 2nd one is a girl we might have just stop at 2 kids. So I always believe everything just happen for a reason and God will always have a better plan for us :)

We are really thankful that now our little family is completed.

Have been bringing YX for blood test for the past 2 days to check her jaundice level & tomorrow need to go again.

Dear lord, I prayed that her jaundice level will drop and there is no need for her to admit to hospital. I sincerely pray that the weather will be good so we can sun her to bring down her jaundice. These few days the weather has been very gloomy until we have no chance to sun her at all. Pray that tomorrow everything will be good. In Jesus name we pray... Amen!

我可爱的女儿 :)

Spare the rod spoil the kid

It's getting harder to discipline the older one. And I have to admit it's to the extend that I might lost my stand! 

I know I have to be calm when handling his mischevious behaviors but it's really not easy when he keep repeating them! 

Today the teacher told me he spitted on his friends & her. The moment she told me I'm already looking at YR with my black face... And when I asked him why did he want to do that. He told me because he wants to play with his saliva. That even make me more mad so when we are homed he got caned by me. Of coz he cried like mad but after a while he feels nothing happen again.  This again makes me think does he really understand that he is behaving wrongly? 

After that writing time, he misbehaving again. So I scream & shout, caned the table & chair. To a point I feel I need to stop. If I continue I think I'll lose control. 

Now reflecting back, I think his misbehaviour in school affected my mood tonight. Sometimes as the parent I should always remind myself to keep cool. Frequent shouting, screaming & caning might affect his growing up well being. After all he is only a 4 years old kid. 

Dear father lord, Pls bless me with ur wisdom & patience when comes to disciplining the kids. I don't want my relationship with my kids turn bad. I don't want him to be scared of me instead.  

I used to be very scared of my mom because I used to get cane a lot for bad results and I think it somehow affected my character. I was very inferior during my school days. Scared to show my mom my report book. Sometimes also scared to ask her question. In the end we are not very closed during my young age. We only become closer when I got married & become a mom. 

I don't want this history to be repeated on my son. So I must remind myself. Stay calm & think of alternative way to discipline YR. Yes I can do it!

Finally found!

Yeah! Finally found a swimming school for YR! I've been requesting for months actually but they keep rejecting him due to his young age! They only accept 4 years old kid.

But thank god now they finally allow YR to attend the swimming lesson earlier even though he hasn't turn 4!

Looking forward to his 1st lesson! Life skill is very important and u need to start young! That's something I learnt from my MIL & I totally agree :)