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== Took at 20th October, before interview session ==

幸福

今天，
陪我到UTAR,PJ.. 出席我的soft skill ceremony...
带我到Manhanttan Fish Market吃了一顿丰富的午餐~
还有你把你的HTC给了我用！

还以为你会把 SII 视为宝贝,不让我用！
是我错了~
因为，你开口说让我用！

谢谢你~

发现，你越来越疼我了~

♥ Poisoned_Part_II ♥

Tonight will be a sweet and sour night..
Why??
♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ 
S.W.E.E.T
He come over here to make me happy..
He accompany...
He really love me.. I can feel it... 
♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ 
S.O.U.R
He can not stay with me for tonight.. Feel lonely..
This weekend only can meet him.. because, I busy........
♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ 
During our dinner... I suddenly told him that he is not allowed to leave me alone..
Must take care for his own health.. When old, Let me go to heaven before he leave me!
I am serious with this... 
Because, i went to take my lunch alone, i feel sad and only i realized i cant stay alone...
When i told him about it.. He smile.. 
After that, he asked me don think about it... He also don want to think about it...
Yes..! i should not think about this kind of stuff... 
**Must have Positive Mind Power**


Thank you, darling for accompany!
I miss you already.. 
p/s: just dont wan to admit in front of you..
      Later u look semangat!! haha..........
♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ 

♥ Poisoned_Part_I ♥

I had been in few extreme situation...

Went to Kevin's house... Over night there!

I scare to meet his parent... 

Luckily everything fine..

His mum gave me a pair of pink colour slipper...

After that, she said my coconut bracelet ugly..

So, she gave me a new bracelet which she bought from Sabah..

I keep laughing on his mum words.. "ugly bracelet.."

At the moment, i feel like wan to hug his mum... and said "thank you"

Bt, i no dare to do so.... 

Yesterday noon, i was request Kevin bring me out to shopping... 

Just window shopping.. I have nothing to buy so..

During, we passed by the Burger King..

We took Burger King as our lunch...

5.45pm..

We went for the movie "Dream House"..

Dream House is the nice movie.. Both of us also pitiful for the main actor..

He love his family and he stay with his wife and two daughters in his imagination! 

Although, they were dead for 5 years. 

The story is touching..

After movie, we decided go to Kota Damansara to meet Irene..

Since, she always said want to meet Kevin..

We took dinner together.. and Kevin keep laugh at me with Irene...

At last, i angry..! Don't want give him good bye kiss when back home...

Damn.. i feel sad afterward.. Thought want turn back and give.. 

But, he already at home.. Too bad.. I cant give him..

I know he also sad! and He sent me two apologize messages..  

Night... I feel suffer.. Before sleep... I miss his hug...!

Only that I realized I really scare to stay alone... 

炫 Xuan Cafe

WoW...
Feel so great tonite....
I went out with my cousin...
Eikyi MuzicCafe is the first station we hang out...!
This cafe look nice..! They used Singer albums to design as apart of decoration..
Most of the albums are signed with the singer!
The environment is being you relax.. Soft music is around..
Nice to have a talk with friends...

 

 

 

 

Second station is Xuan Cafe....
Xuan Cafe is kind of live music cafe...
This was something special happened...
I 1st time stand on the stage and presented my voice with live band...
Good experience!! Fun....

Happy Birthday to You

Recalling my memory with the a piece of picture!

I almost forget how he look like in 7 years ago...

After he change his profile picture... 

My mind started thinking the our love story in Nilai...

Tear dropping down...

I miss you much...

Today is his b'day! 28 years old...

12am sharp...

I hurry up pass him his b'day present..

I want him.. faster open the present that i bought for him...

( Macam my b'day like tat.. haha)

He look so excited..

My heart suddenly feel touch... 

I keep my tear in my heart...

He like a kid.. "biji" with packing his staff..

move all the staff from old pouch to new pouch!!

This is the first b'day present i bought for him...

Hope coming years b'day i wont miss all ur b'day!!

**muak**

I wish my dear all the dream come true... love you...!

While Looking at YOU

Yesterday Night...

looking at your face while u sleeping..

I heart feel pain when u was snoring... 

Worry about your healthy...

I started falling in to this relationship!

OMG... ><"....

This is our second time to stay with each other!

We have to appreciate this relationship...

Dont jz like last time....

Today Morning....

After you finish bath you only wake me up...

You hope i can sleep more! Thank you... **muuak**

But, I still blamed u!! hahahaa....

So Sorry...! Let u disappointed 

I not going to meet any boyfriend that u mention in your sentences.

The main reason i went to I Utama is to find your "Dueter" pouch!

I spent a lot of time to get your pouch!!!

Finally, i found!!! Yeahhhh...

Dont know how to description that kind of feeling...

WOOOH.... Excited...

The bad things is... it only haf one pattern!! 

And the price is out of my budget... 

Pity..! Sigh..!!!!

And i trying to find other shop see whether can get another style!

But, I walked through all the shop!!! Result is..I cant get any other...

So, I get back to the shop again!! 

I bought it.... 

I hope u will like it... Use it all the way...

The pouch color also suit for u....

since ,you always ride bake...

+++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++

I quite headache.. coz i dont know what kind of birthday present want to buy for you...

I wish i give you a present that you can use everyday! always use! 

Go anyway also can bring... 

haha... so, you can always remember me.. Miss me... XD

Buy wallet..? Your wallet still nice..!

Buy clothes..? err.... like no so good... too "cincai"....

Buy phone SII??? wahhh... kill me then!! 

+++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++

I bought few piece of my clothes also!!!!!!!

Yeah!!! spent a lot... 

But, happy....!!!

Go Kart Nite at Serdang

My first time went to play Go Kart..
At the beginning, my kart "die" 3 times.... isshk...
I saw all the player pass me by~~
I cant tahan anymore... walau eh... how come!!??

The 3rd time my kart "die"... The helper bring another kart for me...
hahaha.. That is the story begin!
Woohhh... I bring faster and my kart no more "die"...
Yeahhh... i tried to bring faster..
Enjoy the speed.. Enjoy the game...

I really thank to my darling---Kevin Tang
Thank for bringing me for go Kart..
Break 1st time!
everything in my **heart**

H.U.R.T

At Sunway Pyramid walked for whole noon...

The purpose is want to buy your b'day present...

Bt, i cant get it there....

sigh..

Thought want to meet you and try to get more info about where u bought your Deuter pouch last time..

Thought you will meet me... 

Thought.... too much...

I received the words that hurt my heart from you... T.T

Almost cry there....Pain... 

I never think that those what you mention in your msg...

I never treat your house like hotel...

I never think that you feel hurt when i hang out with my friends...

Haix... maybe our relationship have to go through some trouble.... 

Only we can stay with each other more and more tight!

Have to make some afford for this relationship...

I believe it is worth! (n_n)

IF got IF

This world really have "IF"...

I never think about it will happen in my life...

Suffer for few months, finally i has the answer from your mouth!

Thank a lot...

I should move on my step, and do something for it....

We talk for so long in the phone just now...
So so so long never talk to you like that...
I am so happy...


You let me know more about you...
You let me walk close to your world...


Dear, 
I want to be RICH... rich in our story!

I want to bring u a lot of happiness! 

Yeah!!  

Bt, time was late... I want sleep lo!!

Muuuuuuuak.....

Good Nite! 

Love Life!

还是改不了

我承认我的占有欲很强～
我不能接受别人的拒绝～


我不想在感情上被人绑着～
但，我会要把喜欢的人给绑着～
我已经尽量不让这样的事发生～
我很辛苦～　我不要！


我觉得我不能接受任何的感情！特别是爱情～
我会很依赖着对方～　不会轻易放手～
我太霸道了～不能认输～


要爱情～　要事业～　
真是不简单啊～


有什么办法解决呢？
上帝啊！请打救我呀～　

Feeling Hurt

Pain.. Pain.. Pain..
My tears are dropping now.......


Hurt.. Hurt.. Hurt..
My heart seem to be something sharp piercing.......


Your words really work to me now..
C.R.U.M.S.Y...
I seen like a stupid... 
be.LIE.fe what you had told me...
I forget the word have lie in the middle...


My heart is bleeding.... 
I admitted.. I was crying now...
I scare... I no dare....
THinking... 
Why want to close to you?
What should it do?
LEAVE OR STAY..?

Miss You * S'pore

Miss you... 
Miss you...
Miss you...
Miss you...
Miss you so badly...


Thinking of you...
the way you talk to me... ** like **
the way you smile..          ** like **
the way you scolding "nonsense"...   ** like **
the way you said "don wan"...          ** like **
the way you laugh "haha.. haha.."...  ** like **
the way you manja...         ** like **
the way you sayang me...  ** like **
the way you kiss me...      ** like **
the way you love me....    ** like **
the way you ........................... 


Maybe you will doubt whether my heart is with you!
Maybe you will think whether my mind is thinking of you!


You had been mention about " your boyfriend is the lucky guy"
I am here to tell you... "You are the lucky guy"

Fate II

I never think about it will happen on me...
Something tat i don like but now is all alr with me
OMG.... what kind of this fate la...
Anyway, he cute for me and i like....


I always giggle recently... because of u!
Maybe you do not realize... 


Just now i felt down during swimming...
My mind was thinking about why i have to listen something words like hard feeling...
I don like... i feeling sad la....


想起你和她的过去～
我还在意～
可是，我没资格在意啊！是我拒绝你在先！
我不知道你心里想什么！
but,我知道你很疼我！
你的目的是什么呢？
你真的想喜欢我吗？？　


Arrhh....　
i was lost myself ..... 
Fate...........

Fate

We don need think and plan to much on relation...

Just let it be.....

It is really funny story in my life now....

but, it was real and touch......

I was crying when you were hugging me so tight... 

My mind appear the question about our past.........


I never think about we can be like now....
You are beside me... 
You rinse me up....
Talk about our future....
and more ... and more....

我喜欢你的温柔~ 

你会给我的安慰~

- Tiada Lagi -

Listening for this songs... 
Titile : Tiada Lagi  Singer : Mayang Sari


I was fall in sadness and loneliness....... how come?
It seem like i reading your words from your heart..
It feel hurt.. sad.. 


Inside my mind, i feel like you are regret what u did!
You hope your lover will coming back to you...
But, You understand that is hard or is impossible.... 


I like this song so much...
It is means alot to me...
A love story between you and me.... 


Imagine...........
If we have a chance to stay back together... 
Would you cherish me? 
Promise do not let me walk alone?
Believe everything in  what i have done?


♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ 　I Miss You....　♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ 

Insomnia❣失眠

The time now is -0321-

But my mind keep thinking about some story... this story is about 6 years ago..

Wonder why my memory cant remember the bad things about this story.. even know also feel like is a good memory... 

When i was listening to the song named "Tidak lagi" ... 

The feeling hurt is inside my heart.. and feel like i jz break up in this relationship..

Painful..

Remember how we know each other... at Bukit Beruang,Melaka.. 

Your cousin's shop.. 

During the Christmas.. i was attend your cousin house opening party!

The next day, we went for the movie... 

Here is the our love story begin....!

When we were couple,

I still remember how we celebrate my 18years old birthday.. 

(feel stupid but happy to see u...)

I still remember what was happened during the CNY...

(You very naughty run from ur house to meet me..)

I still remember what i did when i receive your msg.. 

(repeat to read your msg since i cant understand very well in English... sometime need to check from dictionary...)

I still remember the funny funny things in our conversation.... 

(When i was angry i will speak in Mandarin andg you will look at me and laugh... same as well, when u scolding me..)

I still remember we teach each other about the language..

(Betty bought a butter but the butter was bitter. Betty bought the better butter to make the bitter butter better... ; yellow lorry, red lorry...)

I still remember you prepared the food for me..

(That time you asked me what is my favorite food and so on..)

I still remember the weather at Nilai...

(one words - HOT... you prepared few fan to make the room cold.. or else we will sweating...)

I still remember you had played the guitar for me...

(even i dont know what u sing about.. but feel sweet... )

I still remember............ Everything about us... even i cant remember the date and time.. 

I have learned a lot of things from you... 

Thank you...

Maybe you do not know how much i love you at that time...

Surely you do not know how hurt you give me when you leave me...

I never forget the pain... 

I always lie to my heart.. 

In front of you, my action cant be as same as my mind..

I like to receive your msg...

I will smile when reading the msg...

I like to listen your voice, it is very warmest...

I hope to stay with you again.. at the same time, i scare of you...

not your hot temper.. 

Is myself protecting my heart... I will be afraid once again you leave me... 

Sometime, i was thinking what will appear to your mind if suddenly miss me...?

Sometime, i wish you are beside me.. to share my everything...

almost 1 hours, i typed this article.. 

Now, i was thinking about what you will feel when u read this article..

(if you really got chance read it, plz tell me..)

errr.... i don think that you have this chance to read it... since you do not know my blog...

This is already second article about our love story...

so, i dare to write it down here... to express my words from you...

♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ 　I Miss You....　♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ 

who am i?

有总想离开的感觉~
眼泪的陪伴~ 我开始受不了~
我到底算是什么？

是你们让我去闹~
是他叫我拿回去~
是你们已威胁的方式来解决~

为什么常常说我霸道？
为什么常常说我脾气坏？
为什么常常说我？

对你们来说，我到底是什么？
重男轻女？
还是谁赚到钱多，谁就对完？
我不会~ 我想不到~ 我看不懂~

今天，我让你们得逞不是你们厉害~
是我无能~ 是我没用~

很久以前，有位算命老告诉我~
我会六亲不认~
从那时候，我就一直想不通~
我觉得我不可能这样~ 我爱你们~
为你们，我可以放弃一些自己喜欢的~
后来，换回来的是责备！你们不会称赞我~
不会谢谢我~
儿子投诉你们，你们就会说我不好~
我不让步，就是我不对~
我真的不能忍受这样子的你们~

18岁未满，你们就开始和我谈条件~
让我觉得很没有安全感~ 我害怕~
20岁时，你们威胁我要读IT~
不然就别读~ 没法子！ 因为我没有本事，所以我读了~ 在不喜欢也要读！
24岁了，大学毕业~ 开心的和你们分享~ 你们也只说我：“这是你应该的。”
为什么不能好好的称赞我？告诉我：“孩子，你很棒！”
你可知道我在学业上，有多努力?

我在你们的心里，我到底是什么？
还是什么都不是？我是应该的？
因为是你们把我养大，所以务必听从你们？？

七月尾声

我完了～
没有能量了～
怎么办？？有谁能配我一下下~ 
好让我快乐点度过这几天？ 有人了解吗？


心里有说不出的害怕~
blue....... Blue.......

Think too much

几时曾经羡慕朋友早九晚六~

今早八时，朋友叫我离开我那温暖的睡窝...

真是可怜~

当时，我就在迷迷糊糊的状态想着...

是我生在福中不知福~

有些东西看就好~

不要碰上它们~毕竟，做工不是什么好空头~

哈哈~~~

换个角度想，每天睡到太阳晒屁股也不是很健康哦~

还是，要计划计划一下吧~~

W.A.N.T.E.D

Magic - DJ-

Shopping... Shopping...

This is what i did in this fews months..

But, the different is bought alot of closthes yesterday... "3 Dresses, 4 Top, and 1 hot pant, belt.. "

Yeah.... The hot pant is my very 1st short short pant ( Purposely bought smaller size)... 

This pant can let our leg look longer and sexy...

Sad... My leg have too"Oilly"... and it will squirt out my fat...

Before to buy this.. I stand at that shop and making decision whether to have this pant...!

Dilemma+ing..... 

TOk.. TOk...Time pass by....

I go and try the pant.. (T.T)...

Inside the fitting room... In front of the mirror...

I faint... My leg really .... 

My heart shouting out : OMG.. Ugly....

ERrrr..... Always ask ppl diet and help ppl who wan diet.. Telling them be serious, persist..

And myself never want to diet seriously..

Ok.. I WANT THIS PANT.... I MUST WEAR IT IN END OF JULY~

(seriously want to diet... Target is 50kg..) 

And i STARTED to plan for my Diet Plan...
To show my passion, I create a new Label in my blog and named "Diet Journey -DJ "

Support Me ya..... (^.^)

"Hot Pant"- I want wear it!!

尼科勒+卡通=幸运

我过关了~
我觉得我很幸运~
有了一位很好很好的朋友~
虽然认识的时间不必“那位”大学的朋友长~
“那位”大学朋友只会问我的事，讲了后又不当一回事~
真的有要帮我吗？有什么行动呢？？
真是他娘的~

真是日久见人心~
现今的社会就是讲的一套，做得又一套！
对“那位” 真是失望到几了~

对~ 虽然我没有权力责怪任何人~
要怪就怪， 我没有眼光，都知道他是那么消极了~
还想“那位”会帮我~
算了~ 不想再讲“那人”了~

还是talk我的尼科勒吧~
看见他我就很开心了~
他不但和我分担我的烦恼
还使尽全力，绞尽脑汁的帮我~
他常常都和我说：“接力，使力，不费力~”
他还告诉我， 尽量利用他的力量来助我到标~
他还在每天早上call 我，叫我起床~ （哈哈.. 好像我得闹钟）

心想啊~ 天底下没有几人可以这样吧？？
如果说，我的贵人是谁.... 他肯定是尼科勒了吧~

过去了六月里，当我emo时，有一位知己“卡通”
她会陪伴我，坐在cafe喝喝茶，听听我的故事....

马六甲呀~ 马六甲人呀~
我好喜欢你们哦~
马六甲万岁~
马六甲的朋友万岁~万万岁~~~~~

孤单

范文芳 - 孤单
有时候好想养一只猫 　让日子多些热闹
一个人过得不算糟　就是偶尔睡不着
有时候好想有个依靠　可以赖皮或撒娇
在城市独来独往并不逍遥　讨厌将寂寞挤成微笑
我虽然不爱孤单却也不怕孤单
我知道太期盼容易烦乱
爱情它不让人管　最好随缘顺其自然
我虽然不爱孤单却也不怕孤单
有些事要慢慢去拿答案　人都会找到伴
管多久多苦多难　会温暖的被分担
（再回想酸楚变淡）
（用双眼悄悄交谈　就温暖的被分担）

人与人缘● 成功与梦想

人
一种米，养百种人~
人性可以是善良， 可以是丑恶， 可以是很多很多~
想要了解， 想要知道。。。。
一点都不简单


人缘
想要人缘好，就得把骄傲给丢掉~
要学会站在别人的立场
走出自己的世界
笑容多一些
健谈多一些
随和多一些
适当的时候，装傻并不是一件坏事




成功

世上不是每一个人都是那么幸运的，想要怎样就怎样~

想得到一些，就得放弃一些

想要成功，就与面子给放下

凡是以大局为重

一个字“忍”

百忍成金啊

过程并不是那么重要（只要对得起自己就好），重要的是结果和收获~

梦想
想要拥有自己的未来
实现自己的梦想
往往没有什么兴趣可言~
毕竟兴趣是不能当饭吃~

少借口---

有人说过自己喜欢的东西，会随着时间慢慢的给改变！
我个人觉得不是这样的！
喜欢是不会随着时间而改变的！
除非是你不够了解自己！不知道自己要的是什么！


有人说过自己不能这样那样，或是什么不能接受的！
我个人觉得，这都是借口！
事在人为.....
我们总不能找借口来决绝吧！
因为我相信人类的奥妙！
要相信我们可以改变命运！

该死的厕所

事情发生在两个星期前~
坐在车子正往回家的路上，突然，肚子怪怪的。。。

把车子停了一停，就往加油站的厕所跑~

在厕所里，不知道那个工作人员把水桶在里面~
哎呀~ 我没有那么多时间想了
就直接给蹲了下去。。。
该死的！我的尾骨就被那又来冲水的钢铁撞伤了~
痛得我眼泪都快掉下来了~

已经过了那么多天，坐下都还在痛~
天啊~ 到底是怎样啊~~？？

痛.心

温习着~~

突然，心里一下下涌出酸溜溜的感觉~

眼睛红了，泪水转出了.......

为什么？

担心家里的爸爸了~~

为什么爸爸会得到如此的对待！

含辛茹苦的要紧牙根

日晒雨淋的苦苦工作

为的是把孩子养大，供书教学。。。。

如今，孩子长大了~

却不是苦尽甘来~

再要上岸的时候，身体状况却不好~

难道是上天不让我们好好孝顺他？

不让他好好度过下半个世纪？

孩子的心是如此的疼痛~~

身边的人，都为这事掉了无数的泪水~

长途上

正在回着学校路上，天一直在落泪
还真的哭到很惨~ 
为了配合它，我还把车子减速呢~
可爱!


在这一路上，我看见了两场车祸~
一辆是Mercedes-Benz 和一辆 Honda Civic 
各自闯南北大道的栏杆~
真可怜~ 车头和尾都完旦！
车主还真的很无奈~
一手拿起了香烟，抽着.......


希望身边的朋友小心驾驶，尤其是下雨天~

天天天晴

在看天天天晴第50集时，突然又一幕唤醒了我好久好久没有的感觉。

当Edmond 和井乔和好那一幕， 老公说要把新的床褥留下，旧的床褥给丢了~

还记得曾经我和前男友吵架，闹得不可开交~ 然后，冷战了几天才和好~

那种感觉实在太久没有了~ 

u're welcome... 心哭了

不小心在blog里游走~
不小心发现了你的文章~
我哭了~
真的哭了~
在此向你说......

对不起
在我言语上的伤害~
我的无心伤害~

谢谢
在我的功课上你帮了我好多~
如果没有你我可能就不能那么顺利毕业~


不用客气
这是我们的友谊~

不能成真的美梦

发了一场美梦！

真的好不想张开眼睛~ 

不想他离开我~

他是我喜欢的男生~

已经好久没见到他了~

因为家庭的原因，所以我们没有任何的进展~

那梦境是那么的甜蜜~

他那温柔的拥抱，让我享受着的体温~

他那亲亲的吻，让我意识着他对我的感觉~

很温暖，很开心~

我被他庞大的身躯，紧紧地抱围着~

梦里尽然有他的体香~

感觉就好像是真的一样~

好想念他哦~

真希望能和他有那真实的一天~

和梦境一样的一天~

就一天我也开心~

曾经拥有，总好过不曾拥有吧~

现在都已经中午了~

我还停留在那梦里~

醒吧~ (=.=)......

你误会了~

与电脑面对面的人脑~

与键盘近接触的十指~

正在自己的blog里~

开始写下我的心情~

我发现了一件好奇怪的事~

可能是我太过没有保留~

玩得太尽兴~ 

总是让人误会~

我不是一个随随便便就会喜欢人的女生~

也不是一个随随便便的男生我都能接受~

为什么要用那种像是害怕的方式来回应开玩笑的问题呢？

你在紧张什么？害怕什么？

太奇怪了吧~

唉~朋友你想太多了吧~

尾声

不知不觉大学生涯已到了尾声~
很多人都说上大学就好像把一只脚达上社会！
大学的生活，就好像让我实习社会生活！

在这三年里，我学会了很多人情思故！
同时也让我知道了社会的丑陋..
虽然如此，它让我更懂得去如何去应付和面对困难~

天下父母心

结婚纪念日
1年一纸婚
5年一木婚
10年一锡婚
12年一皮革婚
20年一瓷婚
25年一银婚
30年一象牙婚
40年一绒毛婚
45年一丝绸婚
50年一金婚
75年一钻石婚


家里刚庆祝，爸妈的25周年的结婚纪念日~
转眼间，爸爸妈妈已经组织这家庭25年了~
在这25年里，他们用尽所有的时间与精力维持着，保护着....
不计较对方付出多少~
不屈不饶的~
不求回报~
努力的~
把最好的给我们三姐弟~~~


孩子驾着新车子，
父母驾着旧车子~
生病时，让孩子得到最好的医疗！
相反的，自己却不舍得看医生！
孩子用的，穿的，吃的，都是最好！
但，自己呢？
粗茶淡饭~ 朴朴素素~ 衣服破了再缝补！
还有很多，很多~
己所不欲，勿施于人~ 
从不会在他们身上找到~


从小他们就循循善诱，细心的教导我们~
希望，我们在生活上碰少点钉子~
希望，我们在人生的道路上“一路平安”~
甚至，教我们如何经营一段恋爱~


小时候，不明白他们为什么老是喋喋不休~
所谓：“养儿一百，长忧九十九~”
现在回想起，真是谢谢他们的爱呀~


如果没有他们俩的坚持，努力~
我们没有今天~
什么的学位~

他们给我们的一切一切是我们三姐弟都无法回报的~

唯一能做的是，在他们有生之年让他们好好的享受~

好好的孝顺他们~

玄。人

当关心换来一句“废话”
想分享却得不到认同
连玩笑也不能开
我还能够说什么？
我只能说“没什么”


关心！
在对的时间送达才不会让人觉得一种压力！
就好像我的好友在感情上遇到风暴，想想看！
如果，你开口问她，关心她！
那她是不是会又要在回想多一次？
那她是不是会又要在哭多一次？
这是你想看见的吗？


分享！
在和别人分享时，没有对于不对！
分享时不需要得到别人的认同！
别人也可能只是在分享啊！
话到最后不是别人不认同，而是你不认同别人！
你的分享也不是分享！ 而是，要别人赞同你！


玩笑！
很多东西不是说要就要！也要看状况！
聪明人是在对得时候，说对的话，做对的事！




好朋友！知己！
不用嘴巴说，用眼睛看就明白了！
毕竟不是刚认识。。。
毕竟已经无所不谈了。。。
有什么不满，不开心！都能坦诚的面对面谈！
不能直接，就用弯转的方式！
而不是用一个公开的方式来处理！


补偿！
朋友之间，可能问对方要什么或以一餐就能处理！
好朋友之间， 可能不是一餐，不是问对方要怎样处理！
而是，你要怎样化解！
不是什么人都能当你身边的好朋友！
你会把他人当成好友，相信不是没有理由的吧！
对方感觉到你的诚意就是最好的补偿！


人类真的很玄！明白不代表了解！
人类学是得花上一辈子的时间来领悟的~~
待人处事是比登天难很多~