It seems even Firefox knows how much I like to peruse certain people's profiles, as it always happily provides the necessary URL for instant access to such persons. Sometimes I think Firefox is almost too smart for its own good and I end up deleting some of my browsing history so that I can keep up the delusion that my habit hasn't gotten that much out of hand.
One of the unknowing victims to my 'casual browsing' (i.e. a weekly to fortnightly check) happens to be my cousin. My cousin and I aren't particularly close but I still have a piqued interest in her due to the fact that we are related. Actually, that's just half of it. I'm extraordinarily interested in her activities because despite her being only in year 7, she seems to have experienced more than I have as a second year uni student. That is to say, my cousin, 7 years my junior, has had her first kiss already, gone through two boyfriends, posted a Youtube video of herself singing and has more friends than me.
My pride has taken an almighty beating over the past few months.
To justify my apparent late-blooming, I've come to argue that it's because there's such a large generation gap between my cousin and me. She's Gen Z and I'm Gen Y. Despite the two letters being next to each other in the alphabet, I maintain that there's actually a huge gap between the two age groups. For one, I still remember fashions like these:
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Back in the day when I was in year 7, there wasn't any of this social networking business (there might've been Myspace I think but I never got into that either :/ ) and I was still trying to get over the horror of a boy bagging me about my sideburns >_>. When I was 12, probably the most stressful thing at the time was Mrs Wilson. And one of my main concerns was garnering friendships of the corporeal kind, not those necessarily solidified by an automated 'You are now friends with Person Blah blah'. So take that Gen Z! At least I had a more wholesome teenage-hood.
Alright, evidently I am just a little jealous that my kid cousin apparently knows 345 people, has a boyfriend named Jason and can sing Justin Bieber songs better than I could. But I think that even if there is such a large leap between Gen Y and Z which could (but not really) explain the lag in my life, I'm probably more happier with the thought that things happen at their own pace. And when I really think about it, as it is, I'm pretty content with the way things are.
Now give me a fade out with Timbaland's 'The Way I Are'.





