Day 3

It pains me to admit it but my life until now has been devoid of romance. Perhaps that's why I have to live vicariously through fictional characters' like/love/lust experiences. So for me, the thought of liking/loving/lusting after someone has always been a vague concept. I suppose it's like someone who's never eaten pork pondering about the taste of pork. Then again, it's not as if one who's never eaten pork has never seen a pig. 

If I haven't lost you yet, to extrapolate the analogy back to the present topic, I'd say that even if I haven't experienced any of those l-words, I can certainly imagine what it would take to have those experiences. 

And so, I come to address Day 3's topic:

Eight ways to win your heart

1. Don't be a radical. Radicals... worry me. Being too far on either side of the spectrum is just overwhelming. It's all about flexibility, see? And if it's true about what 'they' say about everything coming down to money, religion and politics, I think I'd eventually start to argue with a person too stuck in one camp. I identify myself as a conservative-progressive, a Bhuddist-Christian, a stingy-mass-consumerist and the list goes on. As society progresses, it's imperative that views change.

2. To offset all that deep and meaningful mumbo-jumbo, here's a rather shallow requirement: Be fit. Before this year, I would've said that any body type would've been fine with me (even a little pudginess would've been okay!) but now... I'm more picky. It might be because the guys at college are fitness-obsessed but I've come to appreciate a fit body. 'Appreciate' in the sense that I enjoy how I can exercise with a fit guy, not 'appreciate' as in 'Helloooo eye candy!'. 

3. Be a conversationalist! Awkward moments should be avoided at all costs! There's a particular guy that I know of. For now, we'll call him J. Whenever J and I see each other, we're obliged to start a conversation since we're Facebook friends, have quite a few mutual friends, see each other outside of uni times etc. And so the transcript of a typical conversation between us would be as such: 

"Hey J."

"Hey K."

"So how's uni treating you?"

"Yeah it's fine. How about you?"

"Yes, it's pretty good."

"Cool."

"Yeah."

"..."

"..."

Don't even try denying you haven't had those sort of conversations that don't break past the safe topic of polite niceties (Ah! So many negatives in that sentence!). But on the off-chance that you haven't... leave a comment and we'll start from there... ;) 

...-cough-

But no seriously, I think it's important that the barrier of politeness is broken and a level of easiness is reached where absolutely anything can be breached and nothing (much) will be taboo. 

4. Be proactive please. To the man who'll be the object of my l-words (I'm still holding out that it'll happen soon. Maybe. Well soon-ish.), please show some interest in me. Don't be all cagey about how you feel. It's not as if I'm expecting a big ol' flag being waved in my face but being proactive on your part is certainly a nice indicator of something happening. 

5. BE MANLY! I find it attractive when I'm with someone who doesn't make me wonder why I'm re-living my high school days again. Don't get me wrong, a feminine touch does make the world go round (Feminists unite!) but there are certainly times when I'm thankful for the diversity that the opposite sex brings. So no half-hearted attempts there thanks. 

6. Be smiley. :D I like smiles. 

7. Be a practical romantic. I don't expect anyone to be writing sappy love poems or serenading me outside my window (that's just uber embarrassing). I'll be secretly delighted if there are thoughtful romantic touches made here and there, like waiting for me if I'm late. It's the small things that make me swoon. 

8. Finally, have a deep character. I'd like a person who was insightful enough to offer a fresh perspective on matters and didn't float around in the shallows. Otherwise, I might just start to think that nothing else but physical attraction was holding us together. And that would just be.. carnal lust I guess? Rowr! 

Anyway, a shout-out to Viv who invited me to High-Tea at the Hotel Windsor. Thanks, it was full of gastronomical pleasures and great conversation! :)

Day 2

In continuation of the 10 Day Blogging Challenge, here is Day 2's topic:

Nine things about yourself

(NB: I feel oddly self-conscious when I do these things since it reminds me of those high school quiz things. But let's just imagine it's for the sake of being reminiscent and all that shiz.)

- I have this big hang-up about raisins. Raisins and I just don't mix. I'd be willing to eat pastries with raisins in them but that's about as close raisins and I get in this tumultuous relationship of ours. I get really creeped out whenever I find raisins in savoury foods at college. Sausage curry with raisins? Beef curry with raisins? No. Just no.

Courtesy of Google Images

Maybe it's the brown wrinkles that turn me off. I'm not quite sure.

- You know those dreams that you have when you wake up suddenly after falling or dying etc.? Mine's about running around on the oval of my first primary school. There were these tree logs that separated the playground and the oval. I'll be running over to the playground but I'd trip on the log. End of dream sequence. And then I found $20. Har har har.

- I have this, well, star-crush.

Courtesy of Star News

This (fantastic-looking) guy is called Cha Seung Won. I can't tell you what his likes and interests are because my crush isn't that deep and meaningful at all (insert disinterested hair flick). But he's pretty much the coolest being ever. This isn't even my inner, irrational fangirl-self gushing. He's so cool. Just go watch Blades Of Blood. 

- Until early last year, I had the *absolute pleasure* of having a Nokia 3315 accompany me on my day-to-day going ons. In retrospect, our relationship was probably based on pure need. Oh, I could attempt to stave off the need to use it for as long as possible. I could satisfying the need in the privacy of isolation but it knew that at some point, I would have to use it. And how it reveled in my weakness! I used it to answer the numerous calls from the parentals in the middle of a busy cafe, and it cackled away as it basked in the mildly-judgmental looks dished out to me. But at last, I was able to ditch it for the so much more respectable Nokia E71. And so far, our association has been built on mutual respect and all the goodly stuff of a healthy relationship. 

- I like admiring legs.

- I'm one of those romance junkies. Not the Mills and Boon-type but I mean, romance plays a big part of whether or not I'll like a particular film/book. Case in point: the Harry Potter series. Sorry, but the whole Ron/Hermione thing just ruined it for me. It also makes me sad when I'll be reading a book and there's so much obvious chemistry between Character A and Character B but the author has no romance between them! Like, come on! I don't want to be reading in-between the lines! That's far too subtle for me!

- My favourite word is probably 'extemporaneous'. Perhaps because it's so extemporaneous. I'm not sure.

- Although winter means wet and gray days, it also means no waxing. Hence, I like winter. The world would be a happier place without waxing kits.

- I went through an Argyle-pattern obsession. It's still kind of there but I think it mostly died with the realisation that hyper-preppiness isn't the best style.

(D, I hope you don't mind but I did steal your Feedjit widget. Thanks.)

Day 1

Since F decided to do a 10 Day Blogging Challenge and I was lacking inspiration for a new post amidst my blogging revival, I thought I'd also participate.

Ten things you want to say to ten different people right now.

"I'm excited to see you wearing something other than tights this winter! :P Bye! (Bye)"

"Let's murder Steven and Jenny together. Screw their contract (or lack thereof)." 

"I wish I could see you without a shirt. It will be my winter mission to somehow catch a sight of your supposedly tank self."

"The present! Ack! It's happening. Kind of. Argh! It's doing a breha x100."

"Seriously dude. Cooking sesh. It needs to happen sometime soon. Like pronto."

"Could you please, please, please wear those pinstripe shorts before winter kicks in? Please?"

"I'm sitting on the couch that you farted on. Also, do you have anymore Mt. Fujis lately?" 

"WHERE ARE YOU? We should make plans to meet up but I know we won't. We suck at keeping in touch." 

"I found out that Koreans sometimes put honey in foods. NOT SUGAR." 

"There have been far too many humping starfish moments that I need to tell you. It'll be worthy of a full-body movement."

F, I lack creativity to make this post seem less of a clone of your post. :(

Random Thoughts On... leggings ≠ pants

I'm not about to deny that I'm a lemming – that would just be plain hypocritical of me. However, I will say that I reject the disturbing fashion of wearing leggings as pants. IMO, this is one of those cases of a lemming movement ballooning up a misplaced idea. 

Before anything else, I'll just clarify that I do like leggings. Really, I do. I can see their positive attributes as warm skin-tight coverings. They go great with boots in the winter and are handy to run in when it becomes too cold to show off one's legs. Wait, rewind to the sentence before last. There it is: leggings = 'skin-tight'. So what does that mean? It means that the silhouette of anything being worn underneath the leggings can be seen very clearly. 

So next, I come to the (disturbing) fashion trend that's sweeping through the world:  

I feel like miniature people should go running around Nicorette-style saying, "No (insert name) no! No (insert name) no! Noooooo (insert name)!". In what way is this flattering? Does every passerby really want to see whether you're wearing briefs, bikinis or a g-string? Do I want to observe how floppy your bottom is? No! A resounding no! Please put on some pants, for my sake and yours. And no, jeggings are not pants. You can still see an outline of just about everything. 

And for those poor, unenlightened souls who find it tasteful to wear extra-extra-tight tights (it's possible), please don't. 'Silhouette' is just a poor euphemism in that case. 

On a side note, the weather's been nice! I've been half-expecting Melbourne to turn freezing cold on me but I've been able to get away wearing short-sleeves with a scarf. Yay! 

(Also, what's with Blogger's new format? I can't seem to keep the text of this post in tandem with the others.)

Hiatus No More

Ah, good lord. It's been almost a year since I've last updated. It's slightly embarrassing how much of an undedicated blogger I am compared to all the regulars. But on the upside, it's allowed me to personally evaluate how much I felt I changed since then. Personal benefit = 1.

One thing I should probably bring to light is my past boy-craziness. It's way too shameful to imagine how incredibly boy-crazy I was last year. To my defense, I did attend an all-girls high school for 6 years. I guess that cringe-worthy 1 year of lasciviousness had to happen. In any case, with that chapter safely behind, I think it's a-okay for me to say that there are times when I do enjoy the entirely platonic company of the opposite sex more than the time spent with my own sex. I can't help but bring to mind the irony of saying such a statement since I seem to remember I ridiculed a certain someone in high school for saying it as well. I'm sorry Y. I'm not sure if you remember telling me that but I now know where you're coming from. It just took me a few years s'all.

So updates! I'm living at a college this year. It's sort of more like a faux-college since it has ties with the Lutheran church but it's a place to eat, sleep and socialise. So close enough. I've made some great friends who, I'm pleased to report, are Asian! Yes! I haven't strayed too far from the PLC days! I have been welcomed back into the Asian fold and I'm there to stay. Actually, living at college really does remind me of home since the building's basically all Asian (Ha, take that all the nasty teachers in year 10. We really can work together successfully!). We've had our run-of-the-mill late-night chats, our Munchkin-playing days and our cheese nights. And to boot, it's not even that noisy.

Adelaide's growing on me. It might just be because I'm situated in the nice part of Adelaide - the northern side. It's full of green lawns and nice foliage. The walk to uni is a pleasant one, even if it is uphill one way. There's even a 24-hour bakery to satisfy any late-night hunger pangs (which doubles as a lucrative munchies spot for all the college revelers). I'm still not a great fan of the opening hours of the shops and the lack of Woolworths and Coles in vital areas. How is it that there's only an IGA and Foodland in North Adelaide? Why are they so over-priced? Gah!

Uni is busy. I don't know how, but I'm already behind in Contracts notes. Fingers-crossed I'll be able to catch up during the holidays. Physiology is great! I'm half in love with the term 1 lecturer. She's American and has a voice that's reminiscent of the narrated science clips on Youtube – so incredibly calm and collected. Biochem is so-so. I'm not too keen on the lectures but the material itself is interesting. How is it that the nerd/dork factor in my Biochem lectures is so high? Tank tops that show one's midriff paired with jeans and sneakers, anyone? Forgive the hypocrisy. Personal style still = 0