Sometimes being too nice is just not a good thing. I'm not bad-mouthing but just need to vent out my unhappiness.

What is wrong with those elderly nowadays? Why must they have the thinking of "im snatching away her son" kind of mind set? Not as if i dont treat them well, or being disrespectful, i just think that my kindness is being taken for granted.

Although this has been the same issue all this while, is just being unsolved & wont be solved. 2years back, had a little conflict with his mum over some issue during our conversation, then on, i avoid going to his place that often, not bcos from then i dislike his mum but just didnt wanna have more of those unwanted conlicts or misunderstandings, afterall, dont want baby to be sandwiched.

BUT....today she called me, i guess bcos baby didnt pick up her call as he's busy working, so she says: "didi nowadays dont want to come back already huh? and never even contact me". Just by hearing her saying this, i know she's trying to say something..i replied her, "oh ya lo, i ask him to go back but he didnt wanna listen, and nowadays he plays bowling during wkends,i mentioned it's his new hobby, then she goes again(anything comes to money she's vy sensitive), ask him dont everytime go lo, so expensive and wont gain anything out of it. Of cos i know that, but ur son is just too sturbborn, if YOU can YOU STOP HIM FROM GOING lo..cos i cant stop him.

Please, he's a matual adult now, why cant he just do something he like during his off day to relax himself? Although i reali dun like him to go almost every wkend, but just recently he got into a minor accident at work and got sitches done on his forehead, when i see him i feel the pain for him, not only because he's injured, but i also feels that his job is really not an easy task and yet his mum still think he earns alot!! Just because baby don say its xin ku doesnt mean its easy lo..that's y now, even sometimes i dun reali wanna go bowling wit him on my twice a mth wkend off but now i'll just accompany him go, cos seeing him smiling when he strikes n improving his skill i then will feel happy too.

I've nothing against his mum, just hope that she would change her mindset. & i swear i did ask baby to go home during wkends and call back home even if his not going back. I SWEAR!

Think whatever you want, i cant do anything to change ur thinking, AND i HATE being taken for granted..! sry baby.