I love this message. I think all of us from time to time moan and groan about things that don't always work out the way they would like them to. We are only human!!! So often we forget about the things in our lives that are most important. And yes I am guilty of that as well. It seems as though there is always something to do, to fix etc. etc. Trying to make everything work in this very fast pace world we live in is stressful to say the least...
Enjoy this message from a professor in his philosophy class....
THE MAYONNAISE JAR
When things in your life seem almost too much to handle, when 24 hours in a
day is not enough, remember the mayonnaise jar and two cups of coffee.
A professor stood before his philosophy class and had some items in front
of him.
When the class began, wordlessly, he picked up a very large and empty
mayonnaise jar and fills it with golf balls.
He then asked the students if the jar was full. They agreed that it
was.
The professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured it into the jar.
He shook the jar lightly. The pebbles rolled into the open areas between the
golf balls.
He then asked the students again if the jar was full. They agreed it
was.
The professor next picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar. Of
course, the sand filled up everything else.
He asked once more if the jar was full. The students responded with a
unanimous “YES”.
The professor then produced two cups of coffee from under the table and
poured the entire contents into the jar, effectively filling the empty space
between the sand. The students laughed.
“Now,” said the professor, as the laughter subsided, “I want you to
recognize that this jar represents your life. The golf balls are the important
things - God, family,
children, health, friends, and favorite passions. Things, that if
everything else was lost and only they remained, your life would still be full.
The pebbles are the things that matter like your job, house, and car. The sand
is everything else -- the small stuff.” he said.
“If you put the sand into the jar first,” he continued, “There is no room
for the pebbles or the golf balls. The same goes for life. If you spend all your
time and energy on the small stuff, you will never have room for the things that
are
important to you...” he told them.
“So... pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness.
Worship with your family. Play with your children. Take your partner out to
dinner. Spend time with good friends. There will always be time to clean the
house and fix the dripping tap. Take care of the golf balls first -- the things
that really matter. Set your priorities. The rest is just sand.”
One of the students raised her hand and inquired what the coffee
represented.
The professor smiled and said, “I'm glad you asked. It just goes to show
you that no matter how full your life may seem, there's always room for a couple
of cups of coffee with a friend.”
Hugs to all ~~
Bonnie