At this point, I should probably provide a bit more background on this trip. As the possibility of visiting Scandinavia came up, we were introduced to the Scandinavian holiday of Midsummer (aka the summer solstice). They all celebrate it, but acknowledge that the Swedes make the biggest deal of it. So when our bishop was sent an announcement about an LDS Singles Conference called "Carpe Diem" that would be held in Sweden during this holiday, Maggie and I decided to crash it and plan the timing of our trip accordingly. We didn't just come to Scandinavia for this, but as long as we came all this way, why not party with the (stone-cold sober) locals? I'd never been to a Singles Conference, let alone one abroad, so had no idea what to expect--especially when I saw the schedule. On it, each day began quite early with a run through the woods. My thoughts when I first saw that: who are these people if their idea of fun is a run through the woods, and if the whole point is to meet someone special and stay up late talking to them wouldn't this be counter-productive? Still, I figured if they're worth exploring then maybe I'd take a stroll through the woods with my camera.
As it turns out, I woke up a little late and arrived downstairs just to catch the last bit of breakfast. We had a bit of free time, so I went off to find those woods. I ended up on the wrong path, but the day was gorgeous and it was a nice stroll through the evergreens with patches of lupine. The most comedic moment was when I saw a sign saying "Haribo Hall" through the trees. Those German gummy bears are a weakness of mine, and I thought I'd just discovered their secret factory! I headed towards it, only to find it was a Haribo-sponsored sports complex; no gummy bears in sight.
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| the elusive Haribo |
On the way back I passed a churchyard cemetery, and took a moment to pass through and have a look at all the Swedish names. Before coming on this trip, mom had predicted I'd meet a guy named Sven (presumably he'd sweep me off my feet, etc.). Sadly, the only Sven I'd encounter on this trip was buried there (and a bit too old for me, at that).
I returned to the hostel and reported for kitchen duty. Even on vacation I can't seem to resist volunteering for things, but in this case I think it's because I knew that's where I'd feel most comfortable and I thought it'd be easier to meet people that way. Sure enough, I quickly felt at ease by helping out, but Maggie was one of the only other people to volunteer. My specialty was running the food processor to chop the cabbage. I was starting to wonder where everyone else was at and when we'd see them, which turned out to be right afterward.
There's a chapel right next to the temple and the hostel, and that's where we gathered for a presentation by an Area Seventy about the Stockholm temple. He talked about the miracles related to the site selection and its construction. For example, while they had considered other sites that made more sense logically, they felt strongly prompted to select this one. As they excavated in the area, they found Viking Graves (in those runnable woods) and a Viking temple, which is quite rare. It's pretty cool to think that land has been considered sacred by such diverse groups over such a long time gap.
At last, it was time for the main event. We boarded some buses and rode to Tyreste, a national park where LDS families have gathered for years to celebrate Midsummer. There was a large field where families were picnicking on blankets, and we set up camp amongst them to eat the lunch we'd prepared that morning. After a quick bite it was time to get down to business: wreath making. The tradition is that you gather 7 different kinds of flowers to make a wreath you wear on your head. At the end of the day, you put it under your pillow and dream about the person you'll marry. Had I known that it was so easy, I would've done this ages ago! Conveniently, next to the field was a meadow with enough wildflowers for everyone and it wasn't long before I had 7 different kinds. One of the women was kind enough to show us how to make them, and was very good at it herself. I didn't quite realize how big/thick I was making mine until it was on my head, and as it loosened throughout the day I'd stuff more into the center so it'd stay on my head.
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| sporting our festive, traditional headgear |
Another part of the holiday is dancing around the maypole. Most of the men were recruited to haul it in and help raise it to musical accompaniment. It looked like a telephone pole with a crossbar that had two wreaths hanging from it, covered in greenery and flowers. As soon as it was up, we started dancing. There was a trio in traditional dress, singing in Swedish and playing instruments. They gathered us in concentric circles and began to dance. Somehow I ended up with the missionaries, which was a lot of fun but they weren't nearly as helpful in translating as I'd hoped—mainly saying how ridiculous the songs were and to be grateful I didn't speak Swedish. It was easy to copy what the others were doing and it repeated a lot, but as it was all in Swedish I could only make up my own translations and explanations of what we were doing. Nevertheless, as an occasional dancer and CEL (Crazy Ethnic Lady) I was ridiculously happy!
(not the most exciting to watch, but the traditional Swedish music was live)
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| the maypole |
After the dancing, a group from the conference decided to go on a short hike and I tagged along. It was a nice chance to finally meet and talk to some of the fellow attendees, not to mention some lovely scenery, and a few of the Swedes were great guides and naturalists. I was surprised at how arid parts were, only to encounter bogs nearby. We got back just in time to gather our things and take the bus back to the hostel, and have a brief nap (much needed) before the evening's festivities. They sat us alternating boy-girl (or as close to that ratio as they could) at dinner, which again gave us a chance to meet some of the attendees while we ate. There were about 80 participants in all, from several different countries. The way our new friends described it, these conferences were the equivalent of my ward's activities. There were attendees from Sweden, Norway, Finland, Denmark, the Netherlands, and the UK and most of them already knew each other from going to the conferences in various countries. As English is the only language they have in common, it was (mercifully) the official language of this conference. That being said, there was a small group of Spanish-speaking immigrants to Sweden, and some "only" spoke Spanish and Swedish.
Dessert came in the form of a competition, as we were divided into teams and given identical ingredients to decorate cakes. To my delight, our team won the creativity category by recreating the maypole out of bananas and strawberries.
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| We did it! |
Our prize: Swedish chocolate! After dinner was...a dance. I truly love to dance, but usually mean the types of dancing done solo or in groups. So imagine my awkward shock when I discovered that they paired off for the fast songs as well as the slow ones! Given the gender ratio and how often I hear guys say they don't dance, I wondered if I'd spend the whole evening on the sidelines. It turns out my fears were for not, as most of these guys were willing to dance and were kind enough to constantly change partners. In between, Maggie and I were able to join small groups dancing "American style" while couples danced around us.
It was quite late by the time we returned to the room, but wreath under pillow I was a little excited and curious to find out who I'd dream about. Unfortunately, after all that effort I didn't dream about anyone! I did dream about an interesting floor plan for a home, though...maybe he'll be an architect?