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Wednesday, June 17, 2009

And a Grand Time Was Had.....



While our daughter Colette and grandkids were here visiting, we had many fun things on our "fun things to do" list and some not so fun things on our "gotta do it or die" list. One of the 'gotta do's' involved more walking than I like, but hey....I'm a good sport so I'll put myself out every now and then.

Our nearby grand-daughter, Hali, will be a senior in high school this fall, so she asked her aunt Colette to take her senior pictures since Colette is a photographer of some note within our family unit......and even with others that are not related at all. I've often been confused as the family photographer but, I'm not. I take pictures frequently and of everything. She however takes GOOD photo's. Not as often, but with a better eye and good equipment. So, there's a huge difference.

Where was I? Oh yeah, Hali requested senior photo's. So, of course as a 17 year old with a discriminating point of view, she didn't want her picture taken just anywhere or somewhere that was going to be a popular, outdoor spot for photo's that her peers would have. We had to go to an out-of-the-way area. She requested a photo sitting at a beautiful lake in the hills. Well, we say....good choice! We could combine her photo sitting with a family day in the hills playing tourist, which we kind of were. So, we all piled into Colette's suburban ....a very large car. She lives in Chicago where the drivers are very aggressive, so no small or compact car for her. Since she couldn't buy an army tank to give her an advantage over the other nincompoop drivers in the area, she wanted one that would at least make other vehicles bounce off of her in case of an angry driver competition. Side note: If anyone hears me complain about South Dakota drivers in the future; just slap me. We've drove in almost every state in the contiguous US and Chicago and the surrounding area has the most aggressively, rude, 'every-man-woman-and child', take-no prisoners attitude in drivers we've witnessed. Seriously, I think they run over each other in the name of sport. Even my otherwise sweet, considerate, non-combative daughter changes personality as soon as she hops into her vehicle. It's frightening to see. (Yes you do Colette, so don't try to deny it. The veins in your neck pop out while you're strapping on your seat belt and by the time you're out of your driveway, the whites of your eyes are flaming and you're looking for the first driver to shout obscenities at.)

Obviously the mentions of Colette's vehicle side-tracked me. Back to the photo trip in the hills. Soooooo....we're heading to the lake and along the way Colette, who moved away from the area over 20 years ago, remembers an area that has large groves of aspen trees. She's driving past one grove after another and mumbling, "Nope, not that one. Uh uh, not that one either," while the rest of us are commenting they all pretty much looked alike to us. Finally Hali inquires, "Aunt Colette, are we looking for a particular aspen tree?" We laughed, but she was serious. Finally after about a dozen different sites, we arrived at one Colette deemed acceptable. We all throw ourselves out of the vehicle......remember, it's large so you don't just step out of it...and breathed a sigh of relief to finally have found a couple of trees that met with Colette's approval.



I should mention, only because the reader will probably notice, I was busy taking pictures of Colette taking pictures because, that's what I do. Remember the whole not"good picture taking, but frequent picture taking thing? OK, just wanted to be sure everyone remembered that. So, after the particular Aspen tree sitting, Colette spied an old rail fence from a distance of about 7 miles away. If you recall, I said she was good at this. So, once again we all piled out and went about our assigned duties; Hali being posed by Colette, Colette taking pictures, grandson Marc or Bob holding the reflector. Whoever didn't hold the reflector was the baby wrangler and had to corral 3 year old, energetic, "glad to be out of her car-seat", Cassie. I of course was busy taking pictures of all the gang and/or scenery.

By now the day is getting on, the troops are getting hungry as well as antsy and we still haven't made it to the designated photo spot. The lake. We finally arrive and the lake is indeed beautiful, the shoreline a short distance from the parking lot. But, did anyone say this was going to be an easy task? Indeed not! We are lead not to the nearby lake with a beautiful backdrop of blue sky, trees, and hills, but on a path that wound halfway around the lake, into a large outcropping of rocks, timbers and tourist looking for the historic site of Custer's Last Stand. OK, I'm lying about Custer. But, all things considered, the lake was sadly the last place of focus. Some of the best pictures of Hali were in front of large boulders (see above), tree's (also see above) and paths (possibly above) that would've looked like any other place in the Black Hills in about a zillion places that didn't require walking a few miles. Oh wait, we could've done this in our back yard! Teenagers! Did the lake show up in any pictures? A couple out of the hundreds taken.

The end result was a fun day in the hills, lots of laughs, great pictures....which I won't post the best of because Hali will want to send out her choice later and I might accidentally put her preference on this page and you know.....teenagers!

Thursday, June 11, 2009

Taking Grandma Down a Peg (or more.)

I take my role as a grandmother very seriously and am quite proud of being in a very favorable position with my grandchildren. Let's face it.....I'm good at it. Being a grandmother that is. It's been a natural talent since my oldest grandchild, Ashli, was born almost 26 years ago. I nurtured that talent through the next three grandchildren, Brendan, Hali and Marc. The last (yeah, heard THAT word before) grandchild, Cassie; age three, doesn't like me. I know! I can't believe it either, but it's true! Maybe dislike is a strong word....but, she does show a lot of disinterest in me. Me! Even strange wildlife and insects have been drawn to me, but this cute, adorable little tow-head? Not so much. Here's the story:

Our oldest daughter Colette and her two youngest offspring recently came for a visit. They live in Chicago, so it's not like we see them often. When they arrived there were lots of hugs and kisses. Marc hugged me, Cassie hugged her grandfather, her grandfather hugged her mother, her mother hugged Marc. Nope, sorry...they were together. Her mother hugged me, Marc hugged his grandfather, his grandfather hugged his grandmother (we're like that...we hug a lot) but when it came to grandma attempting to hug Cassie; grandma was regarded with an arched, 3 year old eyebrow and a "don't even think about it" attitude. What (?) said I....but, I figured she was tired from the long drive and overwhelmed by seeing everyone hugging and carrying on. So, I thought I'd bide my time. They left yesterday after about a week and a half and I'm still biding. She enjoyed her grandpa, her aunt...her uncle, her cousin...the rocks in the driveway, but not me. She did have a moment or two. Like when she discovered the bottom of my feet were ticklish....that was fun for her. I'm not crazy about being tickled, but hey! I was willing to endure so she could enjoy me. However, there's only so long you can enjoy yourself by tickling someone and she tired of that after about 10 minutes. (Thank goodness!)

Well, I'm sure someday she'll look back on pictures from that visit and say, " Grandma wasn't so bad. Little wacky, but in this family that's to be expected. Kinda fluffy, but that looks rather cuddly. Looks sad, but that's probably because I wasn't paying any attention to her. Over all, not bad for an older kid!" Yeah, that's what she'll say.


More to blog about regarding the visit, but I'll do that later. Can't say enough about grandson Marc. He likes me, he really likes me! A bit of brainwashing at a young age didn't hurt him any.