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0 comments | Saturday, March 13, 2010

This week, I get know a girl who has lived next to me for a while, who I have never seen before. She knocked on our doorbell this week, since a package of my other neighbor was delivered to her. Well, it sounds a bit weird right? Neighbor this and neighbor that....Well, in the apartment where I live, I have two house mates. One Dutch girl and one Dutch guy. We live in the same unit. In the flat, there are many units. So, the she-neighbor I mentioned, thus the girl I have never seen before, lived next to me.

What is so special about her? Well, I want to blog about her, since she is something special. No, no, no, she is not the girl I will like. She is special in the sense that she is the totally opposite of how I am. She worked in a gamble center and besides, she is not that "good" girl. When she knocked on our door, I smelled that she just smoked. I went to her apartment, since she did not have electricity and I offered her my help.

Entering her apartment, I was shock. It is a studio that is much larger than mine room. It must be around 42m^2. She was going to move out. So, her room is very messy. After I fix the electricity, I had a talk with her. From the talk, I noticed that she lived in a tough world. She had been kidnapped, raped, suffer hepatitis and her parents were very bad to her. She has a boyfriend who is from Morocco from origin. I think her boyfriend is very bad to him, since he didn't do anything for her, like fixing the electricity nor writing an e-mails.

I never thought I will meet such a person. I thought that in The Netherlands, such a person is very rare. But when I listen to her stories, I realised that many Chinese people here are very bad.....Sigh, where are the good people now?

0 comments | Monday, March 08, 2010

Recently, I notice that more and more Chinese girls are attached to Dutch guys. Why? I really do not know. I think that generally Dutch people are far more attractive compare to Chinese origins. Many of them are almost perfect in their looks, but their heart might not be so brilliant as they have been. I mean, their heart changed quite quickly. No matter how much you love him/her, he/she will forsake you in any kind of circumstances. Thus, no matter you are married or having children, the Dutch people do not care and will go their own way.

I personally will feel very insecure if I will start a relationship with a Dutch girl. However, the Chinese girls are not the girls I have that in my mind. They are much more open and worse than what I can imagine.

Anyway, there is one thing I noticed among all the relationships. There are more and more Chinese guys who held Chinese girls in their hands, BUT the Dutch girls rarely held Chinese guys by their site. Why is that? I have no answer....Maybe, we, Chinese guys, are too short for the Dutch ladies. I remembered that my length (1.78m) is the average length of my Dutch girl classmates at my Secondary School. Ya, I know that Dutch people are pretty tall, but I am told that in the North area of The Netherlands, Dutch people are the tallest. So, I just lived among the tallies. :P