moved

>> Aug 10, 2010

...to this new address

come join the party :)

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on, not being a cat person

>> May 14, 2010


hilarious

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>> May 8, 2010

 " the brave may not live forever,

but the cautious do not live at all "

 {image via}

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current, random obsessions

>> May 4, 2010

 {image via}

kitchens. 
the colour yellow.
sourcy vitamin water.
mcdonalds grilled chicken salads.
rain.
everything about spring.

and after todays excursion, biking.


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may the best of your todays, be the worst of your tomorrows

>> May 2, 2010

i have food in my belly
heat in my apartment 
hot water
....
life, today, is good


{forever young - jay z ft. mr. hudson}

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here's to a stellar* long weekend

>> May 1, 2010

my weekend began yesterday,
with a great koninginnedag (queens day) celebration with old & new friends in groningen
dancing in the street
playing "spot the sober person"
card games in the park
dinner at a great hidden gem of a greek restaurant
laughter, good food, and conversations about travel

the day ended with janet and i not being let onto the train because it was filled. to. capacity.
chris kindly offered to drive us home & i thankfully took a nap in back while they chatted

now off to the market with sarah & her aunt wait patiently for the plumber to come & fix my 'no hot water' situation
and the electrician to fix my "no heating" problem

possibilities;
iron man 2
lunch/dinner in groningen
shopping

definately's;
relaxation
bike riding
 me time

{who i am - nick jonas & the administration}

excited to see how the rest of the weekend will unfold...

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fear

>> Apr 29, 2010

i go to bed with this fear of fallling asleep.
strange yes, but true nonetheless
so much so, that i've been dozing off on the couch lately

i then wake up with a fear that the day will go by too quickly

i end of the week with a fear that the months will pass me by too quickly,
and soon i'll have to end my european adventure

i fear not having work,
not having a steady income

i fear regret
having not tried enough or rather, not hard enough

i fear losing a sense of self,
then wondering who exactly this "self" is

is it possible to have a mid-life crisis at 25?

that is the nature of my fear.

dog days are over - florence & the machine

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spring; netherlands style

>> Apr 28, 2010

i think, i'm fast becoming a spring person
i love taking walks on a pretty & warm day. i love warm days
i had terribly missed warm days.
i'm so glad they're back in style now :)

say hello to bjorno 
the cuddliest, tail-less {sad story} burmese moutain dog you ever did see.
we're tight.
check out his crazy eyes :)

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eat. pray. love.

>> Apr 27, 2010

" if you could clear out all that space in your mind,
you'd have a doorway
& you know what the universe would do? rush in
everything else, will take care of itself "


  i've watched this trailer about 20x throughout the day
tears have fallen.
i'm now desperate to read the book.
and really looking forward to the movie release.

found via - i like the way she writes.

ps: april 27 1994 south africa held their first democratic elections -  
happy freedom day to my fellow safas (south africans)

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on chocolate

 image via

carrie: break me off a piece

doug: {deep sigh}
people think because it's divided into little squares that it's meant to be shared,
suddenly, it belongs to the community

carrie: yeah, it's an outrage

:)
i love "the king of queens"
and i love belgian & swiss chocolate. just sayin'

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ps: {thanks to nikki}

>> Apr 26, 2010

have you heard of florence & the machine?
no?
well, consider yourself introduced.
you've got the love - florence & the machine

you're welcome :)

...my friends, like music, have a healing effect on me...

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saturday in brussels

>> Apr 25, 2010

remember when i felt exhausted?

friend nikki came to visit & we decided that a roadtrip was due
so, brussels, belgium it was!
being only a 3hr drive from me, it was the ideal place

the weather was perfection.
the food was delicious.
the markets were colourful.
the people were grumpy...to those who don't speak french.

oh & h&m had a sale - yay.

*parking garages, near the city centre are not so easy to find - but can be found with a trusty tomtom.
we found one {name?} that was relatively inexpensive - €7.80 for 4hours is a bargain! 
considering, that parking in amsterdam can easily be €8 p/hour
i found brussels pleasantly refreshing, in that the city centre wasn't too busy

it wasn't crowded with tourists {which is always a plus}
& the music on the street corners added to the ambience.

i loved the cobblestone streets,
the man selling fresh strawberries in the street

the grand architecture
hearing french & dutch at once
seeing high hippies dancing in the middle of it all
belgian waffles and chocolate (oh, be still my heart)

and mostly, noticing that as fascinating as this city was for me, the locals enjoy it just as much.

our little daytrip did nothing for my physical exhaustion, but did so much for me emotionally
 what can i say, i'm a restless soul.

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dear twenty-ten

>> Apr 20, 2010

image via

i'm pooped.
grant me a vacation. soon. 
please.

yours sincerely, 
thobeka

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for real.

>> Apr 12, 2010

i spent the day magically changing my kitchen wall from red...to white, and thereafter looking for colour inspiration

i happily stumbled upon this beauty of a space. i'm in love.
view the kitchen update here

played a couple games of uno with some young adults tonight - f.u.n.

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that's legit.

>> Apr 10, 2010

belief - john mayer

okay, so yes, maybe i'm just ever so slightly obsessed with this man's musical skiiiiiiiiiiiiiiills ;)

a little spring re-decorating happening this weekend.
yippee-ka-yay!

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