Wednesday, August 13, 2008

Eliza's 2-Week Birthday

Eliza will be two weeks old tonight at 12:58 a.m. It has been a crazy and wonderful couple of weeks. She has changed our lives and is such a precious little spirit.

Eliza was released from the hospital one day earlier than expected; last Wednesday August 6th. The doctors were very pleased with how well she was doing and released her. We took her back to our home away from home (hotel room with kitchen) expecting to stay about another week. I made up a changing table on the dresser and had all her diapers and wipes organized and everything and we ended up staying there less than 24 hours! We had been told that it would take about 3-5 business days once we were released from the hospital, but the next day at 2pm we got a call from the case worker with LDS Family Services Albuquerque Office and she told us that we were free to go. We couldn't believe it. We packed up and within a few hours were on the road home. We drove all night and pulled into town about 4:30 a.m. Eliza was wonderful the whole drive home. She just slept and ate every 4 hours when we stopped to feed her.

On Monday we had an appointment with our pediatrician--usually they see babies at 2 weeks, but the hospital wanted a follow up around the 10th day. Eliza had gained back her birth weight weighing in around 6 lb 6 oz and was 19.5 inches long (her smallest birth weight that we're aware of was the Monday and Tuesday morning before she was released from the hospital when she was 5 lb 15 oz). At her appointment, the doctor said she looks great.

She is a little mixed up with her days and nights. During the day once she's fed and changed she usually falls back to sleep (I've been trying to do tummy time and keep her awake for a while but there are times when she just refuses!) but at night once she's fed and changed she's wide awake for a while. Usually I'm up sometime around 1 or 2 until 4:30 or 5:30. It might take a while, but we'll get her on the right schedule. So I'm a little tired/groggy at times, but she is sooo worth it. I've waited for for her for so long that I could never resent having to stay up with her. She is such a blessing and such a sweet girl with a little squeaky cry (before her full-blown cry) and her daddy and I love her.

My Aunt emailed me some questions so I thought I would post them here. They're a little outdated/late, so sorry about that:
*How did the court go?
We weren't there, but the case worker told us that Lauren did great (she relinquished her rights before a judge on Tuesday, August 5th). She was very committed to placing Eliza with us told us that she knew we were the right parents for Eliza. I'm glad she was able to continue feeling good about that decision.
*How is Eliza's pnemonia?
The blood work that they continued to do throughout her stay at the hospital never showed up as irregular, but because of the x-rays that were taken when she was first born, they continued to do the antibiotics. They took her off oxygen after about 3 days and continued to monitor her, but everything (oxygen, blood pressure, heart rate etc) stabilized and other than the monitors telling us that nothing was wrong, she wouldn't have needed to be hooked up to them after about Sunday or Monday.
*Does she drink a bottle okay?
She has been GREAT with a bottle since they first gave her some when she was a couple of hours low (her blood sugar was showing a little low at the time thus the feeding). She is a good gulper and for the most part a good burper. She consistently ate 2-3 ounces in the hospital with even a few 4 oz feedings every 4 hours. Since then she's pretty consistent with 4 oz, sometimes 5 oz. She had no problems getting the sucking reflex down.
*How long do you get to spend with her every day?
When she was in the hospital, we could have been there 24/7 if we would have wanted and could have held her every waking moment if we wanted. We didn't do that of course, but fortunately we got to spend a lot of time with her. The nurses let us change and feed her whenever we were there, too. And I gave her a bath on the Sunday that she was there.

Here are some cute Eliza facts:
*She loves getting her hair washed at the end of her bath.
*She hates getting her diaper changed. I always thought wipe warmers were the stupidest thing ever, but I've registered for one.
*She loves stretching. I stretch her during feedings before burping, but she also stretches on her own all the time. She often scrunches her face and purses her lips while stretching. I've yet to record it on film, but I will..
*She still has quite a bit of fuzzy hair on her cheeks, arms, and ears.
*Aug 11th during her night feeding she started this new trick of sucking but not swallowing. The milk runs all down her chin and onto her bib. She does it regularly now. It's when she is first being fed (usually after waking up). So I take the bottle away, give her a minute, and then she starts sucking and swallowing normally. It's a little strange.
*She makes the cutest squeaky whimpering noises usually before she starts crying
*Everyone who sees her comments on her big feet. I have nothing to compare her with, so I don't know--they look small to me ;)
*She gets the hiccups after almost every feeding.
*As of her last diaper change, her cord still hadn't fallen off, but it looks like it's really close to doing so.

I hope this post is satisfactory. If you still have questions about anything, please ask. I'll do my best to post more regularly and answer questions in a more timely fashion ;).


Little Dolly

This was taken at 1:00 a.m. when Eliza had finished eating but wasn't at all tired. She is a perfect doll and her parents little angel.

Sleeping Beauty


Sunday, August 10th

Getting Ready to Cry

Hmmmm.....


Sun, August 10, 2008. She stuck her finger in her mouth and we caught it on film. Josh thought it was the cutest thing.

Little Smiles

She smiles all the time while she's sleeping. It is so adorable.

Snuggling with Daddy and Mommy


The picture with mommy is in the car on the drive back to Utah about 1:20 a.m.

Home (in our hotel room) from the hospital

Car Seat Test


On Tuesday, August 5th, she had her car seat test. They wanted her to sit in the seat as long as her "drive home" would be, but since we were driving back to Utah, they decided to make the test 3 hours, since that would be about the time between feedings and diaper changes. We covered her car seat with a blanket and for 3 hours she did not make one noise. Our sweet girl passed with flying colors.

As you can tell by the picture, she is swimming in the car seat.

Eliza's Footprints


The nurses made this when Eliza was about 12 hours old.

First Bath Momma Gave


Sunday, August 3rd, 2008

12 Hours Old





I just realized I hadn't posted this picture. It's one of my favorites. She's 12 hours old here.

Feeding Time




Our little Eliza has been such a good eater since day one. She always has her hands up around her face and particularly loves grabbing her pacifier, bottle, and nose while eating. We stretch her before burping her and she loves it. My sister did this with her kids and feels like it really helped them burping. She tends to usually burp pretty well.

4 Days Old

Monday, August 4, 2008

Eliza Nicole



















Born: Thursday, July 31 2008 at 12:58 a.m.
Length: between 18.5 and 19 inches
Weight: 6 lb 4 oz
Head Circumference: 33.5 cm
Place of Birth: Albuquerque NEW MEXICO

Our little Eliza Nicole is here. We love her more than we can say.

We've known about Eliza for a couple of months (May 27th to be exact). She was a "He" until about 2 weeks before she was born. She was also due August 5th and then it was changed to August 19th. So she came a little earlier than we were expecting. It's been hard not to tell people, but adoption is so up in the air that we wanted to wait to be sure before we let people know.

Eliza's birth mother's name is Lauren. She is 18 and a single mother. She is not a member of the LDS church and has a daughter that turned 1 on July 29th. Lauren knew she couldn't be a good mother to both children and talked to some adoption agencies and ended up liking LDS Family Services the best. They sent her home and showed her how to look online at profiles. She and her mom went through profiles for about 4 hours online and then they came to our profile. She said that they read it and then looked at each other and they both had tears in their eyes and knew that we were the right couple for the baby.

We went down and met with Lauren the last weekend in June. She is a really sweet girl and mature for her age. She is a good little mom to her daughter Lexie, and we are eternally grateful to Lauren for recognizing that she could give Eliza a better life by placing her baby with us and giving us the gift of letting us become her parents. Lauren has sacrificed so much for us and we love her for that.

On Wednesday morning at 7:30 a.m. we got the call that Lauren was in labor and at the hospital to stay. We packed up as fast as we could, called our jobs and told them that we would be gone for a couple ofweeks, and we were on the road by 11:00. We got to Albuquerque about 9:00 p.m. thinking that the baby would already be born, but it wasn't--so we got to see Eliza when she was just a few seconds old.

We got to be in a delivery room right next to Lauren, so once the baby was born we heard crying and no more than 5 seconds later the nurses were bringing our crying baby into our room. They put a hat on her head, wrapped her in a blanket, and put her in my arms. We got to be with her for about an hour and a half before they took us all to the nursery to clean her up. They bathed her and did a bunch of different tests on her. She was a little low on oxygen and over the next few hours they took x-rays of her lungs and discovered that she had pneumonia. So they started her on antibiotics immediately and she was on oxygen for a couple of days. She's doing great, though. She has to be on antibiotics for 7 days, so she won't be released from the hospital until probably Thursday afternoon and then we have to stay in NM for a few more days while the NM courts talk to the Utah courts and get everything worked out. I imagine we'll be going back home in about a week and a half around Wed Aug 13th.

Lauren is very dedicated to placing this baby with us. She always referred to the baby as "Josh and Mari's baby" and told people she was carrying the baby for a couple that wasn't able to have a baby on their own. She will appear before a judge on Tuesday and sign the papers that state that Eliza will then belong to the state of NM.

We have spent a lot of time in the hospital--Eliza is in the "Intermediate" nursery because of the antibiotics. She has a nurse that is in charge of only 2 babies at a time, so she gets lots of attention. We get to hold her, feed her, change her, and I even gave her her 2nd bath on Sunday night. Josh absolutely loves her and she loves Josh, too. Josh had her little fingers wrapped around his index finger a couple of days ago and he tried to pull it away after a few minutes and she just held on tight and pulled his hand back down. She did it later that day again, too. I tried to do it with her that evening and she couldn't have cared less about my finger. She only likes her daddy's fingers I guess :). She is such a sweetheart.

We are so happy to finally have her in our family. We've waited for a long time and feel so thankful for this miracle that Heavenly Father has blessed us with.

Eliza is a name Josh and I both love.
Nicole is Lauren's middle name.