So to update everybody (finally) on what we are up to here:
We got our garden planted today, with the exception of the melons, peppers, tomatoes and squash. It was too windy and I got sick of it. We have planted 2 kinds of sweet corn, popcorn, lettuce, spinach, 4 kinds of carrots (or 6, can't remember), peas, green beans, radishes, beets (never even eaten fresh beets, we'll see if we like them), onions, cucumbers, red skinned potatoes and purple potatoes. The church service missionaries said that each hill of potatoes should produce 7-10 lbs of potatoes. We have 20 hills, I believe. Guess what everyone's getting for Christmas? We are so excited and now that it is planted, I can lose sleep stressing about whether anything will grow. I've already lost sleep 2 nights stressing about where to plant everything. I know, I'm crazy. Can't help it. We also seeded our back dirt so we'll see if that grows. otherwise, the kids will continue to play in our expanse of dirt and I will continue to wipe it out of the tub a few times a day. Let's face it, even if the grass does grow, they will still just play in the dirt and probably only walk through the grass to get to the dirt, they are kids after all. One fun thing with getting the yard ready is that when I was roto-tilling for the grass, I unearthed a whole city's worth of toys. We have everything from cars to Alf. Who knows how long that all has been buried, but I would guess quite a while.
I guess the easiest way to update would be by each person so we'll go youngest to oldest.....
Emelia
Emelia is 9 months old now and crawling like crazy. She took FOREVER to roll over, but it seemed like she rolled and crawled within just a couple of weeks. She eats EVERYTHING on the floor and it is always exciting trying to pry her mouth open to see what treasures she is chewing on. Just today, we had ponytail holders, various food dropped from older siblings, and my favorite, a thorn. Yes, I do vacuum at least once a day (twice today) but somehow, she finds what I could not see. She is a very happy, very big baby. She weighs 24 lbs and is 30.5" long. She sleeps well, usually, and has yet to keep me up all night. Both older kids love her and will do anything to make her happy, including banging things, singing, dancing and finding toys for her.
Evelyn
Evelyn will be 3 in just a couple of weeks. We cannot believe it. She is a talker and a mover. It is amazing that she is the one we were so worried about 3 years ago. She will probably have to have another surgery next year, but we will see. I asked her one day why she had a line on her chest just to see what her response would be and she looked at me like I was crazy (a look she has perfected) and said, "Betuz me yike yines on my chest!'" Then she just went back to playing. I don't worry about how she will handle questions from other kids. Evelyn is the most active sleeper I have ever seen and every night we go in to find her in some new crazy position, often not in her bed. The worst was one night when I was awakened by screams and went running into her room. She wasn't in her bed and the screams were muffled, so I thought she was under her bears sleeping in her doll bed. I groggily pulled the bears off and realized that the muffled cries were coming from the direction of Jacob's bed. I turned on the hall light and finally found her clear under Jacob's bed. I tried to pull her out by her legs at the foot of the bed, but when her head wouldn't fit, I tried to push her back under so I could pull her out by her arm. For some reason (couldn't be that she was disoriented and terrified), I wasn't having any success with that, so I went running (ok, stumbling..it was like 3 a.m.) into our room and yelled at Joseph to get up. He came in and picked up the end of the bed and I finally pulled Evelyn out. She cried for about a minute, then just walked over and got back in her bed and fell asleep. Now, you may wonder what Jacob did through all of this? He slept. On the bed we picked up. Didn't even stir.
Evelyn loves to play in her kitchen, cooking up some delicious food, getting dressed up in her jewelry to look like a princess, mothering her babies and going to the store (the one in our laundry room). I don't know if other little girls pretend to take her babies to the Doctor, but Evelyn often takes her babies to the "hopsil" (hospital). Her babies go to the hospital a few times a day, actually. Is that normal?
Evelyn has a really good memory, too. She often goes down the list of everyone she knows and asks where they are. She always wants to go to "Hama's house" (Grandma's house) and doesn't believe me when I tell her that it is not on the way to the post office. She is very independent and chooses all her own outfits and dresses herself. Sometimes we have to guide her in a new direction if we are going somewhere, but usually we just let her wear whatever she wants. Is it really hurting anybody that she wears her leggings with the legs pulled up to show off her mismatched socks pulled clear up to her knees with shoes on the wrong feet and a shirt that may or may not match anything she is wearing and is usually backwards? I didn't think so. She also loves to choose what we wear. She has definite opinions on what is proper attire for our daily tasks. One day, she even counseled me to change my clothes. Lucky for me, I only have a few choices and everything pretty much goes with everything else.
Jacob
Jacob is 4 1/2. He is learning to read and write and tries to spell things. He also loves to draw pictures for everyone. One morning, he woke me up to show me a picture he had drawn where he had written Love one another (that's what he told me it said). He had drawn a heart and then he wrote "lov" in it. He told me he wrote it so that I would, "love one another him." It was very sweet. He is very thoughtful and tries hard to be a peacemaker. More than once, I have heard him tell Evelyn that they are not supposed to fight and she needed to calm down. He loves to play with his blocks and has recently gotten into miniature golf. he doesn't really know what mini golf is, he just saw it on Curious George so he makes mini golf courses all over the house using whatever materials he can find. Jacob has also started making up his own jokes. They sometimes are knock-knock jokes, sometimes other jokes, but they almost always end with some use of the word "bat" or bananas. We don't know why bat and batty are such fun words, but they sure are for him. He is also learning tongue twisters. We repeat the "Betty Botter bought some butter... " one and the "Peter Piper picked a peck of pickled peppers..." one a lot. He thinks it's funny to combine them so Betty botter often buys a peck of pickled peppers to make her bitter batter better. He's a funny little kid. It's so fun having him old enough to have real conversations with him. It's amazing how much he understands and notices. If you need a scripture story, he probably can tell it better than me. His primary teachers always have some story about him saying funny things in class. One Sunday the kids were playing a Who's the Prophet Who....game based on the Follow the Prophets song. Apparently all the kids were shouting out random Prophets, but Jacob surprised them by actually yelling out the correct ones. Another Sunday around Easter, they were talking about why the wicked men killed Jesus. When the kids asked why Jesus had to die, Jacob told them, "You can ask my dad that. He's really clever." Jacob tells me often how clever he is and even told me once, "If there's anything you don't know, I know it."
Jacob is very concerned with eating healthy foods. He always asks me if what I'm giving him is healthy. I tell him what each food will do for him (make him strong, run fast, etc) before he eats pretty much everything. I have heard him tell Evelyn that he doesn't want to eat candy and cupcakes because they make you not strong. He tells us that he will NOT eat food that is not healthy for him and that he WILL take his vitamins every day (he does, by the way. Helps that they are the gummy vitamins and taste good). He was also the first one done with his cupcake tonight. He makes me laugh all the time.
Jacob is a good protector of his little sisters. One time when we were at the park, a kid who was bigger than Evelyn was being a bit too rough so Jacob went over to stand by her in case the kid was mean to his little sister. Being the peacemaker, though, he just told the kid to be more gentle and stop being mean. The kid just went on playing and never was mean to anybody, but Jacob was there to protect his sister. It made me happy. That's why I always wanted a boy first, so he could take care of things. Everybody should have a big brother.
Since we've been up here in Tuba, Jacob has also opened up quite a bit and is hardly shy at all. He answers people's questions and shakes hands with everyone. He surprises me with how much he has come out of his shell up here. When we go to the library, he goes with the librarian downstairs to bring up the toys and talks to her the whole way, telling her about going on the Father and Son's campout or planting the garden or whatever is going on. Huge difference from Nursery when his teachers asked us if he could even talk yet.
Me
I've been busy gettingthe garden ready, playing with the kids, cleaning the house, driving to and from Dr. appts for the girls, and all around being busy. I feel like I am always busy even though we really don't have anywhere we have to be most of the time. I have been experimenting in the kitchen an awful lot which is not really too great for my waistline, but is really fun. Like many stay-at-home moms, I feel like I clean and yell too much, play and dance with the kids too little jsut try to keep up with the kids. Another thing I stay awake at night stressing over is the fact that both older kids can start pre-school in August. I don't feel ready for it, but I know both of them will LOVE it. Up here there really aren't many kids their age, so they don't get much social interaction. In fact, until just a couple of weeks ago, Evelyn was the only kid in Nursery at church. She had the 2-3 teachers' undivided attention for 2 hours every week. Now there is another little boy who comes, so she actually gets to playwith someone her own age. Jacob has one kid his age who comes consistently to church and a couple of others who are less consistent. Other than that, they don't really get to play with anyone besides eachother. I found out that the high school just down the hill does pre-school, so I'm planning on letting both Jacob and Evelyn start. Up here, though, the pre-school is weird. Most of the kids go to pre-school at the elementary school from 8-3 every day. Yes, that's right, the 3-4 year olds go all day. I am hoping that the high school's program is not as much. I just don't think I'm ready to have my kids gone that long yet. They would probably be fine, I'm the one who would be too sad to have them gone so long. I just want them to have some extra social interaction, so we'll have to wait and see what we can work out.
I am the 2nd counselor in the Relief Society Presidency and get to teach often. We usually have about 10-13 women in RS and they are all very nice. Everyone in the ward loves to see our red-headed kids as we are somewhat of an anomoly. One lady, upon seeing Emelia, said, "I have never seen a baby with red hair. Was she born like that?" We have plenty of volunteers to hold Emelia while I teach, but usually she just goes with Joseph.
Joseph
Joseph finished his Master's of Arts degree in English Language Learning. he's been working on it for almost 2 years and got done about a month ago. We are very excited to have him done. The evaluator for his Capstone project said that she wanted to read more and that his project was "a rare example of excellence." It was very gratifying for him that she liked it so much. He is done with regular school for the summer and has had this week off to help me get the yard and house in order. He also has next week off before he starts teaching summer school for the month of June. We are planning on going camping, but we'll see if the wind lets up. It is super windy here often and if it is windy on Monday, there is no way I'm going to camp. The wind makes me crazy. (everyone like how I turned Joseph's section right around to be about me?) He loves teaching here and says that the challenges here are just different from challenges in Phoenix. He says that as a whole, kids up here are inherently smarter than kids in Phoenix, but they lack motivation. The kids he taught in Phoenix worked a lot harder than many students up here. He's working out how to teach best here and is enjoying the challenge.
Joseph is also the 2nd counselor in the Young Men's presidency. He is supposed to work with the deacons (12-13 year olds). There are 3 who come. They don't all come at the same time, however. He's also the Scoutmaster. Soon, he will start going on campouts-probably after the summer break since most people are gone all summer.
Well, that's about all I can think of. We did have a funny experience recently that is worth reporting. I was changing my clothes to join everyone out in the back yard. As I was changing, I heard some kids dribbling a basketball on our front walk right outside the bedroom window. I looked up to try to figure out why in the world kids were playing basketball in our yard and saw, not kids with balls, but 2 horses eating the only green vegetation in our yard. It just happened to be right outside our bedroom window. I ran to the back yard to get the kids and they thought it was hilarious that these horses were so close they could touch them. We were really nose-to-nose except for the glass in between us. We have no idea who they belonged to, but they did make a manure contribution for our garden. That part was more exciting to the kids than it was to me. Stray dogs and horses are not an uncommon sight here.
Now that really is all I can think of. How's that for 6 months worth of updates? No pictures this time, though. It's almost 2:00 am. If you want to see what we look like now and what Tuba city looks like, I guess you'll just have to come visit us. I'll make you cookies if you come.......promise.