The Bravest Person I Know

After nearly a year of battling pancreatic cancer, my cousin Amberly passed away peacefully in her home yesterday. There are no words to express my feelings for her. She was brave. She was kind. She was beautiful. She lived the Gospel of Jesus Christ in her every action, word, and deed. My thoughts and prayers are with her husband, Jason, and her sons Davin (8), Collin (6), Aaron (6), and Nathan (4). Check out her blog (bring a tissue with you).

jasandamrhodesfamily.blogspot.com

Benny Boy

I am having so much fun with my 31/2-year-old right now. It is just such a fun age. Lately he has been calling me "My Lady." For instance, the other day he asked me, "Will you draw with chalk with me My Lady." Who can resist that. Sometimes he also calls me mother. "Mother can I have another cookie." Josh is the only other one of my kids who calls me mother. For some reason that term just melts my heart. I am so grateful to be a mother!

I LOVE Paris!

I recently returned home from six days in Paris. It was amazing! To keep the story short, my mom retired from the airlines, so all McPhies can fly for virtually free. My sisters and I decided in January that we needed a break. My dad has been to Paris several times in the last two years and offered to accompany us as our tour guide. He also offered to pay for our hotel. Who can pass up a free hotel room and almost free flight to Paris? Anyway, I was nervous to leave the kids, but all was well and we had a terrific time. I highly recommend Paris in the springtime!

Library Fun

Ben and I went to the library today for storytime. I was sadly disappointed. Our favorite storytime lady, Miss Joan, has retired. She has been replaced by a woman with the personality of a rock. Seriously, a degree in Library Science does not make you good with kids. I doubt this woman has children of her own. Needless to say, she couldn't keep my attention let alone the other 2 to 3-year-olds in the room. By the way, who thinks it is okay to take a child out when they are coughing up a lung. Seriously, do we all want RSV? There were kids there that I could officially diagnosis with bronchitis. Back to the point, how hard is it entertain some preschoolers. If any of you moms need a second job, we are in desperate need of a story lady with some personality.

The highlight of the trip was when the mother with three kids under the age of 4 had a complete nervous breakdown in the library and started SCREAMING at her kids. It made everyone (including the library employees) uncomfortable. I admit there were times I took on too much when I had all little ones at home, but this was out of control. She was yelling, "You are stressing me out" loud enough for all to hear. Are you ever embarrassed for someone else? This was bad. It made me wonder if she had ever tried this before.

Happy Birtheday Sam!

My oldest son turned 12 yesterday! Where does the time go. I am waxing nostalgic for the days of finger painting and making cookies with mom. Although there are many moments I am looking forward to, I somehow yearn for the past. Does anyone else feel this way. There are days I want to put all my kids in a bottle and freeze them the way they are now. I guess I just fundamentally hate change. As a side note, I don't like getting older either. All of my issues aside, I have the best 12-year-old boy a mom could hope for. Sam, we love you!

PS. Am I the only one who doesn't think a 12-year-old needs an tPod Touch?

More Reflections....

We just got a letter inviting Hannah to an awards ceremony next week. Apparently her dance won at the district level. The next level will be state. Wish us luck!

3-Year-Old Joy

My 3-year-old just told me that I can't tell him no because he is a child of God. Good to know he is paying attention in Primary