Old Soul

Tonight I caught myself drowning in some of the old songs, and also roughly scrolled through this old blog of mine, those content I used to blog about, pretty funny reading what my younger self had to say, and remembering the glorious blogging era, now has also somewhat died down.

Saw that I actually started blogging since 2006, those days I was still studying, passing exams, submitting assignments, hanging out with friends, puppy love, to now where I am, I must say it's a huge milestone. Now a mother to three, been through different work experiences, but one thing seems to remain the same, I am still as lost, as emotional as I was.

Is the nights like these, that I have so much to think about, to feel, to remember.

Saw this very good quote somewhere :
Often enough people keep wishing they can go back in time to fix certain things, but no one really think about what they can do at the present to impact a better future.

Let us all do better now, for a greater future?

单身好还是一起好？

前几天才和我的一位好朋友谈到这个话题， 他说他很担心自己为什么还是单身一族，而我已经结了婚有了孩子。

我想了想，其实不管你现在是什么身份，我觉得最重要还是要开心幸福。

有些人会说：哇你有豪车驾，有大房子住，你嫁的很好叻！
顿时的我很想就说’难道这些事测量一个人幸不幸福？很肤浅喔。

如果那个女人有豪车，有大房子，可是老公却完全是那一种不会体会，谅解，不疼家人的，那你还会说她家的好吗？那宁愿单身不嫁，起码知道不必憋着这一股气到入土。

那如果一个女人没有什么豪车，大房子，但是还是有那基本的生活设备，老公孩子一家大小和谐共处，我觉得这个才叫真正的嫁得好。

俗语说，宁愿单身，都不要急着嫁人，凡事都好好好的思考，也不要因为那一时的冲动，换来一生的不幸福。