Monday, June 10, 2013

Summer Goals!

Now, I don't know about you all, but the idea of having all four of my kiddos home all day long with nothing to do terrifies delights me.  Last Summer we spent a great deal of our time travelling so there was no boredom to be found, but alas, this year will be different.  I have nightmares about waking up to the television blaring, empty cereal boxes all over the place, and four kids in their pajamas until noon screaming "I'm BOOOORED!" every five minutes.  Oh no, friends, do NOT sign me up for that!  So in the spirit of keeping my kids out of my hair teaching my kids about working toward goals, I decided this year to implement Summer goals.



I began this project last Monday during FHE.  Andy and I talked to the kids about the importance of setting personal goals and working toward them.  Then I gave them their four categories in which to set their goals:

  • Physical
  • Mental
  • Spiritual
  • Service
We helped each child set 2-3 goals for the first three categories, and then at least one for Service.  Once this was done, I typed them up and added them to the nifty binder you see above.  I also developed a daily checklist for them to keep track:


You can see that on one side are Shelbie's goals, and the other side is her checklist.  I put them in page protectors so they can mark them off each day with a dry erase marker and the next week we can just wipe it clean.  Save money the planet, and all that.  ;)



The first page of the binder explains the token and uh-oh systems to the kids so they have it in writing.  Each day that they meet all their goals they get 2 tokens for the day.  If they miss one goal they only get one token, if they miss two or more they forfeit all tokens that day.  (mean momma alert!)  They can exchange their tokens for treats at their value (5 tokens equals $1) or for privileges (5 tokens equals an hour on electronics or extra hour with friends outside).


Today I will be creating my job chart and uh-oh jar.  The job chart is fairly self-explanatory.  Each child will have a job every day that they must complete to earn that check mark on their goal sheet.  The uh-oh jar is for when they annoy the heck out of me break the rules.  There will be penalty sticks in the jar that have extra jobs on them, like dog poop patrol or wash the walls in the hallway.  You know, stuff I don't want to do stuff that makes them think twice about being naughty.  More on that later!

Owens goals:


Andrew's goals:


Vance's goals


And there you have it friends!  Hope this little system gets your creative juices flowing so you can keep your own kids out of your hair develop your own children into goal setting machines!  Happy Summer 2013!!

Thursday, October 27, 2011

Arlington and Baltimore

On our way home from Mount Vernon we went to Arlington cemetery in VA.  It is such a humbling experience, it brought tears to my eyes a few times just thinking about the ultimate sacrifice on our behalf that so many have made.  I only took a few pics, in the interest of being reverent to the experience.  One is of Arlington house, which is such a beautiful place and has a rich history all it's own, and the others are of the monument placed to honor my Grandpa's old Regiment, The Rakkasans.




We were fortunate enough to see the changing of the guard while we were there too.  I am such a dork, I made sure to count his footsteps every time to see if it is just a myth, but it isn't.  They really do take 21 steps each time.  It was such a cool thing to watch, and I am thankful that we have soldiers willing to perform that duty, 24 hours a day, 7 days a week, come wind, rain, snow, holidays, etc.  Thank you!!!

The next day we headed over to Baltimore.  First stop was Fort McHenry.  (are you noticing a trend on this vacation?  I am the biggest history geek ever, I'm pretty sure!)  Fort McHenry was so freaking cool!  In case you need a refresher, it was constructed  after we won our independence, and it's a darn good thing because only 16 years later it came under attack by the British Navy during the War of 1812!  The flag that flew over Fort McHenry was the flag Francis Scott Key saw still flying on the morning of Sep 14, 1814, after he had been forced to watch the attack aboard a truce ship.  That very morning he began the poem "The Defense of Fort McHenry", which of course was later renamed "The Star Spangled Banner" and became our National Anthem.  (The flag is on display at the American History Museum in Washington, DC, in case you are interested!)

Anyway, so it was July 3rd and we arrived at Fort McHenry in the morning.  There just so happened to be some historical reenactors on scene, dressed in military regalia dating to the time of 1812.  During that time, to celebrate Independence Day, there would be a large assembly in the town square and the Declaration of Independence would be read aloud before the local militia fired off their cannons.  This day was no different, each of us in the crowd was given a copy of the Declaration and called upon to read part of it aloud.  Owen was picked out of the crowd to bang the drum each time someone would read a grievance from the list!  Super cool way to commemorate my favorite holiday!  After the reading, they fired the cannons and holy moses that is the LOUDEST noise I have ever heard!  Imagine if it had been a full charge!  I should think that many men in those days had hearing problems, seeing as how a much larger proportion of our population was involved in military operations!



Enlisted barracks, various offices...


the building to the left of the flag housed the higher-ranking officers.  Behind the flag, through the open doorway on the right were prison cells that at one time housed Confederate Rebels!  Underneath that building there are two bomb shelters.  We went down there, and let me tell you, two cannons went off and it seriously sounded like the end of the world!  I can not imagine what it sounded like when the fort was under attack!

a lead ball that landed here, and various cannons

Owen was a good sport and went into one of the prison cells.  Seriously creepy, people!  The only things the prisoners could see looking through these bars were a brick wall and the steps leading to the cells.  There was just enough room for a sleeping pallet.  I walked in and was immediately claustrophobic, which is not like me, but I would have lost my mind being locked up in there!

looking out toward the harbor

They kept their ammo in bunkers, so if it went off the damage was minimal

Andy, Van, Mark, and Drew down in one of the ammo bunkers

After we left there we headed over to the Inner Harbor and toured some of the historic ships there.  The first one, the USS Constellation, was a flagship from 1859-1861.  The crew aboard fired more cannons, and Andy and Owen helped hoist it.

sitting on the Constellation's anchor




looking across the harbor.  The USS Torsk is the sub you can see.  It did over 10,000 dives in it's career!

Kings of the world!  (lol, I totally made them do this pose for me!  hehe)

manning the giant cannons below deck

looking down the hatches you could see 3 decks below!

entrance to the dining room

Captain's quarters

Junior officer's bunk.  look how tiny!

Me and my mom

kiddos in the bulkhead

I know this sounds weird, but I wish we had gotten a picture of the captain's bathroom!  He was the only one who had an actual bathroom (with a tub, even!), everyone else had to hang their heiny off the bow sprit.  Could you imagine?  Makes me wonder how many men were lost at sea for that reason alone?  (shudder).

Next up was the USS Torsk.  I was super excited for this one, I have always wondered what submarines REALLY look like!  I used to work with a lot of retired military, and most of them were from the Navy.  One in particular used to work sonar on a sub during the cold war and he had stories that made my blood run cold...  I couldn't wait to get inside and look around!

Enlisted racks

Engine room

the boys outside

Inside it is essentially one long hallway, with small compartments on either side and gadgets and gizmos and things EVERYWHERE, and you have to climb through what are basically port holes every so often.  There is no way you could have two-way traffic in the thing, everyone must have been so organized to have not been on top of each other all the time!  I can certainly see why there are no women on the crew (the quarters are TIGHT, no privacy at all) and quite frankly I am surprised I have never heard stories of the men trying to kill each other from insanity!  Of course, that probably has to do with all the extensive psychological testing they have to go through to even be considered for the job!

By the time we were done on the sub the kids were starving so we went to Dick's to eat.  Ever been there?  Man, the name fits!  They are all a bunch of a-holes, seriously!  (pardon my french!)  The whole point is for them to be ridiculously rude, and they make hats for everyone that make fun of you.  Our waiter actually told me I was lucky my kids were old enough to read or mine would have been much worse!  I guess I'll always have to wonder about what he had in mind!








There was one point where the waiter was walking by and asked Owen if he wanted a refill.  Owen said yes so the waiter says "well get off your butt and come get it" (lol) so Owen followed him and when he came back he had this:

I won't lie, I had to adjust my attitude right away in there.  The hostess was super rude to Van and I almost came unglued on her when Andy reminded me that that was the point.  I took a deep breath and held my cool but I promise had she said another word to my "baby" it would have been her last!  He was 2, he didn't understand the concept of the restaurant, ya know?

After we left the inner harbor we decided to swing by Babe Ruth's birthplace before we headed back to mom's.  Andy and I are H U G E baseball fans and the Babe is one of our faves.  Next time we go to Baltimore we are doing an entire "Babe" tour.  His birthplace is now a museum and rumor has it the Industrial school for boys is still around.  Yep, sign me up to see that!!!!


Next up, Independence Day in D.C.!!!!  (seriously, what better place to celebrate?!?)

Tuesday, October 25, 2011

Summer Vacay......Mount Vernon!

The day after our adventure in Harper's Ferry we headed to Mount Vernon.  I was beyond blown away by it!  I think I expected an old home on a modest farm; nothing like what it really is!  George Washington was truly a visionary, a man before his time.... He became owner of Mount Vernon (acquired after his older brother's untimely death) at age 21.  21!!!!  Can you imagine?  In his 20's he became a military hero in the French and Indian War, and then had a brief break in his 30's at home to be married and to expand his estate to 6,500 acres! In his 40's he led the American Revolution and then of course he was the first President of the United states from 1789 - 1797.  He enjoyed two short years of retirement before his death, which was caused by a throat infection that today would be cured easily by antibiotics.  He had a very unique crop rotation system that was unheard of then but is still being emulated today.  Cheesy or not, he is truly one of my heroes and there was so much more to his life than what they teach you in history class!


Inspiring words......



Finding some shade

coming up the drive...

Drew could not get over the size of this 250 year old tree!!!

In addition to his military and political successes, President Washington was also very interested in botany.  This is his greenhouse for exotic plants, as well as his "english garden".  He had many different gardens on the grounds, all dedicated to different "types".


The only place in the house we could take pics was the kitchen

The South side of the house.  The portico that you see leads to the kitchen.  The second floor windows are in the bedroom George and Martha shared.

The back of the house

The girls!

love this man!

What a view!!!

The building on the left is guest quarters, with a portico leading to the main house.

The building on the right is the kitchen, with the cook's quarters upstairs.

Seriously, how cool is this?  I want one!

The original family tomb.  In his will, Pres. Washington made specifications for a new tomb to be erected.

The "new" tomb, where George and Martha and various family members lie. There is "graffiti" carved into the bricks, most of which occurred during the Civil War.  Soldiers from both sides would lay down their arms to come pay their respects while passing through the area.  I guess they couldn't resist leaving something behind?  lol

The grounds are beyond beautiful

A map of the estate, drawn by George Washington himself.

I feel like these pics don't do it justice, it really is one of those places you need to see!!!  I left there inspired to become a better person.  Little known fact: upon hearing the news of Washington's death, Napoleon ordered ten days of mourning throughout France.  People all over the world were saddened by the loss of such a great man.  What an incredible life he led!!!  I am personally very grateful to him and his service.  I know for certain our great Nation would be much different without having had his incredible vision and influence!!!  And let's not forget Martha, the original American Army Wife!!!  During the Revolutionary War George was gone for EIGHT years, people!  Granted, she did winter with the troops a few times, but c'mon!  EIGHT YEARS?!?!?  Mad respect!!!!!