Sunday, May 9, 2021

How Open-Minded are Malaysians Nowadays

 


It's been a peaceful morning until I came across a post shared by my cousin in Facebook today. The post showing screenshots of the process of these two person trying to file complains or you can say "giving feedback" to two bookstores, namely Kinokuniya and MPH, asking them to take down a book called Heartstopper by Alice Oseman, down from their shelves and their website. Surprisingly, both of this bookstores did took them down physically and also from their site. Knowing that they actually did kind kinda disappoint me at some point especially Kinokuniya because I would assume that Kinokuniya is the more "open-minded" one. 

I've started working in a company which is based in Australia and New Zealand recently and I've learnt that companies nowadays are trying to embrace the concept of diversity and inclusion (D&I). Especially during the pandemic, D&I seems to be much significant to them. New job title such as Diversity & Inclusion Manager is a must in some of these companies. Talking about moving forward, how could Malaysia move forward when so many countries are embracing D&I but Malaysians are busy taking down LGBTQ+ theme books down the shelves of bookstores. I thought we already did moved a tiny step forward until today, I think we are actually moving a few steps backward. Not only we failed to move towards Vision 2020, I even doubt if we can make it to Vision 3030. 

Talking about the two person who were featured in the post earlier, which I will not disclose their identity, one of them is actually a Prof Madya. She actually did make a few statements that she claimed to be facts, without any link or source that would support her facts. In my opinion, her statement actually contradict her own statement:
  • Men-Sex-With-Men in Gay and Bisexual remains the group with the highest risk for HIV and is closely monitored in every countries of the world.

    THIS IS NOT A STATEMENT OF HATRED. WE CARE ABOUT EVERYONE WHETHER YOU'RE MINORITY OR MAJORITY BUT WHEN IT COMES TO HEALTHCARE, IT'S A COLLECTIVE RESPONSIBLITY.


Of course she did make other statements on transgender as well but let's take a look on this statement alone for now because she did insert a link to the article on transgender which I still couldn't access to free. So in the above statement, she stated that gay and bisexual people have higher risk of getting HIV compared to heterosexual people. Without any statistical proof, we cannot say that the statement is 100% correct especially when she claimed that "in every countries of the world". Let's assume if this statement is true, I still do feel that the following sentence in capital letters is contradicting with her action and her statement. At the end of this particular post of her she did inserted:

DON'T FAIL OUR CHILDREN. GUIDE THEM.

She stated that her concern is about the healthcare of everyone, particularly she wants to educate the young ones on HIV, but shouldn't she tackle the topic of HIV as a whole rather than picking it on the LGBTQ+ community? This is where we see her statement clearly contradict with her action. If she eradicate the LGBTQ+ communities in the world, it doesn't mean that she eradicate HIV as well. You can still get HIV from heterosexual, drug usage, etc, etc, etc! The right way to guide the children is not by keeping them away from the fact that LGBTQ+ exist but to show them. If they are part of the LGBTQ+ community, you still can do nothing to change that but you still can guide them to live a healthy life. Keeping them in the dark would make it worse. Imagine they would be curious and try to explore by themselves and the probability that they would stray to the wrong path would be even higher.

The other person who cooperate with the Prof Madya in this movement actually did make quit an offensive comment in the process of doing so:

  • MPH CLICK Thank you. Let's work together in building a better society.

I don't know what would people think of that statement, but I do think it is very offensive to the LGBTQ+ community. To me it sounds like they are worthless and their existence kinda make the society not so good? 

The question is, does it really need to be until the point of taking down these books from the shelves and the website of the bookstores? I do understand some religions do not support the LGBTQ+ community and with much respect, Kinokuniya and MPH are not religious bookstores that sells only religious books. They are actually bookstores for every skin colour, shapes, age and sexuality (Correct me if these bookstores are not D&I friendly). 

In the end, we could still access to Heartstopper online. You can't stop your kids from browsing the web can you? Or you can even watch it in Netflix because there is a TV series based on these books!

(p/s: I'm not paid to promote Heartstopper!)

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Monday, September 1, 2014

August: All about FOOD!

August is definitely a month that I'm gonna grow FAT! Well, it all started with my birthday~ 

Or the day before my birthday where I suddenly received messages from Jia Herng asking me for dinner.
I was surprised that he would drive all the way from Klang to UM just for a dinner! (sorry JH! XD)
I was thinking," Hmm... this should be Teck Yong's farewell dinner before he go to Korea..."
And then we end up in Oiso because somehow the impression I gave to most people is that I'm a Korean! XD .....OK! Not funny.....

 Hmm..I forget what this called but it's not Soondubu  Jjigae hahaha

Dinner at a Korean Garden...hahaha

And Ah Sai pretend to go GSC for some work business but he was actually went to buy a slice of cake as a surprise when we went back UM! 
I'm so stupid that I didn't even notice the packet of stuff was a slice of Secret Recipe cake when we were meeting at the parking lot before heading back that he was actually swinging it up high saying it's a free popcorn!
So, I owe u guys a thank! (to JH, TY, Sheng and Sai)

OK! On my birthday, Sher Lynn, as always as every year date me out for dinner. This year, Cocoro was with us! We went to a restaurant called Andes BYO which belongs to Sher's friend. We had lambs! and a very special fries made of luncheon meat called Porky Fries if I'm not mistaken.

This is what I had for that day~ Simple yet delicious served with mushroom sauce. (Cocoro chose black pepper sauce)

This is what Sher had!Chilli Padi Lamb? It taste great and I'm gonna try that the next time I visit that place!

Porky Fries!

Of course it didn't just end there... We went to Rekindle for second round~

Thanks Sher for always celebrating my birthday with me almost every year on the exact day! And thanks Cocoro for celebrating it this year!

The next one was not actually a planned birthday celebration but Kiki Wong was here to pass me the birthday card she made me. They're in Chinese and kinda deep which I gave up translating them until she told me she made a mistake by sticking the wrong content... That was supposed to be Jia Jia's LOL! Well, we had our lunch or brunch together with Sheng and Yong Quan at Plan B.

Omelette!

Leftover of Kiki's food!

The next celebration was a surprise as well! Susan was the one who booked me and supposed Marilyn and Cocoro are joining as well.
However, on that day, she pretend that she forget to update them which I believe and last minute 'jio' them.
By the time we reach their house, I saw a car similar to Sher's and debate with Susan what car did Sher drive!
Cocoro acts nothing when I'm asking her is that the type of car Sher drives and she answer me she don't know what's Sher's car plate number. So I was convinced Sher's not there... 
When we enter their room, Deng Deng Deng Deng! Sher's there holding a slice of cake!
That was a surprise coz the original plan was without Sher~
To be honest, when I saw the car I thought maybe Sher was there to meet up with Cocoro which is a coincidence but then I was convinced by Cocoro that Sher's not there.
Then after having the cake we headed to SOULed OUT!

Steak! Supposed to be served with wedges if I'm not mistaken but I request for mashed potato~ Thanks Susan for this delicious meal~

 Well, SOULed OUT is one of the restaurant at Nexus which is located at Bangsar South. A little bit hot cause it's outdoor and kinda like a bar for the indoor.

It is so nice that a picture is a must! XD Thanks babes!

After dinner, Marilyn bought me a cup of Chatime! XD

Next was the gathering with POSUM gang! Mostly everytime that when we were having gathering is because Li Ee's coming back from Japan but this time it was because Jye Ming's came from Johor! Believe it or not, we met Ee more than we met Ming!
We meet up at Bangsar where we had our brunch at Yeast! Me and Sher share our meal and Susan and I share a soup of the day!

Egg Benedict!

Soup of the day: Potato and Leek soup (Am I correct?) Definitely yummy cause it taste so potato-ish!
After the light meal (since we are sharing our meals), we plan to hang out at Artisan in Bangsar Village (after a long discussion). Actually, the day before that I went to the Artisan at PJ with Phillip Chee and I order the same thing~ LOL

Mocha and Cheese slice! Which I notice both branches use different name so it's either Cheese Slice or Cheese Pie

I'm glad that we are still meeting up from time to time although everytime not everyone are here!

The next was with Jeff, Wilson and Trey where Jeff did plan it for a long time! Thanks for that! We had our dinner at D' Balcony Bar at Publika~ Their service kinda so so and well, it feels like u're in Overtime. Band were singing but they were more to classical songs I guess.

Ribs!! Pork Ribs! That's what we had! well it's a little bit dry but I guess ribs are supposed to be dry instead of having gravy all over it.
After that, we went to Journal by Plan B for coffee and cakes but too bad I don't have any picture of the cake. They Chocolate Banana cake taste great though.

The next was Marilyn's birthday! We were planning for a surprise for her at Brotzeit but I guess we failed a little bit. Hahaha! We were supposed to treat her food but end up she was paying the most!

Birthday girl with her 'surprise cake'
This definitely look nice and taste nice as well

When we are talking about German food how can we missed German sausage?!
Crispy pizza with sausages and mushrooms on it! My type of pizza coz I like thin pizza!
A side dish, I guess it's like a type of pasta.
A cocktail I guess, the one without alcohol. Reminds me of Nicki Minaj though
Another ribs for this month. This one comes with sauce of course separately (Personally prefer this than the one at D' Balcony). Marilyn's the one paying coz she says usually the birthday one should treat others to eat! Thanks Marilyn!

So, it's the end of August which means time to go home. On that night, had dinner with dad and mum at Sugar Melon at One City~ The Skypark is nice though!

Lamb Shank is what I had! Thought it says it comes with broccolli in the menu but where are they?? Like the mashed potato and gravy though. The meat is soft and just nice!
 
Well, that's it!

Before I end this post, I like to thank those who wishes me for my birthday and the effort of planning those celebration and not forgetting those who bought me presents!

Thanks to Kiki Wong who made the effort to make a birthday card for me, cousin Samantha for the TOPMAN vouchers! And Wilson for the book!
Well, once awhile I love having a cup of coffee or maybe a slice of cake while sitting in a nice Cafe and do some reading. (Picture taken in EspressoLab at NU Sentral)



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Sunday, June 16, 2013

KK4 I Heart Yet I Hate

WARNING! This blog post might look offensive for some people but this in ONLY MY OPINION! Anyone can disagree and give comment but I'm not gonna start any argument. Any potential comment of starting an argument will be ignore but won't be deleted.

KK4 is a really nice place to stay, seriously! Big windows with good aeration and of course not forgetting 4th CC which used to be known as KKCB which is a home for me for 5 years in UM even I'm not staying in KK4 anymore for the fifth year.

These are the only reasons why I heart KK4

As for the reason why I hate KK4....

.....it would be so much to talk about...Let's start by reminding everyone about the movie Mean Girls by Lindsay Lohan, this is actually what's happening in KK4 but with a little bit of twist! They add in some politics and also the most sensitive issue ever, Racism!

No doubt.... everyone notice that but no one would ever touch this sensitive issue publicly. I'm not saying that everyone who stays in KK4 is racist but I'm saying the environment provided in KK4 is racist which makes us kinda racist as well... I can tell u guys when I'm in school, I mix with Malays and Indians... I still can have Malay friends or Indian friends here in KK4 but sometimes due to the environment provided, it makes us awkward and in the end cause the formation of barrier between us... I don't have problems with my Malay coursemates... but why do I have difficulty to mix with other race in KK4? Yes! The environment...

Now, what cause this environment??

Well, just like in Mean Girls, the most powerful person in KK, indeed not the master, or even the penyelia Pn. S, who might think that she control the master or even the whole KK, but IN MY OPINION, I'm sorry to say but u're just fooled and was controled by the "MEAN GIRLS" group in KK4.

Am I wrong? Then how would the members of MEAN GIRLS get to stay in KK4? When even some of them may have graduated? I will leave this part and let u guys think about it...

The next thing I wanna talk about is the 1MALAYSIA concept... What do u guys think is 1MALAYSIA? Band all Chinese and Indian activities? Band KKCB and KKIB?

My point of view about this is, they did a very big mistake! I would say 1MALAYSIA is we get to know other races better, accept each other, and understand each other! Excuse me, u band all those activities how do we get to know each others?? I tell u what, I enjoy Pesta Ponggol by KKIB! That's the time when I really see 1MALAYSIA! Now if u ask the 1st year juniors who are not Indian what is Ponggol, Do u think all of them can answer your question? Hell NO!

Honestly, 4 years of staying in KK4, I only depends on KKCB but when I try out the interview for JKP for my 3rd year, I got rejected. So don't blame me for not trying to join their activities.. I did... I just got rejected... one more thing I notice... where is the coffee or tea and cookies during study week which is provided by JKP KEMAS? No more... Phoebe, I really miss it when u're the pengerusi! 

Now let's get to the most interesting part!

KK4 Portal in Facebook!

Hahaha! I admit I did post a lot of stuff there! but I think most people agree with that except for the victims of the post, which are also the admins and/or their friends...

And see how I end up in Portal KK4...

I GOT KICKED OUT!
Funny right?? Hahaha! OK! now u guys must have wonder maybe they "removed" me coz I'm not staying in KK4 anymore.... but please check ya... I saw Jun Wen, Ah Shiah, Selina.... and many more....

So I guess I got kicked out coz I post stuff about them smoking in the dorm as it is forbidden! And one more thing is when I post it, my post actually got removed by the admins... A few people saw that happen too...

I'm not mad because I got kicked out.... but I really felt it is unfair...

Guys, still remember when u guys ask why I don't wanna ask if KK4 still got space or not? I hesitate before I answer you guys... Coz I lied... I never wanted to moved back to KK4 actually... but I really miss you guys... I miss 4th CC...  That's why I always go back and have fun with you guys... too bad... KK4 is quite a "dirty" place to stay for me.... Anyway, GOOD LUCK for those who get to stay...

Again, I would like to remind u guys... this post is just to express my opinion and my feelings but not to brainwash or to scare anyone of you... Sorry if I offended any of the readers...


confession of emoboy...

Thursday, June 21, 2012

The reply of the goodbye letter~

Thx to u, babe for the letter~
I should reply u in a more proper way such as in hand-written letter but I guess it's too late~

This reply most probably talk about my emo-ness that u are curious about...
Hmm...basically, yup! Less emo nowadays!
but u know there is still one reason or factor that gonna make me emo...
which it won't last long~ (As long as he's not in my sight, I'll just recover right away)

I guess it's not really the SAD-type-of-EMO~ Instead it is the ANGRY-type-of-EMO...
Ya...My anger just grow easily lately~
that's one of the reason I guess that kinda cause a minor roommate problems with me..
I got frustrated when things kinda block my way as u know our room is messy~
but I didn't come clean with them coz I think it's my own problem but don't worry...the anger doesn't last long too~

I think I'm getting better in controlling my emotion (except u know what) or should I say getting better in reducing it...
So I don't think u did miss out any updates~

I'm not sure if I'll be in 4th next sem but keep in touch anyway~ hmm...I guess that's all~
Thx for the letter again~

Jason Ryan Salvatore
XOXO


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Friday, January 27, 2012

New year better life?


These few days I think I got some new luck~
There're a few people hitting on me through FB~
Some just added but some added for a long time but just notice me I guess~Haha
And some I got quite a good response these few days~

So I considered it to be a good sign~
Until today, I open all my red packets,
Count the amount..
Suprisingly the total bring good sign as well~
888~ LOL~

So I wish this year gonna be a great year~
The year of Dragon as I am one of the Dragons~
Hwaiting!!!


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Tuesday, January 3, 2012

Another New Year~~~

It's 2012...
I thought I won't be going to club for the countdown..
Erm...it's partially true..
End up countdown in a car watching fireworks coz we were stuck in traffic..
And reach club at 2am...

Basically the next day wake up very late.
and spend the night in MidValley for dinner~
Oray, Keith and Sher Lynn~ XD
No Doubt~ ZanMai again~

By the time we finished our meal, shops were closed
So our second round was in Sunway Giza~
+ Jayson~

I like it when we were hanging around coz it seems like it's more 'free'
Like Sher said, "I can be myself"

I hope there's still next time~ XD
It different from it when I was hanging around with the Grapes..
Of course I didn't mean it's not fun~
There's just different feeling and different stuff to talk about~


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Tuesday, December 27, 2011

New Buddy~~ ^^

During Christmas Eve, I met a guy through one friend...
He was so quiet at 1st...
Then something happened~

I guess that is how we started to talk.

During Christmas night,
Me, Sher and Susan asked him out for a drink..
At least our Christmas is not that boring~LOL~

I still remember before we came out with that plan we were driving around UM coz there's nothing we can do~ XD

Anyway, that was so nice of him that he sent me back after that~ :)

The next day, thought we would go for movie but in the end it was canceled...
So, it end up only the two of us wandering around Midvalley- had dinner and walked around~
And suprisingly we were chatting all the way!

It's unusual for me to be able to talk to someone so much that if I only get to know that person for a few days BUT he is the exception~

He even continue chatting at my place after we came back from Midvalley~

So, I came out with the conclusion that at last I found a close buddy which I am sure that stuff like what happened previously will not happened again~

I'm glad to know you~~


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