Monday, October 25, 2010

大学

来到大学生涯的尾端,
感触良多。。
两年半的时间,
说长不长,
说短不短;
回忆在这两年半里,
的确经历了很多事情,
有甜酸苦辣,
而我也从中学会了许多 ;
感谢所有陪我度过大学生涯的人。。
过完这个星期,
再也没机会逃课了,
也没有机会再叫别人帮我签名,
应该会很怀念这些日子吧!
是时候踏入人生的另一个旅程碑了,
踏入社会以后,
还有机会疯狂吗?

Thursday, September 16, 2010

Random

sem break is going to end very soon...
i believe everyone is reluctant to face this fact...
most of them are busy enjoying their holidays....
traveling photos overloaded in fb...
Penang, Singapore, HongKong, Taiwan, Phuket...
and i am very busy too...
busy looking at their travel photos...>.<
busy staying at home play osk, online, eat medicine, do homework and play with my cute little puppy...
cough had been following me since last 2 months and it is still with me now...-.-
ate many different kind of medicines and see several doctors but it still does not cure...kinda feedup already..haizzz

homeworks pile up like mountain waiting for me to be done...
no doubt, last minute work again...this is my style...hehe
notes that i brought home are still at the same place when i first take it out from my bag...
the only different is there is a tiny layer of dust laying on it...

busy life gonna start again...
this time will be full of assignments, presentation, practices, performance...
final sem gonna end very very soon...
working life will start in mid December...
time flies...
really nidda enjoy my remaining study life before i enter to the working life...^&^

Thursday, September 02, 2010

Put yourself in other's shoes

做人很难
也很累
做自己的本分之余
还要顾及别人感受
为他人着想
还要观人脸色
还有
必须无师自通世间最难的做人之道

好朋友
即使不说话
也不会感到尴尬
更不会在背后刺伤你
捅你一刀
即使很久没见面
再次见面时
还是可以无话不谈
感觉很舒服

我累了
不想想太多
不想管太多

我想选择
视而不见,听而不闻
睁一只眼,闭一只眼
可以吗??

Put yourself in other's shoes
Treat people the way you want to be treated

ignore me if you don't understand what is this post talking about...
cz me myself don't know what am i crapping....LOL

Saturday, August 21, 2010

有人情味 vs 没人情味

世界上什么乐器在你最需要安慰时最有人情味,
最无情的乐器又是什么?

答案:

最有人情味:钢琴
最没人情味:大提琴

原因:“只剩下钢琴陪我谈了一天,睡着的大提琴,安静的旧旧的”

(quoted by Jay Chou's 安静)

if this is the condition, then which category am i in since i know both music instruments??
有人情味 or 没人情味?? hehe

for those who do not know either of the instrument, what category are they in?

Random

people keep complaining that my blog is full of dust...
is time to clean the spider webs here...hehe

came acorss this picture...
look at the mcd's plastic bag carefully... 
anything wrong with it??

can't see?
nevermind, have a closer look....

realize anything gets wrong??

is he playing a guitar??
does a guitar looks like dis??
No, certaintly....
a guitar looks like this..

then is he playing a cello??
is this the correct way to play a cello??
No, for sure....
the correct way to play cello is like this...

then what is he playing??
can anyone tell me??
hehe

Saturday, June 19, 2010

F.o.O.d

NO oily food
NO milk
NO egg
NO biscuit
NO oat
NO kaya
NO sweet food
NO tuna
NO peanut butter
NO fruits
NO fast food
Not encourage to eat maggie...

watelse can i eat....T,T

i miss milk...

Monday, May 24, 2010

Bored

看美女多,会变美吗?

Saturday, April 10, 2010

我们离家的日子,他们还好吗?

a very very meaningful note posted by someone in fb..

高中最大的愿望,就是尽自己的能力考一个远一点的大学,越远越好。
后来,终于到了那所离家两千公里的学校,终于可以自由作息、为所欲为;
再后来,留在了城市里工作、生活。。
但不久,我们终于生了病,一种名叫homesick的病。

龙应台曾写道:“父母亲,对于一个二十几岁的人而言,恐怕就像一栋旧房子,你住在它里面,它为你挡风遮雨,给你温暖和安全。但是房子就是房子,你不会和房子去说话,去沟通,去体贴它、讨好它。”
在外地的我们,眷恋着父母这所 “旧房子”带来的一切——包容和温暖,我们如此地爱他们,但爱并不是认识,也不是了解,甚至很多时候,我们以爱之名,故意地不去认识,不去了解。


比如我们从来没注意到,我们离开家的日子里,爸妈过着怎么样的生活……



关键词:改变

每一次我们回家的时候,他们总能弄出一大桌子菜,给我们准备许多的水果、零食,还有衣服鞋子,他们会和我们聊七大姑八大姨的八卦,领着我们去逛这逛那,热热闹闹十分温馨。但没有我们在家的日子里,他们是“空巢老人”,他们会一直很安静,或许还有一些失落,他们节约而简单,说话不多发呆不少,他们的生活远没有我们在家时的丰富多彩……妈妈一盘菜可以吃很多天。


网友:每次我回家,妈妈总会一大早就买好鸡,然后加很多补品去炖。我一只脚刚踏进门,妈妈就会说:“又瘦了!”,然后陆续将大鱼大肉买回来。当我看到一盘不新鲜的肉,问怎么还留着时妈妈说:“没事,一个人,吃不完就放冰箱里,反正不会坏的,一盘菜可以吃很多天。” 看着我们吃,比他们吃在肚子里还香。


他们更省了,为了给你攒首付。

网友:大城市的房价噌噌地涨,我和男朋友因为买不起房子,婚期一拖再拖。爸妈知道后,拿出了所有的积蓄。看着那钱,我都想哭了,十万块,是爸妈辛苦了这么多年,不舍得吃,不舍得穿,不舍得用,才攒下来的。今天因为女儿要买房,他们二话不说就把存折拿给我们。爸只说:“女儿有大房子,我开心,要吃苦也要和女儿一起吃苦。” 可他们以后养老怎么办?难道不吃不喝吗?这个钱我怎么能要!

他们省吃俭用,总是将最好的东西给我们。

他们学上网,为和你视频聊天……
网友:家里有了电脑可以跟爸妈视频聊天,因为硬件的问题只能看到视频,没有声音,我只能打字跟他们沟通。爸妈上岁数了,屏幕上的一句话,我能感觉到他们看了半天,几乎是一个字一个字地念着。明年我就要结婚了,妈妈说结婚了就不能回家过年了,说今年不回去以后正月初三前就不能回去了,说得我泪如泉涌。

为了看到远方你的样子,他们愿意在电脑前等几个小时。


关键词:想念

你也许收到过这样的短信:“什么时候回家,你爸想死你了”、 “有空多给爸爸妈妈打电话”、“兔崽子,是不是把爸妈忘了”……儿女是父母心头的一块肉,长出来了,就永远也无法割舍。家里,我们的房间、甚至放在床头的书,爸妈都不乱动,说是感觉那样像是孩子还在家里似的。这两位老人,在我们不在家的日子里,习惯于把我们一次次地想起,把思念一遍一遍地温习。想儿女,就像是呼吸一样,是一件他们每时每刻都在进行的事情……他们会拿出我们从小到大的照片细细地看。

网友:由于工作原因,已经几年没有回家,爸妈有一次打电话告诉我:“女儿啊,爸妈每天都要看一看你的照片,从你满月到大学毕业的,我们都看。你有新的照片记得寄回来,爸妈几年不见你,真怕记不得你的样子,认不出你啊……”听完我就彻底泪奔了。


如果可以,他们一定愿意再陪我们成长一次。


他们从不错过我们所在城市的天气预报……
网友:有一次,老爸打电话来说:“不要再出去吃东西了,你看现在食品中又检验出什么菌的,小心吃坏肚子,出门穿厚点,你们那里降温到十度了。” 我说: “你看我这儿的天气预报啊?” 他说:“天天都看,你那十几度,深圳也十几度(弟弟在深圳),有风,降温了,没我这冷,但要保暖别冻着……”

爸妈,永远是在远方与我们分享阳光、分担风雨的那对老人。


总是把我们的房间一遍遍打扫……
网友:暑假回去的时候,见餐桌上还放着一套紫砂茶具,那是之前我在家时拿出来使的,临走时没时间收拾进柜子就一直摆在那儿。我问妈,不是说让你收起来的吗?妈说,你爸不让动,让还放在那儿,感觉回家了就能喝到你泡的茶,他每天都会擦一擦茶具。

最伟大的爸妈不是愿意一辈子养孩子,而是愿意为了孩子的幸福放他们去飞,而他们就甘愿为孩子经营那一辈子的窝。

他们总随身携带手机,不是离不开手机,是离不开我们……
网友:爸爸妈妈连拼音都不记得了,手机是用我的旧手机,手写的,平时他们一个月也没几个电话。但在我离开家以后,他们两人去到哪里都会带着这部手机,就怕错过我打给他们的电话。

网友:有天一大早,我妈打来电话,说:“你爸昨晚十点半说想你了,非要打电话给你,我跟他说你睡了,他才答应今天早上打。”

全国增加的手机用户中,有几亿是离不开儿女、时刻惦念儿女的父母。



关键词:不便


父母老了。爸爸不再是那个把我们高高扛上肩的年轻小伙,妈妈也不再是那位干家务麻利十足的年轻美女。老,是一种让人伤感的事情,但他们为了不给我们添麻烦,总是说自己一切没问题,他们每次电话里第一句话总是:“宝贝你好吗,家里一切都好,不用担心。”

其实你不知道,没有你在家的日子里,他们过得并不容易。

突发急病,身边却没有年轻人能送他们到医院……
网友:父亲生病了。夜里只有我妈陪他大老远跑去县城看病,病情很严重。我感到莫名的悲哀,都说养儿防老,可是像我这样身在远方,他们需要我时除了在电话里问候两句,还能做什么?父亲喜欢喝酒,大家老早就担忧这个问题,但是因为他身体没什么异样,所以也没反对,这次终于表露出来了。酒,肝的天敌,如果发现得再晚一点,不知道有什么更可怕的后果。电话中还笑着对我说没事,我真的有种撞墙的冲动。


请坚持每年带父母体检一次。


买了一大袋子米,两个老人拖了一个小时才拖到
……
网友:我的爸爸年轻时就很想要一个儿子,他说等他年老了,家里还有个有力气的人帮他扛米、扛煤气上楼…… 他是生了我这么一个儿子,但儿子长大后读书了就再也回不到那个小城镇了。今年爸爸五十多了,以前一手抱我,一手还能扛100多斤米的他,现在每次去买米都得叫上妈妈,两个老人一次买40斤米都要轮流拖着回家。每次想到这个,我真的很想回到他们身边。

记得回家时帮爸妈买好米,充好电,再续上网费。

爸妈老了,开始动作缓慢、反应迟钝……
网友:印象中的老爸一直都是个能手,什么都难不倒老爸。后来上学工作一直在外地,直到有一天,在网上聊天时教他用gtalk、gmail 那些东西,我给他讲了一遍,他没明白,我又讲了一遍,他还是没太懂,我补上一句“急死我了,半天都冒不出一句话……”,然后我看见屏幕上正在输入的提示停下了,过了很久,屏幕上冒出来一句“儿子,你别着急,爸爸老了,反应不过来了”。当时泪奔,恨不得抽自己两个耳刮子。

把动作放慢一点,等等他们,问问冷暖,就像我们小时候,他们对我们一样。



一人在外打拼很辛苦,那是自己选的就自己承担。只是,累了就回家吧,爸妈永远高兴为你多添副碗筷。

i mis my home right nw..
i mis my parents..
i mis u.. T.T

Monday, March 15, 2010

Hectic Life

hectic life
undeniable, i ask for it...

recently surrounding with assignments, tests, practices and performances...

luckily lecturers delay mid term tests and assignments dateline...
erm, cn i ask for the postpone of final exam...=P

im like a part time performer here...>.<

心情溶剂 competition~01022010

the first performance of the year
to b more precise, it's a competition held in Singapore

a great experience...

travel from One Republic Culture Centre (the venue of the competition) to our hostel by different kind of transports...(bus, Mrt, lorry, taxi, van and last but not least is our No.11 bus...)

carried a 8.1kg cello walking around is definitely nt a funny thg to play wit...
luckily im nt d one who carries it...=P

learn many things, many new words....好笑pun~

noe a bunch of great frens and v really had wonderful time in the 3 days although it is really tiring and exhausting..

the special duck rice..yummy~
the MRT ticket machine
Phua Chu Kang and Rossie in MRT~
we were like sardin squeezing into the lorry...><
waiting for the bus
One Republic Culture Centre
the group of ppl who went to S'pore wit me
Goodbye~ Have a nice day~
dayao~24022010
same as last year, performed 3 songs..
yee mun, the dancer~the 'down' group~ glad to know them, they bring lots of laughter to me...长不大人偶one of the birdmanthe drummer who played 11 songs out of 18 songs..lol
Breast Cancer Charity Concert~06032010
it's a different kind of experience..
it's like a orchestra concert but this is my first experience that there were so many cameramans walking around taking photographs..(at least 3) >.<
according to d conductor, Dr Nasir, it's a live shoot by TV3..
and for the first time i am playing so many songs, 25 songs!!!
it so tiring u noe!! my buttock was so painful sitting on d chair for so mny hours...@@
Dr Nasir kept on complaint to the technician that he cant hear cello, so they stick a mic on my cello...>< (luckily the mic is not functioning..hehe)
and the most important thg, i performed wit Jaclyn Victor!!
The Malaysian Idol!! she is cute...
too bad tat i din get the chance to take photo personally wit her...T.T

I am sitting on 3 layers of stages...
kinda dangerous and scary...
dare not think of the consequences if i fall dwn frm it..><Jaclyn Victor and our conductor, Dr. NasirEveryone is busy taking out thier camera or handphone to take picture of Jaclyn VictorWe grab the chance to take picture wit her when the conductor did noe realise...=P
too bad tat i don hv the chance to take photo personally wit her...>.<another singer, Roycellist and violinist~Dr. Nasir and his daughter~
her daughter is cute and manja...