Had a feeling the sing off would be good. Didn't realize how much I would like it though. Have to say I am not a big American Idol guy. I have watched some of it, but frankly think the format is a little tiring. I was pleasantly surprised when I gave the Sing Off a try. I found it refreshing, fun, and entertaining.
Here is a sample. This is all the groups performing together to ELO's classic Mr. Blue Sky.
Here is what I like:
The entertainment value is real high; good singing, variety of voices and sounds, the creativity, and the overall fun the groups have.
The groups doing the medleys, why limit yourself to one good Beatles song when there are so many to choose from.
The judges pick who moves on until the final, then its America.
The judges picked songs to highlight a group's strengths, but also see how they handle it. In other words they can knock it out of the park or struggle to get to first.
Loved the group compilations at the beginning of each show.
The outfits are great and colorful, much better than what most people on idol wear.
Its different.
Interesting to see how the groups arrange songs, what they highlight.
Monday is the finale, I think the Beelzebubs will win, but really any of the groups are real good, but I would rank them first.
One final note, BYU had a group of women Noteworthy, compete. They were okay, but lacking a bass really put them at a disadvantage, they were voted off. Both Porter and Natalie cheered when they were out. I just smiled at their reaction.
Here is a sampling of each group.
Beelzebubs from Tufts University(Massachusetts)
Nota from Puerto Rico
Voices of Lee (Tennessee)
Saturday, December 19, 2009
Wednesday, December 16, 2009
How the Hallch stole the show
Been a long time. Too long, but I really liked this.
How the Hallch Stole the Show
By Barbara Jones Brown
Every Ute
Up in U-ville
Liked Utah a lot . . .
But the Hallch,
Who lived just south of U-ville,
Did NOT!
The Hallch hated Utah! The whole football season!
Now, please don't ask why. No one quite knows the reason.
It could be the beer, dumped on his family one night.
It could be, perhaps, that his cleats were too tight.
But I think the most likely reason of all
May have been that his helmet was two sizes too small.
But,
Whatever the reason,
His helmet or his shoe,
He stood there on Thanksgiving, hating the U.
Staring up from his valley with a sour, Hallchy frown
At the red-lighted windows above in their town.
For he knew every Ute up in U-ville above
Was busy now, donning their red coats and gloves.
“And they're hanging their U-flags!” he snarled with a sneer.
“Saturday is game day! It's practically here!”
Then he growled, with his Hallch fingers nervously drumming.
“I MUST find some way to stop U-spirit from coming!”
For,
On Saturday, he knew . . .
All the U girls and boys
Would wake bright and early, their hearts full of joys.
They'd rush for Cougar Stadium. And then! Oh, the Noise!
That's one thing he hated! The NOISE! NOISE! NOISE! NOISE!
Then the Utes, young and old, would sit down (some with a beer),
And they'd cheer! And they'd cheer!
And they'd CHEER! CHEER! CHEER! CHEER!
They would raise their U-banners, and posters, and signs,
Which was something the Hallch couldn't stand to the nines!
And THEN
They'd do something
He liked least of all!
Every Ute down from U-ville, the tall and the small,
Would make a big fuss, with the U-band a-ringing.
They'd stand in the Muss, and the Utes would start singing!
They'd sing! And they'd sing!
AND they'd SING! SING! SING! SING!
And the more the Hallch thought of this U-Fightsong-Sing,
The more the Hallch thought, “I must stop this whole thing!
“Why, for three years I've put up with it now!
“I MUST stop this U-spirit from coming!
. . . But HOW?”
Then he got an idea! An awful idea!
THE HALLCH
GOT A WONDERFUL, AWFUL IDEA!
“I know just what to do!” The Hallch laughed in his throat.
As he put on his jersey, his cleats and Y-coat.
And he chuckled, and clucked, “What a great Hallchy trick!
“I'll throw a game-winning pass, to the hands of Saint . . . George!”
Then he called his dog, Max (named after himself)
And told him a secret, like a jolly old elf:
“After the game, in a press-conference tome
“I'll tell the U's I hate them, then send them all home!”
Then the game went as planned! And the press conference, too!
Then the Hallch, he stood waiting, looking up at the U.
“Pooh-Pooh to the Utes!” he was hallch-ish-ly humming.
“They're finding out now that no glory is coming!
“They're hearing me now! I know just what they'll do!
“Their mouths will hang open a minute or two
“Then the Utes up in U-ville will all cry BOO-HOO!
“That's a noise,” grinned the Hallch, “That I simply MUST hear!”
So he paused. And the Hallch put his hand to his ear.
And he did hear a sound rising over the Net.
It came loud and clear, and made his eyes wet.
Every Ute up in U-ville, the tall and the small,
Was rallying! Without any victory at all!
He HADN'T stopped U-spirit from coming!
IT CAME!
Somehow or other, it came just the same!
And the Hallch, with his hallch-feet too tight in his cleats
Stood puzzling and puzzling: “Even in their defeat?”
“It came without winning? It came without glory?
“It came without rankings, BCS bowls, or story?”
And he puzzled twelve hours, till his puzzler was aghast.
Then the Hallch thought of something he hadn't thought of en mass.
“Maybe Utah,” he thought, “isn't so crass.”
“Maybe Utah . . . perhaps . . . does have some class!”
And what happened then . . . ?
Well . . . in U-ville they say
That the Hallch's big head
Shrank three sizes that day!
And the minute his helmet didn't feel quite so tight,
He released his apology in the bright morning light
And he remembered his sportsmanship! And love of the game!
And he . . .
. . . HE HIMSELF . . . !
Said sorry! . . . In vain?
How the Hallch Stole the Show
By Barbara Jones Brown
Every Ute
Up in U-ville
Liked Utah a lot . . .
But the Hallch,
Who lived just south of U-ville,
Did NOT!
The Hallch hated Utah! The whole football season!
Now, please don't ask why. No one quite knows the reason.
It could be the beer, dumped on his family one night.
It could be, perhaps, that his cleats were too tight.
But I think the most likely reason of all
May have been that his helmet was two sizes too small.
But,
Whatever the reason,
His helmet or his shoe,
He stood there on Thanksgiving, hating the U.
Staring up from his valley with a sour, Hallchy frown
At the red-lighted windows above in their town.
For he knew every Ute up in U-ville above
Was busy now, donning their red coats and gloves.
“And they're hanging their U-flags!” he snarled with a sneer.
“Saturday is game day! It's practically here!”
Then he growled, with his Hallch fingers nervously drumming.
“I MUST find some way to stop U-spirit from coming!”
For,
On Saturday, he knew . . .
All the U girls and boys
Would wake bright and early, their hearts full of joys.
They'd rush for Cougar Stadium. And then! Oh, the Noise!
That's one thing he hated! The NOISE! NOISE! NOISE! NOISE!
Then the Utes, young and old, would sit down (some with a beer),
And they'd cheer! And they'd cheer!
And they'd CHEER! CHEER! CHEER! CHEER!
They would raise their U-banners, and posters, and signs,
Which was something the Hallch couldn't stand to the nines!
And THEN
They'd do something
He liked least of all!
Every Ute down from U-ville, the tall and the small,
Would make a big fuss, with the U-band a-ringing.
They'd stand in the Muss, and the Utes would start singing!
They'd sing! And they'd sing!
AND they'd SING! SING! SING! SING!
And the more the Hallch thought of this U-Fightsong-Sing,
The more the Hallch thought, “I must stop this whole thing!
“Why, for three years I've put up with it now!
“I MUST stop this U-spirit from coming!
. . . But HOW?”
Then he got an idea! An awful idea!
THE HALLCH
GOT A WONDERFUL, AWFUL IDEA!
“I know just what to do!” The Hallch laughed in his throat.
As he put on his jersey, his cleats and Y-coat.
And he chuckled, and clucked, “What a great Hallchy trick!
“I'll throw a game-winning pass, to the hands of Saint . . . George!”
Then he called his dog, Max (named after himself)
And told him a secret, like a jolly old elf:
“After the game, in a press-conference tome
“I'll tell the U's I hate them, then send them all home!”
Then the game went as planned! And the press conference, too!
Then the Hallch, he stood waiting, looking up at the U.
“Pooh-Pooh to the Utes!” he was hallch-ish-ly humming.
“They're finding out now that no glory is coming!
“They're hearing me now! I know just what they'll do!
“Their mouths will hang open a minute or two
“Then the Utes up in U-ville will all cry BOO-HOO!
“That's a noise,” grinned the Hallch, “That I simply MUST hear!”
So he paused. And the Hallch put his hand to his ear.
And he did hear a sound rising over the Net.
It came loud and clear, and made his eyes wet.
Every Ute up in U-ville, the tall and the small,
Was rallying! Without any victory at all!
He HADN'T stopped U-spirit from coming!
IT CAME!
Somehow or other, it came just the same!
And the Hallch, with his hallch-feet too tight in his cleats
Stood puzzling and puzzling: “Even in their defeat?”
“It came without winning? It came without glory?
“It came without rankings, BCS bowls, or story?”
And he puzzled twelve hours, till his puzzler was aghast.
Then the Hallch thought of something he hadn't thought of en mass.
“Maybe Utah,” he thought, “isn't so crass.”
“Maybe Utah . . . perhaps . . . does have some class!”
And what happened then . . . ?
Well . . . in U-ville they say
That the Hallch's big head
Shrank three sizes that day!
And the minute his helmet didn't feel quite so tight,
He released his apology in the bright morning light
And he remembered his sportsmanship! And love of the game!
And he . . .
. . . HE HIMSELF . . . !
Said sorry! . . . In vain?
Sunday, October 11, 2009
Monday, October 05, 2009
Disneyland
I will add pics soon. I need to add my thoughts while they are fresh on my mind. Overall we had a good trip. It was fast, too fast, cause of the two days spent traveling. But overall good trip. Here are my thoughts:
Key 1:most important to Disneyland is to get there when it opens. We had ridden nearly every ride we wanted to by about 11. It continued to get busier and busier throughout the day, until, boom, it was overflowing with people by dinnertime.
Key 2:Have a gameplan. We had an itinerary that we followed, varying here and there when opportunities arose, and stuck with it. We started in Fantasyland with Peter Pan, which surprisingly is one of the worst lines in the park, we didn't have to wait. We hit all the small rides in Fantasyland, then the Matterhorn, Big Thunder, and were well on our way to little to no waiting in lines.
Key 3:Fast Pass. This was a great way to hit all the favorite rides with a minimal wait. We did Space Mtn, Indiana Jones, Big Thunder, Splash Mtn, and Haunted Mansion, without waiting despite some real long lines when it got late. Our longest wait overall was 30 min. and that was by choice.
Here are my overall impressions and thoughts from Disneyland
Porter either has the best or worst set of kidney's ever. I am not certain which it is yet. That kid had to pee at least eight times. We hit the bathroom in Critter Country 3 times. On the drive up we stopped six times for him and five on the drive back. One time Janalynn made him pee in a cup because we were so tired of stopping for him. One thing I need to add is that he really did go. Believe me I witnessed it. Each time was like he had been holding out for hours.
Night time at Disney is a little scary. Its dark and extremely crowded. If we had another night we would definitely not have stayed for the crowds. Couldn't believe how crowded it was at night. Wall to wall people.
Space Mountain is just a great ride. The Ghost Galaxy was kind of hokey and a little dumb, but it couldn't take away from the ride.
Mr. Toad's Wild Ride needs an overhaul or at least they need to remake the movie. My kids had no idea who Toad is, and the ride was the lamest by far of all.
Liked the Buzz ride. Though its not much of a ride, but the interaction and shooting targets makes it cool.
No matter how well you clean off your hands at the beach you are going to eat some sand in your lunch.
Body surfing is a blast. Sure the scraped knees, overly salty taste, and stingy eyes take their toll, however, hitting that right wave is a great feeling.
Building a sand castle with your kids, well that's priceless.
Have to say my kids are at a tough age for enjoying the waves. Porter and Natalie are too little to really enjoy them much, and Kailey and Kelsey are too worried about how they look to have much fun.
Little bakery at Newport sells the best ham and cheese crossaint there is.
Eating out every meal is no good, no fun, and way too much.
Disney food is more than stadium food and not as good.
Every vacation ends too soon. Before you know it you are wishing you were back again.
Key 1:most important to Disneyland is to get there when it opens. We had ridden nearly every ride we wanted to by about 11. It continued to get busier and busier throughout the day, until, boom, it was overflowing with people by dinnertime.
Key 2:Have a gameplan. We had an itinerary that we followed, varying here and there when opportunities arose, and stuck with it. We started in Fantasyland with Peter Pan, which surprisingly is one of the worst lines in the park, we didn't have to wait. We hit all the small rides in Fantasyland, then the Matterhorn, Big Thunder, and were well on our way to little to no waiting in lines.
Key 3:Fast Pass. This was a great way to hit all the favorite rides with a minimal wait. We did Space Mtn, Indiana Jones, Big Thunder, Splash Mtn, and Haunted Mansion, without waiting despite some real long lines when it got late. Our longest wait overall was 30 min. and that was by choice.
Here are my overall impressions and thoughts from Disneyland
Porter either has the best or worst set of kidney's ever. I am not certain which it is yet. That kid had to pee at least eight times. We hit the bathroom in Critter Country 3 times. On the drive up we stopped six times for him and five on the drive back. One time Janalynn made him pee in a cup because we were so tired of stopping for him. One thing I need to add is that he really did go. Believe me I witnessed it. Each time was like he had been holding out for hours.
Night time at Disney is a little scary. Its dark and extremely crowded. If we had another night we would definitely not have stayed for the crowds. Couldn't believe how crowded it was at night. Wall to wall people.
Space Mountain is just a great ride. The Ghost Galaxy was kind of hokey and a little dumb, but it couldn't take away from the ride.
Mr. Toad's Wild Ride needs an overhaul or at least they need to remake the movie. My kids had no idea who Toad is, and the ride was the lamest by far of all.
Liked the Buzz ride. Though its not much of a ride, but the interaction and shooting targets makes it cool.
No matter how well you clean off your hands at the beach you are going to eat some sand in your lunch.
Body surfing is a blast. Sure the scraped knees, overly salty taste, and stingy eyes take their toll, however, hitting that right wave is a great feeling.
Building a sand castle with your kids, well that's priceless.
Have to say my kids are at a tough age for enjoying the waves. Porter and Natalie are too little to really enjoy them much, and Kailey and Kelsey are too worried about how they look to have much fun.
Little bakery at Newport sells the best ham and cheese crossaint there is.
Eating out every meal is no good, no fun, and way too much.
Disney food is more than stadium food and not as good.
Every vacation ends too soon. Before you know it you are wishing you were back again.
Sunday, September 06, 2009
The Auction
Roughly four years ago my ford escort blew a headgasket so I needed a new car. I decided to go to a public car auction called Auto Auctions of America(in Murray just of the 53rd S. exit) I purchased a Toyota Camry for $750 rode it for about a year and then got the Civic. Well Kailey is doing an internship for her dental asst. and will be going to work with a dentist every other day this semester, while next semester she will be going to the DATC. This would be really hard to make it work, dropping her off all the time, or letting her use one of the vehicles, plus I am tired of being her chauffeur. So we decided we needed another car.
One thing that we wanted to do was have Kailey be responsible for paying for the car. I am of the belief that since I don't usually get anything for free(esp. a car) that in order to teach this to my kids they need to earn whatever they get. We don't do allowance, there is no real world application. I have never gotten any money just because I am alive. I have gotten and currently get money if I am willing to work for it. When our kids do want money they can do extra chores to earn it. So with the car we knew that Kailey wouldn't be able to get a loan, plus she hasn't quite saved enough, so we got a loan for her, she will make a payment every month. Real Life.
Anyhow let's get to the auction, every Sat at 11 they have an auction. There are all sorts of vehicles ranging from a 89 Ford Tempo to a 2007 Honda Civic. You can get there early, even throughout the week, test drive, bring a mechanic, do whatever you want to check out the vehicles. There were over 100 to choose from. We got there early and picked out about 5 that we thought would be good, test drove them, made sure they were in good shape, that the air/heat worked etc... We narrowed our list to about 3 at the time of the auction. We felt good about our choices.
Let me explain the auction. They have a real life auctioneer. He talks fast, real fast, too fast, just like they are supposed to. It is fun just to hear him get going. They drive each vehicle in and the bidding begins. They have a blue book value which is the high value (of course) to help guide the bidding. The bidding starts high and then if no one bids it goes lower. Once the first bid is made the action heats up. On the nicer cars the bidding may go between 5 or 6 different people. Our second choice for a car was actually hotly contested, we ended up not even bidding, and since it was a dodge neon and I don't really like them I didn't really want to bid anyhow.
In reality the auction is like KSL cars in one place. Instead of driving to 100 homes you just go to one place. Saves time and disappointment, when you open the door and smells or looks bad. I totally suggest at least trying it out.
Finally our car came in, a 92 Toyota Camry. Kailey was born in 92 so this is kind of funny. Before I go any further I need to say that of all the vehicles we drove this one was by the far the smoothest and cleanest. In fact it wasn't close, Kailey, Reed(grandpa), and myself all liked this car the best, even though it was in reality the oldest. Kailey got real excited when it drove in, we waited for the first bid to go down to $500 and then jumped in, turns out we were in a bidding war. Finally we won at $850. Only problem was some cars have a low bid protection, in other words if the winning bid is too low they don't have to take it. They made a call and the guy wanted $1200, I countered with no more than $1000, we finally settled on $950. There are some fees you pay as well as sales tax. So that isn't the final price. But we all felt good about the price and the car. BTW, the blue book is $2,100, so yeah I feel real good now.
We called Janalynn and she was skeptical about the year, but as soon as we got home she couldn't believe how good of condition the car was in. In fact she talked about just having a 3rd car for us and not giving it to Kailey for her own. Kailey was excited and I am just happy this is over.
Favorite things about the auction:
Can't beat the adrenalin when the bidding war is on.
Love the fact you can't really tell most of the auctioneer is saying.
A GMC Safari was sold for $100. Hey it works.
Most cars went for half of the high blue book value.
Every once in a while the auctioneer would say "This next car is going to the highest bidder." I thought that was a classic line.
They offer a Seller Auction Guarantee, 48 hours or 50 miles. In other words if the car dies on you before you get it home they guarantee it. You would hope that wouldn't happen. Funny thing is they would say "This car is guaranteed." As if this was some wonderful guarantee. I found it amusing they said it with nearly every car.
Finally seeing how excited Kailey was, well that was priceless.
One thing that we wanted to do was have Kailey be responsible for paying for the car. I am of the belief that since I don't usually get anything for free(esp. a car) that in order to teach this to my kids they need to earn whatever they get. We don't do allowance, there is no real world application. I have never gotten any money just because I am alive. I have gotten and currently get money if I am willing to work for it. When our kids do want money they can do extra chores to earn it. So with the car we knew that Kailey wouldn't be able to get a loan, plus she hasn't quite saved enough, so we got a loan for her, she will make a payment every month. Real Life.
Anyhow let's get to the auction, every Sat at 11 they have an auction. There are all sorts of vehicles ranging from a 89 Ford Tempo to a 2007 Honda Civic. You can get there early, even throughout the week, test drive, bring a mechanic, do whatever you want to check out the vehicles. There were over 100 to choose from. We got there early and picked out about 5 that we thought would be good, test drove them, made sure they were in good shape, that the air/heat worked etc... We narrowed our list to about 3 at the time of the auction. We felt good about our choices.
Let me explain the auction. They have a real life auctioneer. He talks fast, real fast, too fast, just like they are supposed to. It is fun just to hear him get going. They drive each vehicle in and the bidding begins. They have a blue book value which is the high value (of course) to help guide the bidding. The bidding starts high and then if no one bids it goes lower. Once the first bid is made the action heats up. On the nicer cars the bidding may go between 5 or 6 different people. Our second choice for a car was actually hotly contested, we ended up not even bidding, and since it was a dodge neon and I don't really like them I didn't really want to bid anyhow.
In reality the auction is like KSL cars in one place. Instead of driving to 100 homes you just go to one place. Saves time and disappointment, when you open the door and smells or looks bad. I totally suggest at least trying it out.
Finally our car came in, a 92 Toyota Camry. Kailey was born in 92 so this is kind of funny. Before I go any further I need to say that of all the vehicles we drove this one was by the far the smoothest and cleanest. In fact it wasn't close, Kailey, Reed(grandpa), and myself all liked this car the best, even though it was in reality the oldest. Kailey got real excited when it drove in, we waited for the first bid to go down to $500 and then jumped in, turns out we were in a bidding war. Finally we won at $850. Only problem was some cars have a low bid protection, in other words if the winning bid is too low they don't have to take it. They made a call and the guy wanted $1200, I countered with no more than $1000, we finally settled on $950. There are some fees you pay as well as sales tax. So that isn't the final price. But we all felt good about the price and the car. BTW, the blue book is $2,100, so yeah I feel real good now.
We called Janalynn and she was skeptical about the year, but as soon as we got home she couldn't believe how good of condition the car was in. In fact she talked about just having a 3rd car for us and not giving it to Kailey for her own. Kailey was excited and I am just happy this is over.
Favorite things about the auction:
Can't beat the adrenalin when the bidding war is on.
Love the fact you can't really tell most of the auctioneer is saying.
A GMC Safari was sold for $100. Hey it works.
Most cars went for half of the high blue book value.
Every once in a while the auctioneer would say "This next car is going to the highest bidder." I thought that was a classic line.
They offer a Seller Auction Guarantee, 48 hours or 50 miles. In other words if the car dies on you before you get it home they guarantee it. You would hope that wouldn't happen. Funny thing is they would say "This car is guaranteed." As if this was some wonderful guarantee. I found it amusing they said it with nearly every car.
Finally seeing how excited Kailey was, well that was priceless.
Sunday, August 30, 2009
Utah Football 2009
Last year was as good as it gets. I'm not crazy enough to believe that this year will be a repeat, but I do believe that it will be a good year.
The U is stacked at receiver. David Reed is a bona fide stud, Jereme Brooks is a quick as they come, Aiona Key, Shaky Smithson, and Devonte Christopher will fight catches. At RB they are getting Asiata back with Wide and Shack backing up. As long as the qb is just playing decent it should be enough. Plus it is back to the full on spread. Finally. Can't wait.
Defensively they will miss Kruger, McCain, and Smith no doubt about it. They do have Sylvester back with Robert Johnson and Joe Dale. I think they will be just as tough as before, but without some of the playmaking from last year. It will be interesting to see how Sitake does as dcoord.
Here are a few pics from the spring game. This is why I love the U. The access to players is great. BTW, that is Terrance Cain with Porter, my prediction for starting qb. The other pics are Aiono Key and Sasaun Shakerin.
Thursday night kickoff
The U is stacked at receiver. David Reed is a bona fide stud, Jereme Brooks is a quick as they come, Aiona Key, Shaky Smithson, and Devonte Christopher will fight catches. At RB they are getting Asiata back with Wide and Shack backing up. As long as the qb is just playing decent it should be enough. Plus it is back to the full on spread. Finally. Can't wait.
Defensively they will miss Kruger, McCain, and Smith no doubt about it. They do have Sylvester back with Robert Johnson and Joe Dale. I think they will be just as tough as before, but without some of the playmaking from last year. It will be interesting to see how Sitake does as dcoord.
Here are a few pics from the spring game. This is why I love the U. The access to players is great. BTW, that is Terrance Cain with Porter, my prediction for starting qb. The other pics are Aiono Key and Sasaun Shakerin.
Thursday night kickoff
Saturday, August 22, 2009
Thursday, August 13, 2009
Saturday, August 08, 2009
Time for a good laugh
So there are items worth forwarding, then there are items that are so good you have to make sure others get a chance to see or listen to. I heard the following a few years ago and consider it one of the funniest things I have ever heard. There is no video really, it was just put on youtube to make it easily accessible. What you will hear is a guy leaving a message on an answering machine and then witnessing an accident. His descriptions are classic, his laugh is unforgettable, the audio is one of the best ever. Enjoy
Saturday, August 01, 2009
Best Movies of the Last Decade?
So I was listening to one of my fav. podcast, the BS Report w/Bill Simmons. He is nicknamed the Sports Guy, so his show mainly revolves around sports, but he does intertwine pop culture into his schtick. Overall I like the show, he is funny, knows his stuff, opinionated, and gives a much different perspective than the local guys. Anyhow he was discussing movies, especially those of the last decade and argued that the movies of this decade have not been as good as the 90's. He argues that Almost Famous is the best movie of the decade, although admits that the Dark Knight may end up being better. His criteria is as follows: Excellence; originality; rewatchability. My criteria has always been original story, excellent acting, and great script. So pretty similar
See this is one thing I like about Simmons I agree with his criteria, for instance as much as I like the Sixth Sense for its originality, it struggles with rewatchablility. It is a well done show, but can you really watch it over and over again. I say no. It is a one trick pony and as soon as you know the trick then it loses its luster to watch again. Contrast that with The Matrix, a highly original film, well done, and highly rewatchable. In fact one of my faves to watch again and again. If it is on cable I always get sucked in.
Here are my faves from the the 90's
1. Braveheart--One of the best scripts. Contains many memorable scenes. Is there a more heartaching scene then when Wallace pulls off the mystery knights helmet? Or when Wallace rides in for revenge? Or the end? Plus Edward the Longshanks is as vile a villain as I have seen.
2. The Matrix--Watch it again and see how great the first sequence really is. It sucks you in and never lets go. Creative, yet contains a viable message about believing in oneself. Unfortunately they decided to make two more films.
3. Shawshank Redemption--Morgan Freeman's narrative is powerful, the story is intriuging, characters great, and one of the best endings ever.
4. Saving Private Ryan--When I first saw this movie, I was with a large group, when it ended no one spoke the whole way home, we were all contemplating what we had just witnessed. Again many memorable scenes, great acting, great script.
5. Groundhog Day--Love this show. One time I stayed home from the U. cause it came on(groundhog day of course) just to watch. Every time its on tv I watch it. Totally creative. We used the term on the mish, "Last week was a week of groundhog days" or something similar. I also love What about Bob?
Almost In: Amistad--powerful show with a great script. One of Spielberg's best that no one has seen.
Honorable Mentions: Good Will Hunting, Dances With Wolves, Forrest Gump, LA Confidential, and the Usual Suspects
Faves from this decade:
1. The Lord of the Rings--Truly a spectacle, I will put them all together, but say that the Two Towers is my favorite. If anyone wants to know why just ask.
2. The Bourne Series--Again I will put them all together, but he 2nd one is probably my fave. Although I like all three. Creative, and with some great lines.
3. The Dark Knight--Would be #1 if it wasn't for the way they threw in the whole Two Face thing at the end. This movie was Batman vs. Joker and that's it. Love the opening, love the Joker--couldn't get enough of him.
4. Gladiator--Would be higher but too much like Braveheart. One of my favorite scenes of all time is when the emperor makes him take off his mask and tell his name.
5. Remember the Titans--May not have the critical acclaim, but I love this show. Great lines and completely rewatchable.
Almost in: Crash--As thought provoking of a movie I have ever seen, with two unforgettable scenes. Makes you take a good hard look at yourself.
Honorable Mention--Memento, The Illusionist, Batman Begins
Biggest Disappointments: Pirates 2 and 3, and Spiderman 3. These movies are everything wrong with sequels. As much as I dislike spidey 3, Pirates 3 might be one of the worst movies I have ever seen.
Note: I had a real hard time with the second list. I may have forgotten something but I looked at the lists I am providing down below for help. Also noted that some of the rated R shows I have seen edited, some I saw before I stopped watching them, this also might be why I am having a harder time with the second list it came after I decided no more rated R movies.
Without question I would say that the 90's were better. Let's just hope that this trend doesn't continue into the next decade.
Feel free to debate, and help me remember a show(s) I may have forgotten.
So here are two lists on of all movies up for an Oscar in the 90's this current decade. I haven't seen all these movies, in fact there are some I won't ever see.
90’s
1. The Shawshank Redemption (1994)
2. Schindler’s List (1993)
3. Pulp Fiction (1994)
4. Goodfellas (1990)
5. Fight Club (1999)
6. The Usual Suspects (1994)
7. The Silence of the Lambs (1991)
8. The Matrix (1999)
9. American Beauty (1999)
10. Se7en (1995)
11. Forrest Gump (1994)
12. Léon (1994)…aka Leon: The Professional
13. American History X (1998)
14. Terminator 2: Judgment Day (1991)
15. Saving Private Ryan (1998)
16. La vita è bella (1997)…aka Life Is Beautiful (1998)
17. L.A. Confidential (1997)
18. Braveheart (1995)
19. Reservoir Dogs (1992)
20. Fargo (1996)
21. Mononoke-hime (1997) …aka Princess Mononoke (1999)
22. Unforgiven (1992)
23. The Green Mile (1999)
24. The Lion King (1994)
25. Trainspotting (1996)
26. The Sixth Sense (1999)
27. The Big Lebowski (1998)
28. Heat (1995)
29. Ed Wood (1994)
30. Twelve Monkeys (1995)
31. Casino (1995)
32. Toy Story (1995)
33. Lock, Stock and Two Smoking Barrels (1998)
34. Groundhog Day (1993)
35. The Insider (1999)
36. Toy Story 2 (1999)
37. Good Will Hunting (1997)
38. Miller’s Crossing (1990)
39. Before Sunrise (1995)
40. Magnolia (1999)
41. The Truman Show (1998)
42. Lola rennt (1998) …aka Run Lola Run (1999)
43. Clerks. (1994)
44. Edward Scissorhands (1990)
45. Sling Blade (1996)
46. In the Name of the Father (1993)
47. The Nightmare Before Christmas (1993)
48. JFK (1991)
49. Being John Malkovich (1999)
50. Office Space (1999)
51. True Romance (1993)
52. The Boondock Saints (1999)
53. Glengarry Glen Ross (1992)
54. Dances with Wolves (1990)
55. Boyz n the Hood (1991)
56. Rushmore (1998)
57. South Park: Bigger Longer & Uncut (1999)
58. Boogie Nights (1997)
59. As Good as It Gets (1997)
And the 00’s
1. The Dark Knight (2008)
2. Up (2009)
3. The Lord of the Rings: The Return of the King (2003)
4. The Lord of the Rings: The Fellowship of the Ring (2001)
5. WALL·E (2008)
6. Memento (2000)
7. The Lord of the Rings: The Two Towers (2002)
8. Slumdog Millionaire (2008)
9. Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind (2004)
10. El laberinto del fauno (2006) …aka Pan’s Labyrinth
11. Requiem for a Dream (2000)
12. The Departed (2006)
13. The Pianist (2002)
14. Star Trek (2009)
15. Der Untergang (2004) …aka Downfall (2005)
16. The Prestige (2006)
17. Gran Torino (2008)
18. Sin City (2005)
19. Gladiator (2000)
20. Sicko (2007)
21. Hotel Rwanda (2004)
22. The Wrestler (2008)
23. Donnie Darko (2001)
24. No Country for Old Men (2007)
25. The King of Kong (2007)
26. Batman Begins (2005)
27. Into the Wild (2007)
28. Ratatouille (2007)
29. Amores perros (2000)
30. Million Dollar Baby (2004)
31. The Hangover (2009)
32. Snatch. (2000)
33. V for Vendetta (2005)
34. Kill Bill: Vol. 1 (2003)
35. The Bourne Ultimatum (2007)
36. Finding Nemo (2003)
37. There Will Be Blood (2007)
38. Bowling for Columbine (2002)
39. Crash (2004/I)
40. In Bruges (2008)
41. The Incredibles (2004)
42. Children of Men (2006)
43. Changeling (2008)
44. The Curious Case of Benjamin Button (2008)
45. Touching the Void (2003) 8.1 10235
46. Once (2006)
47. Letters from Iwo Jima (2006)
48. Coraline (2009)
49. Blood Diamond (2006)
50. Ying xiong (2002) …aka Hero (2002)
51. Big Fish (2003)
52. Cinderella Man (2005)
53. Finding Neverland (2004)
See this is one thing I like about Simmons I agree with his criteria, for instance as much as I like the Sixth Sense for its originality, it struggles with rewatchablility. It is a well done show, but can you really watch it over and over again. I say no. It is a one trick pony and as soon as you know the trick then it loses its luster to watch again. Contrast that with The Matrix, a highly original film, well done, and highly rewatchable. In fact one of my faves to watch again and again. If it is on cable I always get sucked in.
Here are my faves from the the 90's
1. Braveheart--One of the best scripts. Contains many memorable scenes. Is there a more heartaching scene then when Wallace pulls off the mystery knights helmet? Or when Wallace rides in for revenge? Or the end? Plus Edward the Longshanks is as vile a villain as I have seen.
2. The Matrix--Watch it again and see how great the first sequence really is. It sucks you in and never lets go. Creative, yet contains a viable message about believing in oneself. Unfortunately they decided to make two more films.
3. Shawshank Redemption--Morgan Freeman's narrative is powerful, the story is intriuging, characters great, and one of the best endings ever.
4. Saving Private Ryan--When I first saw this movie, I was with a large group, when it ended no one spoke the whole way home, we were all contemplating what we had just witnessed. Again many memorable scenes, great acting, great script.
5. Groundhog Day--Love this show. One time I stayed home from the U. cause it came on(groundhog day of course) just to watch. Every time its on tv I watch it. Totally creative. We used the term on the mish, "Last week was a week of groundhog days" or something similar. I also love What about Bob?
Almost In: Amistad--powerful show with a great script. One of Spielberg's best that no one has seen.
Honorable Mentions: Good Will Hunting, Dances With Wolves, Forrest Gump, LA Confidential, and the Usual Suspects
Faves from this decade:
1. The Lord of the Rings--Truly a spectacle, I will put them all together, but say that the Two Towers is my favorite. If anyone wants to know why just ask.
2. The Bourne Series--Again I will put them all together, but he 2nd one is probably my fave. Although I like all three. Creative, and with some great lines.
3. The Dark Knight--Would be #1 if it wasn't for the way they threw in the whole Two Face thing at the end. This movie was Batman vs. Joker and that's it. Love the opening, love the Joker--couldn't get enough of him.
4. Gladiator--Would be higher but too much like Braveheart. One of my favorite scenes of all time is when the emperor makes him take off his mask and tell his name.
5. Remember the Titans--May not have the critical acclaim, but I love this show. Great lines and completely rewatchable.
Almost in: Crash--As thought provoking of a movie I have ever seen, with two unforgettable scenes. Makes you take a good hard look at yourself.
Honorable Mention--Memento, The Illusionist, Batman Begins
Biggest Disappointments: Pirates 2 and 3, and Spiderman 3. These movies are everything wrong with sequels. As much as I dislike spidey 3, Pirates 3 might be one of the worst movies I have ever seen.
Note: I had a real hard time with the second list. I may have forgotten something but I looked at the lists I am providing down below for help. Also noted that some of the rated R shows I have seen edited, some I saw before I stopped watching them, this also might be why I am having a harder time with the second list it came after I decided no more rated R movies.
Without question I would say that the 90's were better. Let's just hope that this trend doesn't continue into the next decade.
Feel free to debate, and help me remember a show(s) I may have forgotten.
So here are two lists on of all movies up for an Oscar in the 90's this current decade. I haven't seen all these movies, in fact there are some I won't ever see.
90’s
1. The Shawshank Redemption (1994)
2. Schindler’s List (1993)
3. Pulp Fiction (1994)
4. Goodfellas (1990)
5. Fight Club (1999)
6. The Usual Suspects (1994)
7. The Silence of the Lambs (1991)
8. The Matrix (1999)
9. American Beauty (1999)
10. Se7en (1995)
11. Forrest Gump (1994)
12. Léon (1994)…aka Leon: The Professional
13. American History X (1998)
14. Terminator 2: Judgment Day (1991)
15. Saving Private Ryan (1998)
16. La vita è bella (1997)…aka Life Is Beautiful (1998)
17. L.A. Confidential (1997)
18. Braveheart (1995)
19. Reservoir Dogs (1992)
20. Fargo (1996)
21. Mononoke-hime (1997) …aka Princess Mononoke (1999)
22. Unforgiven (1992)
23. The Green Mile (1999)
24. The Lion King (1994)
25. Trainspotting (1996)
26. The Sixth Sense (1999)
27. The Big Lebowski (1998)
28. Heat (1995)
29. Ed Wood (1994)
30. Twelve Monkeys (1995)
31. Casino (1995)
32. Toy Story (1995)
33. Lock, Stock and Two Smoking Barrels (1998)
34. Groundhog Day (1993)
35. The Insider (1999)
36. Toy Story 2 (1999)
37. Good Will Hunting (1997)
38. Miller’s Crossing (1990)
39. Before Sunrise (1995)
40. Magnolia (1999)
41. The Truman Show (1998)
42. Lola rennt (1998) …aka Run Lola Run (1999)
43. Clerks. (1994)
44. Edward Scissorhands (1990)
45. Sling Blade (1996)
46. In the Name of the Father (1993)
47. The Nightmare Before Christmas (1993)
48. JFK (1991)
49. Being John Malkovich (1999)
50. Office Space (1999)
51. True Romance (1993)
52. The Boondock Saints (1999)
53. Glengarry Glen Ross (1992)
54. Dances with Wolves (1990)
55. Boyz n the Hood (1991)
56. Rushmore (1998)
57. South Park: Bigger Longer & Uncut (1999)
58. Boogie Nights (1997)
59. As Good as It Gets (1997)
And the 00’s
1. The Dark Knight (2008)
2. Up (2009)
3. The Lord of the Rings: The Return of the King (2003)
4. The Lord of the Rings: The Fellowship of the Ring (2001)
5. WALL·E (2008)
6. Memento (2000)
7. The Lord of the Rings: The Two Towers (2002)
8. Slumdog Millionaire (2008)
9. Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind (2004)
10. El laberinto del fauno (2006) …aka Pan’s Labyrinth
11. Requiem for a Dream (2000)
12. The Departed (2006)
13. The Pianist (2002)
14. Star Trek (2009)
15. Der Untergang (2004) …aka Downfall (2005)
16. The Prestige (2006)
17. Gran Torino (2008)
18. Sin City (2005)
19. Gladiator (2000)
20. Sicko (2007)
21. Hotel Rwanda (2004)
22. The Wrestler (2008)
23. Donnie Darko (2001)
24. No Country for Old Men (2007)
25. The King of Kong (2007)
26. Batman Begins (2005)
27. Into the Wild (2007)
28. Ratatouille (2007)
29. Amores perros (2000)
30. Million Dollar Baby (2004)
31. The Hangover (2009)
32. Snatch. (2000)
33. V for Vendetta (2005)
34. Kill Bill: Vol. 1 (2003)
35. The Bourne Ultimatum (2007)
36. Finding Nemo (2003)
37. There Will Be Blood (2007)
38. Bowling for Columbine (2002)
39. Crash (2004/I)
40. In Bruges (2008)
41. The Incredibles (2004)
42. Children of Men (2006)
43. Changeling (2008)
44. The Curious Case of Benjamin Button (2008)
45. Touching the Void (2003) 8.1 10235
46. Once (2006)
47. Letters from Iwo Jima (2006)
48. Coraline (2009)
49. Blood Diamond (2006)
50. Ying xiong (2002) …aka Hero (2002)
51. Big Fish (2003)
52. Cinderella Man (2005)
53. Finding Neverland (2004)
Thursday, July 30, 2009
a few pics from a fast paced July
Not gonna say much here, you would think with having the summer off I would have more time on my hands, actually I have been pretty busy. Enjoy the pics. I will have a real post soon
Sunday, June 21, 2009
The Evolution of Father's Day
(Note: this turned into something I didn't plan on. some is more personal than I originally meant for so realize none of this is for sympathy, but it is my blog so I am going with it)
I would be remiss without a thought about my dad. The sting of his death has passed. I don't get emotional talking or thinking about it as much as I did before. Don't get me wrong the void is there, but the pain and emotion of his passing are gone. That being said a day like today is weird for me. I don't feel bad about it, not at all, and like I mentioned the sting is absent, but there is something missing. Like a completed puzzle with that one piece missing. You have searched all over yet it is still missing and no matter how you look at the puzzle all you seem to see is the missing space.
There are things I really miss. Right now we would be gearing up for the draft and Jazz offseason. Not sure if he would be defending AK or Boozer, but he would be nicer about that most. We would surely have talked about the US Open and my recent entrance into the golf world. I had a history class the last two weeks in which for sure I would have told him about and argued about many of the president's places in history. We would certainly argue about what is currently going on in the world and country. I wonder if part of the reason I tend to be conservative is out of respect for him. I know recently I have shifted to be more moderate and that may very well be due to the fact that I don't get to hear his reasoned and sound arguments as opposed to the current crap of foxnews or what rush puts out. I remain unaffiliated partly cause I think the party thing is stupid(too many people vote party over character and remain stuck on issues that won't matter) and partly cause out of respect for him I can't go too far left. Needless to say that I imagine we would have had a few lively discussions over the past year. But one thing I will say and that's my dad had good reasons for his convictions. I don't agree with all of them, but I respect and understand why he felt the way he did.
I am sure I would have introduced him to my new fave comedy, the Big Bang Theory, and would love to hear him lose it with his laughter at the show. We would have watched Forever Strong and both missed our time on the island. We would have watched the Sugar Bowl together and he would admit the greatness of the U and that Coach Whit has really become a good coach.
We would have talked about global warming and going green. This would have been a fun topic to banter about. In the end I know he would agree that regardless of his own opinion on global warming, pollution is a really bad thing and we need to fix the way we think about pollution. We would have argued about the war and what to do to fix the economy. Not sure how the economy chatter would go, no one can be happy with the way things have gone.
Alas none of these conversations happened. I have imagined them at times as I miss the chance to have them. To this day I don't know what to do at the end of a Jazz game. I know he's not gonna call, yet I can't help but think about it. There are definitely things I miss and have come to understand that are partly irreplaceable.
Despite my thoughts about my own father, being a father is where the evolution of this day occurs. All morning Porter wanted to open my gifts, he was more excited than I was. Natalie prayed that this was the best father's day I have ever had. Janalynn had a gift for each kid to give me(something I am not as good at) Kelsey made sure I got my piece of pie first(you have no idea how big a deal it was that she didn't serve herself first), and Kailey gave me a hug first thing in the morning. So while I miss my dad on this day, I get to be father for my kids.
As I evaluate and contemplate my performance I realize that I am lacking in many areas. Sometimes I am quick to raise my voice, other times I am annoyed easy, and other times I forget the example I need to set. There have been many nights I haven't liked the my conversation with the person in the mirror. My family will be the first to tell you of my shortcomings. It is on a day like today that I recognize the importance of fathers and their influences. I have desires to be better in all areas, I just hope that I act on that. Many times I know I am being less than my best self, but it doesn't always stop me. I will say that teenagers are hard to deal with, they can really bring out my worst self. I have to remember that the stupid fairy took their brain before I respond to them. It is a personal revolution to change and evolve into that person I want to be. Sometimes I think I could get there if I didn't have teenagers, but then again, that is part of the process.
Father's day is an evolution. It's not what it once was. I will always have my dad in the back of my head, but likewise it is the present that is most important. I need to live father's day instead of replaying it. And hopefully I can evolve into the father I want to be, the father my kids need me to be.
I would be remiss without a thought about my dad. The sting of his death has passed. I don't get emotional talking or thinking about it as much as I did before. Don't get me wrong the void is there, but the pain and emotion of his passing are gone. That being said a day like today is weird for me. I don't feel bad about it, not at all, and like I mentioned the sting is absent, but there is something missing. Like a completed puzzle with that one piece missing. You have searched all over yet it is still missing and no matter how you look at the puzzle all you seem to see is the missing space.
There are things I really miss. Right now we would be gearing up for the draft and Jazz offseason. Not sure if he would be defending AK or Boozer, but he would be nicer about that most. We would surely have talked about the US Open and my recent entrance into the golf world. I had a history class the last two weeks in which for sure I would have told him about and argued about many of the president's places in history. We would certainly argue about what is currently going on in the world and country. I wonder if part of the reason I tend to be conservative is out of respect for him. I know recently I have shifted to be more moderate and that may very well be due to the fact that I don't get to hear his reasoned and sound arguments as opposed to the current crap of foxnews or what rush puts out. I remain unaffiliated partly cause I think the party thing is stupid(too many people vote party over character and remain stuck on issues that won't matter) and partly cause out of respect for him I can't go too far left. Needless to say that I imagine we would have had a few lively discussions over the past year. But one thing I will say and that's my dad had good reasons for his convictions. I don't agree with all of them, but I respect and understand why he felt the way he did.
I am sure I would have introduced him to my new fave comedy, the Big Bang Theory, and would love to hear him lose it with his laughter at the show. We would have watched Forever Strong and both missed our time on the island. We would have watched the Sugar Bowl together and he would admit the greatness of the U and that Coach Whit has really become a good coach.
We would have talked about global warming and going green. This would have been a fun topic to banter about. In the end I know he would agree that regardless of his own opinion on global warming, pollution is a really bad thing and we need to fix the way we think about pollution. We would have argued about the war and what to do to fix the economy. Not sure how the economy chatter would go, no one can be happy with the way things have gone.
Alas none of these conversations happened. I have imagined them at times as I miss the chance to have them. To this day I don't know what to do at the end of a Jazz game. I know he's not gonna call, yet I can't help but think about it. There are definitely things I miss and have come to understand that are partly irreplaceable.
Despite my thoughts about my own father, being a father is where the evolution of this day occurs. All morning Porter wanted to open my gifts, he was more excited than I was. Natalie prayed that this was the best father's day I have ever had. Janalynn had a gift for each kid to give me(something I am not as good at) Kelsey made sure I got my piece of pie first(you have no idea how big a deal it was that she didn't serve herself first), and Kailey gave me a hug first thing in the morning. So while I miss my dad on this day, I get to be father for my kids.
As I evaluate and contemplate my performance I realize that I am lacking in many areas. Sometimes I am quick to raise my voice, other times I am annoyed easy, and other times I forget the example I need to set. There have been many nights I haven't liked the my conversation with the person in the mirror. My family will be the first to tell you of my shortcomings. It is on a day like today that I recognize the importance of fathers and their influences. I have desires to be better in all areas, I just hope that I act on that. Many times I know I am being less than my best self, but it doesn't always stop me. I will say that teenagers are hard to deal with, they can really bring out my worst self. I have to remember that the stupid fairy took their brain before I respond to them. It is a personal revolution to change and evolve into that person I want to be. Sometimes I think I could get there if I didn't have teenagers, but then again, that is part of the process.
Father's day is an evolution. It's not what it once was. I will always have my dad in the back of my head, but likewise it is the present that is most important. I need to live father's day instead of replaying it. And hopefully I can evolve into the father I want to be, the father my kids need me to be.
Friday, June 19, 2009
3 Cups of Tea in Reality
I have already waxed poetic about the book 3 Cups of Tea. You can scroll down and read the review if you haven't yet. Making a difference is a big deal to me. Its certainly a reason for why I teach and even how I teach, but there is definitely part of me that wants to do something on a larger, grander scale. After reading 3 Cups I wanted to find an organization like that to lend my support to, also I had just finished teaching a unit on Africa in which I might add nearly every problem exists, so I wanted to do something. Luckily I didn't have to look far. One of my neighbors and friends is a core member of a group whose purpose is to help small mountain villages get water and education. Boy that sounds a lot like 3 Cups, except its in Honduras instead of Pakistan. My friend assures me that other than the religious aspect, the two places are the same. This past week the organization, aptly dubbed, Amigos of Honduras, had their annual golf tournament and raffle.
Admittedly I am new to the whole golf tourney lifestyle, however, as far as I am concerned it was first class. The tourney was at Stonebridge in WVC. Tougher course than I thought. Lots of water. I lost a few balls. Had a great time though and luckily we had a stud in our group or we would have had a lot more strokes than the 65 we ended up with.
Afterwards there was a raffle in which I won a gift card for dinner. Guess I got my own father's day gift. In all it was not only heartwarming but humbling to see the charity given to benefit these kids and families a world away in Honduras. I was glad I was in attendance and wished I could have given more.
Let me say a few things about the Amigos of Honduras. Not all charities are equal or even really non profit. For example the head of the Red Cross makes over 150,000 annually. So is your donation going to pay his/her salary or to actually help out. With the Amigos they don't pay anyone to administrate, in fact when they go to Honduras each person who goes is responsible for paying their own way, that way the money is being used for what it should be. Another item I really like is that when the village is picked for the school and water, the villagers are informed and told that if they help they will get water piped to their home(beats a 2 mile walk or so). In other words the villagers do the majority of the manual labor, they are getting the materials and the know how, of which they wouldn't be able to do on their own, but they have to supply the man power. Which means that they will appreciate all the more.
Finally education is the key for these countries to get out of poverty. Building schools is the first and biggest step to ensuring that these people can get a balanced education. I think of the Perpetual Education Fund in which people in similar situations have their education paid for and then after getting a job pay it back. The church has recognized that governments in some of these countries cannot properly or even improperly educate their citizens.
I am glad to have found an organization with which I feel perfectly comfortable supporting both monetarily as well as with my name, time, and resources. I am linking their site so you can see firsthand the good of this project. I will let you know of future events and if you feel so inclined to donate I can put you in touch with the right people. Lastly I would say if you are waiting for the 'right' time I would say that you will always be waiting. There never is a 'perfect' or 'right' time. Something will always get in the way. Just make sure its not you.
Admittedly I am new to the whole golf tourney lifestyle, however, as far as I am concerned it was first class. The tourney was at Stonebridge in WVC. Tougher course than I thought. Lots of water. I lost a few balls. Had a great time though and luckily we had a stud in our group or we would have had a lot more strokes than the 65 we ended up with.
Afterwards there was a raffle in which I won a gift card for dinner. Guess I got my own father's day gift. In all it was not only heartwarming but humbling to see the charity given to benefit these kids and families a world away in Honduras. I was glad I was in attendance and wished I could have given more.
Let me say a few things about the Amigos of Honduras. Not all charities are equal or even really non profit. For example the head of the Red Cross makes over 150,000 annually. So is your donation going to pay his/her salary or to actually help out. With the Amigos they don't pay anyone to administrate, in fact when they go to Honduras each person who goes is responsible for paying their own way, that way the money is being used for what it should be. Another item I really like is that when the village is picked for the school and water, the villagers are informed and told that if they help they will get water piped to their home(beats a 2 mile walk or so). In other words the villagers do the majority of the manual labor, they are getting the materials and the know how, of which they wouldn't be able to do on their own, but they have to supply the man power. Which means that they will appreciate all the more.
Finally education is the key for these countries to get out of poverty. Building schools is the first and biggest step to ensuring that these people can get a balanced education. I think of the Perpetual Education Fund in which people in similar situations have their education paid for and then after getting a job pay it back. The church has recognized that governments in some of these countries cannot properly or even improperly educate their citizens.
I am glad to have found an organization with which I feel perfectly comfortable supporting both monetarily as well as with my name, time, and resources. I am linking their site so you can see firsthand the good of this project. I will let you know of future events and if you feel so inclined to donate I can put you in touch with the right people. Lastly I would say if you are waiting for the 'right' time I would say that you will always be waiting. There never is a 'perfect' or 'right' time. Something will always get in the way. Just make sure its not you.
Saturday, June 06, 2009
School's out for the summer
Teaching is a weird thing. There is nothing quite like the student-teacher relationship. There is a sense of ownership for both parties-'he is my student' or 'she is my teacher' or 'I am in Mr. Fawson's 4th period class'. For me the end of the year is an awkward time. Sure I like the summer off. My uncle once said that the best three things about teaching are 'June, July, and August.' It is definitely nice to have some time to refocus and recharge, but that's not why I got into teaching.
For me there is a sense of emptiness when I close up my room. As a ninth grade teacher I realize that 'my' students will be gone, most to never be heard or seen again. And while I am happy for some to fit into that category, there are others that I admittedly have a hard time seeing depart. I tell me students that life is a journey and that this step is now over, never to able to traverse again. I also say that if there isn't a pang or sting of sadness in departing then 'you did it wrong'. With every step along the way there should be some remorse of loss else you weren't invested or involved enough--you didn't do your best or you didn't care.
I guess its that last point that gets me. I do care. It is what me makes me who I am as well as good at what I do. It is why I feel the sting of disappointment as I lock up my empty room. Now I know I'll get over it, I always do. And as soon as we go live at the end of August I will be ready to go. But I have to admit that first day when I look out at my fourth period and don't see the same faces I will feel that pang of sadness.
Life has thrown me a few curveballs and I guess that is why I understand the importance of making good memories and enjoying the journey. I also understand the finality of the end. Everything we do we will at some point do it for a final time and then it will be over. Its why the journey is so important-we can't do any of it over, we can't live for empty tomorrows, we have to live in the moment. And really live at that. I have a lot of great memories from the year. I think that is why I am feeling the way I am now. It was a great year and because it was such, I should feel a little bit of sorrow if I didn't then I would have done it wrong.
For me there is a sense of emptiness when I close up my room. As a ninth grade teacher I realize that 'my' students will be gone, most to never be heard or seen again. And while I am happy for some to fit into that category, there are others that I admittedly have a hard time seeing depart. I tell me students that life is a journey and that this step is now over, never to able to traverse again. I also say that if there isn't a pang or sting of sadness in departing then 'you did it wrong'. With every step along the way there should be some remorse of loss else you weren't invested or involved enough--you didn't do your best or you didn't care.
I guess its that last point that gets me. I do care. It is what me makes me who I am as well as good at what I do. It is why I feel the sting of disappointment as I lock up my empty room. Now I know I'll get over it, I always do. And as soon as we go live at the end of August I will be ready to go. But I have to admit that first day when I look out at my fourth period and don't see the same faces I will feel that pang of sadness.
Life has thrown me a few curveballs and I guess that is why I understand the importance of making good memories and enjoying the journey. I also understand the finality of the end. Everything we do we will at some point do it for a final time and then it will be over. Its why the journey is so important-we can't do any of it over, we can't live for empty tomorrows, we have to live in the moment. And really live at that. I have a lot of great memories from the year. I think that is why I am feeling the way I am now. It was a great year and because it was such, I should feel a little bit of sorrow if I didn't then I would have done it wrong.
Tuesday, June 02, 2009
Three Cups of Tea
There are books that are uplifting, there are those that are thought provoking, some even inspire you, and a few make you want to do more and be better. For me Three Cups of Tea was all of the above. If you haven't read it yet, go do it, I promise you will not only enjoy it, but be glad you read it. Basically it is about Greg Mortenson who after a failed attempt at climbing K2, in the Karakoram range near Pakistan/Afghanistan, ends up in a tiny village--Korphe. He notices the kids huddled together writing in the dirt with sticks practicing their lessons. Shocked and in disbelief he tells them he is going to build them a school.
The book is about that promise and what would do not only to Greg Mortenson's life, but also to the Muslim children and families that would have the opportunity to get an education. Greg Mortenson is making a difference in a part of the world that not only needs it, but has little or no love for the West. He is breaking down racial and religious barriers that heretofore have not been crossed except with bullets and explosions.
There are some very poignant scenes in the book such as when the school is built or when he was there for 9-11. Those two parts made me rethink everything I had been conditioned to think about Muslims and Pakistan. The book also shows the value and importance of a balanced education. How we take for granted this nearly free gift in the US and how vital it is in order to succeed.
Here are few other opinions:
'Three Cups of Tea is one of the most remarkable adventure stories of our time. Greg Mortenson’s dangerous and difficult quest to build schools in the wildest parts of Pakistan and Afghanistan is not only a thrilling read, it’s proof that one ordinary person, with the right combination of character and determination, really can change the world .’ -Tom Brokaw
"Greg Mortenson represents the best of America. He’s my hero. And after you read Three Cups of Tea , he’ll be your hero, too." -U.S. Representative Mary Bono (R-Calif.)
"Three Cups of Tea is beautifully written. It is also a critically important book at this time in history. The governments of Pakistan and Afghanistan are both failing their students on a massive scale. The work Mortenson is doing, providing the poorest students with a balanced education, is making them much more difficult for the extremist madrassas to recruit." -Ahmed Rashid, best-selling author of Taliban: Militant Islam and Oil in Central Asia and Descent Into Chaos.
Go buy it, you'll be glad you did.
Monday, June 01, 2009
Kia Kaha-- Forever Strong
I love rugby. As much as I like football I think rugby is a better game. Let me give you a few reasons. First of all, everyone gets a chance to get the ball. Yea your bigger guys are expect to lead the scrums and do more of the grunt work, but they still get the ball. It is a terrific team game of passing, subterfuge, strategy, and athleticism. I like that the game continually flows, unlike the huddles of football. It is a great sport to play.
I have always marveled at Highland Rugby and their ability to win. A few of my friends played for Coach Gelwix and they revere the man just like in the show. I like the idea that character is the biggest factor in winning. When it comes down to it, you want guys you can trust completely and who won't quit. As Gelwix would say champions off the field as well. Coach Gelwix explained that the team's success comes through application of gospel principles. The team is expected to keep the commandments, to adhere, to high moral standards, and to be "others centered, not self-centered."
He said: "I believe the strength of our team is taking fine young athletes and encouraging them to square their beliefs in God with their behavior. This is an unbeatable combination on any kind of playing field or in life."
The film itself shows the maturity of Mormon movies. About 10 years ago when the market first really opened they were silly and amateurish. I watched many a film and was waiting for one that really stood out. Richard Dutcher's films have been good but none of them were great. In fact many of the films are almost unwatchable and seemed to be produced just because they know other members will watch because they are about the church. This one is not really a church movie, but it is about church principles and Coach Gelwix definitely uses gospel principles in his coaching.
I thought the story was compelling and better than I thought. It isn't perfect though, so don't go expecting it be just that. It is enlightening and uplifting. Two qualities that really matter to me. You get a taste of rugby, the haka, and character. You also feel the wounds of measuring up, dreams lost, and the peace of forgiveness. Janalynn said she cried three times and may have liked it better than Remember the Titans--I don't know if I'd go that far--the acting, script, and some scenes aren't quite up to that level, but it is good. Great cast, mostly good acting, great story about redemption. It gives you a greater appreciation for Coach Gelwix and what Highland Rugby really does other than win on the field. Two thumbs up.
Sunday, May 31, 2009
been a while
I realized that it has been too long. Since we are close to hitting the summer I will have more time. First off not to make any excuses, I will just say that April was a month of exercise with little or no extra time for stuff like this. In May the weather got better and I had better things to do then sit at the monitor. I don't like to do big catch up entries, I think they defeat the purpose of the blog. I have some major opinions on stuff and will get to it this week. I plan on reviewing a few films, shows, books, and ideas. But first I will give an actual entry. The other stuff can wait another day.
Porter finally learned how to ride as he would say 'a two wheeler'. Each kid is different. Each one has their own personality and unique qualities that make them who they are. I guess this is really the same for each person, but with kids it has always fascinated me that you can have such variety in the same family. Porter has an incredible amount of determination. None of the other kids have the laser like focus he does. Kelsey is closest, but Porter is really without peer in this category. Last year we tried the two wheeler thing to no avail. He wanted to do it, well sort of, but didn't want to put in the effort to do it. Like most of it he wanted to gain the skill without earning the skill. But since we reap what we sow, his two minutes of 'trying' never amounted to his being able to ride the bike.
This year a lot of his buddies are riding bikes. He decided it was time. We spent about ten minutes riding, me holding him up, him relying on me, and not really improving. It was too easy for him to rely on me to hold him up. We weren't getting anywhere. But this is where Porter's determination exhibits itself. He knew he wasn't getting any better, so he said, "Dad, I want to do it on my own." For the next half hour he didn't get very far, a few pedals and then he was tipping too much so he had to put his feet down to catch his balance. Then he started getting better. Then next half hour he went from a few pedals to about ten or so. He could go from our driveway to almost our neighbors. Then it clicked. The final half hour he got it. He was able to turn and could go as far as he wanted.
He spent from 7 to 8:30 practicing. He never got too discouraged. It was impressive to see a kid that has a short attention span to say the least(at tee ball its about 2 seconds) fail repeatedly, get a little better, not be satisfied, know where he wanted to get to, and then after over an hour be able to do it. Laser like focus. Of course he has to want it to be this focused. But when that focus kicks in, it is remarkable.
Final note: I went to work about 7 am the next morning, opened the garage and he was out riding his bike. If only I was half that persistent.
Porter finally learned how to ride as he would say 'a two wheeler'. Each kid is different. Each one has their own personality and unique qualities that make them who they are. I guess this is really the same for each person, but with kids it has always fascinated me that you can have such variety in the same family. Porter has an incredible amount of determination. None of the other kids have the laser like focus he does. Kelsey is closest, but Porter is really without peer in this category. Last year we tried the two wheeler thing to no avail. He wanted to do it, well sort of, but didn't want to put in the effort to do it. Like most of it he wanted to gain the skill without earning the skill. But since we reap what we sow, his two minutes of 'trying' never amounted to his being able to ride the bike.
This year a lot of his buddies are riding bikes. He decided it was time. We spent about ten minutes riding, me holding him up, him relying on me, and not really improving. It was too easy for him to rely on me to hold him up. We weren't getting anywhere. But this is where Porter's determination exhibits itself. He knew he wasn't getting any better, so he said, "Dad, I want to do it on my own." For the next half hour he didn't get very far, a few pedals and then he was tipping too much so he had to put his feet down to catch his balance. Then he started getting better. Then next half hour he went from a few pedals to about ten or so. He could go from our driveway to almost our neighbors. Then it clicked. The final half hour he got it. He was able to turn and could go as far as he wanted.
He spent from 7 to 8:30 practicing. He never got too discouraged. It was impressive to see a kid that has a short attention span to say the least(at tee ball its about 2 seconds) fail repeatedly, get a little better, not be satisfied, know where he wanted to get to, and then after over an hour be able to do it. Laser like focus. Of course he has to want it to be this focused. But when that focus kicks in, it is remarkable.
Final note: I went to work about 7 am the next morning, opened the garage and he was out riding his bike. If only I was half that persistent.
Monday, April 06, 2009
Sunday, March 22, 2009
Devil vs. Angel
Yeah its been a while. A long while at that. I could make excuses, but that's all they'd be. There are a few topics I would like to get to, and will, but want to post on what happened today as I found it interesting.
First off by no means am I writing on this topic to say that I am some great guy, that is not the purpose. Of course most of you already know that anyhow;) I just found the following incident interesting:
I could tell this long story about what I was going to sell on ebay but I won't. I will say I found a local buyer and planned to meet up with them while we were at the inlaws today. We had agreed on a price and we met, I delivered and he gave me the money. Now we get to the interesting part.
As I was driving off I took a look at the cash and realized he had paid me $10 more than we had decided. I still continued to drive. Within mere moments my mind was flooded with all sorts of excuses, such as 'it was his mistake' 'maybe he was willing to pay more' 'no one will know' etc... I still kept driving. The angel on the other shoulder was sending the opposite message, but of course I would have to give back the money. Finally the thought came to me 'Are you willing to sell your integrity, your soul for $10?' At that I whipped around and luckily he hadn't pulled out in the street. I honked, jumped out and gave him his money. He was genuinely appreciative and am sure even happier with his purchase. I left the scene feeling good as well.
This is loaded topic and there is much I could discuss. And again I didn't post this for everyone to read and say how great I am. Remember I kept driving. If I had kept the money I would have entered into dishonest territory. As much as I could have justified and made excuses--I would know that I was in the wrong. That $10 would have been a bane on my conscience. We are told to be honest and for the most part I think all of us try, some of us are down the line honest, others when it benefits us we are. Yet I can't help but think of the thought that came to me 'Are you willing to sell your integrity for a $10?' First off I want to say that any amount is wrong and that is my point. What do we allow to get in the way of doing the right thing? Is it money? Fame? Vanity? Pride? Or something else? I think these little $10 moments are what lead us off the path and lead to the bigger moments. I would never rob a bank, but will I take extra from someone who didn't mean to give me the extra money? And if I do take it what else am I willing to justify? Maybe I do rob that bank in the future if I get off the path now.
Pres. Monson said the following about choices:
"What does it do to me?
What does it do for me?
What will I think of myself?--NOT what will others think of me?"
We need to ask ourselves these questions and then when the moment comes when the angel and the devil are dueling on our shoulders--be more valiant and do the right thing. "What are you willing to sell your integrity/soul for?
First off by no means am I writing on this topic to say that I am some great guy, that is not the purpose. Of course most of you already know that anyhow;) I just found the following incident interesting:
I could tell this long story about what I was going to sell on ebay but I won't. I will say I found a local buyer and planned to meet up with them while we were at the inlaws today. We had agreed on a price and we met, I delivered and he gave me the money. Now we get to the interesting part.
As I was driving off I took a look at the cash and realized he had paid me $10 more than we had decided. I still continued to drive. Within mere moments my mind was flooded with all sorts of excuses, such as 'it was his mistake' 'maybe he was willing to pay more' 'no one will know' etc... I still kept driving. The angel on the other shoulder was sending the opposite message, but of course I would have to give back the money. Finally the thought came to me 'Are you willing to sell your integrity, your soul for $10?' At that I whipped around and luckily he hadn't pulled out in the street. I honked, jumped out and gave him his money. He was genuinely appreciative and am sure even happier with his purchase. I left the scene feeling good as well.
This is loaded topic and there is much I could discuss. And again I didn't post this for everyone to read and say how great I am. Remember I kept driving. If I had kept the money I would have entered into dishonest territory. As much as I could have justified and made excuses--I would know that I was in the wrong. That $10 would have been a bane on my conscience. We are told to be honest and for the most part I think all of us try, some of us are down the line honest, others when it benefits us we are. Yet I can't help but think of the thought that came to me 'Are you willing to sell your integrity for a $10?' First off I want to say that any amount is wrong and that is my point. What do we allow to get in the way of doing the right thing? Is it money? Fame? Vanity? Pride? Or something else? I think these little $10 moments are what lead us off the path and lead to the bigger moments. I would never rob a bank, but will I take extra from someone who didn't mean to give me the extra money? And if I do take it what else am I willing to justify? Maybe I do rob that bank in the future if I get off the path now.
Pres. Monson said the following about choices:
"What does it do to me?
What does it do for me?
What will I think of myself?--NOT what will others think of me?"
We need to ask ourselves these questions and then when the moment comes when the angel and the devil are dueling on our shoulders--be more valiant and do the right thing. "What are you willing to sell your integrity/soul for?
Sunday, February 01, 2009
Education in Utah
Recently I have heard talk of adding more scrutiny to teaching. Proclamations of "Let's get rid of the 'bad' teachers" and "We need better assessments to determine 'good' and 'bad' teachers." among other cries have been heard this week with the legislature in session.
First of all let's go over the facts. Fact: the state of Utah spends less per student than any other state.
Fact: Utah has the highest student to teacher ratio in the nation.
Fact: Utah is in the bottom five in the nation for teacher pay.(A few years ago we were last--Huntsman got us up to bottom five)
If you take these three facts you will see where the majority of the problem lies. One of the major problems that these facts lead to is that many people who would be excellent teachers, never get into the field because it isn't financially viable for them. What this means is many of your driven to be the best candidates, never become candidates because they are driven to be the best. So automatically you lose what could be great potential teachers because many of the best and brightest go elsewhere.
This notion of 'bad' teachers is an interesting concept. I'm not sure I fully understand it. Yea I know teachers who aren't as effective, because they are new to the profession, or maybe have personalities that don't make them as 'likeable' as others. But I would say 80% of all teachers I know really care and try their best. Now granted their best may not make them 'great' yet, but they are trying. So what about the other 20%, I would say 10% are ineffective because they haven't learned how to manage a class yet, or don't understand all the nuances of teaching--they are green and need time to develop. Then there is that other 10% who aren't all that interested in improving. Yea I know they exist, but it is a small part of population. At previous schools we had a couple on staff that refused to go to meetings or support staff in anyway, were a problem for administration, teachers, and students alike. But were they 'bad' teachers? I think it depends on your definition. Certainly their disregard for working together was appalling, but they came to class prepared and were some of the best class managers around. Notice I wrote not interested in improving, that doesn't mean they were bad, they just didn't want to get better. And frankly why should they want to? Herein lies one major problem. There is absolutely no incentive to work your butt off. None--in fact if you do it will only make your own life harder--and for what reason--personal satisfaction? That wears off after a while. In other fields the hardest working know that their efforts will 'pay off'.
Let's go back to 'likeable'. This is what students and parents would probably judge as a good teacher. But is it a viable assessment? Probably not. A student who feels mistreated by a teacher, or that the teacher doesn't 'like' them will cry that the teacher is not a good teacher. They get their parents to agree and wham now you have all this 'evidence' that a teacher is bad. More than likely the teacher called the student out for some problem, student didn't like it, and cried foul to the parent, who knows that their kid is perfect--because a teenage kid would never do anything wrong, and then complains without fact finding first. They believe their teenage kid--who they don't believe in any other setting--before contacting a professional to see what really happened. All of sudden we have a 'bad' teacher who was doing the right thing.
Now I do recognize that some teachers are more 'likeable' than others. I will even go so far to say that some would be better served if they showed they cared a bit more, but none of that is really measurable, and none of that makes you a 'bad' teacher. Some of the worst teachers in my opinion are the ones who have to be friends with all the students. They allow misbehavior because they can't bring themselves to tell kids no. I would argue that if you go the extreme of the likeability scale then you are less effective than one who is less 'likeable'. But if you polled students they would rate that teacher high. And to be honest most of the less 'likeable' teachers are excellent class managers and lesson planners. But they would be deemed as 'bad' by popular opinion.
As a parent and a teacher I would say that I think it is important for my kids to face many different styles. And yes I want them to have hard teachers. What good is it if they have a false sense of doing well, when in reality they are not? Being hard on kids is the only way they will be able to face the struggles of life. Notice I said hard and not mean. That is different. I think too many times we make things easy for our kids and don't let them struggle, we want things to be easy and fun for them and are creating a false world. What we need to do is support them in trials and struggles, but we should want it to be difficult so they can grow. You should be happy when your kid says his/her teacher is hard. That means they will have to work and grow. Yet these are the things that many parents fight against with schools. "Its too hard" is a common cry. A more justified complaint would be "its too easy".
To be honest I have only had one negative confrontation with a parent in nine years of teaching. Most parents know why their kid is not doing well in class, they just don't know how to do anything about it. I was in a meeting a few months ago with a parent, student, and all of this student's teachers. The student was failing and not doing any work in any class. The parent was overwhelmed. In asking questions the student admitted he was tired a lot of the time. Why? Because he was up all night playing video games. There was the problem and solution, but it was up to the parent to take away this privilege and unfortunately that did not happen.
One of the problems that I see in society right now is everyone wants to blame everyone for problems. Republicans blame Democrats, radio hosts take a side and blame--getting more and more people involved. Message boards are filled with people blaming parents for their kids misfortunes. Students blame teachers, teachers blame students. And the blame game goes on and on. We all want to know who's fault it is, so we can blame them. Notice though, that in our effort to blame nothing gets done, nothing is fixed. We would rather cry over the spilled milk and spend all day blaming everyone than cleaning it up. Whether we created the mess or not it is there and will remain there, and does it really matter who did it? Does it make us feel better we can blame someone for it? We still have a mess to clean up no matter who did it.
Fact is we have a mess. I don't disagree that the system could be better. I know it could be better. As a parent and a teacher I see different sides of the same problem. Complaining about the problem won't fix it though. Only action will. "Never doubt that a small group of thoughtful, committed citizens can change the world. Indeed, it is the only thing that ever has." Margaret Mead. We can fix this mess, it won't be easy and it won't be done overnight. Opinions will have to change and we might have to get uncomfortable to do it. But it can be done.
So what can we do? First off, support your teachers and schools. Whether you agree with them or not you will work much better with them than against them. Find ways you can help out. Secondly, hold your kids accountable. As a parent I know my kids are not angels and so do you. Hold them responsible for their education. Don't do the work for them, its their assignment not yours. You may not fully understand why a particular assignment has been assigned, but I probably wouldn't understand a portion of what you do for work either. Support your schools and don't talk bad about them or the teachers. One of the reasons we are in this mess, is the public has allowed it to happen. Recognize your student may not like all his/her classes or teachers that doesn't make them bad. Hard work is good for them, you should want them to do it. Finally, it should bug all of us that our kids have the highest student to teacher ratio, the largest classes, and one of the lowest paid staffs in the United States. Is this how much we value education in Utah? Are we going to allow this to happen?
All of us can remember a teacher that inspired us to do better, that made us work hard and earn our grades. I enjoy teaching. I like making a difference. I can honestly say that I have never met a teacher who didn't care, never met one that didn't want to help out. Now certainly some are more effective than others, but all care and want to help--that's why they got into teaching. Education is important, it can change lives. We all know it, now we need to do something about it.
Friday, January 30, 2009
Wasn't good enough
I decided my praise wasn't good enough. If you pick up a copy of this book you will notice the dust jacket is filled with reviews. When you examine them you will notice these reviews aren't from just anybody, they are from well, take a look for yourself...
The Anatomy of Peace is a brilliantly written, stimulating read, with a rare clarity that awakens reflection and compels action. I recommend it without hesitation to anyone interested in finding solutions to conflicts ranging from the personal to the global.
— GILEAD SHER, FORMER CHIEF OF STAFF OF THE PRIME MINISTER OF ISRAEL
In this day of whirlwind confusion and intense disconnection, The Anatomy of Peace is a divine prescription. More than just a book to read or an idea to consider, it is a life raft for the countless many who are suffering in silence and drowning in fear.
— IYANLA VANZANT, AUTHOR, LIFE COACH, FOUNDER, INNER VISIONS INSTITUTE FOR SPIRITUAL DEVELOPMENT
Rarely have I read anything that held my attention the way this book did. To find that kind of reading experience in the context of a book that covers such disparate topics as parenting, managing employees, Middle East peace, and self-actualization is truly astonishing.
— JO ELLEN GREEN KAISER, SENIOR EDITOR, TIKKUN MAGAZINE
I couldn't put The Anatomy of Peace down. It is an enthralling story of peacemaking, showing principles that apply both in the family and on the world stage. Told with compassion and humour, the practical wisdom of this book has profound implications for all who are struggling and seemingly paralysed in insoluble conflicts.
— THE REVEREND VICTOR DE WALL, FORMER DEAN OF CANTERBURY CATHEDRAL, ENGLAND
Phenomenal...compelling...vivid...poignant. This is a book that every manager, teacher, advisor, and parent should read and apply.
— STEVEN WHEELWRIGHT, SENIOR ASSOCIATE DEAN, HARVARD BUSINESS SCHOOL
Amazingly powerful! In the reading alone, there is transformation. I know of no tool or way of thinking that contributes so masterfully to real, lasting peace - in families, organizations, communities, and nations. The Anatomy of Peace is a gift to the world.
— PAMELA RICHARDE, PRESIDENT, INTERNATIONAL COACH FEDERATION
I love this book. Having read it, the circumstances I encounter every day seem different to me - whether in sports, business, or family life, the ideas apply to every facet of life. I can't wait to share this book and its concepts with others.
— DANNY AINGE, GENERAL MANAGER, THE BOSTON CELTICS
To adopt the essence of this book is the true roadmap for peace.
— EYTAN BENTSUR, FORMER DIRECTOR GENERAL, ISRAEL MINISTRY OF FOREIGN AFFAIRS
A practical and intriguing approach to maximizing collaboration and performance. I have deployed the principles from Arbinger's first book, Leadership and Self Deception, with outstanding results. The Anatomy of Peace takes it to the next level - personally and professionally.
— ADEL AL-SALEH, VICE PRESIDENT OF SALES, IBM NORTHEAST EUROPE
After years of applying these ideas with youth and their parents, I can say that this is powerful medicine for the soul. These ideas change hearts, heal deep wounds, and bring parents and children together.
— MIKE MERCHANT, PRESIDENT AND CHIEF EXECUTIVE OFFICER, ANASAZI FOUNDATION
Having been intensely involved in peacemaking, I can honestly say that this is a significant and important book that lays out innovative strategies for building sustainable peace.
— URI SAVIR, PRESIDENT, THE PERES CENTER FOR PEACE, TEL-AVIV, AND FORMER DIRECTOR GENERAL, ISRAEL MINISTRY OF FOREIGN AFFAIRS
A powerful work that has a profound impact on all things personal and professional. It illustrates that the path to peace and to the resolution of our most troubling conflicts requires not only different actions but a different way of being. Even better, it shows you how to get there. It is a book I will share widely and return to again and again.
— LAURA WHITWORTH, CO-FOUNDER OF THE BIGGER GAME COMPANY AND THE COACHES TRAINING INSTITUTE
A stunning work of wisdom and insight... Everyone, from neighbors to the heads of nations, ought to read and live the teachings of this book.
— KENT H. MURDOCK, PRESIDENT AND CEO, O.C. TANNER
The Anatomy of Peace is one of those rare works that somehow finds its way into the heart. Before you know it you will be emotionally invested in the same process as the characters in this story. Be prepared to be at once challenged, moved, and called forth to become the person you know you should be.
— MIKE BUNDRANT, PUBLISHER, HEALTHY TIMES NEWSPAPER
The Anatomy of Peace, a truly inspirational book, could change the face of humanity. The world would be a dramatically better place if even a few of us would be guided by its powerful ideas. The Anatomy of Peace should be required reading - for everyone.
— MARION BLUMENTHAL LAZAN, HOLOCAUST SURVIVOR, CO-AUTHOR OF FOUR PERFECT PEBBLES
Profound in depth, yet simple in message - an astounding work of immense impact, both personally and professionally. This is the next major lever in terms of how organisations improve performance.
— NICK JESSETT, PROGRAMME MANAGER, ROLLS ROYCE
I can't begin to explain how much I love The Anatomy of Peace. It goes twenty times deeper than Leadership and Self-Deception in the same amount of space. It's an amazing, inspiring book that has opened up new ways for me to think about my life. I look forward to reading it again and again! I can't recommend it more highly!
— DAREN CONNEL, CEO, COMMUNICATE WIRELESS
Simply phenomenal. Arresting. Words escape me. The Anatomy of Peace is a tremendous resource for people who are looking to improve their quality of life.
— MURALI IYER, VICE PRESIDENT AND MANAGING DIRECTOR, THE REVERE GROUP
A true masterpiece with far reaching implications. I couldn't put it down.
— NAN O'CONNOR, MASTER CERTIFIED COACH
The Anatomy of Peace is an emotionally moving and fascinating work with the potential to have a profound global impact, one person at a time. It has me thinking new and deep thoughts - about myself, about others, and about problems we are facing in our communities and around the world.
— JOHN F. NICHOLS, PRESIDENT, DISABILITY RESOURCE GROUP, INC.
This book is a joy to the jaded. It gets beneath highly-regarded behavioral theses and shows how change in behavior is not enough. A simple tale, quietly told without condescension, it shows the potential and strength of our ordinary humanity. I feel I have grown from inside by reading it. The book helps people to know their neighbor without fear. And that is about as good as it gets.
— STEPHEN PRYOR, FORMER ENGLISH PRISON SERVICE GOVERNOR; VICE CHAIR, GRUBB INSTITUTE FOR BEHAVIORAL STUDIES (LONDON)
The Anatomy of Peace is a brilliant work that takes Arbinger's concepts to a new level and applies them to all areas of our lives. The book has true everyman appeal, as everyone will see themselves in the book's story. The takeaway is huge: no matter our circumstances, we always retain the choice of being at peace.
— SCOTT DUGAN, PRESIDENT & CEO, MID-PLAINS CENTER
Reading The Anatomy of Peace was truly a WOW experience. The book offers a way out of conflict that relies on my choices. How incredibly empowering! It is an extraordinary book that will help you find peace in any situation. It has changed the way I look at life.
— SISTER MAUREEN FITZGERALD, A.S.C.J., DEAN OF ADMISSIONS AND ACADEMICS, COR JESU ACADEMY
Nothing I can write will do justice to this work. I have used these ideas professionally to resolve organizational conflicts that threatened to shut down a contractor operating a Navy base and to diffuse grievances from disgruntled employees determined to rid themselves of their managers. In each instance disasters were averted and hearts of war were turned to hearts of peace. If the world were to read and adopt the principles contained in this book my profession would be a relic of the past.
— RUSSELL G. PENDERGRASS, CAPTAIN, UNITED STATES NAVY
The Anatomy of Peace is a moving, powerful, wonderful book. It awakened me to the need to look more intentionally inside my heart. As much as I want peace in the world, it must start with my own deep understanding of why I sometimes create my own little wars or participate in others'.
— DR. PATRICK WILLIAMS, MCC, FOUNDER AND CEO, INSTITUTE FOR LIFE COACH TRAINING
Inspiring and thrilling! Once you start reading it, you can't put it down. The story is beautiful because it's so real. The book doesn't lecture but rather invites the reader into an experience of profound learning. I immediately saw myself in the characters and learned as they learned. Thank you for this inspiration! It has filled me with a passion for peace, both inside and out.
— ECE SIRIN, CO-FOUNDER, BEE CONSULTING, ISTANBUL, TURKEY
This is a masterful and important work that shows how we blame others for problems we ourselves have created. It gently leads the reader to take a hard look in the mirror.
— SCOTT BARTON, SR. VP, CAPITAL ONE
The Anatomy of Peace takes the reader to a deeper level of understanding of the Arbinger material. It has opened my eyes to how my heart has been at war. I feel a renewed commitment to continually examine my way of being. I can only say bravo, and thank you!
— SUSAN M. VALDISERRI, CPCC, PCC, PROFESSIONAL AND EXECUTIVE COACH
I love this book. It is a dramatic and deeply penetrating look at how to achieve peace in one's heart and then how to extend it to others, even under the most difficult circumstances. It is an extremely powerful work - better than I can express.
— MICHAEL MARCHESE, COO, GRAND CANYON COUNCIL, BOY SCOUTS OF AMERICA
A deep and insightful book! It is an extremely powerful tool for shifting individuals to a new space and dimension where solutions can be found and applied to challenges facing most people in the world today.
— VINDRA NAIPAUL, CEO, XTRA FOODS, TRINIDAD AND TOBAGO
Excellent! Even better than Leadership and Self-Deception. A book with tremendous power to change perceptions and lives. As you read it, you will not only be re-thinking many of your assumptions about life, but also wanting to make positive changes right away in relationships you have, both personally and professionally.
— ELLIOT SAINER, CEO, ASPEN EDUCATION GROUP, INC.
Powerful! I am a better person for having read this book. I felt compelled to see myself more clearly and then enabled to resolve conflicts in my relationships. I'm excited to see how far I can extend the influence of these truths in my life.
— RICH ANDERSON, MARKETING COMMUNICATIONS MANAGER, TAHITIAN NONI CAFE
The theoretical work underlying this book is deep and significant in its diagnosis of the ills of our society - from the small scale of individual self-deceptions to self-deceptions of whole cultures.
— ROM HARRÉ, PROFESSOR OF PSYCHOLOGY, FELLOW EMERITUS, LINACRE COLLEGE, OXFORD UNIVERSITY
Few books have the potential to completely change our personal lives as well as the world itself. The Anatomy of Peace is such an achievement, a pioneering effort that offers insight and inspiration I hope to use in my life. It gives us a remarkable new perspective on how we can analyze our problems and, more importantly, solve them in ways we would never have believed possible. I highly recommend it.
— RABBI BENJAMIN BLECH, PROFESSOR OF TALMUD, YESHIVA UNIVERSITY
A book all human beings can relate to, lighting up flashbulbs every few pages. The simplicity of the story is a vehicle for a deep philosophy to positive relationships, starting at the family, reaching out to the larger community and relevant to all creeds and cultures. An empathic understanding of others is the corner stone to a peaceful world.
— ROSALIND PORTMAN, CO-FOUNDER OF FAMILY LINKS UK.
I still have goose bumps from the thrill of reading this beautiful book. An easy and compelling read, it is a rare book that has equal application personally and globally. At the same time that it powerfully and poignantly points to solutions for problems as deep as those in the Middle East, it delivers a deeply personal message that awakens new hope, motivation, and commitment toward inward peace. It has empowered me to improve every relationship - at home, at work, and in the political sphere. Thank you!
— MARK SHURTLEFF, UTAH ATTORNEY GENERAL
Parents and children, brothers and sisters, liberals and conservatives, blacks and whites, Irish Catholics and Irish Protestants, Muslims and Christians; what a better world this would be if only we would read and apply the teachings of this book!
— GARY R. DYER, CEO, FARM CREDIT SERVICES SOUTHWEST
An impressively clear expression of a solution for peace. How different our world would look if we were willing to practice and integrate these concepts in our lives.
— MARJOLEIN HINS, MANAGING DIRECTOR, Q-SEARCH, THE NETHERLANDS
Great, great read with powerful insights into how our personal choices preload us for war or peace, in all of our relationships.
— TOM LEONARD, GROUP CHAIR, VISTAGE INTERNATIONAL
A clear and moving account of how issues relating to race, religion, and color can become perverted by the overpowering need for justification, and how this need is at the heart of war itself - both internal and external. An absolute must read.
— ISHAK BIN ISMAIL, SINGAPORE
This beautiful book reminds us that the foundation of a happy peaceful life is compassion and humanity and reveals how our hearts may be at war in everyday relationships at home or work. It challenges us to use this insight for active and continuous change. It should be on the curriculum for all caring professions and studied by all leaders who want to create effective teams.
— JANET SAUNDERS, MATRON, ROYAL UNITED HOSPITAL, BATH UK
An intriguing book that provides the tools for transcending differences between people. I believe and hope that it will help people to see the divinity in others, even when it is difficult to do so - a profoundly important message that resonates deeply within me.
— TODD W. CROWE, CROWE ARCHITECTS, AIA, PC
This remarkable story transcends ethnic, cultural, and religious barriers as a diverse group of people experience together the universal virtue of peace. The book is a call to action, with principles that work at home and on the world stage. I wholeheartedly recommend this book to all of my family, friends, and fellow citizens everywhere.
— BRYAN MAUGHAN, EDUCATIONAL RESEARCHER, IDAHO NATIONAL LABORATORIES
The Anatomy of Peace lights us up in two places: the heart and the world. For the first time the dots have been connected between inner heartfelt peace and outer world peace...and in this entertaining novel, full of lively dialogue, the connection is a thrill.
— STEVE CHANDLER, AUTHOR OF THE STORY OF YOU
This moving and powerful book shows how we can transform situations of pain, rage, and hatred into ones of understanding, healing, and growth. This work could be very important in considering the way we view perpetrators and victims of crime, as well as how they view each other. I am grateful to have read it.
— TIM NEWELL, FORMER PRISON GOVERNOR, CURRENTLY WORKING IN RESTORATIVE JUSTICE
This is a great book that goes to the heart of conflict and shows how we can change the way we think and act. It is much needed in our world today. Many thanks to Arbinger for such a noble initiative.
— SRI VASUDEVA, FOUNDER AND SPIRITUAL LEADER, BLUE STAR
That the path to lasting conflict resolution requires understanding ourselves and having a heart at peace may seem to be self-evident. But how do we get there? The Arbinger Institute explores this and related concepts in depth in an engaging story that ranges from the personal to the historical, all the while acknowledging and respecting the passionate and complex nature of our feelings and circumstances. I was repeatedly brought up short to think about my own relationships.
— LAURETTA CUADRA, STACEY'S BOOKSTORE
The Anatomy of Peace is truly transforming and powerful material. Arbinger has taken the burden out of leading in our organization by teaching us to truly care about our colleagues and individually take responsibility for creating a powerful organization, which will ultimately transform the level of care that we can provide to our clients.
— DON SERRATT, FOUNDER AND CEO, LIFE WORKS, UK
Reading this book is an extraordinary experience. It shows how to become an agent of peace - at home, at work, and in the world. This is an important book and a service to mankind.
— DAVID A. SMITH, PRESIDENT, IDAHO GROWER SHIPPERS ASSOCIATION
Having finished this book and absorbed the wise words that fill every page, I wonder why we teach mathematics to enforce logical thinking, languages for intercultural communication, and so on, but we lack the essence: a proper method for social behaviour! I say: let schools and universities offer courses designed by The Arbinger Institute; train politicians and statesmen in The Anatomy of Peace; and invite Arbinger to train all kinds of people in the understanding of their very own contribution to the advancement of peace in the world!
— ANNELIES VAN DER HORST, EQUAL PROJECT, CENTRE FOR GENDER AND DIVERSITY, UNIVERSITY MAASTRICHT, THE NETHERLANDS
The Anatomy of Peace is a brilliantly written, stimulating read, with a rare clarity that awakens reflection and compels action. I recommend it without hesitation to anyone interested in finding solutions to conflicts ranging from the personal to the global.
— GILEAD SHER, FORMER CHIEF OF STAFF OF THE PRIME MINISTER OF ISRAEL
In this day of whirlwind confusion and intense disconnection, The Anatomy of Peace is a divine prescription. More than just a book to read or an idea to consider, it is a life raft for the countless many who are suffering in silence and drowning in fear.
— IYANLA VANZANT, AUTHOR, LIFE COACH, FOUNDER, INNER VISIONS INSTITUTE FOR SPIRITUAL DEVELOPMENT
Rarely have I read anything that held my attention the way this book did. To find that kind of reading experience in the context of a book that covers such disparate topics as parenting, managing employees, Middle East peace, and self-actualization is truly astonishing.
— JO ELLEN GREEN KAISER, SENIOR EDITOR, TIKKUN MAGAZINE
I couldn't put The Anatomy of Peace down. It is an enthralling story of peacemaking, showing principles that apply both in the family and on the world stage. Told with compassion and humour, the practical wisdom of this book has profound implications for all who are struggling and seemingly paralysed in insoluble conflicts.
— THE REVEREND VICTOR DE WALL, FORMER DEAN OF CANTERBURY CATHEDRAL, ENGLAND
Phenomenal...compelling...vivid...poignant. This is a book that every manager, teacher, advisor, and parent should read and apply.
— STEVEN WHEELWRIGHT, SENIOR ASSOCIATE DEAN, HARVARD BUSINESS SCHOOL
Amazingly powerful! In the reading alone, there is transformation. I know of no tool or way of thinking that contributes so masterfully to real, lasting peace - in families, organizations, communities, and nations. The Anatomy of Peace is a gift to the world.
— PAMELA RICHARDE, PRESIDENT, INTERNATIONAL COACH FEDERATION
I love this book. Having read it, the circumstances I encounter every day seem different to me - whether in sports, business, or family life, the ideas apply to every facet of life. I can't wait to share this book and its concepts with others.
— DANNY AINGE, GENERAL MANAGER, THE BOSTON CELTICS
To adopt the essence of this book is the true roadmap for peace.
— EYTAN BENTSUR, FORMER DIRECTOR GENERAL, ISRAEL MINISTRY OF FOREIGN AFFAIRS
A practical and intriguing approach to maximizing collaboration and performance. I have deployed the principles from Arbinger's first book, Leadership and Self Deception, with outstanding results. The Anatomy of Peace takes it to the next level - personally and professionally.
— ADEL AL-SALEH, VICE PRESIDENT OF SALES, IBM NORTHEAST EUROPE
After years of applying these ideas with youth and their parents, I can say that this is powerful medicine for the soul. These ideas change hearts, heal deep wounds, and bring parents and children together.
— MIKE MERCHANT, PRESIDENT AND CHIEF EXECUTIVE OFFICER, ANASAZI FOUNDATION
Having been intensely involved in peacemaking, I can honestly say that this is a significant and important book that lays out innovative strategies for building sustainable peace.
— URI SAVIR, PRESIDENT, THE PERES CENTER FOR PEACE, TEL-AVIV, AND FORMER DIRECTOR GENERAL, ISRAEL MINISTRY OF FOREIGN AFFAIRS
A powerful work that has a profound impact on all things personal and professional. It illustrates that the path to peace and to the resolution of our most troubling conflicts requires not only different actions but a different way of being. Even better, it shows you how to get there. It is a book I will share widely and return to again and again.
— LAURA WHITWORTH, CO-FOUNDER OF THE BIGGER GAME COMPANY AND THE COACHES TRAINING INSTITUTE
A stunning work of wisdom and insight... Everyone, from neighbors to the heads of nations, ought to read and live the teachings of this book.
— KENT H. MURDOCK, PRESIDENT AND CEO, O.C. TANNER
The Anatomy of Peace is one of those rare works that somehow finds its way into the heart. Before you know it you will be emotionally invested in the same process as the characters in this story. Be prepared to be at once challenged, moved, and called forth to become the person you know you should be.
— MIKE BUNDRANT, PUBLISHER, HEALTHY TIMES NEWSPAPER
The Anatomy of Peace, a truly inspirational book, could change the face of humanity. The world would be a dramatically better place if even a few of us would be guided by its powerful ideas. The Anatomy of Peace should be required reading - for everyone.
— MARION BLUMENTHAL LAZAN, HOLOCAUST SURVIVOR, CO-AUTHOR OF FOUR PERFECT PEBBLES
Profound in depth, yet simple in message - an astounding work of immense impact, both personally and professionally. This is the next major lever in terms of how organisations improve performance.
— NICK JESSETT, PROGRAMME MANAGER, ROLLS ROYCE
I can't begin to explain how much I love The Anatomy of Peace. It goes twenty times deeper than Leadership and Self-Deception in the same amount of space. It's an amazing, inspiring book that has opened up new ways for me to think about my life. I look forward to reading it again and again! I can't recommend it more highly!
— DAREN CONNEL, CEO, COMMUNICATE WIRELESS
Simply phenomenal. Arresting. Words escape me. The Anatomy of Peace is a tremendous resource for people who are looking to improve their quality of life.
— MURALI IYER, VICE PRESIDENT AND MANAGING DIRECTOR, THE REVERE GROUP
A true masterpiece with far reaching implications. I couldn't put it down.
— NAN O'CONNOR, MASTER CERTIFIED COACH
The Anatomy of Peace is an emotionally moving and fascinating work with the potential to have a profound global impact, one person at a time. It has me thinking new and deep thoughts - about myself, about others, and about problems we are facing in our communities and around the world.
— JOHN F. NICHOLS, PRESIDENT, DISABILITY RESOURCE GROUP, INC.
This book is a joy to the jaded. It gets beneath highly-regarded behavioral theses and shows how change in behavior is not enough. A simple tale, quietly told without condescension, it shows the potential and strength of our ordinary humanity. I feel I have grown from inside by reading it. The book helps people to know their neighbor without fear. And that is about as good as it gets.
— STEPHEN PRYOR, FORMER ENGLISH PRISON SERVICE GOVERNOR; VICE CHAIR, GRUBB INSTITUTE FOR BEHAVIORAL STUDIES (LONDON)
The Anatomy of Peace is a brilliant work that takes Arbinger's concepts to a new level and applies them to all areas of our lives. The book has true everyman appeal, as everyone will see themselves in the book's story. The takeaway is huge: no matter our circumstances, we always retain the choice of being at peace.
— SCOTT DUGAN, PRESIDENT & CEO, MID-PLAINS CENTER
Reading The Anatomy of Peace was truly a WOW experience. The book offers a way out of conflict that relies on my choices. How incredibly empowering! It is an extraordinary book that will help you find peace in any situation. It has changed the way I look at life.
— SISTER MAUREEN FITZGERALD, A.S.C.J., DEAN OF ADMISSIONS AND ACADEMICS, COR JESU ACADEMY
Nothing I can write will do justice to this work. I have used these ideas professionally to resolve organizational conflicts that threatened to shut down a contractor operating a Navy base and to diffuse grievances from disgruntled employees determined to rid themselves of their managers. In each instance disasters were averted and hearts of war were turned to hearts of peace. If the world were to read and adopt the principles contained in this book my profession would be a relic of the past.
— RUSSELL G. PENDERGRASS, CAPTAIN, UNITED STATES NAVY
The Anatomy of Peace is a moving, powerful, wonderful book. It awakened me to the need to look more intentionally inside my heart. As much as I want peace in the world, it must start with my own deep understanding of why I sometimes create my own little wars or participate in others'.
— DR. PATRICK WILLIAMS, MCC, FOUNDER AND CEO, INSTITUTE FOR LIFE COACH TRAINING
Inspiring and thrilling! Once you start reading it, you can't put it down. The story is beautiful because it's so real. The book doesn't lecture but rather invites the reader into an experience of profound learning. I immediately saw myself in the characters and learned as they learned. Thank you for this inspiration! It has filled me with a passion for peace, both inside and out.
— ECE SIRIN, CO-FOUNDER, BEE CONSULTING, ISTANBUL, TURKEY
This is a masterful and important work that shows how we blame others for problems we ourselves have created. It gently leads the reader to take a hard look in the mirror.
— SCOTT BARTON, SR. VP, CAPITAL ONE
The Anatomy of Peace takes the reader to a deeper level of understanding of the Arbinger material. It has opened my eyes to how my heart has been at war. I feel a renewed commitment to continually examine my way of being. I can only say bravo, and thank you!
— SUSAN M. VALDISERRI, CPCC, PCC, PROFESSIONAL AND EXECUTIVE COACH
I love this book. It is a dramatic and deeply penetrating look at how to achieve peace in one's heart and then how to extend it to others, even under the most difficult circumstances. It is an extremely powerful work - better than I can express.
— MICHAEL MARCHESE, COO, GRAND CANYON COUNCIL, BOY SCOUTS OF AMERICA
A deep and insightful book! It is an extremely powerful tool for shifting individuals to a new space and dimension where solutions can be found and applied to challenges facing most people in the world today.
— VINDRA NAIPAUL, CEO, XTRA FOODS, TRINIDAD AND TOBAGO
Excellent! Even better than Leadership and Self-Deception. A book with tremendous power to change perceptions and lives. As you read it, you will not only be re-thinking many of your assumptions about life, but also wanting to make positive changes right away in relationships you have, both personally and professionally.
— ELLIOT SAINER, CEO, ASPEN EDUCATION GROUP, INC.
Powerful! I am a better person for having read this book. I felt compelled to see myself more clearly and then enabled to resolve conflicts in my relationships. I'm excited to see how far I can extend the influence of these truths in my life.
— RICH ANDERSON, MARKETING COMMUNICATIONS MANAGER, TAHITIAN NONI CAFE
The theoretical work underlying this book is deep and significant in its diagnosis of the ills of our society - from the small scale of individual self-deceptions to self-deceptions of whole cultures.
— ROM HARRÉ, PROFESSOR OF PSYCHOLOGY, FELLOW EMERITUS, LINACRE COLLEGE, OXFORD UNIVERSITY
Few books have the potential to completely change our personal lives as well as the world itself. The Anatomy of Peace is such an achievement, a pioneering effort that offers insight and inspiration I hope to use in my life. It gives us a remarkable new perspective on how we can analyze our problems and, more importantly, solve them in ways we would never have believed possible. I highly recommend it.
— RABBI BENJAMIN BLECH, PROFESSOR OF TALMUD, YESHIVA UNIVERSITY
A book all human beings can relate to, lighting up flashbulbs every few pages. The simplicity of the story is a vehicle for a deep philosophy to positive relationships, starting at the family, reaching out to the larger community and relevant to all creeds and cultures. An empathic understanding of others is the corner stone to a peaceful world.
— ROSALIND PORTMAN, CO-FOUNDER OF FAMILY LINKS UK.
I still have goose bumps from the thrill of reading this beautiful book. An easy and compelling read, it is a rare book that has equal application personally and globally. At the same time that it powerfully and poignantly points to solutions for problems as deep as those in the Middle East, it delivers a deeply personal message that awakens new hope, motivation, and commitment toward inward peace. It has empowered me to improve every relationship - at home, at work, and in the political sphere. Thank you!
— MARK SHURTLEFF, UTAH ATTORNEY GENERAL
Parents and children, brothers and sisters, liberals and conservatives, blacks and whites, Irish Catholics and Irish Protestants, Muslims and Christians; what a better world this would be if only we would read and apply the teachings of this book!
— GARY R. DYER, CEO, FARM CREDIT SERVICES SOUTHWEST
An impressively clear expression of a solution for peace. How different our world would look if we were willing to practice and integrate these concepts in our lives.
— MARJOLEIN HINS, MANAGING DIRECTOR, Q-SEARCH, THE NETHERLANDS
Great, great read with powerful insights into how our personal choices preload us for war or peace, in all of our relationships.
— TOM LEONARD, GROUP CHAIR, VISTAGE INTERNATIONAL
A clear and moving account of how issues relating to race, religion, and color can become perverted by the overpowering need for justification, and how this need is at the heart of war itself - both internal and external. An absolute must read.
— ISHAK BIN ISMAIL, SINGAPORE
This beautiful book reminds us that the foundation of a happy peaceful life is compassion and humanity and reveals how our hearts may be at war in everyday relationships at home or work. It challenges us to use this insight for active and continuous change. It should be on the curriculum for all caring professions and studied by all leaders who want to create effective teams.
— JANET SAUNDERS, MATRON, ROYAL UNITED HOSPITAL, BATH UK
An intriguing book that provides the tools for transcending differences between people. I believe and hope that it will help people to see the divinity in others, even when it is difficult to do so - a profoundly important message that resonates deeply within me.
— TODD W. CROWE, CROWE ARCHITECTS, AIA, PC
This remarkable story transcends ethnic, cultural, and religious barriers as a diverse group of people experience together the universal virtue of peace. The book is a call to action, with principles that work at home and on the world stage. I wholeheartedly recommend this book to all of my family, friends, and fellow citizens everywhere.
— BRYAN MAUGHAN, EDUCATIONAL RESEARCHER, IDAHO NATIONAL LABORATORIES
The Anatomy of Peace lights us up in two places: the heart and the world. For the first time the dots have been connected between inner heartfelt peace and outer world peace...and in this entertaining novel, full of lively dialogue, the connection is a thrill.
— STEVE CHANDLER, AUTHOR OF THE STORY OF YOU
This moving and powerful book shows how we can transform situations of pain, rage, and hatred into ones of understanding, healing, and growth. This work could be very important in considering the way we view perpetrators and victims of crime, as well as how they view each other. I am grateful to have read it.
— TIM NEWELL, FORMER PRISON GOVERNOR, CURRENTLY WORKING IN RESTORATIVE JUSTICE
This is a great book that goes to the heart of conflict and shows how we can change the way we think and act. It is much needed in our world today. Many thanks to Arbinger for such a noble initiative.
— SRI VASUDEVA, FOUNDER AND SPIRITUAL LEADER, BLUE STAR
That the path to lasting conflict resolution requires understanding ourselves and having a heart at peace may seem to be self-evident. But how do we get there? The Arbinger Institute explores this and related concepts in depth in an engaging story that ranges from the personal to the historical, all the while acknowledging and respecting the passionate and complex nature of our feelings and circumstances. I was repeatedly brought up short to think about my own relationships.
— LAURETTA CUADRA, STACEY'S BOOKSTORE
The Anatomy of Peace is truly transforming and powerful material. Arbinger has taken the burden out of leading in our organization by teaching us to truly care about our colleagues and individually take responsibility for creating a powerful organization, which will ultimately transform the level of care that we can provide to our clients.
— DON SERRATT, FOUNDER AND CEO, LIFE WORKS, UK
Reading this book is an extraordinary experience. It shows how to become an agent of peace - at home, at work, and in the world. This is an important book and a service to mankind.
— DAVID A. SMITH, PRESIDENT, IDAHO GROWER SHIPPERS ASSOCIATION
Having finished this book and absorbed the wise words that fill every page, I wonder why we teach mathematics to enforce logical thinking, languages for intercultural communication, and so on, but we lack the essence: a proper method for social behaviour! I say: let schools and universities offer courses designed by The Arbinger Institute; train politicians and statesmen in The Anatomy of Peace; and invite Arbinger to train all kinds of people in the understanding of their very own contribution to the advancement of peace in the world!
— ANNELIES VAN DER HORST, EQUAL PROJECT, CENTRE FOR GENDER AND DIVERSITY, UNIVERSITY MAASTRICHT, THE NETHERLANDS
Thursday, January 29, 2009
REVIEWS
I have been meaning to review quite a few items for some time, I just finished reading the Anatomy of Peace and feel now is the time for my reviews.
ENV2
Have had this phone for a month and love it. When I was deciding which one to get I went to a few verizon stores at each place the employee I was talking to pulled out their env2 and raved about it. They said it was the least returned and had fewer problems than any phone. The employees usually use the best stuff so I felt good about it. A month later I feel even better about it. I know a lot of people that have touch phones that wish they didn't. Here is what I like most: great to text with, I make excuses just to use the key pad. Camera is great. Locks up automatically so its not taking a bunch of pics of my pocket. Battery life is great. (I didn't charge it all last week.) Great phone, I am completely satisfied.
Anatomy of Peace
This is from the same group that did Leadership and Self Deception. That book is more for companies. This one is for everyone. And I do mean everyone. Honestly this book should be required for everyone. Isn't peace what all of us are after? This book helps each of us understand where we create our own conflicts. In many cases when we are trying to correct others, like dealing with teens, we provoke a fight instead of solving anything. This book helps us examine where we make things worse instead of making things better. I can't think of a more important subject for myself. It makes you reevalute how you deal with situations and gives you the recipe for success. Would whole heartedly recommend.
Settlers of Catan
Nice family game. Good strategy game, where the roll of the dice determines what resources you will get. You get to build roads, settlements, and cities to get more resources. Part strategy and part luck of the roll(although you build on areas that are most probable to be rolled) Nice competitive game. Kelsey picked it up fast. The online version is slick, but the way to get in is pretty lame. Thumbs up. Especially good for 3-4 people. Lots of little pieces make it hard to have around little kids, and easy to lose. Only drawback.
Ticket to Ride
In this game you get destination cards and have to build trains using color coded cards from one place to another. Not as much luck, no roll of the dice, but still some--as far as which cards you can pick, as Catan. This is a great game, more for adults, because there is more strategy, our kids had a harder time picking up on it, and prefer settlers. I prefer ticket to ride. Not as many little pieces as Settlers, but plenty of little trains. Need to keep an eye on all the pieces. A great game night game.
Lie to Me
Fox has really hyped this show, so I watched it. Let's just say this is average as they come. Nothing surprising, or real revealing. I like the science behind it, but certainly watching a tv show is a limited way of really learning about it. I am sure some will watch and try to live the guidelines in real life. Just like all the wannabe forensics or detectives from csi watching. I won't record this show or make a point to see it. Pretty standard stuff
Philly Cheese steak in Clearfield
I have had the best Salt Lake has to offer in Moochies. I actually like this one better. Both are expensive. This one has better bread, Moochies has thicker bread. Great sandwich. Make sure to have a toothbrush handy as your breath will be kicking after eating one. I do like Moochies Jalapeno sauce better. Also this place has a ketchup option, that is weird. Can't imagine doing it. My mouth is watering right now thinking about it. You will be happy if you get one.
ENV2
Have had this phone for a month and love it. When I was deciding which one to get I went to a few verizon stores at each place the employee I was talking to pulled out their env2 and raved about it. They said it was the least returned and had fewer problems than any phone. The employees usually use the best stuff so I felt good about it. A month later I feel even better about it. I know a lot of people that have touch phones that wish they didn't. Here is what I like most: great to text with, I make excuses just to use the key pad. Camera is great. Locks up automatically so its not taking a bunch of pics of my pocket. Battery life is great. (I didn't charge it all last week.) Great phone, I am completely satisfied.
Anatomy of Peace
This is from the same group that did Leadership and Self Deception. That book is more for companies. This one is for everyone. And I do mean everyone. Honestly this book should be required for everyone. Isn't peace what all of us are after? This book helps each of us understand where we create our own conflicts. In many cases when we are trying to correct others, like dealing with teens, we provoke a fight instead of solving anything. This book helps us examine where we make things worse instead of making things better. I can't think of a more important subject for myself. It makes you reevalute how you deal with situations and gives you the recipe for success. Would whole heartedly recommend.
Settlers of Catan
Nice family game. Good strategy game, where the roll of the dice determines what resources you will get. You get to build roads, settlements, and cities to get more resources. Part strategy and part luck of the roll(although you build on areas that are most probable to be rolled) Nice competitive game. Kelsey picked it up fast. The online version is slick, but the way to get in is pretty lame. Thumbs up. Especially good for 3-4 people. Lots of little pieces make it hard to have around little kids, and easy to lose. Only drawback.
Ticket to Ride
In this game you get destination cards and have to build trains using color coded cards from one place to another. Not as much luck, no roll of the dice, but still some--as far as which cards you can pick, as Catan. This is a great game, more for adults, because there is more strategy, our kids had a harder time picking up on it, and prefer settlers. I prefer ticket to ride. Not as many little pieces as Settlers, but plenty of little trains. Need to keep an eye on all the pieces. A great game night game.
Lie to Me
Fox has really hyped this show, so I watched it. Let's just say this is average as they come. Nothing surprising, or real revealing. I like the science behind it, but certainly watching a tv show is a limited way of really learning about it. I am sure some will watch and try to live the guidelines in real life. Just like all the wannabe forensics or detectives from csi watching. I won't record this show or make a point to see it. Pretty standard stuff
Philly Cheese steak in Clearfield
I have had the best Salt Lake has to offer in Moochies. I actually like this one better. Both are expensive. This one has better bread, Moochies has thicker bread. Great sandwich. Make sure to have a toothbrush handy as your breath will be kicking after eating one. I do like Moochies Jalapeno sauce better. Also this place has a ketchup option, that is weird. Can't imagine doing it. My mouth is watering right now thinking about it. You will be happy if you get one.
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