We are faced with a wonderful yet terrifying decision. We have been preparing to buy a home for over a year now. Recently, we have been blessed with the opportunity to make that purchase a reality. It's a wonderful home, placed in a new master planned neighborhood with more than we could wish for. When we are there we are so excited and wishful about our future together and the future of our family. We've been preparing for a long time and its easy to get wrapped up in the excitement of the house hunt, but its important to take ourselves away from it and get realistic. Rexburg is great and we both have the opportunity to advance in our careers here but is it the best place? Do we want to put down roots here officially? We've always said that plan on staying here for many more years and starting our family while we are here. But what if an opportunity comes along and we could do better for our family? What then? Is it too late? Are we bound by our mortgage payment and must give up those opportunities? Scary.
I'm not really sure if I'm looking for advice or not but I think I just want to write it out. There are several pros to buying now. Brand new home, amazing price, great opportunity to take advantage of the housing market, build some equity, and advance in our careers here further. But, yet there are those scary cons.... What if? Maybe its just the butterflies of buying our first home thats getting me spooked or maybe its something more.
It's just hard because we are under the gun and we need to make the decision fast. Like really fast. Which always makes me nervous! I like to plan things and have time to let it soak in before I make a major commitment.
I hope it doesn't sound like we are complaining. Believe me, I know how blessed we are to be able to consider purchasing a home. WE ARE VERY FORTUNATE, and I couldn't be more grateful and humbled by the blessings that we have received. It can just be stressful.
Major decision. Keep us in your prayers and wish us luck.
We love you all.