“You’re single because you’re single. It’s not because you texted too much or too little or waited 33 minutes to respond because he took 23. It’s not because you met up with your ex that night at 5 a.m. that no one knows about, or because you kissed another boy after a date with a loser.
You’re not single because you spit food on that date or tripped coming out the the movie theatre. You’re not single because you hurt your first boyfriend really badly when you were 15 or because you have yet, to this day, to apologize. It’s not because you were secretly jealous when your friend got a boyfriend or that a guy you dated for two months now has a really cute girlfriend and looks really happy. And you’re happy for him. But still ill that he found someone before you.
You’re not single because you slept with your ex boyfriend. You’re not single because half the world found out when you didn’t even want to remember it yourself. You’re not single because you think the guy your friend wants to hook you up with is ugly or not tall enough. It’s not because you’re not willing to put up with someone who doesn’t brush their teeth on a regular basis.
You’re not single because your standards are too high. Good for you for having standards. It’s not because you didn’t like that really, really good guy who wanted to take you on a date and you just weren’t feeling it. And it’s not because you like to wear pajama pants as soon as you get home and wash all the makeup off your face. You’re not single because you didn’t learn enough from the past or would rather chill on a Friday night with your blanket and a cold beer than shower, get ready, and go out. You’re not single because something is wrong with you.
You are single because you are single. It’s really as simple as that. You haven’t made the connection with another heart yet. You can get dolled up, dress cute, cut your hair, dye your hair, tweeze your eyebrows, put on lipstick and you may still. be. single. You can go out to a bar hoping to meet the love of your life and not find a damn one in the place attractive. And it’s going to remain that way until it’s time for you to find one. Stop hoping for it. Start living the life that you do have instead of wishing for things that you don’t have. There will come a time you’ll meet a boy and you’ll have to give up some of this single freedom you currently have. Start being more thankful. Start doing that now.”
Monday, January 27, 2014
Thankful
All of the things that i was worried/afraid about, doesnt matter anymore right now because all is good.
So excited for the year ahead!
Tuesday, December 31, 2013
2013
HAPPY NEW YEAR!!!!!!!!! 2013 have been pretty good to me i guess? :) But i know 2014 will definitely be a better year for me :)
So this pretty much sums up my 2013, good bad memories some people come some people go struggled with school slacked my ass off studied my ass off new experiences here and there. Whatever it is, i thank you all for being part of my 2013 :) Not really ready for 2014 yet but im still looking forward to it!
Monday, November 25, 2013
And she will be loved
HI GUYS!!!!!!
What's there to move on when there's nothing to begin with in the first place? But I'll get over it anyway.
- O LEVELS ARE FUCKING OVER LIKE A FINALLYYYYYYYYY so damn done with that dog life im a free bitch rn
- I chopped off my hair..... YAY OR NAY? Hahaha i just wanna change my hairstyle so yeah
- I found a job at precious thoughts at tamp mall??? DONT LAUGH PLEASEEE i have no idea why i chose to work there though but it's fine :-)
What's there to move on when there's nothing to begin with in the first place? But I'll get over it anyway.
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