This summer Daphne started swim lessons. I was so excited to get her started because I grew up swimming my whole life and have always loved it. Daphne loves the water so I thought swimming for her would come easily. She never seemed scared of the water so I was expecting this to be a piece of cake. Silly me, to completely forget her strong willed way of life. The phrase "strong willed" doesn't even do it justice. Daphne is capable of doing most anything, as long as it's her idea and under her conditions.
About 10 years ago exactly, my mom heard of a swim program in Fresno, CA, the Jan Thomas Swim Academy. It is one of the largest swim academies in California. They teach from ages 1 and on and they have the most amazing program. The founder's daughter (Becky Thomas) lives part time in Utah and would come out for the winter to teach in Draper. My mom started my 2 youngest sisters in lessons, Emily who was 4 at the time and Gracie who was not quite 2 yet. After taking a session of lessons with Becky and one of her other swim instructors, Em and Gracie were swimming great! We were all so impressed with their progress and how fast and effective their teaching techniques were. Gracie was swimming by the time she turned 2 and it was so fun to watch.
Fast forward 10 years, earlier this summer I was looking for a good place to put Daphne in swim lessons. I was having a hard time knowing where to enroll her when to our excitement, we found out Becky was teaching a 3 week session in August! I was so thrilled and beyond excited to get Daphne started in the same swim lessons Grace and Emily took, especially after seeing their great progress in the program.
I got Daphne enrolled and we were all set to go. She was signed up for 11 lessons. I wasn't sure how Daphne would react to the swim lessons but was expecting some brief hesitancy. Well the first 6 lessons Daphne sure put up a fight. I watched as Daphne was doing her lesson the other kids in the pool, they were all happy and swimming great. At first I was a little discouraged, why wasn't Daphne catching on? Why wasn't she happy in the pool? Daphne's swim instructor (who came out from Fresno to teach for 3 weeks in Utah with the other instructors) was always so reassuring after each lesson and would let me know that it was normal for some kids to take longer to be happy in the pool and that although Daphne was crying the whole lesson, she was still making progress. A couple lessons in, my mom came with me and was also surprised with how much Daphne was crying and afterwards we talked to Becky. She asked if Daphne was clingy to me at all and I explained that she isn't but is VERY strong willed. Becky then perked up and explained to me that her behavior was completely normal and that in fact, the strong willed ones can become the most determined swimmers once they set their mind to it. This was so reassuring and gave me some hope. We went along with the next several lessons and Daphne was still crying.
We got to her 7th lesson and it was like a light turned on inside her and all the sudden she stopped crying and I began to see incredible progress in her swimming and her attitude. I probably looked like such a fool sitting there watching her because I had the biggest smile on my face the entire 30 minutes of her lesson. It is such an incredible thing to see your child do hard things and conquer hurdles that come their way. Don't get me wrong, Daphne was still strong willed in the pool but she was happy. Her instructor, Nicki, was so great with Daphne and she loved swimming with her. Nicki was always so sweet and worked so hard with Daphne.
I can't help but be the typical proud parent, I am thrilled with the progress she made and am so excited to continue working with her. It is such an amazing thing seeing your kids accomplish things, whether big or small. I can already see Daphne's confidence has grown so much in the last 3 weeks. We were so lucky to have the opportunity to enroll Daphne in Becky's swim classes, and I was so sad to have it come to an end today. In fact, maybe it's the pregnancy hormones, but on the way home I may or may not have cried. Thank you to the Jan Thomas Swim Academy and all the dedicated swim instructors, they truly are amazing in all that they do!
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despite her confused look, she was very excited about the medal ceremony
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and VERY excited about her medal