Sunday, January 25, 2009

安慰自己的小语言
时间:2009-01-16 13:22来源: 作者:雨轩 点击:5503 次 我要评论(17条)

编者按:选择一些话,打动自己,安慰自己。

  
1、有些事,我们明知道是错的,也要去坚持,因为不甘心;有些人,我们明知道是爱的,也要去放弃,因为没结局;有时候,我们明知道没路了,却还在前行,因为习惯了。
  
  2、以为蒙上了眼睛,就可以看不见这个世界;以为捂住了耳朵,就可以听不到所有的烦恼;以为脚步停了下来,心就可以不再远行;以为我需要的爱情,只是一个拥抱。
  
  3、那些已经犯过的错误,有一些是因为来不及,有一些是因为刻意躲避,更多的时候是茫然地站到了一边。我们就这样错了一次又一次,却从不晓得从中汲取教训,做一些反省。
  
  4、你不知道我在想你,是因为你不爱我,我明明知道你不想我,却还爱你,是因为我太傻。也许有时候,逃避不是因为害怕去面对什么,而是在等待什么。
  
  5、天空没有翅膀的痕迹,但鸟儿已经飞过;心里没有被刀子割过,但疼痛却那么清晰。这些胸口里最柔软的地方,被爱人伤害过的伤口,远比那些肢体所受的伤害来得犀利,而且只有时间,才能够治愈。
  
  6、很多人,因为寂寞而错爱了一人,但更多的人,因为错爱一人,而寂寞一生。我们可以彼此相爱,却注定了无法相守。不是我不够爱你,只是我不敢肯定,这爱,是不是最正确的。
  
  7、如果背叛是一种勇气,那么接受背叛则需要一种更大的勇气。前者只需要有足够的勇敢就可以,又或许只是一时冲动,而后者考验的却是宽容的程度,绝非冲动那么简单,需要的唯有时间。
  
  8、生命无法用来证明爱情,就像我们无法证明自己可以不再相信爱情。在这个城市里,诚如劳力士是物质的奢侈品,爱情则是精神上的奢侈品。可是生命脆弱无比,根本没办法承受那么多的奢侈。
  
  9、人最大的困难是认识自己,最容易的也是认识自己。很多时候,我们认不清自己,只因为我们把自己放在了一个错误的位置,给了自己一个错觉。所以,不怕前路坎坷,只怕从一开始就走错了方向。
  
  10、生活在一个城市里,或者爱一个人,又或者做某件事,时间久了,就会觉得厌倦,就会有一种想要逃离的冲动。也许不是厌倦了这个城市、爱的人、坚持的事,只是给不了自己坚持下去的勇气。
  
  11、多少次又多少次,回忆把生活划成一个圈,而我们在原地转了无数次,无法解脱。总是希望回到最初相识的地点,如果能够再一次选择的话,以为可以爱得更单纯。
  
  12、如果你明明知道这个故事的结局,你或者选择说出来,或者装作不知道,万不要欲言又止。有时候留给别人的伤害,选择沉默比选择坦白要痛


(http://www.sanwen8.cn/a/2009-01-16/24422.html)

Menaingful stories.

《小故事大道理》

第一篇 对着大山喊话的孩子

.......有一个孩子跑到山上,无意间对着山谷喊了一声:“喂……”声音刚落,从四面八方传来了阵阵“喂……”的回声。大山答应了。孩子很惊讶,又喊了一声:“你是谁?”大山也回音:“你是谁?”孩子喊:“为什么不告诉我?”大山也说:“为什么不告诉我?”

......孩子忍不住生气了,喊道:“我恨你。”他哪里知道这一喊不得了,整个世界传来的声音都是:“我恨你,我恨你……”

......孩子哭着跑回家,告诉了妈妈,妈妈对孩子说:“孩子,你回去对着大山喊‘我爱你',试试看结果会怎样,好吗?”

......孩子又跑到山上。果然这次孩子被包围在“我——爱——你,我——爱——你……”的回声中。

......孩子笑了,群山笑了。

......男孩不解的、迷惑的摇摇头。


大道理: 有时候,我们总是在抱怨着别人的态度太冷漠、情绪太不好,却不知你自己是对方一面最好的镜子——如遇到这样类似的情况,不妨问问自己做了什么——想让别人爱你,你得先去爱别人。

(http://zhidao.baidu.com/question/34012593.html)

Chinese New Year is Here!

Yoyo!!! Chinese New Year is Official here in a few more hours TIME!!!!

Hmm.. yaya i noe i super long din blog le.. haha.. so im here to update ! =D

Hmm.. i had quit my job as a telemarketer a week ago.. n i m in doing relief teaching in some neighbourhood schools in Tampines.. wah.. was v impressed by the sch .. n the sch is v different from the schools i had been to n in my hse area i guess... Haha~~

Hmm.. after being a relief teacher for only one day i had one question tt has been gg on my mind.. is teachinG to most teachers a routine or passion ?? Hmm...

Hmm.. im now officially dependign on myself le.. cannot anyhow spend lik last time le...
Hmm.. mzu find a wa to resist food!!! Argh!! they always burnt a big HOLE in my pocket!!!
HAha~~ roughly tt la~

Ohya... in the world.. u cant please everyone... cuz when there is light there bound to hav darkness! simliarly likes n dislikes exist together~ =)

Fish Yao Jia YOU! =DDDDD

HApPY CHINEsE NEW YEAR!!!
MAY u guys gt many many ang BaoS!!!!
May ur family b in good health n harmonious!!!

Wednesday, January 14, 2009

what hurts the most

An Emo song....

I can take the rain on the roof of this empty house, that don't bother me
I can take a few tears now and then and just let them out
I'm not afraid to cry
Every once in a while even though goin on with you gone still upsets me
There are days
Every now and again I pretend I'm OK but that's not what gets me

[Chorus:]
What hurts the most, was being so close
And having so much to say
And watching you walk away
Never knowing, what could have been
And not seeing that loving you
Is what I was trying to do

It's hard to deal with the pain of losing you everywhere I go
But I'm doing it
It's hard to force that smile when I see our old friends and I'm alone
Still harder gettin up, gettin dressed, living with this regret
But I know if I could do it over
I would trade, give away all the words that I saved in my heart that I left unspoken

What hurts the most, was being so close
And having so much to say
And watching you walk away
Never knowing, what could have been
And not seeing that loving you
Is what I was trying to do

I'm not afraid to cry
Every once in a while even though goin on with you gone still upsets me
There are days
Every now and again I pretend I'm OK but that's not what gets me

What hurts the most, was being so close
And having so much to say
And watching you walk away
Never knowing, what could have been
And not seeing that loving you
Is what I was trying to do

What hurts the most, was being so close
And having so much to say
And watching you walk away
Never knowing, what could have been
And not seeing that loving you
Is what I was trying to do

word

Main Entry: breathe
Pronunciation: 'brEth
Function: verb
Inflected Forms: breathed;breath·ing
intransitive senses
1 : to draw air into and expel it from the lungs : RESPIRE; broadly : to take in oxygen and giveout carbon dioxide through natural processes
2 : to inhale and exhale freely breathe transitive senses
: to inhale and exhale

Tuesday, January 06, 2009

Job

Hmm... today kena scoldeD at Work... the person say i Liar ~*sad*

but nt my Superviser.. He seems nice.. or is it cuz im still new? hmm...

Workpalce v cold.. *bbbbRrrrr* Finger went numb =x cuz freezing.... tml gg to bring jacket.. Tortise say i kuang Zhang! =x

Hmm.. First day of work.. realise... i totally no presentable clothes... Frenz... why din u tell mi.. =x or mayb cuz i always wear FBT n T-shirts! Lol...in despo condtion... kapo sis working clothes wear! Cant fit in.. too fat ... SuPer Emo... Hopefully Sha Gua is free on weekend to acc me buy clothes and some shoes...

Hmm.. realise i spent near to $300 last month!!! OMG* serve mi right to b so poor now... =((( Still Owe sis $100...

Hmm.. Workplace no laptop or com... sad-ed...( as in my table) cant Blog! ... Haha... Bt workplace food not bad... bt *boss says if eat too often would rather dun eat... Maybe???

But now eat n sit n sit n sit ... Tummy growing his empire le!!! sad-ed~~~

Hmm.. gg off soon le... Bye bye... =D

Monday, January 05, 2009

想想。

世上有很多种类的想法。
在这些想法中有许多虽然很讨厌但很无奈的。
其一便是:
地球不会因任何一人的消失而停滞。