Unfortunately, I have no pictures of me or my family as a child but there are some things from my childhood that have definitely shaped me. Thanks, Mom & Dad.
Do It Yourself (DIY) - When something needed to be done around the house, we kids helped my dad do them. I was the oldest,
my sister was 14 months younger and a brother came several years later. We did yard work, cleaned out gutters, painted, replaced roof shingles, mixed cement and built retaining walls. I once thought it was really cool that a concrete block was like a sponge and watered one until it got so heavy that we couldn't pick it up.
Oops! I take pride in being a mostly DIY person but now let Dave do all the heavy lifting (as well as the laundry :-). He does not like heights anyway.
Exercise - I remember seeing my dad do sit-ups in the morning and walking briskly to/from the bus stop or BART station (about a mile away) on weekdays. Being a former gymnast in high school, he could also do pull-ups and pull-overs on horizontal bars, handstands and flips that put us kids to shame. I've always wanted to be in good enough shape to do the things that he could do. Maybe some day ...
Independence - My mom didn't know how to drive, had no friends and her English skills were limited. When we got sick or injured at school, she'd walk over to pick us up and we had to walk home then take the bus or a taxi to go to see a doctor, if necessary. If something around the house was broken/new that required reading instructions to fix/use, she often had to wait for my dad or the kids to help her. She made me want to be very independent, and I still hate going to see doctors.
Money Matters - Despite her limitations, my mom was a good money manager. I remember her clipping coupons and using an abacus to balance the checkbook to the penny each month. We rarely went shopping except to buy groceries, other necessities and Xmas gifts. A couple times a year we went out to eat as a family to a shopping mall food court, which the kids loved because, one, we could ride the escalator and, two, get a variety of tasty dishes. I am also very careful about saving and spending. Even Taco Bell is a treat when you rarely eat out.
Making Cutbacks - My family of 5 lived in a modest house with one bathroom. Sometime during the late 60's or early 70's, California had a major water shortage. For many weeks (months?), we had a very restrictive bathing schedule, were saving bath and laundry water in order to flush the toilet and using water from washing fruits & veggies to water plants in our yard. I'm not sure if every family went to such extents to conserve water but I know cutbacks can be made, not only in water usage but in a number of things, when times get tough.
Outdoors - Fishing was the number one family recreation for us. It was simple: grab the poles and tackle box, get or bring some bait (digging for worms was a blast!), and head over to either Berkeley Pier or Lake Chabot. We rarely caught anything worth eating or taking a picture of but loved spending hours trying. I love the outdoors and really don't need much to enjoy myself.
Hard Work - My dad always used to always tell us how he washed dishes to get through college. He graduated with a B.S. in Nuclear Engineering and later attended Stanford to do some graduate work. Unfortunately, I never had the chance to tell him before he died how proud I was of his accomplishments but am grateful he taught me to work hard to achieve my goals and not expect help from others.
Competing - All throughout school, I was expected to bring home "A's" and to be one of the top students. I started taking lessons in keyboards (accordion then later piano) at age 7 and competed in a big Northern California Music Festival every year until I was about 16. The desire for perfection and to be one of the best is very ingrained in me but as I've gotten older, I've realized it's not good to always be like that. It's a work in progress.