Sunday, December 30, 2007

Christmas 2007

Noah and his new candy-apple red electric guitar. I must confess it is a beautiful color!

Isaac (and Noah) listening to Trent's new MiJam guitar sticks. They're pretty fun -- especially when played along with White Stripes.


Jonah and his Nano. He filled it full of Sponge Bob songs and regularly doesn't hear me call him anymore.

We had a fantastic Christmas! We spent several days at the Tams' home with all of my family (except Vickie and her husband). We went caroling, opened presents, and then spent Christmas Eve at Aunt Jeneile's home in Paradise. We drove home through a blizzard on Christmas Eve.
We were up around 6:45 on Christmas morning. The boys' saw their main gifts and searched through their stockings. Then we ate bubble-loaf, eggs and sausage for breakfast. We opened the rest of the gifts afterwards. I love that it takes quite a while to open presents. We finished around 10:30 am. We spent the rest of the day just playing together. The family favorites, so far, have been Karaoke Revolution (I have two microphones now and we've discovered the "true duets"), Guitar Hero and Ticket To Ride. I won the "80's Rock Star" trophy right away on Karaoke Revolution because I coincidentally happened to know and get perfect scores on all of the 80's hits (in easy mode of course). It didn't do it on purpose.
We've still have several days before school starts back up. Trent gets several days off beyond that. It's been nice to hang out, watch movies and be together.

Thursday, December 20, 2007

Stairs



I'm not sure why, but Isaac loves throwing things down the stairs. I often find spatulas, drink cups, toys and various other items at the bottom. Sometimes I set things on the stairs, intending to take them down with me. I had a small pile one day -- and he left it alone, except for my cherry candle. He must have thrown that candle down the stairs three or four different times. Several days ago, he threw my marble rolling pin down the stairs. It sounded like something had exploded -- which in fact it had. Fortunately, the walls were not as damaged as they might have been. Unfortunately, the rolling pin did not survive the fall.

Tuesday, December 18, 2007

Temple Square


Believe it or not, we've never taken our kids to see the lights on Temple Square. So, last night for Family Home Evening, we made a quick stop at the Candy Cane Corner (associated with The Road Home -- which is a great charitable cause). Then we headed over to Temple Square for dinner and lights. It was a fun, but cold evening. For Jonah, the highlight of the night was watching the films in the basement of the north visitors center. He hadn't realized all the many things that the church does for humanitarian needs. I loved the film about the man fixing a bicycle to sell. Jonah watch the clip about the Bishop's Storehouse and Cannery multiple times. He was full of questions. We had to pull him out of a different film on the Welfare Program.

Friday, December 14, 2007

Hickman Family Christmas Letter 2007

Dear friends and family,

We just wanted to write and wish you a Merry Christmas! We've had a busy and interesting year.

Isaac:
Isaac, 21 months, is now walking, climbing, dancing and emptying every cupboard, drawer or shelf that he can reach. He does a great imitation of a tiger and will eat anything that is left on the floor. He loves to watch Trent mow the lawn and he follows his brothers all around the house. He loves to play chase with Jonah. Isaac has finally learned to safely scale the stairs, so we've finally removed the food-storage-wheat-bucket barrier. Isaac loves the peppermint taste of dental floss. He'll steal the floss and pull out yards and yards and drag it around the house. Isaac says, "Mom" over and over and over again, even when he already has my attention. He sounds just like the flocks of seagulls in "Finding Nemo" repeating, "mine"! It's worse when Noah and Jonah are also trying to get my attention.

Jonah:
Jonah, turning 10 years old on February 5, is a 4th grader. He loves soccer and made his first big goal this year. He's fast on the field and has really caught the spirit of soccer. He plays soccer at recess everyday, rain or snow. He continues to play the violin. This year, he is in the advanced orchestra. This has been challenging because it was a large leap in difficulty. But he practiced hard and is doing well. Jonah has a lot of friends. He makes friends easily and is always kind to others. Jonah loves to make movies and take pictures with the camera he got for Christmas. You can see some of his stuff on our family blog.

Noah:
Noah is 11 1/2 years old. He is a 6th grader. Noah started playing the guitar this year. He's learned several basic chords. He played Called To Serve for his primary group one Sunday. His Christmas wish is for an electric guitar. He usually disappears while we're shopping in Costco, but can be found playing Seven Nation Army on the model electric guitar there. Noah played tackle football this fall. It was a lot of hard work, but Noah got to be pretty good. Noah enjoyed camping with the scouts several times. He also continued his accelerated school program. He's had a lot of fun as a cashier at the school store. Noah is a great kid.

Our family went to Yellowstone in July. We got to see a bear and a whole herd of buffalo. Trent also traveled to Puebla, Mexico last spring for a work conference. He was awarded tenure by BYU in May. We both spoke at BYU's Women's Conference this year. Trent's talk will be included in the selected talks from Women's Conference, published by Deseret Book. We both continue to be involved with church, orchestra, school and community responsibilities, though we are trying to cut back a little in order be home with our family more.

We hope you are all well. We send our love and wishes for all the best.

Merry Christmas!
Trent, Wendy, Noah, Jonah and Isaac Hickman

Wednesday, November 28, 2007

Christmas Tree


On Monday night, we made our annual trip to Baum's in Provo to buy our Christmas tree. It's a beautiful 9-foot tree that smells wonderful! All of the ornaments (except a few that are on the upper half) are plastic. Isaac has been pretty good about not touching them (so far). He instead is fascinated by the flashing lights of the "psychedelic" snowman. Everyone, myself included, loves turning off all the lights in the house except the Christmas tree lights. Now we just need to get some presents under that tree . . .

Reflections


Congratulations to Noah and Jonah for winning awards in our local Reflections photography contest! Jonah received an honorable mention for his photo of yellowstone falls (see Jonah's blog). Noah won 3rd place for his pinecone picture.

Sunday, November 25, 2007

Noah - Linus & Lucy

Saturday, November 24, 2007

Isaac - Tiger

Monday, November 19, 2007

Jonah-Miserlou

Filmed in June (2007). Discovered by Wendy last night.

Thursday, November 01, 2007

Halloween







Here are our Halloween pictures. Jonah is a "Clockwork Man" and Noah is a "guy who got run over by a car" if you can't tell. Isaac had a great time. After about 10 houses, he finally got the idea and smiled when he got any candy. At first he would just run into our neighbors houses. We'd have to fish him out. We got wise and started carrying him to the door.


Friday, October 26, 2007

Cornbelly's

We spent a fun Tuesday afternoon at Cornbelly's at Thanksgiving Point. It was a delayed FHE activity. We had a great time in the corn maze, haunted "beast," trampolines and cow ride (Jonah & Isaac below). Isaac walked at least half
of the maze by himself. Isaac especially enjoyed the slides and trampolines.











Tuesday, October 23, 2007

One Pumpkin - One Pizza

Trent renamed our extended family Halloween party this year to One Pumpkin - One Pizza (since we really don't watch two movies anymore). We may resurrect the One Funny - One Scary as the boys get older. Anyway, these are pictures from our visit to the Big Red Barn. We're on the hayride enroute to pick out pumpkins prior to the party. Notice that Noah's braces are gone. He has to wear two retainers 24/7 for the next 6 months. Afterwards, he only has to wear them at night.




Monday, October 08, 2007

Conference Weekend - October 6




[Noah & Jonah]

Holly, Jackson & Quincy came to be babysat during the afternoon session of conference. The kids all played a new conference game. They picked 6 words and then a small treat to go with each word (peanuts, raisins, butterscotch chips, Cheerios, M&Ms, jelly beans etc.). Then everytime they heard their word, they would get one of that treat. The game really helped the kids to pay attention. Jackson even stayed put for one whole talk. Noah listened to almost all of conference. We spent the Sunday conference sessions at Grandma & Grandpa Tams' house.

Tuesday, October 02, 2007

Isaac - Almost 18 months





Last Sunday was the last time that Isaac gets to hang-out with me during Relief Society and Sunday School. I'm both happy and sad about this. He is absolutely ready to go to nursery. He does best, even now, if I will let him play on the floor, have snacks and do those sorts of things that he will do in Nursery anyway. His typical nap time falls towards the end of church. So, those last two hours have been extra rough for both of us. I sit in the front of the room in Relief Society -- so there hasn't been a place to let him down by my feet (where he won't escape and run around). I also feel an extra responsibility to be a good example for the ladies in our meeting. Anyway, I've tried to hold him on my lap -- but I usually end up standing up and walking to the back or out into the hall. I've missed a lot of Relief Society over the past 8 months. I'm so sad, though, to lose my "church buddy." I like being with Isaac. I'll miss him even though I won't miss the exhaustion of those last two hours.


I pulled out my "What To Expect . . ." book last night. Isaac is saying 18 words now. He knows a lot of his animal sounds (since those are his favorite go-to-bed books). I know he doesn't get as much attention as Noah did. But I was surprise to contrast them at 18 months. Noah was saying 50 words, knew all of his colors, and could count to 13 (skipping the number 5). I don't think Isaac knows any colors or numbers. And he definitely doesn't talk as much as Noah did. I'm sure that the four of us don't even give him a chance -- since we're all eager interpreters. All he has to do is point and we all know what he wants. :o) It's not all bad, though, that he doesn't know as much. I'm much less focused on teaching those specifics because I know he'll get them eventually. I'm more content to play with him. He likes to listen to music and knows how to turn on our bedroom cd-player. He loves his "Wiggleworms" cd and will play it over and over. I can always tell when it's nap-time because he'll turn on his cd and lay down on my comforter. Sometimes he'll fall asleep there on the carpet.


Isaac loves to play with his brothers. He and Jonah are sharing a room now. They are great buddies. I think Jonah sometimes views Isaac as his "pet." Jonah will often play "fetch" with Isaac or throw cereal on the floor for Isaac to eat. Mostly they both run around and chase and scream (and they can both scream loud!). Noah, on the other hand, is a great caretaker and worries as much about Isaac as we do. Noah is great to lend a hand (or hold two hands when Isaac has a particularly bad diaper).

Tuesday, September 11, 2007

Remembering September 11, 2001




This morning, I found these pictures that we took of the World Trade Center buildings. We lived in New York from 1996 until 2000. We had only been gone a year when the September 11 attacks occured. We knew several friends that should have been in the buildings that day, but for various reasons weren't there. I'm sure the boys don't remember these trips into New York City, but I'm glad we have these pictures to show that they had been to the WTC once. [Pictures: Top - 6/12/98, Second - Wendy, Noah & Jonah @ The Statue of Liberty on 11/16/98, Bottom - Wendy & Noah on 6/12/98]

Some Classic Photos

Noah - 2 years old. This is our swing-set in our NY backyard.
Noah - almost 3 years old. I love the smirk!

Jonah - about 16 months old. He never got into the water.


Tuesday, September 04, 2007

American Fork Canyon




We took a pizza-picnic up American Fork Canyon on Monday (Labor Day) for FHE. We ate next to the stream and the boys played in the very cold water. Isaac let me dip his feet into the stream. He thought it was fun once -- and then never wanted to go back to the water again.

Wednesday, August 29, 2007

Julia Alvarez Interview

Here is the link to Trent's interview of Julia Alvarez on KBYU FM.
http://classical89.org/thinkingaloud/?selectedDate=8%2F29%2F2007

Alcuin Fellow


Trent was honored yesterday as an Alcuin Fellow at the annual BYU University Conference.

Sunday, August 26, 2007

First Day of School



Bingham Copper Mine (AKA Kennecott)





During July, we took a FHE trip to the Bingham Copper Mine. Jonah was the photographer and I've just found these pictures. Sanford & Erastus Bingham are Trent's ancestors.

Tuesday, August 21, 2007

Football


Noah is playing football this fall. He's done really well. He already has some yards from carrying the ball and some quarterback sacks (but just in practice scrimmages). They practice hard for two hours everyday. Games start this week.

Monday, August 13, 2007

Loving The World (link, found below, is working again)


Loving The World

(Given by Trent at the Spring 2007 English Banquet as published by Humanities At BYU.)



As a child, I would sometimes spend time listening to Elvis Presley sing on my mother’s well-worn copy of a 1974 RCA classic LP, Elvis: Recorded Live on Stage in Memphis. In my mind’s eye, clouded by nostalgia that makes those lazy afternoons seem almost universally sunny, I would place the record on the turntable, start the RCA dog spinning into a blur, and stretch out on the floor in front of the speakers and listen to Elvis’s rendition of the Christian hymn “How Great Thou Art.” Backed by J. D. Sumner and the Stamps Quartet and Sumner’s Guinness Book–record double low-C voice, Elvis’s live-in-Memphis exultations were a truly religious experience to hear. As the muted verses gave way to the bold “Then sings my soul, my Savior, God, to thee,” I could feel the glory of God in the ecstatic arcs and low rumbles of the voices. For those few moments before I would tuck the record back into its Graceland-bedecked sleeve, the young Mormon me and the sometimes drug-addled but seemingly genuine King together worshipped, however ironically, the King.

You can probably imagine how surprised I was several years later, in 1985, to see that our new LDS hymn book included Elvis’s majestic hymn in its pages. You can likewise imagine my dismay the first time that I heard an LDS congregation sing “How Great Thou Art.” To be sure, the hymn was very reverently and appropriately sung, but gone were my chills, the exultation of hearing Elvis’ voice swell from a whisper to something that shook the heavens. My ward’s version of the hymn assumed an eminently practical character: you could sing their version of “How Great Thou Art” for the opening song, the sacrament hymn, or the closing song in a sacrament meeting held any time of year; you could sing it at a missionary farewell or a funeral. Once converted to Mormonism, the hymn’s newly-acquired slow tempo, its sensible absence of dips and swells in dynamics, and its generally agreeable torpor meant that we could worship God and all of His creations without disturbing a single one of them. The hymn had been “rescued” from the world and rendered safe for our LDS consumption.

Might it be possible, though, that the elements of the all-shook-up Elvis version so carefully extracted from our LDS-style “How Great Thou Art” have something to offer that might augment that which we have in our own tradition as Latter-day Saints? At football games around the country, we’re admonished by huge, inelegantly-scrawled butcher-paper signs to read John 3:16: “For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.” The sweaty end-zone banner bearers usually exclude the next verse, which seems to me equally important: “For God sent not his Son into the world to condemn the world; but that the world through him might be saved” ( John 3:17). Through the lens of the restored gospel, we understand that Jesus’ mission to redeem Heavenly Father’s children is the center of the Plan of Salvation, and that it is Heavenly Father’s “work and glory to bring to pass the immortality and eternal life” of all humankind (Moses 1:39). But were we to collapse time and space and sit down with some of the serious folks you might read in an American literary history survey— William Bradford, say, or John Winthrop—and lay out our notions of God’s universal, saving love for them to consider, they might ask us, “But why on earth would God want to save all of them? Surely they’re not all worth saving?”

I wonder if we as Latter-day Saints, living in these the last days, don’t sometimes entertain our own versions of the same question, something like, “What is it that God sees in some of these people around us?” As English majors, we might be willing, as Elvis’s hymn suggests, to survey “in awesome wonder” all “the worlds that [God’s] hands have made,” but we may simultaneously desire to disown the “human” in “humanities,” seeing humanity as a potential synonym for corruptibility, inferiority, or depravity. If only God’s creations weren’t spoiled by all these imperfect people running around in them! Even if God wants to save all the humans in the messed-up world around us, we reason, perhaps our part in helping with this process could be limited to handing out pass-along cards, or to some other activity that would afford us the latitude to worry about fixing our own shortcomings but not have to see those of others too up close and personal. Perhaps we even look at that pesky sign at BYU’s entrance with some chagrin, understanding that yes, the “world is our campus,” but go easy on the campus part, and give it to me without the world, if you please.

For the LDS reader, there are practical concerns, of course, in approaching the texts of the world with such courage. I see these concerns manifest themselves not infrequently in the literature classes that I teach. In one way or another, these concerns always ask, “How ‘worldly’ will the material be that we read in class?” It’s a valid question, and I understand why smart, well-intentioned students ask it. I usually reply, in all earnestness, “Well, none of the authors we’re reading this semester is LDS,” and the students laugh and then say, “No, really.” The answer is usually that really, we aren’t reading anyone who is LDS, and sometimes these non- LDS writers approach the weighty issues of a fallen world differently than we, as readers, might wish them to. On the other hand, precisely because they are not LDS, I would suggest that they have something to show us about our world that we might not be able to see, maybe even something that glorifies God and all his wonders in a manner that reaches us in ways that enliven the Holy Ghost within us. For we do believe, don’t we, “that God will yet reveal many great and important things” to us (Articles of Faith, v. 9)? Couldn’t at least a few of those things come to us through our reading, if we’re willing to give some of these writers a chance?

So how can we love the world and what it has to teach us while still being “in the world, but not of the world”? In his novel Extremely Loud and Incredibly Close, Jonathan Safran Foer details the life of a precocious nine-year-old named Oskar Schell, a New Yorker who lost his father in the World Trade Center collapse on 9/11. Oskar is, among other things, a brainstormer of inventions, and his ideas strike the reader as at once hilarious and poignant. One of Oskar’s inventions deals with his version of what an ambulance should be:

"What about a device that knew everyone you knew? So when an ambulance went down the street, a big sign on the roof could flash, “DON’T WORRY! DON’T WORRY!” if the sick person’s device didn’t detect the device of someone he knew nearby. And if the device did detect the device of someone he knew, the ambulance could flash the name of the person in the ambulance, and either, “IT’S NOTHING MAJOR! IT’S NOTHING MAJOR!” or, if it was something major, “IT’S MAJOR! IT’S MAJOR!” And maybe you could rate the people you knew by how much you loved them, so if the device of the person in the ambulance detected the device of the person he loved the most, or the person who loved him the most, and the person in the ambulance was really badly hurt, and might even die, the ambulance could flash, “GOODBYE! I LOVE YOU! GOODBYE! I LOVE YOU!” One thing that’s nice to think about is someone who was the first person on lots of people’s lists, so that when he was dying, and his ambulance went down the streets to the hospital, the whole time it would flash, “GOODBYE! I LOVE YOU! GOODBYE! I LOVE YOU!”" (72–73)

Obviously, the world would be very different if Oskar’s ambulances sped down our streets. Sometimes, I suspect that a few readers in our community want books to operate in much the same way, advertising, “OK FOR YOU TO READ! OK FOR YOU TO READ!” or “ONLY MINOR UNCOMFORTABLE DIALOGUE AND SCENES WITH RICH TRUTHS TAUGHT ABOUT PEOPLE AND THEIR ETERNAL POTENTIAL BY SOMEONE NOT OF OUR FAITH!” Unfortunately, or perhaps fortunately, books don’t work that way. My sense is that, better even than these huge flashing signs, we should rely on the gift of the Holy Ghost to give us the discernment we need to draw the best out of the literature that we read. Moroni tells us that “by the Holy Ghost” we can “know the truth of all things” (Moro. 10:5), not just of things related to the Book of Mormon’s veracity or to the truth of the Church. Understanding the broad utility of the gift of the Holy Ghost helps us see it as something more than one of those radiation badges that shines green when everything’s A-OK but turns a gruesome red when radiation hits it—telling its wearer, in short, with its crimson face, “Sorry, buddy, you’re already toast.” Instead, if we see the Holy Ghost as that which can enlighten our minds all the time and not just in perilous situations, we can become people who, armed with an increased measure of the Spirit and sensitized to its capacity to give us knowledge wherever we seek it, find that many of the “best books” mentioned in the Doctrine and Covenants are not scriptural but are secular, or “worldly” in the best sense of the word.

In making these arguments, I am not oblivious to the fact that the world can often be a dark and ugly place. Every day, our world finds itself filled to the brim with suffering, torture, injury, sin, and hardness, and there is at some very important level nothing that poems or plays or songs can do to right these wrongs. Clearly, though, we have a choice as readers—we can either despair, seeing that history seems to illustrate the futility of hope, and cut our losses, washing our hands of the world, or we can take the knowledge we gain of the world and, as poet Seamus Heaney has written, help “hope and history” to “rhyme” by loving the world. We can see, against all odds, the continued capacity of the world for beauty, for truth meaningful beyond the grave, for emanating something that would inspire the Son of God to take up His cross on behalf of not just the covenant people but the entire world’s people. We might consider the spirit of this excerpt from Martín Espada’s poem “Alabanza,” which commemorates the many anonymous victims of the September 11 World Trade Center collapse. The Spanish word alabanza means “praise,” and perhaps if can do nothing else for the world then we can at least praise that which is praiseworthy in it:

Praise Manhattan from a hundred and seven flights up,
like Atlantis glimpsed through the windows of an ancient aquarium.
Praise the great windows where immigrants from the kitchen
could squint and see their world, hear the chant of nations:
Ecuador, México, Republica Dominicana, Haiti, Yemen, Ghana, Bangladesh,
Alabanza.


It is true, as Elvis’s hymn still sings in my memory, that “when Christ shall come / with shout of acclamation / And take me home,” the “joy” will indeed “fill my heart,” as it will likely fill the hearts of all members of His Church. But until then, I praise His creations here, in this world. I praise the publicans and sinners, not for the worst of what they’ve done, but for the moments of transcendent truth that we can see flash in their eyes and hear from their mouths despite all their shortcomings. I praise the world for reminding us that “the work and the glory” isn’t simply a set of serialized LDS novels but a sprawling, global effort that involves many more people than the Steed family and their “Who’s Who among Early Latter-day Saints” friends. I praise that which is human in us; I praise the humanities that speak of us and of all our successes and struggles. I praise BYU for having the vision to know that despite our occasional LDS qualms the world is indeed our campus, and that if we will rise to the full measure of our creation we will not only live in the world as begrudging citizens but will love the world, freely, even as God has loved us. Alabanza.

Friday, August 03, 2007

Continuing Status - BYU

We've known for a few months now. But this is the official announcement of Trent's receiving "continuing status" at BYU (essentially tenure). He also received a rank advancement from Assistant Professor to Associate Professor. What a relief!

http://news.byu.edu/archive07-Jul-advancements.aspx

Wednesday, August 01, 2007

Loving The World


Trent gave the keynote address at the English Banquet this year. His talk, Loving The World, was adapted and published in the spring 2007 "Humanities at BYU" Magazine. I've included a PDF link below. His article is on page 8. (I posted the text of the article on August 13)




Monday, July 30, 2007

Sunday, July 22, 2007

Yellowstone 2



















Jonah at Lower Falls. Noah & Jonah at entrance. Trent & Noah at Mammoth Springs. The whole family after a long hike in the hot afternoon sun at Old Faithful. Noah videotaping.

Yellowstone

We spent this past week at Yellowstone. On Thursday, we drove the southern-loop. The Grand Prismatic Spring was one of our favorite spots. We saw moose, elk, bald eagle, a wolf/coyote, pelicans, and a huge buffalo herd. We were able to drive right up to the buffalo. They were in a picnic area to the side of the road. We drove through that small loop and could reach out and touch them (if we had wanted). The herd was crossing the road into a large field. There were 100 or more Bison there.

On Friday, we drove the northern-loop. We stopped at Mammoth Springs, several geysers, the water-falls and the petrified tree. We didn't really think we would see any bears. But as we drove up to see the tree, we noticed a crowd looking the wrong way. A black bear cub was climbing the hillside just above us.


We stayed in West Yellowstone and saw the IMAX film, "Yellowstone" while there. We stopped at a geocache on the way home and dropped off a "bug." We also stopped at BYU-I and saw the new temple and Hinckley building.