Monday, February 26, 2007

After Chinese New Year

Chinese New Year is over, hurray!!!
Finally starting to go out and lepak again. 2 month hiatus from everything and everyone because house is under renovation and I strangely lost the will to go out and meet with anyone. The good thing about this is I managed to lay out a rickety bridge of an idea of what I want to do, what I would like to do and how I can do it. It helps to know where you would like to go before you head off in a direction. ^__^


Also been playing Rappelz a lot, www.gpotato.com and then click on Rappelz. I got my Legends' master Fingolfin and my buddies Azri and Afendi to play it too. Not a bad game, good graphics, items sell for good price in real-life-cash and every class has a use and a role in a party unlike some other games.


The bad point is, all the various kutukan I get while I took a 2 month off going out to lepak. All sorts of mean mean things have been said about me =( ... some say I throwing my friends away for other friends, some say I'm distancing myself from things that I think are not cool, some say I very berlagak and kerek now because when people invite me out I refuse to go ... and lots and lots of other embarassing shit lah basically, but the absolute best of all was this one guy who said that I was having my period haha.


During these 2 months I've learned so many new things. My Cantonese improve from repeatedly watching HK triad movies over and over, my lungs and stamina grew stronger because I keep on whiseling (however you spell it), my arms grew stronger cause have to constantly move things up, down and around the house, my wallet become extremely fat because I didn't have to spend on anything, my musical preferrences became more and more refined.


Also have become less altruistic now and more self centered, helping people is not all that worth it sometimes if they expect you to help them every time they ask for it, they lose the appreciation factor and then it becomes your job to help them, they treat it as something that should happen instead of something that happened. It becomes a norm and not a luxury. That isn't cool, I'm not your dog.


Hansel also got his first girlfriend =)
Congratulations! He can finally pop his relationship cherry. The girl on the other hand is a seasoned professional or so I've heard, she has a cute name too .. Cindy Wee ... pronounce it fast and its like Cindywee or Sindwee ... shes a nice girl too but she tells poor Hansel everything and he does not know whether to listen and give advice or to just plain listen and neither does he know what it means when a girl keeps talking on and on and on and on about her ex and all the evil stuff her ex did to her.


But its never too late to start and so I taught him some of the stuff I knew, not that I'm pro or anything but its better than ruining his first relationship because of his own noobness. He asked me what it meant that Sindwee kept talking on and on about her recent ex which seemed to hurt her very much. Its simple, there can only be 3 possibilities.

1. Security - she is sincere and truthful and wants you to know what happened to her. She hopes that you will encourage and heal her and most of all not repeat what her ex did.

2. Jealousy - she has the ah lian personality, she wants to work you up and play the horse-carrot game, where you are the horse and she sit on top of you with a carrot dangling on the edge of a long stick, to keep you excited and wanting more. This type of girlfriend sesuai become drug dealer because that is the exact characteristics you need to be successful at that job.

3. Protection/Flattery - she wants you to say that you will tapao that guy and if he ever appear in front of you two then you will call all your kaki and sapu him :P


Poor guy, 19 years old only start to date ... sad to see him pushed around by a 17 year old girl. Lagi sad is that the girl got so much more experience than him from all her romance novels and relationships. She is pro and he is n00b ... xD