Saturday, January 12, 2013

Ramblings on the Pledge of Allegiance.....

First of all, I can't believe it's been nearly two years since I've last updated this blog!  How shameful!   I'm not going to sit here and make excuses as to why I've slacked, because I've had plenty to blog about, including a short 3 month stint my children had in public charter school earlier this school year. But that is a topic for another day and time, as is everything else I could possibly update about our family. Something else important is on my brain and is the subject matter of my current insomnia (I started not sleeping at 4:30 am, *yawn*), so here goes!

Since we are homeschooling once again, my 9 year old daughter and I were invited to be a part of an American Girls book club for young ladies ages 6-9. Not having much else to do socially for her, I decided this would be a great opportunity for her to meet some new friends and get excited about reading new books. So we offered to host two meetings in January. This past Thursday was our first time to host this group. I had assumed the group started the meeting with prayer and believe we should pray,  but it surprised me that they typically begin their book club meetings with The Pledge of Allegiance as well. Due to the fact that I wasn't prepared for this and had no flag available, we opted to skip it for now. Ever since then, it's something that I've been mulling over in my head. I hate to shock everyone, but we have not taught our children to devote an allegiance to our American flag!  Can they recite The Pledge of Allegiance if asked to, or if they choose to?  Yes!  Is it a requirement in our home school?  No!

Once you get your jaw up off the floor, continue reading, and maybe you'll understand why.

But let me back up to this book club we're in, and the books the girls are reading. The first set of books is about the American Girl, Felicity.


This book is about Felicity Merriman and her family who lived during the time prior to and during the Revolutionary War with America gaining independence from a tyrannical king and government in England. It demonstrates the Merriman family and others being "Patriots" to the new American nation rather than "Loyalists" who still devoted an allegiance to the British crown and rule of law from that government. Because the Merriman's had patriotism to principles of freedom, liberty and resistance to tyranny in hopes of forming a new, independent nation, they were heroes of these cute historical fiction books written for young readers.

As a mother of a very patriotic homeschooling family, I find it highly ironic that we as an American society are conditioning our young children to pledge an allegiance to a flag that represents a government that to many IS tyranny, evil, corruption and a whole other list of negative terms (much of the same list of government intrusions and policies that our the revolutionaries in the late 1700's were fighting against).....and this allegiance has become a symbol of a patriotic American?????

We have chosen to opt out of the government run state institutions where indoctrination happens through this "pledge" and politically correct curricula....so why in our home school would we perpetuate this devotion to government? I'm sure that not many people know about the socialistic history of The Pledge of Allegiance and don't question it when sending their children off to school.  (click on the above words in bold for a very interesting read you probably didn't learn in school yourself!) 



We, as Americans, have been so conditioned to devote this allegiance that we've not thought to question its origins that very closely resemble Nazi Germany. Does this scare anyone else but me?  We have been programmed to believe that if we fly a flag, put our hand on our hearts, repeat the Pledge and sing The Star Spangled Banner every July it must mean we're good Americans. A good man I know calls this "symbolic patriotism".

One young college graduate video blogger feels this way about the pledge of allegiance.  (the older I get, the more I agree with her.... but haven't yet been so bold and brave to do what she did in opting out of a public pledge to the flag.)

Another good man, President Ezra Taft Benson once said this,  



I happen to love my country and the principles it was founded upon, but I do NOT love our government.   There is a difference.  As individuals and collectively, we should not feel coerced into pledging our allegiance to said government, or any of it's symbols.  I can pledge my allegiance to my God, my family, my country.....but a FLAG?

We've had more discussions in our home with our children about this subject than I can even begin to post about.  I love our flag, it is indeed beautiful and could represent so many wonderful things if our government would get back to the basic fundamentals of freedom, liberty and the Constitution.



Unfortunately in our present political climate with our God- Given and Constitutional rights being taken away (especially in our post-9/11 world), I cannot perpetuate with my children a pledge or an allegiance to a flag that represents a near tyrannical government which our Founding Fathers and other revolutionaries fought so valiantly against in the time of Felicity Merriman.  She may be a fictional character, but the historical and political system during that time period is the very backbone of our nation.



However, my children have learned and will continue to learn about freedom and liberty through study of America's founding documents, The U.S. Constitution and The Declaration of Independence;  through candid discussions about why we feel the way we do about government and politics; or about what our LDS church leaders have said on this topic.  (Ezra Taft Benson was widely spoken on these topics in his lifetime both as a government representative and as the prophet of the LDS Church).  My children have been and will continue to be politically active in supporting leaders who we have studied and feel will best preserve our freedoms.







Our family has been very politically active and patriotic while using what Constitutional rights we have left (the 1st Amendment, specifically), especially this past election cycle in 2012.  In fact, my husband was both a county and state delegate this past year, hoping to make a difference in our local and state government.   What could be more American and patriotic than this?   Not only have we done "sign waves" on street corners a few times, we've had two occasions this past year to see and hear someone who  many consider a modern day revolutionary, and one of the few men in Congress who actually stood up for the Constitution and American's founding principles of liberty his entire career, Dr. Ron Paul (now retired).  Yet some would consider us unpatriotic because we've chosen to not instill The Pledge of Allegiance in our family culture.  If that's what some choose to think, that's their right, just as it is our right to think differently and choose a different course for our family.  Perhaps, instead of pledging allegiance to a flag---a mere piece of cloth----maybe we should instead consider pledging our allegiance to the founding documents of our once great nation.



I hope my friends and family who see this will understand, not judge, and perhaps, start thinking about the content discussed here. 

PS
Here are some great websites to consider, especially for my LDS friends.  :)

LDS Liberty 

Warlike People 


Saturday, March 26, 2011

Wyatt at his finest....

The older this little boy of mine gets, the more difficult it is for me to capture him being happy and cute in pictures. Most of the time he is "on the move" and won't hold still long enough to even look at the camera. And he is grumpier more often than I would like, but he sure does do some funny things that give us all a good laugh! He is now almost 17 months old and still doesn't consistently sleep through the night. Once in a while he will, but more often than not, he still likes to get up at least once at night to nurse and then wants to stay with us in our bed. I've resigned myself to the fact that he's a "high needs" kid, which means that he needs more of everything in life EXCEPT sleep. Being high needs means that he needs mama....a lot...and isn't often mellow or self entertained. But, I love this little boy more than life itself and am so grateful that Heavenly Father saw fit to bless our family with such an amazing little person! He shows such great intelligence and says quite a few words and little phrases already. We were under the impression that little boys typically started talking later than girls, but so far he's doing quite well in communicating to us. His personality is one that is very intense....and he lives up to his name "Wyatt"....which means little warrior. Being the baby of the family, he has a way of captivating all of us and often times has the whole family in hysterics laughing at the funny little things he does! I am excited to see what life has in store for us as he grows up!

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 
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A rare snow! January 3, 2011

Living in southern Utah where the summers are hot and the winters are usually fairly mild, it is a rare treat for us to get any accumulation of snowfall. The kids LOVE to play in it, of course, and take such delight in something they don't get to see all that often. This snowstorm gave us just a few inches of snow, just enough to play in and build a snowman with, before it melted away within a day or two!

 

 

 

 

 
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The Commonwealth New Year Family Ball!

Apparently I never took any pictures of Christmas this year! :( How sad is that? Or maybe they somehow got deleted. Either way, I can't find any to post here. So I will skip ahead to the Commonwealth New Year's Family Ball that was held on January 1, 2011.

Being that we are a home schooling family, we get questioned once in a while about the dreaded "socialization" question. It always makes me laugh, because if people like that had any clue about all the social things we get to do, they'd stop themselves before letting it slip off their tongues. One of our favorite social events, is to attend this annual family ball. Yep, the WHOLE family comes to dance, not just the teenagers. We don't have to worry about crude music, immodest dresses or inappropriate dance moves. Friends dance with friends, sisters dance with brothers, fathers dance with daughters, mothers dance with sons, husbands dance with wives and it is just an all around fantastic time!

In fact, one of the Commonwealth students has put together a Spring dance, so we'll be attending that one tonight!

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 
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Grandpa and Grandma's 65th Wedding Anniversary!

On December 20, 2010, my only living grandparents celebrated 65 years of marriage! I love them both so much and am amazed at all the trials they've endured together, especially the past 15 years. But through it all, they have shown much love, patience, smiles and set the example for all of us to endure life no matter what!


 

 

 

 
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Our new pantry

Last Spring, we began a couple of remodeling projects in our home. One of them was to greatly increase the size of our pantry. So, we took out part of the office space at the end of the hallway, knocked out some cupboards, made a new door frame and voila! Our new pantry was born! It is really great to be able to have easier access to the foods we use most often, and to be able to have more of them on the shelves.

 

 
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