We buried my dad today. He passed away exactly 3 months before his 90th birthday.
May 23,1923 - Feb 23, 2013
His last Sunday at church
Here's my tribute to him that I shared at his funeral today
(taken from a talk given in the 76th ward 5 years ago):
Goethe
said, “Happy is he who remembers his progenitors with pride, who relates with
pleasure to the listener the story of their greatness, of their deed, and,
silently rejoicing, sees himself linked to the end of this goodly chain.” How
blessed we all are to be linked in a chain with this great man and my father, J
Howard Broderick. Strong families and communities, particularly those daily
blessed by the sealing and redeeming power of the Restored Priesthood, make
those links possible.
Richard Bushman, in his book Rough
Stone Rolling, shows us the roots
of how the Restored Gospel and Priesthood impacted my father and his influence
on those around him. Though just “an obscure boy” whose
“circumstances in life [were] such as to make a boy of no consequence in the
world,” Joseph Smith’s impact on the ordinary man was monumental. Joseph
ennobled the ordinary father, and thus fatherhood, by restoring the priesthood.
Bushman said, “Joseph Sr had given his son nothing for a worldly inheritance,
and Joseph Jr. had met this lack by giving his father the power to bless his
sons. . . . Whether weak or strong, rich or poor, priesthood holders could pass
priesthood to their sons.”263 Enlarging fatherhood even more, the Melchizedek
Priesthood made the sealing of families for eternity available for any in the
Church who would embrace it. This included “the millennial purpose of
fashioning a righteous generation on the eve of the second coming.”326
Thus “procreation was lifted to the highest level of human endeavor,” defining
the “greatest work” as that carried out ”at home where women were present and
central”.444
As
a child I learned of the simple, nurturing power of the Melchizedek Priesthood
at the hands of my father. “These bodies of ours just get sick sometimes,” he
would tell me before also using his priesthood to anoint and bless me. Sweet
counsel and encouragement along with similarly beautiful priesthood blessings
soothed illness, calmed fears, and strengthened me and my family through times
of personal challenges.
Surely I have seen the priesthood in
action in my life, but what was it that made so many people of Joseph’s day “happy
to grant [Joseph] the authority of a prophet”?560 “Joseph used his immense authority ‘to return
power to illiterate men’ . . . electoral democracy was absent—but if democracy
means participation in government, no church was more democratic.”559
Church service for priesthood holders and for women offered members real
opportunities to serve in God’s kingdom today and in the eternities. Bushman
said, “Constructing a kingdom of priests meant as much to [Joseph] as
propounding a set of doctrines.”316
In
restoring the priesthood Joseph restored power to common men such as my father. My father liked to
say that as a youth his teachers did not expect him to attend college, but his
mother and activity in the church gave him a desire to continue his learning in
college and from the world around him. In college he wrote this beautiful
essay:
"The
cool breezes begin to move softly by. Where the air is going is as endless as
from where it originated. The way becomes a little more difficult as the
shallow ruts guide my feet along the dusty road. My feet are first directed to
the right and then gradually off to the left. Gradually at first, and then,
almost suddenly, the ground begins dropping out from under my feet. The land
had sloped down to allow a quiet, fresh smelling stream to go by.
Across
the stream the ground seems to be reaching up towards me. This sensation
continues on for several steps. Then walking becomes easier. I can feel my
trouser legs and loose shirt flapping in the stronger breeze. A faint smell of
rain is riding with the wind ahead of a coming shower. The warm rays of a setting
sun plays on my face. The tired feeling of worry and toil is relieved by the
penetrating rays of the sun to drift away with the wind.
The
sounds of the ending day drifting up from the valley below are different. The
loud rumbling noises of the day [have] slowed down to sharp, understandable,
disturbances from different parts of the valley. The laughter and shouting of
little children can be heard as they head home for supper after a day of play.
Someone slams a door that sends an echo across the valley. The faint tingling
of a cowbell drifts up from far across the valley. On this side of the valley,
a farmer is hammering the lid off of an empty milk can. Occasionally the
barking of a dog disturbs the gathering silence, but gradually and surely the day
gives way to the night. When the wind starts to draw its cool breath from the
darkening night, my feet feel their way back down the road.”
Continuing his growth throughout his
life, my father’s monthly home teaching visits, temple attendance, dedication to
church callings and a passionate love for his family helped make him into the
wonderful man he is today. His desires and actions made possible the impact he
has had on every heart here today and on countless others.
Of my grandfather, Hillard Ruben
Broderick, it was said, “He had the sweetest, meekest, most humble personality
with which I have come in contact. He was strong in convictions, strong in his
love for his family, and strong in his love for his fellowmen. . . . I have
often wondered when in the Bible it says ’that the meek shall inherit the
earth, ‘ but in Hillard I can understand.’” The same could truly be said of his
son and my father.
I testify
of this and the power of the Restored Gospel and Priesthood to facilitate that
impact for my father and each of us.
I look forward to learning with you
forever, Dad!
In the name of Jesus Christ, Amen.
My favorite pictures from the day
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| My mom & my siblings |
It's been a wonderful day!
~vbb
Pearl of Great
Price | JS-History 1:22