Weather report: Cloudy, with just the right amount of sun and wind! Not too hot, not too humid. Doesn't look like it's gonna rain either... It's just right!
Perfect for an outdoor activity like cycling, Sentosa-ing, swimming, walking around in parks, gardens, beaches... You name it! :D
The atmosphere and air outside seems to be one of a kind this afternoon. Lazy and relaxing and breezy.......
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And as i look out of my room's window... I can't help but think to myself...........
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Yeah sorry, i got some of the pictures from Xiaxue's blog. ahahaha ^___^;;;; ......... But i thought that the pictures were really nice. So i used them. Hehe. I mean, look at the sea water! I've always wanted to go to such beaches... because sadly, due to Singapore's geographical location, there aren't really any nice beaches here with clear blue waters...
Anyway... whatever that i've written so far is not the point of this post. Why? Because everytime i think about the beaches, i HAVE to be stopped by yet another disturbing thought:
"ARGHHHHHHHHHHH WHY DO I HAVE TO BE STUCK HERE IN MY ROOM STUDYING FOR TOMORROW'S EXAM?!?!?!?!??!"
T.T .................... sad sad world.....................
p.s: i was just kidding about the sad sad world part. learn to take things lightly! don't assume that everything people say is true or really is what they feel... :') ...
Teehee! Have a good day ahead dear friends! :)
Blogged @ 1:25 PM
I quote, "just like a retarded relationship".
Things have not been very smooth sailing for me. I've been having arguments with B lately. And i don't even know if i wanna be bothered by it anymore... Are they serious? Is this really what happens around the 6th month in a relationship?? The "after honeymoon" period that everyone's been telling me about.
You argue almost everyday... You argue regardless of whether you meet or not. You fight under the bright blue sky and even under the twinkling stars! You feel unhappy because you're feeling like the victim in the relationship or simply just that the other party doesn't get the point.
You know that most common problem in a relationship that all couples must face: Jealousy?
Getting jealous can only be successfully countered with this another strong word that all couples MUST have: Trust. And trust is a very mutual thing.
I believe that jealousy can be splitted up into further two main categories: the good and the bad kind of jealous. The bad jealous suffices because there is a lack of trust. You keep doubting your partner EVERYTIME he/she talks to someone of the opposite gender or what not-
"What if he has designs on my girlfriend?"
"What if he falls for that classmate of his because they seem to click so well?"
"Could it be that my boyfriend is interested in her since she is so good-looking and nice???"
Why are you even still with him/her if you keep thinking that he/she isn't a good person to begin with? Getting attracted by looks or dumping the previous bf/gf just because he/she has found someone else better/new!
Phew!
Trust can only be gathered through one thing... Your actions. And maybe time.
One common mistake that people make... i'd like to bring the point across by asking a question:
Do you seriously think that being a very good talker alone can build trust between the both of you?
So what if you can speak and carry off yourself so well when your actions are just gonna kill every word that you've said? I'd rather you not talk so much then. Just shut up or you'll pass yourself off as being plain irritating and unworthy of anyone's trust... to put it bluntly. :')
I feel that it's impossible to completely eliminate all jealousy because of the good jealousy. I mean, it's only natural that you feel green when for example, your partner talks to another person of the opposite gender and they seem like they're having loads of fun at it. You feel jealous because you want the same kind of smile that she's giving him or her friends for yourself. You want her to be happy with you.
As long as it's jealousy within the limit, that's good jealousy... k obviously...
But of course, i guess it's the best if both parties do not feel jealous at all because there is total trust? But is that even normal? @___@;;; hahaha... i don't know... I've yet to come across a couple or experience total trust like that maybe!
Anyway! Please do not think that i am refering to B in all of the things that i've mentioned above... I'm talking about relationships in general... B and i have our own problems. And i do believe that they can be solved with him.
Being in a relationship has certainly taught me things... and i believe that i'm gonna learn a lot more in time to come. I just pray that it would make me a better person. If not, then what's the point, right? hehe. haha.
HAPPY VALENTINE'S DAY in advance! :}} ...
Blogged @ 12:25 PM
