Monday, 27 December 2010

- 今年 -

This Christmas...as the priest said, marks a new beginning.
What is the meaning and significance of Christmas to you?
Christmas shouldn't be a festival that gives us an excuse to shop.
Christmas shouldn't be just about exchanging gifts.
CHRISTmas should be the celebration of the birth of Jesus Christ!
So please do not cross out Christ in your Christmas wishes! CHRISTmas is spelt as Christmas, and no other way :)

This Christmas, I took very few photos..for obvious reasons. Anw, here are pictures of some of the gifts I personalised! I don't have pictures of the completed ones because I gave them out before I took them -_-"'

Oh I realised out of all the parties/gatherings I attended, I only have pictures of one -__-"' Here goes~ Super ugly but oh well..I have simply no idea why my eyes are so small -__-"'


OOH! See that pair of heels I'm in? They are at least 3-inches. (EDIT: Ok I just measured them. They are 4 inches. They are the highest pair of heels i own!) Gosh. I lovee them so much!! But strutting around in them (trying to look at though it's painless after 3 hours) is no mean feat. But I love them anyways :P (but I don't love walking around long in them. Standing around is fine haha)

Have a Blessed and Merry Christmas, everyone.

Wednesday, 22 December 2010

- シ・エス・アイ・ -

Finally watched Confessions. It was a great show - different, elaborate and thought-provoking. Many times during the movie, I found myself trying to shrink my not-so-small-frame further in to the seat. Nevertheless, it is one of my favourite Japanese movies for this year, well..second to Nodame, of course ^-^

After the first part of the movie, we actually thought the show ended and was pretty shocked. Everyone was murmuring, "Huh?! Is this the end???" I felt so cheated. Like WHAT??? This movie is rated 5 stars and it's just an ordinary narration from one person's perspective?! We were not even halfway through our popcorn and drinks! HAHAHA! It was then the story continued. As the story unfolded, Barney whispered "Oh my gosh. This movie is so creepy." ROFL.

I think the story reveals how one situation, the same situation, means and affects individuals in different ways. Everyone, regardless of age, reacts differently and accepts (or not) differently. The way they deal with the truth, or what they perceive to be the truth, can be frightfully extreme. I don't think I should spoil the movie further for those who want to catch it. I highly recommend this movie!! But there aren't many screenings left!

After watching the movie, I suddenly remembered I went for the Cee..Esss..Aiii..exhibition, for work-related purposes, a while back. Ok, quite a long while back actually. As it was a special trip, I got to do some experiments and managed to have some "training" that were not open to public! ^-^ (I even had to rummage through a dustbin to find clues, test to see if the substance is blood etc etc) Very insightful!

BUT the important thing is, I found my talent! HAHAHAHA! I'm very observant!! (says me) HAHAHA! Spotted many clues at the scenes of the crimes that many left out and managed to infer accurately. Thus, I was terribly smug. ROFL! Even the trainer seemed impressed! So I might have found my second career..hiakhiak! I'm referring to the stuff that I had to do that are not open to normal ticket holders. I'm obviously still very pleased with myself. ROFL.

Here's my diploma!


Monday, 20 December 2010

- なってない -

真可笑。一直追问原因的人其实就是原因。

- なくなちゃった -

一直以来,明明不好受,但坚持说没问题。这单方面的付出已渐渐地失去了意义。

Friday, 17 December 2010

- 謝罪 -

生活中一定会有无意伤害到人的时候。这种心灵的创伤不易弥补。一句道歉能够完完全全地弥补当事者吗?

受伤了就会有疤痕。怎么尝试掩盖,疤痕仍然存在。同样的,感情上出现了裂痕,虽然表面上可能没有大致上的改变,缝隙的存在不可否认。

虽然如此,但道歉的话也得说,不是吗?

但人往往被自尊或害怕阻止应该做的事。我就是一个例子。

好几次,因为害怕所以不敢做或说莫些事。

有时不是我不要跟你说话,而是不敢。请你谅解我的心情。




今天,我又伤害了一个人了。对不起。

Thursday, 16 December 2010

- プレセンート -

Wen-chan is singing "All I want for Christmas is Yuuuuuu"

Haha. Lately, people around me have been dropping hints as to what they want which is extremely helpful because I don't have to fret and guess what the receiver will like.

I've also been asked what I want for Christmas so that equilibrium will be achieved and deadweight loss will be ideally non-existent. (Hahaha..obviously I'm still thinking about the article from Economist.)

So one of my friends was bugging me on what I wanted. I really, really didn't know so I said "Anything" to which I received a retort that there is definitely something I wanted! I thought about it and said, "Happiness".

If you thought my friend would slap me in exasperation, you are wrong. My friend was so concerned about whether I was unhappy. HAHAHA! Oh my gosh, so sweet right? Truth is, everyone wants Happiness, isn't it!?!? And Happiness is unlimited! More of it will be absolute bliss!!

Rofl. Why do people jump to conclusions thinking you're unhappy when you say you want Happiness??

Tsktsk yearning for more Happiness doesn't necessarily equate to the lack of Happiness.

Haha so back to what I want for Christmas..well..as long as thought and effort was put into the present, it'll be great! I would absolutely love a letter or a hand-made card over...say...a box of chocolates grabbed off a shelf (even though I'm mad about chocolates).

And Joe, when you are finally back and reading this, please note that I'm waiting earnestly for your present. THE present that you PROMISED to get me. Hurry back!!

I'm done with personalisations of the first batch of my gifts! ^^ Oh my goodness! Christmas is just next week! And I'm not done with Christmas shopping! Eeekss!!

Toodles~

All I want for Christmas is youuuuuu....!!
Yes, you!
Huggss!
Someone buy this for me, please!
Hahaha!





Wednesday, 15 December 2010

- センタ -

http://www.economist.com/node/885748

Is Santa a deadweight loss?
Are all those Christmas gifts just a waste of resources?

ECONOMICS has long been known as the dismal science. But is any economist so dreary as to criticise Christmas? At first glance, the holiday season in western economies seems a treat for those concerned with such vagaries as GDP growth. After all, everyone is spending; in America, retailers make 25% of their yearly sales and 60% of their profits between Thanksgiving and Christmas. Even so, economists find something to worry about in the nature of the purchases being made.

Much of the holiday spending is on gifts for others. At the simplest level, giving gifts involves the giver thinking of something that the recipient would like—he tries to guess her preferences, as economists say—and then buying the gift and delivering it. Yet this guessing of preferences is no mean feat; indeed, it is often done badly. Every year, ties go unworn and books unread. And even if a gift is enjoyed, it may not be what the recipient would have bought had they spent the money themselves.

Intrigued by this mismatch between wants and gifts, in 1993 Joel Waldfogel, then an economist at Yale University, sought to estimate the disparity in dollar terms. In a paper* that has proved seminal in the literature on the issue, he asked students two questions at the end of a holiday season: first, estimate the total amount paid (by the givers) for all the holiday gifts you received; second, apart from the sentimental value of the items, if you did not have them, how much would you be willing to pay to get them? His results were gloomy: on average, a gift was valued by the recipient well below the price paid by the giver.

The most conservative estimate put the average receiver's valuation at 90% of the buying price. The missing 10% is what economists call a deadweight loss: a waste of resources that could be averted without making anyone worse off. In other words, if the giver gave the cash value of the purchase instead of the gift itself, the recipient could then buy what she really wants, and be better off for no extra cost.

Non-cash gifts from extended family were found to be least efficient
Perhaps not surprisingly, the most efficient gifts (those with the smallest deadweight loss) were those from close friends and relations, while non-cash gifts from extended family were the least efficient. As the age difference between giver and recipient grew, so did the inefficiency. All of which suggests what many grandparents know: when buying gifts for someone with largely unknown preferences, the best present is one that is totally flexible (cash) or very flexible (gift vouchers).

If the results are generalised, a waste of one dollar in ten represents a huge aggregate loss to society. It suggests that in America, where givers spend $40 billion on Christmas gifts, $4 billion is being lost annually in the process of gift-giving. Add in birthdays, weddings and non-Christian occasions, and the figure would balloon. So should economists advocate an end to gift-giving, or at least press for money to become the gift of choice?


Sentimental value

There are a number of reasons to think not. First, recipients may not know their own preferences very well. Some of the best gifts, after all, are the unexpected items that you would never have thought of buying, but which turn out to be especially well picked. And preferences can change. So by giving a jazz CD, for example, the giver may be encouraging the recipient to enjoy something that was shunned before. This, and a desire to build skills, is presumably the hope held by the many parents who ignore their children's pleas for video games and buy them books instead.

Second, the giver may have access to items—because of travel or an employee discount, for example—that the recipient does not know existed, cannot buy, or can only buy at a higher price. Finally, there are items that a recipient would like to receive but not purchase. If someone else buys them, however, they can be enjoyed guilt-free. This might explain the high volume of chocolate that changes hands over the holidays.

The thought actually does count
But there is a more powerful argument for gift-giving, deliberately ignored by most surveys. Gift-giving, some economists think, is a process that adds value to an item over and above what it would otherwise be worth to the recipient. Intuition backs this up, of course. A gift's worth is not only a function of its price, but also of the giver and the circumstances in which it is given.

Hence a wedding ring is more valuable to its owner than to a jeweller, and the imprint of a child's hand on dried clay is priceless to a loving grandparent. Moreover, not only can gift-giving add value for the recipient, but it can be fun for the giver too. It is good, in other words, to give as well as to receive.

The lesson, then, for gift-givers? Try hard to guess the preferences of each person on your list and then choose a gift that will have a high sentimental value. As economists have studied hard to tell you, it's the thought that counts.

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I can't remember during which Econs lecture that we had but the lecturer showed us this. I suddenly thought of it and decided to post it.

Deadweight loss.
Econs, as much as we (or I) not enjoy it, it's very much ingrained our lives.

Yes, I was an Econs student.

Tuesday, 14 December 2010

- クリスマース!! -


Christmas is near!
Have you done your Christmas shopping?!?!?!
I've started but I'm far from completion! EEKS!
So many things to get but so little time!
As I like to personally choose each gift and personalise them as much as possible as well, time is really running out for me!

Hahah as I was sorting out the recent trip's pictures to find some Christmas-sy pictures to post here, I came across some hilarious photos!! This one is from my sister's camera!! We were on the Disney train and I was taking pictures of the scenery when she asked me to pose and yayy! This was the shot. You know, one thing people always asks me to take fun shots, I find myself the only one posing -.- ANW! Check out how my new camera looks like! It's purplish pink and takes really awesome shots!

Oh THIS picture was really funny. One grouse about my new camera is that I can't quite grasp the timing to take jumping shots. I haven't quite figured out how to capture jumping images with this. So I was jumping and jumping and my mum was laughing and laughing everytime she saw the end result. She's the one helping me take jumping shots by the way. I didn't really know to be fed up or not because she was really guffawing so hard I just had to laugh along.

Whenever I look at this shot, I recall Barney's comment.
He said "Actually from the first time, I realised you're really short"
-.-
I was tiptoeing in this shot but it can't be seen. Haha.
Thank God Barney is never going to see this picture.
OH I don't like Leon Lai but this picture is pretty cute, don't you think?
Hahaha!

It's late! Will post more pictures another day! Till then, jya~

Sunday, 12 December 2010

- やっぱり・・・ -


하루에도 수 십 번씩 전화기를 보고 작은 소리에도 놀라서
너의 문자인지 몇 번씩 확인하곤 했어

Wednesday, 8 December 2010

- 神様、本当にありがとうございました -

Thank you, God.
For being with us throughout and keeping us safe.
From shielding us from danger though we were at the scenes when the accidents took place.

"To all visitors, welcome to Singapore!
And to all Singaporeans and permanent residents, welcome back home!"

A surge of happiness rushed through me.

Thank you, God.
We're safely home.

Monday, 22 November 2010

Sunday, 21 November 2010

- ヘリポッタ!!! -

WHEE WHEEE WHEEEEE~~~!!!!
Muahahahaha!
I finally caught Harry Potter!!! *beams* ^-^
Yes, I know the show hasn't been out long but boy! What a long time Happy Pill and I have been waiting for this show!! It's really good!!
HAHAHAHA! Yayy!! I don't even mind catching it a second time ^^;;

"又在cinema拍照!你忘了那次被骂是吗!!"
"别在看之前被轰出去啊!!"
"如果被赶的话说是Grace啦!"
-_-"'
What great friends I have.
Oh my cute little HappyPill.
She's the only one who accompanies me to take such stupid pictures.
HAHAHAHA!




Xianxian was making some silly comment making me laugh when I was trying to look terrified!

I want this lamp post!!!!
And YAYY! A group shot. Pardon my big face. My hands aren't very long so I had to step forward *-*
Wheeeee~~~ I LOVE HARRY POTTER!! Can't wait for the last instalment!!
^-^

- 抹茶 -

あの店に戻りた!覚えた? あたしは皆と言ったの!安いポーキを買ったの店。
今回はその抹茶のお菓子を買った。ウワ~~最高だ!うまかったよ! ^-^
ちょっと高いだとおもうけど・・・本当においしかったさ。

ね、ね・・・もし私の気持ちはあまり良くなくて、君はあたし嬉しいになりたいので、このお菓子を買ってあげてね!!ハハ!^-^



Saturday, 20 November 2010

Friday, 19 November 2010

- 遅いで -

時間があったら、一人で遅いで散歩してもいいだと思うよ!

外囲が超きれいだと思う知ってになって。残念ながら、カメーラを持って着なかった。色々な花を見た!でもね、花の名前は知らないわ。

今日の天気があまりよくなかったけど、歩くとき気持ちいいなぁ。^-^

音楽を聞いて、めんどくさいのことどんどんなくなちゃったよ!いいね!?

ハハ!もんだいがなったよ~~もう決めたから!

ヨーシ!!^-^

Thursday, 18 November 2010

- スチムボト -


My favourite time of the year is coming! 
CHRISTMAS!

Tuesday, 16 November 2010

- 慶福 -

今夜慶福だよ。
空の星を見ながら、あの旧遊の道を歩いて、本当に懐かしいなぁ・・・

昔、あの道を何回一緒に歩いた?

この場所に戻りた、旧遊の顔を見た、いい友達と話した、嬉しかったよ。

心からの話す、本当に感謝してるよ。聞くのはもありがとうね。

今日は、本当に嬉しかったよ。一緒に撮ったの写真は財布によ!

本当にありがとうございました。

Monday, 15 November 2010

- 結婚式 -





Sunday, 14 November 2010

- フェンちゃんの卒業式 -

卒業おめでとうございます!
^-^

Saturday, 13 November 2010

- エシドバル -

Wednesday, 3 November 2010

- 美しい日没 -

What a beautiful sunset today.
I stood there and realised..the beauty of the sunset and the fatigue I felt.

たってのとき、疲れてるわ。

Saturday, 30 October 2010

- 回想 -

This past week was a whirlwind of events and fascinating incidents. New experiences. New insights. New perspectives.

I think I can safely say that this is one whole week that I have hardly any contact with friends. The one week that I spent so many hours with my colleagues that it makes life a bit surreal.

It wasn't all about work. There were fun times too. But whether work equates fun times is also about perspective though other people's personalities play a vital role too. Well, of course, my own character too.

Recently there was this talk that said that GenY employees valued their ties with their co-workers more than the work itself. In other words, what is the strongest push factor out of the organisation will be bad relationships with the co-workers. If co-workers are easy to get along, the (terrible) nature of work is secondary.

I'm not suggesting I dislike the nature of my work. On the contrary, I actually enjoy the work I'm doing now. I cannot see myself in another job portfolio. In fact, in retrospect, I think this job was a God-sent. It's a perfect first job though the initial stages were hard. The steep learning curve was a stumbling block at first but God brought me here for a reason :)

I was having a conservation with one of my colleagues on the bus and something she said shocked me. So it seemed that they all had this impression of me and simply assumed certain things. And she was not the first who told me that. Out of curiosity, I decided to ask her the basis of her assumption since many of them thought the same.

And the reply was "Because you're so naturally cute."

Boy, was I shocked! She was one of the last people on Earth that I would expect saying that of me. ROFL. I always thought only my indulging and lovely friends will say that.

I won't deny I was secretly pleased. ROFL.

WOW.

HAHA.

So I'm blogging about this because if in future I grumble about my colleagues or job or workplace, I'll have something to remind myself, that things aren't always so bad :)

Thank you, God.

Love you.

- 静かに -

Silence now.

When thoughts and opinions get across to people too strongly, it comes across as imposing.
When foul mood affects your rationality and mannerisms, it comes across as rude.
When emotions are displayed on your face, it comes across as tactless.

Now now, Silence. Please.

Tuesday, 26 October 2010

- 働くとき、幸せを見つける -

Yes, I know. FAT. But whatever. I'll lose them. Someday. Somehow. Haha.

I love this lift. Pity the travelling time wasn't enough for us to perfect the shot. Pouts.
And..preparation for halloweeeeeennnnnn....whoooooooo~~

- 怒ってるよ -

I'm angry at the fact that I don't have the right to be.

ROARS!!!

Sunday, 24 October 2010

- 明日また月曜日 -

明日また月曜日わね >.< 最低だ。

先週は早かったね。毎日忙しかったよ。約束があったから。今日も!あぁ。。。疲れたけど、楽しかった!

先週は映画を見た。でも映画なら本当につまらなかった。あたし映画館で寝たよ!

とにかく、下の写真はこの間撮ったの。食べ物はままだけ、でも飲み物は好きよ!色はきれいだね~ハハ!







Tuesday, 19 October 2010

- 가슴이 뭉클 -

어쩐지 사랑은 어 려워 난 아 직 서툴러

사실은 지금껏 슬 픔과 더 친 해 사랑은 먼 듯해

우린 서로 너 무 달라서 바 보라는 것만 닮 아서

때론 어긋나고 때 론 부딪혀야 하 지만

사랑인가봐 사랑인가봐요 그댈 보면 가슴이 뭉클해

녹슨 가슴도 굳 어있던 심장도 깨 워준 그대

사랑해줘요 나를 안 아줘요 숨겨왔던 내 상처까지도

아픈 눈물도 슬 픈 외로움도 다 신 오지 않 게

마음을 주기가 두 려워 아프게 될 까봐

그렇게 한동안 버 려둔 맘인데 닫 아둔 맘인데

언제 스며들어 왔 나요 언제 가 득 채워 놨 나요

그대 향기들로 그 대 기억들로 나 의 맘

사랑인가봐 사랑인가봐요 그댈 보면 가슴이 뭉클해

녹슨 가슴도 굳 어있던 심장도 깨 워준 그대

사랑해줘요 나를 안 아줘요 숨겨왔던 내 상처까지도

아픈 눈물도 슬 픈 외로움도 다 신 오지 않 게

오랜 내 눈 물 끝에 가 려져 있던 사 람

기나긴 날 동 안 내가 기 다렸던 한 사 람

그대인가봐 그대인가봐요 곁에 서면 아파도 웃게 돼

깊은 흉터도 버 릇 같던 눈 물도 낫게 해 준 그대

보여줄게요 전부 다 줄게요 아껴왔던 내 모든 사랑을

혼자라는 말 이 별이라는 말 우 리에겐 없게

사랑만 남아있게

Sunday, 17 October 2010

- 바보처럼 -

바보처럼

- 好きよ -