Random rant of the day
何韻詩:
「我的性格讓我不能作非常女性的打扮,如果是為了工作拍照,那當然可以做得到。....... 女性也有剛強一面,我不覺得女孩子一定要嬌柔、小鳥依人一樣;不也可以很爽朗嗎?誰說女孩說話一定要聲音柔弱?大家都是隨心而發吧!」I was talking to a friend today. Somehow we got into the topic that I should wear a dress so I can "be a girl". I think it was at least the 10th time he said that. I don't understand why some people (especially guys) thinks I should wear a dress so it can make me look like a girl. Seriously, do some people think only wearing a dress makes you a girl and wearing t-shirt and jeans make you look like a guy? I think this is old-fashion thinking.
I like wearing t-shirts and jeans. You can call me stubborn, because I refuse to be molded into society's idea of a typical girl. I change because I want to, not because of other people's opinions. This is who I am, take it or leave it.
What Hocc said in an article really strike a chord with me. I really don't think girls have to act/dress in a certain way. Everyone is unique, if all the girls act/dress in one way, then the world would be a pretty boring place. No need to make a big deal out of it just because one person doesn't conform to the "standard".
You would think that I should get used to these comments from people I know, but somehow I still get a bit disgusted that people still wants me to wear a dress for the sake of looking "girly". And for all of you who wants to see me in a dress because you've never seen me in one, I don't think I'll be wearing one any time soon.
何韻詩 (from her blog):
為咩先?
每年到呢個時候所有公司傳媒聽眾觀眾都似乎會變得特別緊張,
邊個台邊首歌邊個歌手邊個金銀銅鑽鋁鈣鋼,
每當踏入十二月就慣例地變成左大家geh一切。
眼中只有它它它它它它它它它它它。
老實講,好~~~~悶~~~~啊~~~~~~。
其實某程度上,我geh愚見係,呢個現象係反影左呢個地方大部份人geh一種mentality,
就係, 喂,無論你響個過程入面點樣做點努力點enjoy都唔重要無人會care架,
因為去到尾大家睇到geh就係你去到最後個一刻捧到幾多盤金返黎lor。
雖然都響呢個社群生活左十個年頭,但始終無辦法認同。
亦都證明我注定一世做窮歌女架喇。
即係甘,獎項,可以當係一種鼓勵,可以係努力付出後geh一種bonus,
但如果漸漸變成大家做音樂geh唯一原因同目標,我會覺得有點兒本末倒置了。
就等於兩個小朋友讀書,一個只係為左年年可以考到第一死讀爛讀博命補習,另一個呢,係為左想學多d野得到多d知識但每年只能考得十幾二十名,理所當然地大家只會讚考第一o個個乖啊聰明啊,但其實你認為邊個先係最聰明最開心個個呢?真正吸收到o個個又係邊一個呢?
可能我真係人到中年,開始睇到更多真正重要geh野,發現人生除左工作工作同工作之外,其實仲有更多層次,更多範圍你能夠得到所謂geh‘成就’。家庭愛情朋友個人修行,呢d講到底都比任何工作名利更重要。
不過甘,呢個課題太複雜,下次再細說。
言歸正傳。
其實每年自己做左d咩完成左d咩有無進步到,自己應該最清楚,唔需要其他人去話比你知。
甘鬼緊張做咩呢。
反正,我一向geh theory都係,
唔喜歡你geh人,你手裡羅住二萬個獎都唔會認同你。
鍾意你個班,就算你霉到半個獎都無無報紙雜誌再願意提起你,拒地都會知道你做左d咩野。
而響拒地心目中,你都依然會係最受歡迎拒地最喜愛的。
o甘,咪就已經足夠lor。
Another quote from Hocc I think I should learn from. It's probably easier said than done, but 我要做個高腰Q嘅人/菇徒!!!!!









